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In the Old Testament, those God-fearing people who are faithful to God can fast for 40 days or longer. Because 2,000 years ago they have only few foods and drink: fish, loaves of bread, wine and other grains from their own gardens and river.

Today's all food produce too many chemicals, fake flavors and buy ungodly foods (pork, seafood, and exotic poultry) that make people's stomach digest unbearable and slowest. More and more people have health diseases such as diabetes, heart, liver, kidney, colon, etc. Therefore, those who want fast would not impossible for 40 days or longer. That make them fainted and dehyated. So they can only cracker to eat and a lot of water to drink on each meal if they want 40 days or longer fast.

That is my opinion and taught by Bible-based church pastor to explain congregations about "WHAT IS FAST?" every years because too many faithful congregations tried fast---often end up EMERGENCY HOSPITAL for varied reasons.

Does it make sense to you?

I re-read your posting over and over and over. For me i truly believe that all babies, children, and aborted fetuses are going to Heaven REGARDLESS of which religious they belong to, because they all are totally INNOCENT entering the secular world long before learning about accepting Jesus Christ as personal savior.

Do you aware the fact that God knows before babies were born out of mother's womb? I am not sure about babies with possessed by Demons, because i cannot be judged to think those possessed devil babies going to Hell. Only God decides for all dead and living.

For this Ohio lady (in the newspaper/TV news i heard about) who killed to drown babies in the tub is mentally and brute murderer- - -I don't think so she is fully understand about God or christianity.

Your question has been the same question for years and years for next generations to next generations.

Still the same argument about the biblical vs science (evolution) i have been heard over and over and over. Here is someone wrote his own theory/belief/opinion of "WHY WE BELIEVE IN CREATION" on the followed link at below that I assume better explanation than me.

http://www.origins.org/articles/bohlinray_believecreation.html

By the way everyone has entitled to share their own opinions about "WHY WE BELIEVE IN CREATION".

Most companies in the USA prefer choosing person with high numbers of experiences with Bachelor/Master degree and/or Technical/Medical/Teacher certifications than college degree with too little experiences.

There is more answers to your question below:

Why Do Good Girls Love Bad Boys?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-5572.0.html

Why Do Girls Like To Date Scammers?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-99613.0.html

Life Is Cruel Why Do Nice People Finish Last?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-97741.0.html

[quote author=D-reloaded link=topic=101280.msg1780703#msg1780703 date=1198014870]actually I think she gave you those links as ANSWERS to your question.[/quote]@poster

D-reloaded has said it correctedly.

For me to answer your question why do girls/women always overlook the nice genuine boys/men is because most girls/women think nice genuine boys/men are TOO BORING, TOO MUCH ROMANTIC, TOO MUCH AFFECTIONATELY. So girls/women prefer BAD BOYS/PLAYERS/SMOOTH SLICKERS they think that are HOT SEXY ATTRACTIVE.

That is sad! Too many wounded girls/women EVERYWHERE in the world picking wrong boys/men!!!!

I don't think she is wife material type. She is just gold-digger don't know what true love is.

Here is the existing answers you may find as follow below:

Why? Why? Why?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-100881.0.html

How Much Should A Man Earn To Sustain A Marriage?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-100149.0.html

7 Reasons Why Females Get Hurt In Relationship
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-94423.0.html

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

What! I think you post on the wrong thread. what does favorite amusement have to do with romance thread?

Blame yourself for not listen someone who care for u asking you to repent your sins accepting Jesus Christ as your personal savior! It is your choice to reject Jesus Christ coming into your heart!

You shut Jesus's face your door!!! Jesus weeps!!!

Wow your testimony of your player life now changed turning into new leaf you have.

Please pray for those girls whom u hurt them in the delieverance of forgiveness what you have done wrongly in the name of Jesus Christ.

Let's be your 2008 resolution to heal your heartbroken and take slowly to follow your heart, mind, soul, and spirit you desire for.

Amen!!!

nice memoirs, i hope you should be aware of Nigeria law about homosexual.

Think about it!

A real woman is. . . _{on the following link at below}:

http://www.therebelution.com/blog/2006/02/three-teens-define-a-real-woman/

This is written by three teen at age 16, 19, and 17.

If you are doubt whether you are in love or not, read this link on the following topic:

7 Reasons Why Females Get Hurt In Relationship
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-94423.0.html

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

Be sure do not make the same mistake you have right now, BE WISE, BE SMART!

Busta:
Some men just don't learn.

About the foundation of the relationship between two people connect. Read this on the following topic:

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

If girl does not like you, she will pretend to love you, just take advantage of you, PERIOD!

Probably your flatmate is totally jealous of you getting fiancee while he does not have one. Why not you be matchmaker finding a mate for your flatmate in order to leave you and your fiancee alone?

Only a man need to know about his wife/girlfriend's past unless there is something physical evidences such as a wedlock child, marital status, health (STD, HIV, AIDS, sexual abuse) and dynfunctional family in the preparation of understanding this circumstances better better than hidden the past a man may not know of.

Do not trust anyone's rumors, negativity, paint his wife/girlfriend black, or accusation! Only between a man and wife/girlfriend.

Be sure check with this link whether your girl is the right one for you or not:

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

Please don't make your mistake TWICE and PROTECT your heart from being hurt again if your girl won't be there if you lose your job!

Oh really I disagree with that. 100% trust alone is BE WITH GOD, not just anybody, not even your girlfriend/boyfriend/spouse, and not even yourself.

For strong relationship between two people connect that is based on:

[list]
[li]Trust[/li]
[li]Spirituality[/li]
[li]4 Characters[/li]
[list]
[li]Humility[/li]
[li]Kindness[/li]
[li]Responsibility[/li]
[li]Happiness[/li]
[/list]

[li]Personal Hygiene[/li]
[li]Communication Skill[/li]
[li]Personal Habits[/li]
[li]Strong Connections[/li]
[list]
[li]Good Chemistry and Compatibility[/li]
[li]Shared Common Interest[/li]
[li]Shared Common Life Goal[/li]
[li]Deeper Emotional[/li]
[li]Sexual Compatibility[/li]
[/list]
[/list]

Nautillus:
uspry1
You appear to have a PHD is this, why don't you right a book??
you could make a lot of dough _{Dating 4 Dommies}

LOL, I ain't PhD as well as writing a book "Dating 4 Dummies" making money. Bec there are millions, millions, and millions of books on "Dating 4 dummies", "Getting Married 4 dummies", "Relationship 4 dummies" EVERYWHERE in the world.

But the problem is most book publishers/vendors in the world would not accept Nigerians ordering books via credit/debit card online. that is sadly. I myself am internet savvy as well as web developer prefer using online electronically.

I saw somewhere here this NL posting on failed marriage. The Nigerian authors wrote this book on marriage/dating advices for only Nigerians and friends of Nigerians, i lost track of getting the name of this Nigerian author, they were very popular both in the US and Nigeria bec both couples are PhD and both are doctors raising their own children, both agreed to share their own experiences by writing this book. I forgot the name of title but it emphasizes talking about marriage, dating, and relationship.

As of the result the poster of NL, their marriage were saved by this book lot better than church pastor's marriage counseling because of culture differences.

Because of:

[list]
[li]Most girls date bad boys (ghetto, criminals, yahoo boys, illiterate, secular/non-Christian, stingy, high-egostic, mama's boys)---neglect all nice guys, geek guys, brainy guys, God-fearing guys behind that are real romantic guys, some are matured ones.[/li]



[li]Most girls look for guys who have nice car, lot of cash, and nice house---those girls are MATERALISTICS and GOLD-DIGGERS---neglect guys who are hardworking jobs (low pay jobs not the ones high-paid jobs like professionals, engineers, doctors, lawyers), good sense of financial management, conservative[/li]



[li]Most girls look for THE MOST ATTRACTIVE guys that look like male celebrities to be clingy too long. Forgot about inner beauty, personality, and good characteristics[/li]

[/list]

Because of:

[list]
[li]most schools lack of provide the prevention of getting pregnant, AIDS/HIV, other diseases in health or sex education course[/li]



[li]most grandmothers, mothers, aunts, and female adult relatives never sit down discussing or educating to give girls for relationship/marriage advices[/li]



[li]Too many bad media, school peer pressure, false teaching and bad influences they learn the wrong ways[/li]



[li]Too much fantasy, vivid imagination, or daydreaming by reading too much romance novels, movies, and TV including soap operas they thnk these are real things.[/li]



[li]Where are "Nigerian" magazine giving lot of relationship tips, marriage tips, and dating tips just like US black American magazines such as Ebony, Essence, and Jet---that will help them learn the mistakes to prevent getting wrong man to be fall in love with[/li]



[li]Most girls/ladies who never been in married, being singles, are lack of relationship experiences---like first time dating only one man---too much cling on one man----forgot about plenty of men out there.[/li]
[/list]

If you want to know this one is right for you, then read this below:

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

For me, based on relationship compatibility, maturity, financial stability, and common interests all are the same page as mine, so i know this one is the right for me, so far i have not found the right one for a long time over 5 years after the breakup (their committment-phobia).

@poster

Does it helpful to you what you look for?

I usually think about myself the most "what if i was not became deaf, everything will be different to be turned out in marriage, education/career, entertainment, travel and family".

Check out few existing threads here at below:

Office Dating For or Against?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-99597.0.html

Office Romance: Would you date your colleague?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-206.0.html

Office, Club, Church, Internet, School for Dating?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-3988.0.html

How Healthy Is Office Romance?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-19867.0.html

Are you sure you love him---I mean is he the right one for you? Read this link below:

7 Reasons Why Females Get Hurt In Relationship
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-94423.0.html

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

Uzzyan:
@uspry
Y not the hand

Yes sure, no problem!