₦airaland Forum

freemanbubble:
Isoright
I don't have an ex because i don't do relationship. As a bini niggarrr hustling when i see a woman i like i just go in and swim
Because am always aware that women are like swimming pool
Just go in and swim, don't give a fuckkk about who have been swimming before you, don't also give a fuckkk who will swim after you are done with your own swimming!
In fact my guy don't even give a fuckkk who is swimming with you as you are swimming

Then if I noticed that the woman is loving me as am swimming and trying to create a relationship
Then i will assure her that i can't guarantee our relationship but i will make sure i remain her friend till the end of time

Fornication is a sin.
You can't say you didn't know. Now you know.

sarrki:
There is nothing you can do to bad roads

Not everything depends on the driver

You are responsible for your safety. The road is bad. This is Nigeria. Slow down. Why rush?
People watch American films and see cars speeding. They then carry that same guy-man attitude to come and speed on our Nigerian road, forgetting that our road maintenance is very bad because we're in a 3rd world country.
Power Bike crew, be warned. (All those people that like crashing N50,000,000 bike and travelling to london for medical treatment with their father's money).

merit12:
Am just flabbergasted by the amount of money used in building this o dio

Na pack of substandard bulshit equipment there. Let people start using the equpment, everything will just spoil.

IYANGBALI:
The pikin no get teeth to bite the stupid woman? I ate oyinbo with passion

But anything they make, you must buy.
Shoe, watch, phone, computer, car, jeep, cooker, fridge, pant. Every damn gadget in your life, democracy, aeroplane, ...

robosky02:
Imagine paying them to abuse your kids

Sue them to recover ten time the dollas

Nonsense red skin pupu

So, what are you and your child doing in their land? Is their own child in your land? In your own daycare?
When you address that issue, racism will end.

bizza45:
one thing I know is that racism will never end... the kid parents should sue that institution to court and they should pay heavily for d damage they caused

When you stand in front of a single whiteman, are you able to remain yourself and not act over nice, to please him? Can you travel to America/London and come back without Oyibo accent?
Whenever we belittle ourselves in front of them, they too belittle us all the way.

KINGwax007:
that's a lie. The names or words doesn't and wouldn't sound English. It's the written aspect that looks like English word.

Just joking you're right

But you are correct. Unlike the Europeans, we did not have any form or written alphabets to spell anything. We passed on our knowledge by mouth, from Generation to generation. Egypt had Hyrogliphics (symbols), Ethiopia, had their own letters for writing. The rest of Africa, nothing. Till whitemen came to colonise, hear our language, then attempt to use ENGLISH ALPHABETS, consonants and Vowels, to spell the sounds they were hearing. Carry the written text and give us back as our language.
Why won't some words look like English words? But pronounced differently.

Feranchek:
I've always thought names like Cletus, Sixtus, Fidelis, and co, were Ibo names oooo

Those are either Latin or Greek names from Rome
Pegasus, Maximus, Optimus, Gallactus, Romanus,

originals1:
Op, u ve to let him go...if his spirit stays too long in the land of the living ,he might be trapped here and become restless....

What u need to do now is Gather all his personal belongings u're in possesion of and burn them up so his spirit wouldnt ve any anchor in the land of the living....

The guy is having a tough time and is expecting OP to pray for him.
If you did a bad thing, and God did not allow you enter heaven, where will you go? Is it not back to earth to come and see if your so called friends can beg God for you?
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The story of Lazarus and the Rich man, didn't th rich man beg Abraham, "send one dead guy back to the living, go to my house and tell my 4 brothers not to live bad life style".

Somebody is dead does not mean the person will forget that he came from Earth, or forget everybody's name. He still knows his friend. And is trying to communicate.
In my church, we pray for the dead. That INCASE they have not entered heaven, let God spare them, clean their sins and take them in.
MANY other churches just FORGET ABOUT dead people and pray ONLY for wealth and prosperity for the living members. Only the pastor chops all the wealth and forget about the members.

PlanckTime:
I HAVE CHECKED THE ELECTROMAGNETIC SPECTRUM BUT CAN'T FINED THIS YOUR SPIRITUAL FREQUENCY STORY, HOW DID YOU KNOW THIS AND WHAT'S THE WAVELENGTH OF THE SPIRITUAL REALM?

PROVE PLEASE

Everything in the universe consists of some form of particles or charges. Photons, electrons,... Etc.
Spiritual issues are void of univeral matter.
A baby cannot survive without ubilical chord attached to the mother.
Once it is born, total change. Baby does not need umbilical chord for ever and ever.
So too are spiritual issues. They do not need matter to exist.

MajorJeffery:
I've done this before here with an old moniker about two years ago or so but this still persist. What can I do? I'm already thinking of seeing a therapist but I thought I should raise it here again.

This happens at least three nights every week and in recent dreams, I see myself trying to help him achieve a feat.

The irony is that sometimes in the dream, it occurred to me that he was dead but yet I still not cared.

This is 10years now that I lost him in a road accident. Even as teenagers, we were so close that we shared clothes and some people thought we were blood brothers.

I discussed this with his mum sometime ago and she told me she had a feeling her dead son was existing somewhere and that got me thinking. Could this be true?

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Of course your friend is existing somewhere. But the issue now is whether his state is bettee than your's or worse. If he's in a better state, (heaven), he might be asking God to help you through your challenges in life. If he's in a bad state (but not condemed), he may be expecting you to pray to God for him.
Two of you were very good friends, does not mean he will just die like that and forget you. As you remember him, so is he remembering you.
Pray for him to God. And Pray to God for yourself,
He is trying to get your attention very close to God.
He can see God, you cannot.
I too have a friend who appears in my dreams. Usually when I do very bad things. He doesn't talk. He just look at me. If he was alive, I can't do those bad things in his presence.
We were close when I was little. He died, 2005-6. When I wake up, i realise my foolish ways and confess my sins.

Passionate888:
Afonja's, very wicked set of people.. Thank God na most of them sha, not all.

Don't generalise. Each person will stand before God alone for judgment. Not in groups of tribes. Each person will account for his/her deeds ALONE.

Bidobado1:
Child of hate.. You should have been aborted.

Do you know that abortion is murder? You are murdering a human being that has not even had the chance to see daylight?
Do you know YOU were also inside your mother's womb?
Instead of writing foolish and sinful insults at each other, why not just drop the phone and go out to do some other activity?

manmoraskk:
Let take evil out of the people and they will be alright.

Take the evil out how?

oyi1:
This 2 niggers above me have denied me of my FTC for almost 6yrs on nairaland. There is God o

What exactly do you have to say? What is so important about you being the first to comment? This is an unhealthy addiction. Why not go and do something in the real world? Bake bread, iron clothes, clean your room/house. Physically help somebody with an activity instead of looking for a cheap virtual popularity by writing unchecked comments on your phone?

gypsey:
lies! i grew up in peckham, there are more jamaicans in peckham than Nigerians, it's just that Nigerians are more louder and more showy offy.


i know!

When, I lived and schooled in the UK, I kukuma ran away from all Nigerians cos I'm tired of our confusion.

Chileads:
I swear Nigeria will soon turn to Brazil. If you know you know

Where women go about nyash-free....
What were our foreMothers wearing before Oyibo came around to give us pant?

Pavore9:
Business idea for the discerning mind.

Everybody knows this. It isn't any complex mathematics.
The problem you will have is storage. I once lived in the UK. Those guys have refrigerated trucks. I mean Trailer. The refrigeration keeps the food from spoiling. From the farm straight to the supermarket. Road is good. No porthole. No Abegero collecting money. No police particulars check point.
I know a guy who has refrigerated truck in Lagos. The compressor, engine. Everything spoilt. No money or expert to repair it.
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In Nigeria, we don't like or know how to repair complex oyibo machinery. We just give up and throw things away instead of setting up technical schools with tools to learn how to fabricate, manufacture and repair any kind of machine.

Hector09:
Na who church even help, i worship God bt i hate church

What you hate is Pastors.
Try to find out how church started. Trace the full history of Church by yourself. Do the research. Find the books to read, ask the questions. You will arrive at the correct church.
Many pastors know this, and they all pull their members attention from the correct church by promisinng them prosperity, money and wealth, earthly treasures, that do not satisfy the soul. Non of them can remove your sin becuase they do not have the power nor authority to do so and this leaves the followers deeply distressed and troubled.

enshy:
I agree with you perfectly. They are all spiritually dead.

Because he mentioned your church's name...

toluxa1:
Alot of ignorance in his talk. Also shows a spiritual shalowness. People who have lost or are losing relationship with God talk like this and try to cover up that unclothedness by telling you God s everywhere including your bedroom, all that matters is personal connection bla bla. Lies!
Deep down, they know they have no connection. By their fruits you shall know....
A person truely drawn to God has a strong longing for the presence and tabernacle of God. The moment you lose it, you sin more often, you hardly pray, no worship life etc.
If you don't want attention go to a big Bible believing church. Nobody will call you out in Livingfaith, RCCG, Dunamis or Deeper Life. Stop making excuses.

Stop advertising your church.
Let those who are losing faith find their way to the right church.

I know of only one church which does not care about who is rich or poor.
Everybody sits on thesame bench. Everybody is given thesame spritual instructions. They don't beg you for Tithe. You can attend in slippers or Gucci shoes. The door is always open. The ushers will never drag you to any seat. If you like sit at the front, if you like sit at the back.
The pastor is not worhipped. He only wears one cloth. He doesn't have house in any village and no personal property. You attend the Church to worship God. If you like pay attention, if you like be browsing your phone. The pastor will only let you know, that exactly what you reap on earth here is what you will sow. If you have spiritual problems, go and see him. He is only a vessle of God. He does not collect money for anything and at any time, the Bishop can remove him from that church and send to another church without any notice. Church is not his property. It is God's property.

Truflame:
This is why people should think twice before they send negative remarks on social media. Stay away from bully. Many people may not be in good mood to handle negative remark or criticism.

Someone, the lady who accused him of rape is guilty, intact she murdered the young man if truly the man did not rape her

Social media is a two sided fruit. On one hand, eat it like any other fruit and be healthy. On the other had avoid it like that fruit God told Adam and Eve Not to eat. It will be there, look at it. But don't touch.
It is up to your wisdom to know what to do. I feel bad for the furniture guy, becuase he is not 100% on his phone like some lazy youth. At least he has workshop, can keep his phone aside and do something physical with his hands to take his mind off the phone.

higgs:
People should stop taking rape allegations so seriously. If someone is accused of rape,he should be presumed innocent until proven guilty. The onus of proof lies on the accusers.

Nigeria is even better with our jagajga setup. Overseas, they will put your name in newspaper, you will fill forms, No employer will employ you again. Your name will be spoilt.
Nigeria, after 1 week, everybody don forget your case, begin curse nepa and government as before.

Sirheny007:
Sometimes,
I have deep respect for people who committed suicide.

It not easy to contend with God and be in charge of your own death.

Committing suicide is simply telling God that he does not have any further plans for you.
Is that the attitude that you think will allow you enter Heaven and go and sit down with God and all the angels?
Your pride will not even allow you enter heaven. So where will you go?
The other place Na.
There is no middle. It's either you were on your way to heaven or you were on your way AWAY from heaven.

Omeokachie:
I am rather amazed your people never conducted a DNA test despite all the telltale signs.

Alapata, oya food us ready.

This is exactly what politicians like. People fighting each other. Insulting and cursing each other. No solidarity.
I recently watched a Mandela movie, and how he fought to relinquish power from the Whites and bring about a South Africa that is equal, where black people can sit in thesesame office, bus, shop street, as white people.
What I noticed most was that all the black people spoke either English or another Xosa (South African) Language. They were united in speech and understanding. They never argued with each other, NO. Only against the WHITES, their oppressors.

stankezzy:
The issue here is that there are always an agreement between the seller and the buyer but we all know that now the world is a global village , they the outside world know very well what is happening in most countries even in nigeria , if u decide to choose an uneducated and un qualified leader and does not respect the rule of law , how do u think that anybody will take u serious? The way u take ur self is d way people will take u , I can't imagine USA , ghana even sout Africa exporting something to them and they deal with them like this , it is almost impossible

Then why did we(you) choose an uneducated and unqualified leader? Does Nigeria not have the highest number of graduates and PHD holders in the world? Why are educated people choosing idiot to lead them? Maybe the Educated people are also stupid and shallow minded. OR they are just afraid to sit in power and lead others.

wink2015:
THIS IS A LESSON TO OUR POLITICAL LEADERSHIP WHO MISUSED CRUDE OIL MONEY WHICH OFFER US A CHEAP AND EASY ALTERNATIVE TO AGRICULTURAL EARNINGS.

WE WILL GET THERE WITH BETTER SUPPORT FROM THE GOVERNMENT.

Nigeria is so far behind western world. The moment cheap crude oil money lands our pocket, the FIRST THING is to buy shoe, watch, phone, car. Luxury goods. Intstead of production equipment for these goods. We want to measure up to western world by having and wearing fancy luxury gadgets.
The best thing would have been to send [spies] into Europe to learn all their production techniques and equipment, then return to Nigeria and show us how to replicate such goods here. Chinese and Japanese did this. They never knew how to make cars (Toyota etc). The dub/copied everything from America.

teemy:
The bad side of the chain of produce delivery here is our manufacturing costs are high especially due to power. At the end, our prices kick up.
The world is a competitive customer ground. We have to do better or get left behind.

The solution to all this is infrastructure. Roads, railway, electricity and maintenance.
But more important, I feel that any time the Government sets out to fix these infrastructure, villages, chiefs and upset youth hijack the projects, demand compensation.... This all leads to the costs going up. I cry because If I was a village chief, dying in hunger, probably I too would hikack govt project that crosses my land.
All villagers in Nigeria need employment, productions facilites, be it toothpick or iron rod. When everyone is busy, then they stop disturbing govt projects and infrastructure gets built to improve efficiency of other products.

MCMXCVIII:
Chai!
Even awa own cashew is suffering racism.
What did it do to Vietnam?!!
Racist!!

You're trying to be funny?
Well, we produced the cashew in an inefficient way which led to high cost of production. Probably other nations plant and harvest with some robot/drone automated something that brings down production cost. It will take a while for our production costs to come down.

Triangles1:
Only the poor reason this way

You sound like someone who gains his wealth in a questionable manner.

BENSIR:
How can you be too mad to stab your neighbour to death? Even if devil is using you can't you pause and have a rethink? Rip to the decease

If only Eve had paused and had a rethink.
That is why we pray the Lords prayer, "... And deliver us from every evil".