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Great I am so glad you both worked out in marriage!

Communication is THE KEY to make the marriage stronger foundation and wiser!!! Lot of married couples lack of communication!

for me, NO i will not marry a male who is virgin!!! I do not have time to teach inexperienced virgin male to do this and do that in sexuality. It make me feel like he is 10 years old boy who ask TOO MUCH QUESTIONS on sexuality.

I have my knowledge of sexuality at early age through men's favorite magazines (you men all know what i talk about) that I found from hide in the wrong place, lol.

That was THE BIG ADVANTAGE for me reading the whole sexual forum articles on that magazines knowing what men like for women in sexuality. I know how to please man in sexuality only for marriage. Not for boyfriend---I won't do it exposing my broad knowledge of sexuality---STRICT FOR HUSBAND ONLY.

No big deal, i can wash my partner's clothes using wash/dry machine.

Are you sure your girlfriend is right one for you? Suggest to read this below:

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

If you don't follow the 10 insights at below that lead you a frustration choosing wrong one you love with.

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

@aphoe

Thank you for your response. I will think about it and will contact you soon!!!

However i will change my development plan dropping the database-driven website developer portal site into something else i want on a short-term projects.

it is called no string attached or casual dating/relationship---no emotional, no romantic involved, just sex, sex, sex!

It is everywhere in the world having no string attached relationship because several reasons: divorce rate so high, already with someone else but lousy in bed, commitphobia, and/or not afford paying for prostitute.

I never had crush on my teacher all my life but strangely my university Sociology professor had crush on me at my age 20. He demanded asking me to see him on his office everyday after finishing his teaching. I refused. (he admitted me on that day that he crushed on me privately). Few of my classmates witnessed whole thing, i mean professor passed a note to me everyday during one semester but i throw a note at the trashcan without professor see me do that.

Guess what he was white professor plus older enough to be my father and i found out that he was broke up with his black female Ph.d professor in other college that lead him heartbroken during that time of his teaching. He said I was remind of his black ex-gf.

In my univ, there was completely white predominated university i enrolled at, only 10% of us black student attended there but only 1% of black student made thru 4-years graduation (i was one of them).

Stick with the following software: Windows Media player and other OEM media player that come with computer system you purchase either on CD installation or pre-installed software on computer.

It is found on your Windows XP/Vista under "Start" button, click "All Program", select "Accessories", then select "Entertainment", you will see which player already installed there----FREE.

Those are not come with CD installation/pre-installed, you need to get free most recent version downloaded player such as:

Flash player
Shockwave player
QuickTime player
Media Classic player
K-Lite Codec Pack

For example if you buy Adobe Flash professional, it will automatically install include Flash player and QuickTime player inside the application CD installation you do not need download from the internet. It does upgrade player newer version as it detect immediately after the completion of application CD installation.(of course it prompts an upgrade alert window dialog pop-up, request for your permission to accept or reject it).

I use all downloaded players for my web development purpose to test them ensuring it function properly before upload finalized file to the web site.

I have been subscribed McAfee Security Protection for more than 10 years so loyally with new downloadable AVG-Root Kit and AVG-Anti-Spyware that easily scan all 850,000 virus blocked.

I also have been watch most companies and all internet providers in the USA have been switched back and forth every year: McAfee and Norton very COMPETITIVENESS, USER-FRIENDLY-EASY TO USE and RELIABILITY.

To me no difference between McAfee, Norton, and AVG, that is their personal preferences to choose which one is the best for them.

ok mostly PC users who browse internet everyday are PURE LAZY to take care of their own computer when it come to performance cluttered (slow system, slow internet, slow loading application), NOT BECAUSE OF anti-virus software.

They PC users are responsible to manage their own computer system to keep cleaning up their hard disk drive and add more memory card from 128MB to 512MB or 1GB.

That is hardware glitch problem when it comes to clutter.

Would you neglect taking care of your car when there is NO OIL change and NO GAS to fill up to drive on the road? Same prinicple you suppose to take care of your computer system, it will last 5 years shelf lifetime. Use system tools under either disk defragment (require overnight to leave your PC on) or disk clean.

I know it is impossible for Nigeria due to electricity power problem.

About 65% PC users around the world DO NOT KNOW NOTHING about taking care of computer system, complaining things too slow because of lack of update, clean up hard disk drive, upgrade memory card, and tired of application update notification that annoy them.

That when COMPUTER TECHINICANS come in making money helping clueless PC users solving their problems.

Does not matter which one is the best Anti-virus software for you! You need fully TOTAL PC PROTECTION: anti-virus, firewall, phish and spyware all in one package. Anti-virus ALONE will not protect your computer!!!

As long as you ARE REQUIRED to update new virus patch adding to your installed anti-virus software daily basis when it prompts pop-up notifying you to ask your permission to download new virus patch adding to your installed anti-virus software FOR YOUR TOTAL COMPUTER PROTECTION.

RIGHT NOW we have over 850,000 virus attack include trojan horse, malware, spyware, goes on everywhere in the whole wide world anywhere can attack your computer without updating your new virus patch to be protected.

If you never update current new virus patch to be protected, you are very vulerable attacking new virus that has not update on your system, TOO BAD because you reject the new virus patch being update. That is your responsible either manually or automatically.

You cannot blame anti-virus software manufacturers---IT IS YOU to turn down the update downloaded file.

by the way @sin

i thought about this relationship tip that would help you to make your own decision when it come to choose the right Nigerian gal you want to take home to your mama in London better at below:

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

The answer is i believe that no other woman anywhere fits what Seun likes at below his quote:

For Someone who only cares about important things and lives in a world of ideas and possibilities?

@Nihil-ce-M

Go look existing thread at below:

The Ideal Wife for Seun Osewa?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-97568.0.html

Tell me is Seun a gay?

@midolo

yeah I saw your posting few min apart coincidentally in a mystery way!

@Nihil-ce-M

How do you know if he has one? Do you know Seun's private life? Go look existing thread at below:

The Ideal Wife for Seun Osewa?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-97568.0.html

Tell me is Seun a gay?

@poster

Why do you think Seun is a homosexual? I check your profile, i see your first topic posted at below:

Help, I have never had a girlfriend
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-93541.0.html

You are the same boat as Seun. I think you also are homosexual, am I right? Therefore don't judge him as well as other people you don't know well.

@poster

There are lot of existing threads about Nigerian vs other African that is found here at the Culture section as well as sub-section, racism/tribalism.

I suggest you to avoid jealousy, extremely possessive, and suspicious ladies! Read this to help you making your mind when it comes to choose the right one at below link:

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

Or better off stay single for rest of your life. It is your decision!!!!

@ poster, how can you be sure which one guy is right for you? Read this helpful powerful relationship tips that i think save your heartbroken!


7 Reasons Why Females Get Hurt In Relationship
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-94423.0.html

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

@poster

Of course at first you would feel horrible painful that your man is not into you, found someone else who got pregnant and serve her food for your man better than you.

If i was your shoe, let him go idiot! Heal your pain yourself, move on, find someone else who love who you are, treat you right, serve you right, and want you so badly. You don't need your ex-man who dissed you for someone else. Let him go!!! There is plenty of fishes at the sea waiting for you!

read this previous thread you should learn how to avoid any toasting tactics that turn girls off instantly at below:

My toasting tactics are outdated? she laughed at me!
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-87173.0.html

Laughing at this link is a good medicine for you.

@ poster

Not only ladies who get jilted seeking for revenge or committing a suicide, men do the same. I don't think it was an option. It is because of lack of understanding on relationship experiences they look for compatibility. They don't use common sense or act maturity. Those both ladies or men who jilted are pretty immature themselves thinking ONLY ONE PERSON IS JUST A PERFECT for her/him for the rest of their life, forgot there are plenty of fishes at the sea.

I advice you reading two topics to understand why relationship FAILED at below:

7 Reasons Why Females Get Hurt In Relationship
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-94423.0.html

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

@poster

Either way, you give yourself respect to your younger sister's wish on social compatibility, let her learn her own mistakes in relationship.

Or you print this links out giving to your younger sister read this:

7 Reasons Why Females Get Hurt In Relationship
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-94423.0.html

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-95533.0.html

This should be banned at below:

Fake Job Employment (cash checks sending cash to WU/MoneyGram business)
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-99510.0.html

WOW cool intro flash! I am on high speed internet/high broadband loading Flash based site no problem.

Suggest you make Flash detection scripting to identify which browser version and which modem speed on Flash-based site to switch HTML pages for those who either do not have their Flash player installed or not upgrade browser version or still use low broadband speed like those cybercafes.

I am so glad the break is OVER!!!

While you gone on a break, i had visited the SMF community forum site using its search field box on the following bold text below. I hope Seun and your moderators will work as teammate finding lot of SMF add-on modules very helpful for better solution, because I do not know if Seun has already installed those or not.

(1) Banning Options on multiple factors (IP address, email, username, and hostname)

(2) Captcha or Visual Verification module with Manual Account Verification and e-mail activation on registration form, then prune old members that have not activated in order to reduce all constant spam bots sign-ups.

(3) Double Post Stopper to eliminate duplicate the same post TWICE.

(4) Moderator Activity Report or VReport Board Report that is designated for forum administrator to keep track of all moderators activity what they are doing being moderating on forums daily on ADMIN control panel.

(5) Delete Spam Posts that is designated for both administrators and moderators allowing to delete spam posts and dock member's post count by one.

There are more I find suitable for your permanent solutions on NL, should i continue suggest here or somewhere else?

Not only American 2008 election, the world also watch for Russia President (re-elect), Israel President and South America President election at the same time.

The world wants to know who President will be for 2008-2009, as they cannot afford another foolish Presidents.

ifyalways:
noooooooooooooo i disaagree sam sam.you have got kids and hes got none.

So what that i have got my last kid that is almost grown adult next 3 more years to go!!! (two kids at age 19 and 14) Still i have not dating since the last break up 5 years ago, most guys left me for someone else in the between of 3 weeks dating and 3-years serious relationship locally (not distance online i don't believe). Enough to go thru cycle of dating again and again and again!

For now I am not seeking for one!!!

The answer about "Is Heaven and Hell Really Real" is found in the bible on the book of Revelation. Read whole chapters.

Yes all pastors you mentioned above are FALSE TEACHERS/FOLLOWERS refer to the bible of the Act and 2 Cornithians.

That is old news to me, i saw this story on CNN or BBC to reveal the ten TOP of which one youth are misbehaved (break law, fights, drink too much, have sex early, etc.) on the statistical polls several months ago.

British youth are the worst one of all other countries, French is second, USA i don't remember which category between 4th or 5th.

I will find the source cited for details later, unless you provide the link here.