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Mnewton:
bro,i need you to get something straight, "you are the people you sleep with" I pray you don't have sex with a wrong lady.
Caveat: don't ever sleep with everything under the skirt because spiritual siege is real. I guess you need more of true life stories instead of banking on scientific proofs

I hear you you are who you sleep with because of pleasures of the sex kind....it is what it is a pleasurable activity......there are much more challenging things in life

ignis:
http://saharareporters.com/2020/04/21/breaking-buhari-writes-cjn-over-decongestion-prisons-amid-covid-19-pandemic

and when you release them where do they go to?....what do they eat?.....even the ones that were free and working previously are struggling

Mnewton:
I need you to get something straight, the "spiritual controls the physical", and things that are seen are made from the things that are unseen.

Our physical body , which gives the soul an opportunity to experience reality is made up of matter which can be destroyed over time and comprises the five senses which gives the soul an opportunity to express itself in the physical plane,

Our body ages and die, but the spirit which is the vehicle of the soul never dies. The body has boundary but the spirit has no boundaries , some culture, believe in the concept of an "afterlife" they believe our current reality depends on our deeds in our past lives.

However, here is where I am driving at, something really significant happens when we have sex,

we all have past lives and debts to pay based on our deeds/inherited curses and actions in the past, some persons have neutralize their own karma overtime through prayer and change in ways while others are yet to effect any significant reduction in their karma and way of life.

Karma varies among individuals, some have very huge debt to pay, when you have sex with such individual (male /female), there is an exchange(spiritual) and both of you become one in flesh and in spirit.

Then you start sharing the consequences of your karmers together. Bad luck, anger issues, financial dryness, sickness and diseases even death. That is d reason why marriage is important because you can both work together in love through prayers, fasting, etc

In conclusion, sleeping with people anyhow can introduce dirty spirit and Karma into your own pure spirit and karma! Bad karma can ruin your life forever, why bear the consequences of other people's actions and generational curses? Why slow down your progress through sex with strange women?

Do you have scientific proof of your folklore or you conjure it as you go.....set awon corona 5g geng

Liliantalks:
we r talking about runs girls , who hv sex for money n stuffs , indecent girls who expose their bodies , we r not talking of girls free around guys I honestly do not agree,, cause many decent ladies r free around guys !! The focus is runs girls , n she is very correct

same rules apply to them....in the end most men will marry who they can have good companionship with runs girl or not. So while you are pissed at girls making money with their bodies....also realise that they make good companions too and good mothers as well

Liliantalks:
How true this ? well to me , very true

They learnt how to interact with men....The problem is most girls waiting for that special someone don't realise how important to start building relationships with the opposite sex from a young age.

Most girls that were free around guys get married faster. Free doesn't necessarily mean have sex with them

Millenniumlady:
Men will always do anything to scam a lady once she's hard working.

who broke your heart?

missimelda01:
This is becoming a trend, I saw one on Facebook smoking weed while holding his child, his defense was that he was trying to be real around his daughter.. what rubbish

This child should be taken away from her immediately, a disgrace to womanhood

should the child be brought to you?

KrazyDave16:
They should stop making devices with taller displays, makes it easier for pickpockets

or start making trousers with deeper pockets

Olatunjimoses19:
https://www.independent.ng/sacked-commissioner-reveals-why-he-celebrated-kyaris-death/

so is he saying Ganduje cannot read?

That I must get married

jaxxy:
A One footed player. Only or majorly scores with his left foot. Not good with air balls either due to his height.

For Messi to perform well he has to be in the right setup. Not just any setup.

and Ronaldo hasn't been in the right set up?.....better look at the people that have been providing assist for him over the years

RuddyFusion:
Earlier today I attended church service at MFM Regional headquarters in Aba Abia State. Although the Governor Dr Okezie IKpeazu relaxed the lockdown for two days ( yesterday and today )...most top churches in town kept to the rules.

First, on arrival at the gate of the big compound, I was asked to wash my hands and apply hand sanitizer by an official at the gate. Then I proceeded inside, but couldn't get in as 50 worshippers were already seated inside the church duly observing the social distancing rule for COVID-19,

I have to join the others outside with well-spaced chairs. Service was via a live telecast from the headquarters by Dr DK Olukoya

I was impressed with the way the church made sure that everyone followed the rules and what's expected of them

if the service was via telecast, why didn't you watch from home?

glimpse33:
They have been standing outside my window for close to 2 weeks now.

I don't know what to do.

dance

Best thing to happen to meme since that boy's head

fineboynl:
why do girls start to form love and seriousness after they come to your house?

I don't go into relationship with serious mind or automatic love. I tend to take relationship like friendship. anything serious or sudden seriousness scares me. it doesn't sound genuine to me. even if it's genuine I normally took time to study and like person.


when you control a girl to you crib and probably bang her, it will just be like you have married her or you are now her serious boyfriend from her acting and forming seriousness. this shits don't work on me other than make me run for my life.


all this boil than to the fact they believe you have money and comfortable. they want good things and reap from where they didn't sown.

Not really....some might actually like you from afar and was just waiting for an opportunity

ashewoboy:
where are you, lalasticlala?

you will use your hand to spoil this thread..... shouting for front page like you are in trouble.....allow people to discuss stop flooding it with unnecessary stuffs

VivleBriella:
Good day everyone

I've been a guest for a couple of years now, created an account to seek advice

My dear nairalanders, does it always end well marrying the Breadwinner of a family? He's the last born with 4 elder siblings but they all depend on him.

Yes, I knew he was the Breadwinner from day one but I thought with time, everyone else will be able to stand on their own, but it hasn't happened yet, we've dated for 3yrs now and he doesn't support me financially. I don't complain but he feels entitled to my money and when I get tired of him always asking me to lend him some money and decide to say no, he nags and tells me I'm not being supportive enough.

This is driving me really crazy cause he reminded me of how unsupportive I've been to him and his family, he's driving me insane, you can't possibly put the responsibility of your family on my shoulders, that's crazy and insensitive, over the years, I've borrowed him nothing less than 500k which I know for sure he's never giving back.

Is it normal to be in a parasitic relationship whereby the female remains the host that's being fed on?

I'm only 24 while he's 31.

All relationships he should spend his money and you spend yours.....write down all you have borrowed him and remind him always

Angelacruz:
So y cant she apply for jobs?i guess she has been doing runs during her undergraduate days.I dnt judge but it will end in tears.

but you have judged her already.....most times we need to know the other person's story to understand what they have been thru

InternetUser:
She promised me that she will not do it again. Sadly I had that discussion with her but don't know how I can be sure she will stop

She is doing it for the money.....if she has assurances why should she go back? If you love her then go ahead and date her

At the end it is personality you enjoy marriage with....and all those talking about throwing your destiny away.....I am sure the lady would be a much better person in marriage than any of them.

Sex workers are humans too and they have feelings too and good hearts too

JDJ4:
A Very Big Mistake Of My Life

Hi nairalanders.

Please pardon me in case of any grammatical error. My story will be long, pls kindly bear with me and read to the finishing point. I'm ready to accept any insulting comments, it doesn't matter to me now.

I'm a 25 years old guy, not really financially buoyant but an average, money never dries in my pocket and back account as a hustler. Am currently still in part time program in university.

Now let me go straight to the point, here is my story. I started dating one beautiful girl back then in 2014, we were in love until something came up. There was a time I came home and she visited, that was the beginning of our separation, my mother warned me to stay away from her that she doesn't like her.

Honestly, I didn't know how to breakup with her without hurting her because she loved and cared for me so much. I love my mother so much and I listen to her as well. So, I started to avoid her, reducing my number of calls with her, sometimes when I visited home I won't tell her. All these to make her change her mind but all to no avail, I couldn't tell her what's up so that she won't hate my mother and make both of them enemies of each other.

She noticed my unprecedented and unusual behaviors, she asked me what has she done I only told her that I was very busy and concentrating on something. She later got fade up and started minding her own business because sometimes she would call I won't pick her calls, so she decided to let me be.

Fast forward to early this year, she went for a business trip and returned, so I decided to pay her a visit because even though we are no longer in love but we are still friends. I was hoping to visit her in her shop but she wasn't there, she told me to come to her apartment, I went there, we gist and had funs, she started making a move to me and we eventually had an unprotected sex.

I was thinking that she was a big girl and can take care of herself but after one month plus she called me and told me that she was pregnant, I was speechless and couldn't believe her, she threatened to report the case to my mother if I didn't show up and proffer solutions, my mind jumped. I hurried to her place and she showed me the pregnancy test result, we calculated the months and it was exactly the day I had sex with her, from that day till the month is exactly what was written on the paper.

To cut the story short, I got lost in thought until she waked me from my daydream, I told her straight that I wasn't ready for that, she should do something about it, so both of us agreed to terminate it, it was done successfully, I wasted much money on that moment but it didn't bother me.

So, after a while she called me and told me the sudden changes in her business that money disappeared from her hands always. She went home and complained to her dad, her dad suggested they should visit a native doctor to find out what was the problem. They visited the native doctor and he apparently exposed and told her what she did, that the pregnancy she terminated was the reason behind her misfortune. He listed all the things she will buy for cleansing and the total money involved. She called me and told me the development and demanded my own contribution (money), at that moment I didn't really have money to provide and she couldn't believe me.

Now am afraid if she will angrily expose me because she told her people that the person that got her the pregnancy is not around he traveled abroad. I haven't answered her since then because I have been busy thinking about my mistake, regretting the day I visited her, crying had I know. I returned but I didn't tell her so she won't visit me. Right now am having a double mind if I should adhere to what she told me by contributing money for the stuff, but the other hand, am asking for God's mercy upon my life, so if I should contribute money now it means I will be committing sin upon sin. I don't really know what to do now, I told her that I will visit her whenever I return to discuss with her but I haven't done that.

Presently I have a fiancee am dating now, my mother knows about her and she accepted her as well, also thinking about settling down with her when the time comes. I will hurt and loose her if what I did exposed.

Pls advice me my good people before I commit suicide and end everything, you can insult me if you like, it doesn't matter to me now, am very desperate human being now. The native doctor even told her to tell whoever that got her the pregnancy to also do his own cleansing or else he will encounter problems in life.

Should I also listen to the native doctor man or seek God's mercy, of whose report shall I believe..? Will there really be any problem, and what do I tell her now.

why do you want to get married when you are not financially buoyant or have a steady income stream? God is greater than all

Olofin2:
I don't keep friends. So I'm always at home. Our baby understands me more than anyone because if she's crying and refuses to be soothed by her mother, she would stop crying once her mother angrily dumps her on me. It's only breastfeeding that our baby can't get from me. I know so much about medical things and wife would consult me first before applying anything on the baby. Financially, it can be said that I'm the one working for the salary she's receiving monthly (you can't understand this aspect) and we only spend my own salary.

So, does she wants me to get intimacy from somewhere else?

tell her you are thinking of getting a second wife then start making calls at night.....she will call elders to talk to you....you tell elders, elders tell her.. problem solved

Angelinastto:
The name "sex worker" how can someone choose fucking random strangers as a profession Most of your clients can't even feed well ATM

Beats a thieving politician or a fake pastor everyday

PureGoldh:
What exactly do they take us for? Dullards that can't survive without them nii ?

SMH, Oyibo just dey use black people dey catch cruise anyhow

we obviously can't.....we don't invent

Petyprincess:
Why date someone you can't marry in first place?

Because you don't decide that you will marry someone....it happens over time

Eulalia:
I think the university these days is one of the contributing factor of moral decadence in our society. Most girls become something else once they enter the.university and its not suppose to be! Like seriously, the rate at which they become rotten nowadays, if I'm a man, I'll have a hard time getting married. I'm sorry to say this but that is the fact. Even the Guys are not left out. Getting a decent man for marriage these days has become a herculean task because all they talk, think and reason is only sex, sex,sex. And that is why marriages hardly last again cos everyone has lost sight of the original purpose of marriage and are now chasing the wrong things.

It is well.

Life isn't about marriage....in reality it should be one of the least important things in life

MzDeeb:
Who told you I'm not doing that? Or were you told that all I do is write letters 24/7. I think you're plainly just jealous. Else, I don't see the reason for your rants.


Please, I'm not the cause of your frustration or jealousy. Don't bring your unsolicited advice to my post.


I'm sure you haven't dated anyone who cherish or values you this much to write sweet words about you or even pray to God about you.

I am sure if you are doing as I advised you won't have time to write silly letters.

And no I am not jealous and no I am not frustrated and no I don't want any lady writing me such letters. Things should happen spontaneously.

MzDeeb:
Dear Hubby,

I thought about you today and decided to write a letter to you. Anytime you get to read this, I want you to know you hold a very special place in my heart❤️.


All through my life, I have always prayed to God for a man than would love HIM so much and even bring me closer to HIM. A man that isn't afraid to express his love towards me. A man so kind, considerate, loving, gentle yet firm �. I know all these and more lies inside of you and I'm excited to start the future with you!God must really do love you because I know you are going to be a total package [Not man na man�].


I'm certain ours will be a love story to be envied, because I’ve waited and prayed fervently for you all these while. Sometimes, It is crazy to think that God has specifically created you just for me, and that you are walking on the same � as me right now.

I really can't wait to live and grow with you. I look forward to playing with you [I enjoy silly plays]. I enjoy games like--pillow throwing, video games, scramble, hide and seek etc. I'm open to learning the other games you know too☺️

Just so you know, I'm a sucker for fairytale love, very touchy and physical. I also loveeee to cuddle and hug� a lot. I guarantee you that I would always sit on your laps 80% of the time even if there's an extra chair [Don't worry about my weight, I'm petite �].

Oh! I love to smile ☺ and laugh a lot. I hope you do same. You know without humor, what do we really have?�

I want our relationship to be that of great best friends. I know you're not going to be perfect neither am I too. But I want you to know that you can confide in me anytime you make mistakes. It is okay for you to make mistakes so don't worry about being judge. I have loved you in advance before ever meeting seeing you, so I have also forgiven you in advance too.

I'm pretty certain we would make it through all challenges and trials that might come our way if we are truthful, faithful and honest in our dealings with each other.

Above all, I hope we never stop putting God first in all we do.

I love you and will always love you my King �

TTYL...

Sincerely,

Your Future Wife�

Why don't you focus all these energy on future self.....How you want to grow and be an influence in your society. How you intend to wrong the ills of society and one day stand and say I did this.

Writing this kind of letter to someone that plenty females call scum

zexy2030:
how is selling ur body, legitimate

Everybody sells their body in one way or the other.....whether you work in a bank, teach, an artisan.....your body is being used to get your work done.....so being an escort is legit

I call them human....love your neighbor as yourself

jarawa:
https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/food-relief-package-not-meant-for-every-lagos-resident-sanwo-olu.html

this is utter rubbish from Lagos state....is it only the indigenes that generate revenue in Nigeria? Our politicians are certainly the worst and it is quite unfortunate that they have put us against each other. If other Lagosians mean well, they should reject the food and demand that all Lagosians (residents) get fed or they keep their food.

So people that their means of livelihood are closed don't deserve anything?

Yet when it is time for tax you collect from everyone

Kevsmart88:
Can you say this same thing to your sisters if you have any? Be sincere.

yes....why not? My sister knows her happiness is not hinged to any man.....she does her thing and she is happy and successful at it.

Ariza:
Friendship (I will be his bestie)
Companionship (he will never be alone)
Motherly love (he will be my first baby)
Source of laughter

I will be his:
Teacher (he will learn a lot)
Adviser
Guardian
Nutritionist
Mental iron
Motivator
Porn.star
Childbearer
PrayerChampion
Disciplinary Chairperson
Cook
Artistian
Diehard fan
Die hard critic


Should I continue?

for a man to have gotten this far he probably has these positions filled. His spiritual leader probably fills about 50% of that role.

I think all you can be to a man is yourself. Don't change to please him at your own detriment ( this doesn't apply to toxic traits) and you both decide what you want from each other. And always have the mindset to walk away....when it gets bad