₦airaland Forum

Racoon:
Festus Keyamo of all people.BH sponsors have never been isolated let alone arrested or prosecuted yet it is harmless protesters demanding accountability from a failed government that are threat.

Even the ones arrested wiring cash out of Nigeria to the UAE were not to be prosecuted by the govt but were even asked by the govt to appeal their conviction that came as a result of tracking of their treasonable activities over many years.

Why is #EndSARS their major concern of all the ills that they have bequeathed on this nation? Unthinkable foolishness is pathological inherent in everyone under this useless government.

The presidency is living a once bitten twice shy life.....I believe there is an inherent fear of being removed from power like it was done before. Which is why I think the service chiefs have lasted this long despite their numerous failures.

Our leaders have failed to realize that if you do the actual work, the people will want you. And it is a lot easier to do the work, than spread propaganda

GamalNasser:
I now agree 100 percent immediately I saw some Endsars activist supporting the prosecution of those that occupied US capitol...The Buhari govt must act fast and make sure those behind the Endsars insurection are brought to book..they cost Nigeria many lives and so much loss of private businesses many who have not recovered till date

There was a premise for the endsars protest which was factual. The invasion of the US capitol was based on unfounded claims

Toktee:
Are you for real, how's this case related in anyway?


The woman has enough evidence to nail deeper life, the doctor is the custody, she have them on tape..

someone being arrested doesn't mean the person committed a crime.

Now paint the scenario where the doctor is released and found not to have done anything wrong, do you know what people will say? Do you know how most people will discard their sympathy for her case?

This woman needs to be careful.....if at the end of the day her accusations are false, it will rub off badly on her and the small boy she has inadvertently dragged into this.

SocialJustice:
True but social media is the leverage with which this woman has remained vocal, she would have been shut up somehow by now. Even the Akwa Ibom commissioner for education intimidated her.

let her do so without the boys name and face....I had a problem from the first day she had the story and shared his face....kids will be kids and he might get bullied for this in any school he ends up in

This won't end well, the selfishness in the region will lead to more problems than it will solve. To whom much is given much is expected, but in reality it is every man for himself.

All I see is a tool to be used to exploit IOCs and of course keep the proceeds to themselves

matahor:
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I would advice you go for the BMW x5, preferably diesel. It doesn't break down only if not maintenance issues or you crash it. As a matter of fact that vehicle communicates to the driver in some type way if you understand. Damn that leather the back lights at night. I say no more

you know good something

Spaxon:
Hello. I dunno if I can get help. I don't really know the specs of these cars. But I believe we got people with great experience here. My Dad's retired and wants to get one of these and we are actually inexperienced with cars outside Toyota.

if your dad is retired let him enjoy the latter part of his life. Get a BMW. I use one and I can tell you that he won't have a better driving experience. And yes I have driven the others. As long as he keeps to the maintenance regime, the BMW is what he should get

whyteteeth:
I am 30 this year and it has always been my dream to marry @ 30 or before 30. But the truth is I haven't been able to fall in love with any woman for years now. I do have sex. And I have women in my life from time to time yet I am not in love with any of them.

Now the real issue is this, I stumbled on an article in this forum days back that says that an arranged marriage is the best meaning that without being in love with your spouse, you two can still have a successful marriage, and I have been giving it a thought.

With this premise, Should I just marry and then maybe love can grow over time or should I keep waiting till I fall in love before I marry? I seriously need your advice please..

Question you should answer is should you get married?

You taking the marriage like it is an obligation....well it is not

Seanjay:
Boss so what can we do about this please she"s been crying since sunday and wont stop.. we all knows how nigeria is now please any helpful suggestions ?

Likely issues.....She had her ATM card stolen and used by someone close to her, who also knows her pin ......second is her card got cloned and they somehow got her Card pin as well.

But in reality most times, ATM card fraud that involves compromised pin numbers are usually committed by someone close to the victim

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
So we've been together for some months, almost a year now and well my current financial state is making me have doubts about our relationship, he's also not stable according to him but a lot of times I doubt that even if he was he probably won't tell me, or he'll leave me to do it all.

I don't demand anything from him, he's not my dad, I loved him so I always try to act like a grown woman even when I need help, but after losing sooooo much money in a scam I'm so broke that I barely have money to eat. He knows this but he didn't do anything to help, that's how I've been living like I'm single. I do every thing for myself but it's not been easy.

Do you think it's okay to let him go and focus on me? Because I really don't understand his role in my life anymore, or should I try to wait while working and see if he's different in the future?

are you asking if you should focus on yourself? Really?

Heartbrokengirl:
I met a few members of his family. They were welcoming



He is muslim

So him being a Muslim, his religion permits him to get married to more than one wife. If he asks you to marry him would you?

Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]

You are an idiot for laying your hands on her. You should be arrested and thrown in jail

Made4naijaoeo:
Earlier today, Luxury designer, Malivelihood and Deola Smart had their wedding that saw many dignitaries. Their huge cake has been the talk of the fans and guests online.

Reports have it that it took 4 months to bake and 12 bakers who worked on it.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6hqxwFBl3Jw


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=prQUJ8Hsku8

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CIbMp_4lHQH/?igshid=dvegjpp3f1hi

how much was Nigeria at 50 cake again?

clarocuzioo:
The guy shouldn't have beaten her. I condemn domestic violence in it's entirety.


There's no justification whatsoever for this kind of beating.

But please i urge everybody to try and hear from the guy also before making comments. It will help us all.

Ifenyinwa just gave her own side of the story, how about the guy's side.

Six years ago when the wedding came up, we were so sure a day as this will come.

This girl shouldn't for any reason bring this to social.media. there's a family to report and families will handle this.

If we start saying things about her on social media, days will not be enough for her Chronicles.

Where do we even start? Do we start from her toxic mother getting pregnant for another man and pining it down on her father, later she will openly tell the whole Irette community that her husband is.impotent and that Ifenyinwa's father is different from her husband?

Do we start from her toxic mother terrorising the peaceful Irette community that earned her the popular name " TRANSFORMER," meaning when ever a transformer blows, everywhere will be calm. That name came about when her mother fought a mobile policeman and injured him seriously in the ear.

Do we start from her father grabbing the properties of her late elder sister till date claiming it's his ?

Do we talk about her mother travelling to Ijebu Ode for some stupid juju, only to have a terrible accident at St. Helen's Catholic Church Irette few minutes to her home?

Do we even talk about her mother confessing to terrible things she did , before her death?

Do we start talking about her early days in Bishop Lasbrey Girls Secondary School? Where when her father gives her school fees, she will put it in am envelope , and tell her classmates that her father from Abuja just sent her money, meanwhile her father is a driver in Owerri.

Do we talk about her promiscuity at early stage. In life? Let her kindly explain the circumstances that brought about " DADDY TAKE IT EASY IT IS PAINING ME". Her sexual escapades abound as a student in Bishop Lasbrey, her school mates can attest to this.

Do.we even talk about the illicit affair she was having with a certain prominent man from Irette who was also spraying her money during their wedding that people who knew what's up were laughing at the husband?

Do we talk about her wayward way of dressing even after her wedding?

There's a reason why Igbos around did not marry her, because when they ask questions and make enquires, they know she's just a girlfriend and not a wife.

It's unfortunate this guy used a girlfriend for a wife.

For anybody that cares to know more about this girl, please visit Onwu's compound in Irette, Owerri , Imo state and ask about her, you will understand better the kind of toxic personality she is.

NB : I am not holding brief for the husband. I am just seeing his picture for the first time now.

You are funny though.....so all these she did in the past, most if not all happened before her marriage. How does it affect the fact that she was beaten like that? Even if she is a serving prostitute, the man has no right to beat her like that unless he is claiming self defense or "two fighting" in which case we should see the same souvenir on his face

Lawliet:
There is this weird thing that I do when I'm sick.
I always seem philosophical, talking like I just entered a cave for wisdom and came out.

Once I get well, I lose it

Yiu are seeing the great beyond

SilverNorGold:
My brother, read properly - one of the reasons, not all.. And no, we won't tolerate such nonsense here. Nigeria is not US/UK.. And who told you God is not angry with America? How God operates is different. And how he chooses to punish each country is different too.. Don't expect a monotonous punishment for all.. Everyone will be punished uniquely and at the appropriate time.

When God Almighty punished Israel for their sins - sins committed by some Israelites - there were many nations living in worse sins, at the time, that were not punished alongside the Israelites. However, it doesn't mean God wasn't angry with them.. Just that their time of reckoning wasn't ripe.. At some point, God even commissioned some of those sinful/pagan nations to punish the Israelites - who were more righteous than they - for the sins committed by some/most of them.. Does that mean God was happy with those sinful/pagan Nations? No.. His ways are different..

Same thing is happening to Nigeria.

Just say you don't believe in God and move on..

God bless Nigeria.

All you wrote is rubbish......

WorkTheTalk:
No matter how randy a man is, his greatest desire is to finally settles down with a woman who can give him a home - a family who he can always retire to in peace despite his shortcomings.
Happy are men who have found such women.

That is wrong generalisation.....not all men want that

My problem is with the manager that says it is a normal thing for engine to develop fault. So if he was in an airplane and it develops a fault mid air, would he say it is normal?

coolsegun2002:
It hard to dialogue with people like u....first u make assumption and build up on the on it.... I never said sex is a measure of discipline, that’s a very general statement...I only asked u are u if you are invalidating the place of discipline when it comes to sex..?? And u never responded..

Two, medical doctors preach absteinance as the best solution to avoiding stds and also add that if you can’t abstain till marriage, which is where people are expected to be faithful....,use protection...so again, I don’t get your point here.

Finally.... u sound like u are angry or have authority issues...How did poke into people’s sex lives?? Or did I poke into urs?? Again I don’t get u... u seem to be good at making assumption...

discipline is applicable to almost everything else in the world
Love
Hate
Anger
Alcohol
Chocolate
Soda
Food

coolsegun2002:
Because??

It is a certain decision that one takes that shows to an extent they are not confined to societal norms that have kept a lot of people captive till date. Also shows they are capable of making tough decisions.

A good number regrets it.....But in the end they made a very tough decision and learnt to live with it.

coolsegun2002:
What’s your point exactly..??

Yes, sex is meant for procreation and pleasure...
Are u trying to invalidate the role of discipline because I hear doctors preach absteinance all the time

U ended up saying something “ having sex for pleasure may sound difficult” may sound difficult, I don’t get how that sounds difficult to you...

So once again, i get ur English.. but I don’t really get your point...

Abstinence is preached as a preventative against STIs

"Difficult" in the context refers to most people's beliefs that some folks just want to have sex for the pleasure regardless of who and how many partners they have.

sylve11:
From what i have seen in this part of the world; there is nothing money can not do, but let me assume he is telling the truth.

Funny enough you might be very right

dirtydiva:
He died of motorcycle accident on 20/10/20 bah... Don't worry we know how it happen brother.

my thoughts exactly.....some under g things might be ongoing in this

coolsegun2002:
U don’t get it..... not spreading legs anyhow is good character

lol....and what is spreading legs any how.....the emphasis we put on sex.
Sex is for procreation and pleasure

And as difficult as it may sound, some people actually enjoy having sex for the pleasure they get

advocatejare:
Virginity is virtuous but not all non-virgins were promiscuous.

Character is very important.

But who would you choose if given a choice between two women both with good characters, one being a virgin and the other not a virgin.

definitely a non virgin....

RichDad1:
Try to get some education.
The Governor cannot order solders. That power exclusively lies with the President who is the CinC.
However, that doesn’t change the fact that he’s oblivious of the unfortunate event at the toll gate that evening.
And I don’t think it’s a bad thing if he’s trying to alleviate the effect of the destructions caused by the arsonists on those business owners.

I thought the army said he invited them.

Anoth:
small fame she don start to push the "borderline criminal" Feminist Movement.

Watch how the Twitter feminists will flock around her advocating for equal rights but rejecting equal responsibilities.



And her husband is also a feminist? That
synonymous to saying that her husband is an irredeemable SIMP

what exactly is wrong with what she said? Her husband she is married to does not complain. The key thing is that he is happy

ReactGA:
I don't have anything against what u said up there but do u think everything about western value is good ?
Don't get me wrong I'm not saying everything is bad, but a lot of the so called western value is really screwed up

what is your definition of western values? The fact everyone is taught to be independent? What we call African values putting women in servitude is crazy.....it is what fuels the "I want a rich husband gang"......If women were more independent, there will be less abuse in marriages. Don't look at old folks and think they all lived happy.....deep down most suffered in their marriages and society defined the terms of their relationships. I am sure if given the chance a whole lot won't go down that path of being dependent again.

SOEJON:
How old are you? You are talking nonsense , I am Akwa ibomite .
This is a video of the police and the confession by that the man and his gang from akwa ibom masterminded the looting and vandalism of psychiatric hospital , and other properties in Calabar. including the looting and vandalism of the Calabar Convention center.
On another video the community leaders has also said that the arsonist of Gershom Bassey's house were mostly akwa ibomites.
and some of he hoodlums have confessed. Do you know what that means for relations between the two states ? Efiks already disdain towards Akwa ibomites and are always suspicious of us and now this is adding insult to all that. Do you know how much it cost to build that Calabar Convention center? while Akwa ibom took Cross river's oil and enjoying the allocation. Do you even know what all this mean? get some sense and condemn what's wrong. .
https://www.facebook.com/100013589744438/videos/pcb.1014649975664651/1014649932331322/

What is wrong is the police catching a suspect and telling us his state of origin......That is absolute rubbish

SilverNorGold:
My sister, I am not disputing that. The legislator has already informed us why, which is true. He has already distributed palliatives thrice...

However, this attack, including that on Tinubu, Oba of Lagos, etc is a coordinated one, with the fingerprints of opposition parties all over it.. These evil forces have hijacked these ongoing looting and hooliganism to settle political scores..

But Nigeria must better.

my problem is that you failed to address the issue that someone kept palliatives in his house to distribute on his birthday, and all you see is party politics...... Take a step back look at the way those around you are living and ask yourself honestly if the government both past and present are doing even the barest minimum.

Don't use the crumbs you get to lose sight of the bigger picture......we started this development race with several countries and we had a very good head start.....see where we are now.

Our schools are dead, hospitals are dead, roads are dead, no jobs, minimum wage can't get you a bag of rice........yet all you saw was party politics.

I have always said it the biggest challenge of this country is that no one sees beyond themselves.

The politicians steal not minding the effect on the masses. The looters are stealing not minding that what is being stolen is someone's sweat.

We need to change our orientation.....The protest has shown that we have people that still understand the concept of humanity...... unfortunately we have just a handful

Rodwave:
You are the one arguing like a fool. If the army cannot stop banditry and Boko Haram, who the hell is SARS? Even during IPOB protest here, sars dare not come out until soldiers dispersed the protesters. Receive sense.

Movic1 don't mind this confuse being please

A lot of you are missing the point here..... arguing that the north is lying about SARS working in their region is similar to a northerner saying southerners are lying that SARS does not kill in the south. Fortunately I have been to both places and I can tell you where I was in the North the fear of the police is not as it is in the south. Rather than talk down on anybody saying SARS works for them in the north you can advocate for the police to move SARS to the North or the Northerners ask for SARS to be brought over. Probably the environment will curb their excesses. It will be akin to a Nigerian that misbehaves in Nigeria, but becomes docile abroad.