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nwaezeemmanuel:
David was a man after God's heart, but he committed murder.

Does this mean you can commit murder?

See why that your last line doesn't just add up

No you won't be sneaking out of this one.....David was a soldier killing was his job.

heckymaicon:
#EndBUHARI

don't waste your time.....you people will either vote in APC or PDP

Powerfly:
Bullshit! What makes a cheat innocent?
I'm pretty sure if the scenario swinged the opposite direction, you would have insulted the past, present and future generation of women.
Cheating in marriage is highly condemned by all and sundry. If the said 'wife' truely was a pain in the arse, what stopped him from dissolving the union so that he can freely bring in as many women as he pleases to bang. You want to vindicate him just because he is a fellow man like you. We know your type nigga. We know your type.

or probably get a second wife.....which would mean he has to go through the same ritual he took with the first before he married her. This can include sex before marriage for the intended new madam

nwaezeemmanuel:
There are successful monogamous homes.

Cheating is not in any man's gene, it is borne from a lack of self control and is just infidelity at its finest.

I am sure he was referring to polygamy. Besides the wisest man was Solomon.....how many wives did he have?

IamSoProlific:
Hello beloveths, please I will be very brief and straight to the point on this one.

There's this girl I started dating around August 30th last year, it was a distance relationship, we got along so well on phone, she appeared different, smart, brilliant, industrious and what have you when it comes to what a virtuous woman and one that knows what she wants at that. I totally thought she was the one for me, little did I know she's just the regular average girl hovering around pretentiously looking for whom to leech on.

Fast forward July this year, she relocated to my place with the hope of staying with me, I did it on purpose so I can watch her closely and we can plan on settling down because I planned on concluding the marital necessities with her by December.


When she came to stay with me, I noticed she was just the opposite of all she claimed to be while we spoke on phone, she played me, she gets Violently angered at every provocation and ready to fight, she just sleeps, eat, watch Tv and spend all her life on social media (Instagram,Facebook and WhatsApp), she has absolutely nothing to offer- not in any way to my life. I've already called the marriage quit in my head. She has anger issues, always feel attacked and ready for a fight....I have tried to change her, even took her to a therapist, but all to no avail, settling down with her would definitely end in doom.

Long story short, inasmuch as not to waste each other' s time, please house, how do I make her leave my house, I'm currently staying in Lagos, she came from Asaba to come live with me and this is her first time in Lagos, and she's not ready to leave, to her she's already my wife and not ready to go anywhere, I've tried to talk about her leaving, but she literally refused saying she can't just go back and that she gave up a lot to come stay with me( I really wonder what she gave up) I've stopped touching her long ago.

Moreso, the girl in question is dangerous, revengeful and very tricky (claiming to be smart), she once told me she's trying to figure out how to hurt her ex because he double dated, which made her to leave.

The case now made me understand sense needs to be applied so well while dealing with her. She always say she can never allow me to leave her, not while she's alive...

House please help me in the best strategy to make her leave my house without any violence or bad energy before the end of next month, I just can't contain her any more....

invite your mum na

paulolee:
just too bad...but why punish the lecturer only?? she wasn't raped and they are both matured to decide next way forward...
modified.....
to those quoting me, pls she wasnt forced to go down with him after being intimidated because i av heard of several cases where girls stood on thier ground and refuse stupid lecturers advances, her best bet was to report him or set a trap and record him and not sleeping with him because if she didnt sleep with him, they would be no complications..
the eocnomy is bad and no job do not justify me goin into crime, two wrongs dont make a right and i still think they both deserved to be purnished, lets be guided

now relate it to when police forces you to write a statement......then you will know what intimidation can do

Beverlyjean:
Barca hypocrites... the same set of fans that have been insulting suarez are now backing him cos messi said so... messi knows that with suarez gone, he will not score more than 20 goals in all competition....he loves to control players , teams coaches and club leaders....if its ronaldo, they will call him selfish

We know you want to trend......either that or you sent your message from a corner room in Yaba L...

Guillly:
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showafrica:
Lol, but what was there plan.. To snatch the phone from you or what?

simple while you are leaving, they will ask to check something on the phone distract you and make a swap

CodeTemplar:
Is this a sarcasm or terrible stupidity?
tithe isn't a Jewish tradition. Abraham did tithe some 400 years before the law came. and for tour constant reference to the Jews, born again Christians are the Jews of new testament.

Okay.... Tithing is not a Jewish law. Now you can attend to the second part of my initial post.

Jullima:
Watch as they avoid your unbiased post as a plague and continue to delude themselves “western laws favour women” the same laws some men use to get money from their richer female companion.

No need to cry you already know what the laws are, you cannot use a woman to raise your children, use as a companion get her used to a certain lifestyle and discard her like a piece of rubbish when you’re done. If you think no woman deserves your hard earned sweat then don’t bring them into your life and lavish them with gifts, simple. It’s a choice, you can go your own way.

western laws favour women.......or why is it that if there is a fight, the man is asked to leave the house? I have no issues with spousal support, but paying support to girlfriends, that is going too far.

When you create a law that affects a majority of the people, then that law was made for them

It is like going to Ibadan and saying anybody that speaks yoruba will be jailed. There are some people from other tribes that will speak yoruba and get jailed. But the yorubas that the law was "made for" will be the major victims

MrBrownJay1:
You do know that a man dating/married to a rich woman would get the same result (aka receive spousal support), right?!



If you live with someone as husband and wife, then why shouldn't you be viewed as husband and wife? Just like a man who has a child with a woman would have all the rights as a married man. Remember, as much as it's mostly women who receive spousal support, that's because the majority of these men let these women stay home being lazy while they went to work and brought the cheddar.... But if a woman earns just as much as you do, then you pay her ONLY the difference ... if you guys have kids and she has full custody. If you have full custody then SHE pays you the difference.



I fully understand these rulings... If a man dates and promised heaven and earth to a woman and put her in a certain lifestyle that she will now claim she is accustomed to, then the fool has to pay her in order for her to remain in such lifestyle you promised her. The catch would be for that fool to 1st, not date good for nothing useless women who don't work (so that she can also contribute to any lifestyle you guys are into) ...and 2nd not become someone's benefactor for so long while you do everything to better her life.

The dude is even lucky, in some country (brazil for example), the minute you tell a woman that you love her and wanna spend the rest of your life with her Bla bla bla, and she has a confirmation (in writing/text/email) of you telling her that, then within 6months of dating she can sue you (and ask for half your shiit) if you dump her.

Did you miss the part where he proposed and she rejected, because she didn't want to sign a document which would have been a prenup. That law makes no sense...... because it then negates the usefulness of marriage and prenup. It can only make sense if there is a document that both can sign to ensure in the case of a break up, he loses nothing. A pre-relationship.

CodeTemplar:
Matthew 23:23 Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye pay tithe of mint and anise and cummin, and have omitted the weightier matters of the law, judgment, mercy, and faith: these ought ye to have done, and not to leave the other undone.


It doesn't point towards any uselessness of tithe. It only stresses the things that are more important than tithe. Take judgement for example, will it be fair for someone who steals to pay his tithe or repent and restitute first?

Those other matters can influence the validity of your tithe.
Take also faith for another example, the validity of your givings(offering, tithe) are influenced by faith also. In fact Cain and Abel offering towards God ended up in two different ends as a result of faith. Hebrews 11:4.
Jesus clearly endorsed tithe there but stresses the weightier matters that can invalidate tithe and was being ignored by the pharisees. I hope you get it?

That passage is akin to when Jesus was castigated for healing on the Sabbath day. The Pharisees said it was wrong that he did and he made them understand what was more important.

Tithe might be the law of the jews, but under the new covenant it is not important as preachers deem it to be (- some even have tithe booklets)...... I can boldly say anyone that pays no tithe but shows love to others is a real child of God.

Recognizing is not endorsement. "I understand that you people have been doing this" is different from "I want you people to continue doing it"

CodeTemplar:
Yes. I remember this ugly episode. Thank God for internet.
The frozen minded attention seeker has dropped anti-tithe move after I showed him Mathew 23:23.

and how does that passage support tithing? On the contrary it seems to point towards the uselessness of tithing as opposed to the amount of importance that modern day churches give to it

Zeal0000007:
Guys I'm taking a bold step today to do the needful, I'm proposing to my gal after 5years together, nothing really dey ground though, I'm a marine engineer who got a job since on march though the pay is small but it's promising that with time it will get better,, and since on march I got d job I've been at home because of the pandemic hope the will call us soon.

so today I just want to surprise my gal she travelled and she's back, I just want to do that at home that I'm managing between both of us, as many will advise that you mustn't get all money in the world before taking that step, I just believe things will get better, please advise and tips to make better thanks.

big mistake

saphiere:
Marry her. Ladies open your eyes. Men are just after sex. They always giving fake marriage promise. Once they get in between your legs they now remember that their tribe don't marry people from your tribe. That their mothers say this and that.
Ladies open your eyes. Don't be a used and dump.

and what are women after?

ICEWIN:
Do u believe u are a failure?

lol..... didn't see that coming

What I believe is one thing what I am is another.

Do you think you will ever be successful?

ICEWIN:
Dont doubt.
is 100% possible.
if they utilize their marketting.

0% possible......all blackberry offered previously was Bbm, crappy os and crappy hardware. Now there are a plethora of messengers that do *10 of what bbm could..... and what marketing? Have they hired the entire marketing department of Apple?

Johel:
Blackberry still better than the overrated device called iPhone.

knock yourself hard

Sehindemi:
Better still, they should disallow android phones from using BBM. That singular act killed BB and made it worthless.
Just imagine android phones using IMessage.
I can't imagine.

can't imagine how you people are longing for a phone with inferior hardware and crappy software because of a messenger.

The messenger was ported to android and people saw it was worthless..... WhatsApp thrived because it was minimal in design.....did the basic stuff really well which is to communicate.

hush15:
Akwaibomman, I think you being too harsh with your comment. I just watched the video where Pastor Chris talked about black on this thread and you just need to be open minded about the comment. Literally, he is right cos I have check a few dictionaries for the meaning of black and he is right. It was when slave traders and conquerors came to invade our lands that we were being referred to as blacks. It was a word used to describe us as inferior beings and everything negative that the word represents. Back then, it was a intentional derogatory word used especially for slaves. its was a word that stuck all through the slave era. Then many Africans didn't understand English but as the years goes by, cos we adopted other languages and their words used to describe us, we have long accepted what we are called but doesn't necessarily mean we are what they call us. Just as Aborigines aren't referred to as blacks and Red Indians who are the original natives of North America aren't referred to as whites. Egyptians are Africans but aren't black for most of them neither are they referred to as white either. Its a mental thing that we are accustomed to.



We are a people of color and have different skin pigmentations cos of where we come from and how we are born. Some say brown, some even say caramel, melanin, some are even albinos. If the word black is used, its because of how we are described and that should be important cos it is what eventually shapes and defines us, so if Pastor Chris disagrees that we should not accept it cos it is a wrong perspective of us, I agree with him. Pastor Chris see it as a racial comment and I agree with him cos other words similar to it like Niger (also often called as nigga), Negro are similar meaning as black. In fact, Wikipedia says the word black was coined from those words and if that's so and blacks refused to be called nigga or negro, what makes black different cos its the same meaning!

Am an African is am an African. An African can be brown, black, caramel, albino, melanin or even white as we have seen in the new age. An american is an american whether blue, white, black or red. When we begin to view the new world from that perspective and not the slavery mentality world perspective, it will go a long way in subduing racialism and division amongst nations.

And on that note I stand with Pastor Chris. When we open our hearts and minds, we will see that for us to correct so many wrongs in this world today n even more in our country, there are some things we need to start refusing and changing if things are to get better.

Pls, no insults o cos I no insult you o, just sharing my thought on the topic

So let's say your skin is brown right, what does it change if I call you brown or black?

My hair is black, my eyes are black....which according to the pastor means it is evil, it is dark.

Hypothetically..... Let's assume they had called blacks browns from the very beginning.. what would you say today? Brown is bad or brown is evil?

It won't change the mindset of who thought less of people with colour.....the same person that called negro would have no problem calling brownies or darkies or melanins. Unfortunately the colour black was the scape goat

In the end everybody determines what they like.....I like the colour black and I have no problem being called a black

titiakins:
you need an education

I certainly won't be getting it from that pastor. The same person berating people calling themselves blacks is the same one carrying a black hair..... rubbish

titiakins:
I don't know why people like to bash pastor Chris

If you listen to the man with an open mind

You get to understand some of the things he says actually make sense

And I'm not a member of his church

if you can make meaning from the rubbish he says, then you need help

Samsimple:
oga 17 na minor for nigeria ohh.. those ones wey marry for 12 and 13 na their own be that ohhhhhhhh


Meanwhile, I'll design a professional logo and flyer for your business at an affordable price

is the age of consent not 16 in Nigeria? I stand to be corrected

athaboi:
Nigeria is Africa na...remove Nigeria from Africa and you will see an empty continent

better don't deceive yourself......Nigeria is nothing now.....stop living on past glory

Righteousness89:
That's the World we Live in ..

She is a Victim of the Evils and Wickedness of the Endtimes..

Probably a Victim of these Workers of iniquity in the Name of Money by all Means .They Probably have Lured her, Bottled and Calabashed her Destiny and Left Her to Her fate

Or She is a Victim of Evil Projections, Enchantments and incantations..

The Times are Dangerously Dangerous.
It is a Risk to Live Life anyhow.
It is a Risk to be in the middle.
It's a Risk to be Neither here nor there.

It is a Risk to Live without JESUS. Any Nonsense Could Hit and Wipe you out..

They that Have Ears to Hear, Let them Hear..

choose one na....too many "ors" and "probablies"

Beverlyjean:
Lol....they hv started to c that the little man cant win them the so much desired CL...they are tired of his local titles.... they need that one person that can inspire that team.... Juventus dont know how to take advantage of that guy to win titles ... weak coach, weak midfield , only dybala ,de ligt , bonucci and ronaldo can make first team in top teams in europe ... higuain , rabiot, cuadrado, bentacur , Ramsey, Costa are all rejects ... Alex Sandro cudnt even mk 3 assists this season , cuadrado cant cross the ball to save his life

at least they are not looking for club for the little man.....you know what this is called in business? Bad Market

manos:
Note: it's a bit long... I could have summarized but I want those contributing to get a crystal clear picture of the situation, so that they can give better and specific advice.

The major problem here is that she mixes up things to be done in the kitchen with things done only in the toilet.

I have been married to my wife for over a year now (no kids yet) and there are certain unhygienic habits she has been displaying, since we started living together. I have been seeking ways to help her improve on it, but a calm correction from me always leads to a bitter argument between us. (She claims I complain too much whenever I point it out)

For example, she always clears her throat early in the morning and spits in the kitchen sink. (despite the fact that we have 2 toilets with wash hand basins; one in the room and also a guest toilet, with a wash-hand basin which is basically 3 steps from the kitchen). Then she goes to the bathroom, gets her toothbrush and comes back to the kitchen to brush her teeth, while doing several things with toothpaste and saliva drooling from her mouth all through.

The other day, she prepared breakfast (spaghetti) for both of us with the drooling toothpaste mouth and i refused to eat from it. I didn't complain to her either, until she asked why I didn't take my portion of the spaghetti from the pot, later that evening. I mentioned to her that, as always I find it disgusting to eat spaghetti, seasoned with toothpaste drool and saliva. The response I got from her was a hiss and then she said that, next time I should inform her if I am not going to eat the food she cooked so that she would not cook for me."

I let that slide but I felt she missed the point. The next day was her birthday and I decided to prepare breakfast for her.
While I was in the kitchen cooking, she came in with the same drooling toothpaste mouth to take a kitchen Scissors in order to cut something on her pants, even though we have another scissors in the room for such purposes. In the process of trying to pick the scissors, her hands which were covered with toothpaste drool had to cross the pot which I was cooking with. I mentioned to her that I was not comfortable with that and she just hissed as usual, still picked the Scissors and left the kitchen while angrily saying that I am just a complainer. I lost it at this point and proceeded to give her a lecture in anger about basic hygiene and why I can not keep quiet over these things because we live in a shared space and how her actions have a direct effect on me. It ended in a shouting match till she kept quiet, without accepting she was wrong.

This is the pattern almost everything takes when I try to correct her. The worst part is that I would still have to be the one to apologize for shouting at her because if I don't, I might be subjected to a week long silent treatment which I dread.

There are other more unhygienic things that are done by her, which I might not be able to post here due to the fact that I am not completely anonymous and she is still my wife but I hope this information is enough for someone to understand my frustration and profer a solution.

divorce her

Amotolongbo:
That is not how to conclude on a one side of a story heard.
The detained man has his story
The king, Ooni, has his own story.
The DSS acted on the story told them by Ooni.

The story narrated by the activits, Olawale Bakare “Mandate” And Sahara Reporters is half truth before venturing to conclude like this

What was the content of the message sent to Ooni?
Sahara Reporters et al don’t know.
Was the detained guy saying the whole truth and nothing but the truth?
They don’t know.

What if the DSS have detained the guy for stealing a phone belonging to the king’s associate and sending messages to the king?
They don’t know.

Some times the DSS also go on to act on their own after lodging a report to them, which could have also happened in this case. The Ooni might even have forgotten reporting a case like this.
The DSS should not have detained and held the man incommunicado, he should have been allowed to speak to his lawyer

What is the period for lawful detention in Nigeria? You don't detain people for that long because of a text message. This isn't about what the story is, it is about fundamental rights.

The ooni can sue if he feels he was wronged

obembet:
The team knows who's really the best not federation that pushes some certain agenda, if dybala was better than Ronaldo he would have performed better than him not just 11 goals and 6 assists to 37 goals and six assists

The same league that is pushing agenda gave him serie A best last year.... let's call a spade a spade....this one is ego massaging.....it is not new so we are not surprised.

flyingpig:
the worst you can do as a sport man is to fight the press. Even politicians, don't fight the press. Trump is not having it easy for fighting the press.

Nigerian press no follow

youthsinitiativ:
Illiteracy was behind his initial not very well thought through outburst. Perhaps he failed to understand the news report hence, his recanting and apologies.

Is it a crime to emulate or better Maradona's feat at Napoli?

He said he never said so