₦airaland Forum

Rogosa:
A kind of feeling different from that i felt for my wife. Each time I remembered her, the feelings is rekindled.

You know that if your wife reads this your write up and know it you that wrote it, your marriage is finished right?
Are you prepared for that?

kabukabu50:
In a developed country, wild animals found on the street are returned to their natural habitat, but in Nigeria they are taken to the police station, yep makes perfect sense.

Congrats. You just discovered that water is wet.

nanakgh:
No such thing as animal control smh

You haven't yet seen that Nigerians are in crisis? You are asking for animal control.

naijjaman:
It hasn't occurred to you that even the devil quoted the bible to prove his point.
You are trouble and delusional if all you do is to wait for the moment you quoted.
I am a man but women deserve to be treated no less than men.
We live in a different world. So cut the misogynist crap ok.

Well Isiah, is a difficult book to understand. Because if you read it from beginning to end, it isn't like a story of Begining, middle, and the end. It is kind of visions. Isiah saw this vision and that vision. You need spiritual guidance to understand that book. Nevertheless, everything he said, happens. He perfectly quoted Jesus suffering, without even seeing Jesus. Like a sheep to be slautered.... Quoting how Jesus was dragged to be crucified.

Olawalesmarter:
why? why it dey Pain you like this? This is not what the tread is all about, why are you so fustrated ? Why?

We got independence from the British too fast, without learning the complexity of how to rule ourselves as one nation. Now see wahala since 1960....joblessness, herdsmen, fight and quarrel everywhere, everyday.

jaymee0:
If Jeff means Jefferson,
What does Bezos mean?

Probably some Italian something. All Americans are immigrants from Europe....etc

Valerie47:
Yes, I've considered changing my Igbo name when I was lil, its an Anambra name and we from imo, my parents gave it to me cause the name was reigning when I was born and they happen to like reigning things, my grandmother can't pronounce it very well even up till now, she calls it in a funny way and it sounds a bit Chinese to me.

Are you Gbenkechi? Or Anhulika? I've not met these ladies since we left primary school. no facebook, no twitter. Una no dey like the name?

rentAcock:
My name is Dick, my parents thought it was a cool name after hearing it from an American movie, needless to say that I was teased throughout my school days and I think it is part of the reason I'm currently in my line of business. I wish I can change it.

Nobody laughed at Charles Dickens.
What of Americans that their surname is Dick?
....and they joined the army....
....and were promoted.... From General Dick, to Major Dick (I got this from Quora website). Laugh and be shot. It's how you control yourself.

megacity:
YES


I didnt like my names so I changed my middle name and surname some years ago. The only reason I kept my first name was to maintain some sort of link with my former name

Since then I have had all manner of issues! Once I gained admission to a postgraduate program in a university in this country and they almost didnt allow me to register because according to the associate dean (a prof), a man cannot change two names! According to the prof, the best they would do was to register me in my former name since my first degree certificate bears that name!

My forefathers coined those name based the limited knowledge they had back then and the names are not like godly. If after being a Christian for many years I cannot find the guts to correct the mistakes of my forefathers, I should be considered a failure

The Christianity I know, when one decides to join the family of God, you are baptised of water and the Holy Spirit. Before your Baptism, you are given the opportunity of chosing a Christian name. A name of a Saint (Somebody who died and the church knows that person is in heaven), John, James, Mary, Martha,,, etc.
Later in life, you would do a confirmation, a process of stating that you are a confirmed soldier of Christ. You are also given the opportinity to chose another Christian name. So a person can have 2 Crhistian names and just stop anwering a traditional name if you feel bad about it. Your surname remains, linking you to your family.

AllenSpencer:
May God no allow me marry pig O

Twins and triplet, God SEF won kill person ni

E no even look the man condition

God knows his condition exactly. God wants the man closer to him.
When Solomon was given King work, guy was just confused. He didn't know what to do. So he asked God for wisdom. God gave him the wisdom. This is not time to run from God. This is time to run TO God, and do whatever he tells you without any giving God shakara or conditions.

Zhegx:
As a man you must have self-control. Dunno what happened but either way it's wrong to lay your hands on a woman. Some have very sharp mouths that can pierce your soul and make you hate the day you were born. If you marry such a woman and she begins to display, walk away. This one looks quiet though. May she rip. Really sad for the child.

This is why courtship without sex is needed before marriage and commitment. Each of you can display your madness ahead of time without any children so you can decide if you still want to enter church and wed or go separate ways.

Tbaby4real:
When we tell them to run for their dear life, they will say we are promoting divorce................See what you cause the little baby. I am sure this is not his first time of beating you. You decided to wait, fast and pray and wear red pants. See how that help. I am so upset right now. No violence man deserves a woman in his life

So the child should not have father now? Every child deserves their Original Father and Original Mother. The man made a mistake. He must live with it and his child. That is his headache not your own.
There are enough abandoned children in orphanages you can accomodate.

Tbaby4real:
Mistake? Someone that just gave birth. Was he supposed to beat her in the first place? May he rot in jial my His grace.

So baby will not have father and mother? Even though father is alive?
Una wey dey take your parents for granted.

rentAcock:
I will never believe a one sided story on the internet, what does the husband have to say?

Well, we are warned about this during marriage course, before wedding.
When you meet your wife, she's a babe. Your all and all.
The moment she gives birth, she becomes baby's all and all. Her attention goes to baby. Breast, that you thought was for you will enter baby's mouth O, 24/7. Not all men can take this. Maturity is needed. Some marriages break because of this imbalance of attention. The man can feel left out.

Quality20:
good only chaste men n women are 2 b married

After entering the Televised ashawo house? His chaste now abi?

dominique:
I remember Efe Sodje from 2002 world cup in Korea/Japan, the guy with the green bandana. Why did they have to do that naa

London with E confusion. The guy has drifted away from God. He no check him conscience again.

marvin906:
May ogun strike your useless mouth

Ogun does not exist. So nothing will happen to the guy's mouth.

alizma:
his 2018 sins has brought him shame in 2019. God protect us from irrelevant actions that will bring shame, including attacking Buhari Unnecessarily. amen

Foolish trick. You make 2 statements. One good and one foolish. You then expect people to click "Like" based on the good statement, and then implying they agree with the second useless statement.
I don catch you

presidentatiku1:
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Guy, as illiterate as the northerners are, the typical guy there has catapult, dagger, bow and arrow or one useless dane gun. Locally made things that don't need importation. No customs check etc..
All these he can use without police arresting him, We in the south are so educated that we have nothing.
As you are, can you confidently argue with Aboki? Are you confident and sure the guy doesn't have one poisoned suya stick somewhere in his cloth to chook you?
Nna, na fear-fear dey allow us give them chance O.

ItzBIM:
Jonathan was controlled by cabals and Godfathers, Sowore has none.

Vote wisely

He might be young and intellectual, but who is protecting him? Let "them" not go and give him Apple to eat like Abacha. We go come dey hear one kind news.

juncheng:
The worst part is that, in Nigeria, the leaders won't even build the prisons, they don't care.

They don't care because the people can't do them anything.
The people are so disunited fighting each other on ethnic/religious grounds that they fail to join forces and hold their government accountable.

ajalawole:
those guys above me.......................

Is it "Like" you are looking for? You haven't said anything.

Commendable. But one more step remains. Like every other major city in the world, there needs to be emissions control. Discouraging pertrol/diesel vehicles in the city and promoting electric ones. Because, this place, as fine as e reach, black smoke go full am O. Carry white hanky there first.
What good is chilling there when black smoke from buses and passing vehicles can splash on your face.

When I joined my current employment, I didn't know anything about networking. All those things were just connected to each other and giving errors anyhow. So I got myself a copy of Networking for Dummies and learnt how to identify and differentiate between switches routers. I later learnt how data flows from one PC to another and what to do and check if expected data is slow or does not arrive.

doshe39:
Tell me your past that you have slept with uncountable men and did abortion.I no go even wait wear my shoe

It's a pity that people go about doing one bad thing and bragging about it. Now, when they marry, their conscience will be worrying them like OP.
Just follow God and don't do that thing until you marry. Keep yourself pure for your marriage. There will be nothing to fear or be ashamed of.

LONGPREEK:
not all partners o. personally i dont give a Bleep about a girl's past. my present fiancee was a real freak. i twisted her little brain till she told me every thing she did, she told me how she was gangbanged several times. she told me how she was bleeped in cars, toilets and some public places, she told me what exactly she did, like sucking, anal etc. yes i am still gonna marry her even after knowing all that. just imagin if you get to tell that to some guys, the relationship don end be that na. no one should quote me please

Hope your kids will not get to learn that their mother is a basket.

ashawopikin:
if u don't "really have a bad past" wetin u wan narrate

She has a bad past and conscience is worrying her. That's why she's asking us.

ahamadegr8:
If you have better things to work on I don't think telling him ur past is okay... What will it change, why bringing it up now? Why didn't u tell him during ur courtship.
Do u remembered when he asked u to tell him about itself.... Yeah that would have been de right time to do that.
.....let de past rest joooooooo, no trouble DAT innocent soul

Well, I agree with 1/2. Courtship is the time to tlak about everything and you both knowingly bury your mistakes.
But this lady sounds like she pretended all was over. Now, married, her mind is disturbing her. She will forver look over her shoulders. She better lie down one the ground now, open her mouth and confess anything she's hiding. Because the courtship no complete O.

Expensive2000:
No try am

When you were doing "one tin" with something upandan. Cold catch you now. You dey fear to talk about past.

DanDeeBoss:
I have no time to narrate my past to anyone..... Talk less of a partner

People who couldn't keep their "dis tin" inside their pant...always avoid talking about their past.

WeRblessed:
Can't believe people still carry huge cash around in Nigeria

Can't believe, can't believe, can't believe.
...people with no degree will be the ones leading all the first class degree book people...
...people purchasing electronic devices and tying their lives to it, yet have no steady electricity to power all the devices...

michealdeco:
it's actually a Nigerian shepherd dog
Cheers

Unfortunately, for some strange reason, we don't have shepherds in Nigeria. Only herds men.