₦airaland Forum

BornnAgainChild:
Husbands of nowadays really need to be tutored by their dad seriously cos this wife beating is getting out of hand.

There's nothing the dad can do.
Husbands beat wife's because they are frustrated that they cannot provide for the woman.
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they make the mistake of sitting inside the house WORRYING about it from morning till night.
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They expect the woman to keep quiet while they use her to release sexual pressure.
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There's a correlation between a man being stressed up and wanting to release tension through sexual intercourse.
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The woman will nag due to the abject poverty she finds herself and being used as a sexual baggage by the man.
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Hence the man will get even more stressed up and beat shagay out of the woman.
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The reason why the old parents cannot help is because during their time, 1960, 1970, things were good and they earned better salaries than today 2018. They were able to provide for even 10 wives. They were never stressed up.
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Today we are all carry android phone and laptop. But this is the most poverty stricken and wretched generation that ever roamed the earth.

The solution is for the man to physically leave the house. Stay in church, stay in office. BEG God job.

1234IKECHhukwu:
See as u de talk well paying job,well paying job as if it is something that u just go there & it 'll be given to u.Dude nobody owes u anything it is ur duty to create ur own well paying job,from which ever means u dimfit.

Exactly what I am saying.
Whether, they give you job or you give yourself job, DON'T put woman inside your house if you are not doing well. Because you will definitely beat her up when she starts to notice no money and starts complaining.

loveliveshere:
That is if their fathers were properly groomed by their own fathers too. If a man is a serial wife beater, he will definitely train another serial wife beater. And it goes on like that.
Until the family structure is restructured, we will always have a demoralized society.

The only reason a man beats his wife is because he isn't earning enough to take care of the family and does not know how to earn more.
If the dad beat his mum, the dad was never doing a well paying job in the first place. Now the son follows the Dad's footstep and takes up a low paying job. He will definitely breakdown under financial pressure plus nagging and beat his own wife.

The key here is, go and get a well paying job. Never marry a wife as a type of substitute for an inability to get a better job that earns well. You are going to beat that woman when your money finishes.
Hold your sexual urge. Hold it.

SAMBARRY:
Now you see the disadvantage of marrying broke a55 niggas

He was not broke when he married her.
Things can change. He lost his job. Nobody wrote that story on Nairaland. He has been looking for a job. Nobody wrote that part here.
I only blame him for sitting inside the house listening to nagging from morning to night.
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You, pray that your husband never loses his job because that is something you cannot predict.

Toosure70:
Nice pics. Wives stop nagging

Sheybe it is when you carry nyash and siddon inside the house that you will hear the nagging? If you are outside the house, you won't hear the nagging.
If things are tough, go out. Sleep inside church/mosque/office. Till you get a job. Dont just go and relax inside the house, browsing phone. You will end up beating up your wife.

afilaka:
compatibility is key in a marriage. sorry ma'am.

This is not about compatibility.
The man is poor. No money to take care of his family. Maybe he lost his job and is not able to get another job. Sha no money.
PLUS
He is sitting inside the house UPSET daily.
The woman is complaining daily over and over and over. The man lost his temper.
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I would advice the best thing, the man should have GONE OUTSIDE THE HOUSE. Roam about and look for work. Or sleep outside or Beg outside.
Don't ever sit inside the house with your wife if you have no work. She will complain and you will certainly beat her up.

Go OUT.

NAIRAND215:
why so much debt these days

Becuase of salary.
You can manage N20,000 for yourself.
Immediately you employ 1 or more staff, EVEN THOUGH you are not producing or selling ANYTHING to make any money, you automatially owe your staff monthly salary till thy kingdom come.
This is the foolishness of Nigerian government. It employed so many people without producing any thing. The people are just carry stappler and A4 paper inside office and now the government owes everybody salary and pension forever.

Ayoswit:
Hmmm, they look scary.

One pocket knife with you, and all 3 dogs are finished.

ariesbull:
Nigerian engineers are daft ! Reading book and their society of engineers ...lifeless


No invention
No patent
No hands on experience

All books books...thank lord we have the Asians building our thing for us because we can't depend on Nigerian engineers and also we have the guys at Aba and Nnewi helping us out with their technical support

Hoping on Nigerian engineers would be detrimental

You people don't give us chance.
You are racist.
Nigerian engineers are black.
Every other imported product comes from white skinned people.
You would rather support white skinned people by purchasing imported products than support Black, Nigerian engineers.

Face it. You are racist.

sosidauto:
wanted to be a mechanical engineer but I ended up becoming a mechanical parts Seller

So far you can pay your house rent and marry responsibly.

Sirwallace:
well I am AJAYI SAHEED OLADEJI. A graduate of mechanical engineering.

currently on NYSC scheme in Akwa IBom.

looking for career partners and cool friends that we can relate together on our future.

So when you are looking for friends you blurt out all your 3 names? Have you tried introducing yourself to a babe you met on the road like this?
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Besides this is a public forum where anonymity is key. It's not like there is any FORM here that you are filling with all these details.

Na wa o.
Go and learn how to introduce yourself to strangers/potential business partners Or else you'd be seen as some ackward desperate guy and the stranger will just run away.

dan900:
na wa . this the reason some people don't like to order stuffs online..

If earning N3k daily is not too small for you. Holla me. Let me open your eyes to empty carton biz. You can do it from anywhere. Holla me NOW. Check my signature for contact. It is so sweet.

STUFF has no plural. It is already a plural word.
You don't add S at the end the word.
Stuff is stuff.

ponti93:
Sometimes i wonder which is worse b/w the nollywood movies that hit the cinemas and those that don't... The difference is mostly camera and costume. Seeing a nollywood movie at the cinema is a waste of money, time and intellectual exercise.

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SaintHilary:
Just like black panther... overrated
3k still paining me till tomorrow

I never rushed to watch black panther. I just waited for all the noise to calm down. And still, 6 months later, the movie wasn't fantastic AT ALL. Black men, wearing spandex and giving excuses why Africa has not been developed since all this time. Nonsense.

overdrive:
wow.i am overwhelmed with emotions.

Is that so? They should save Nonso because Ireland wants to deport him back here to Nigeria his home land,
Save abi?
We who are here nko? Should they not come and save us?
I'm not understanding this your ajayi emotions.

Princeofnigeria:
I tell you bro

God save us in Jesus name

But Jesus asked what is your gain if you earn the whole world and lose your soul?
So be wise when working hard and make sure you are always right with God so that if BS as this happens at anytime you will land in heaven and be the winner at the end.

dollarathe:
naija will only improve when the youth know that there is nothing to gain from throwing jibes at each other along ethnic and religious belief. we suffer together while the leaders enjoy the loot together.

There is something called tradition. And until all the youth learn how to marry wives/husbands WITHOUT BOWING DOWN TO traditional demands by Elders (who are not doing ANYTHING for the progress of the nation) then all we are doing here is making noise.

Each time (BECAUSE OF TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE) the youth go backwards to the elders in their villages, Nigeria does not move forward.

AleAirHub:
Same thing happened to me at age 22yrs

What about when you were 21 and 23 years?

holluphemydavid:
I tink dem no sleep for d hotel wey NFF booked for dem, say Nigeria dey fetish, their father

Don't mind them. Stupid people. Na sleep full their eye. Nonsense shakara don show them.

Osagyefo98:
The problem is...is the woman a witch?

Then problem is who is the bastard that saw her on the road and impregnated her, DESPITE she is a witch?
F***ing idi0t man.

deebrownneymar:
Please why do most users of the 1st generation M-class e.g ML320, ML350 etc always drive without using A.C.? Is it that the A.C. easily develops fault and expensive to repair or that it consumes a lot of fuel? Who can help answer this?

Cars are old. Parts are old and worn. No longer being produced by the whites. The whites have all moved on to newer cars, and electric cars.
We the blacks, cannot manufacture spare parts. And nowhere to import spare parts from. So no AC.

Igboho100:
You talked like a 7 year old kid.so,car is an achievement and a sign of 'living a good life'
And anyone who doesn't have one is not successful and not living a good life?oga,u urgently need to service not your car,but your brain.

In the Bible, Pharaoh of Egypt was pursuing the Israelites upandan until he was swallowed by the Red Sea. He used a CHARIOT - wheels. This was more than 4000 years ago.
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No single wheels in Nigeria then.

The Europeans have been riding carriages since whenever up till at least 1900 before cars became mainstream.

No single carriage in Nigeria. No wheels, no bicycle, no wheel barrow. Nothing. Everybody waka-ing inside bush. Ask all the elders in your village.
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Until white men brought complete finished cars to Nigeria from 1900 upwards before we even saw what is called WHEELS.

Today, we are making mouth with cars. We never put any effort into making even ONE WHEEL.
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Front and back
We don't known where the front is again. I miss this feature very much.

Cr7sBabe:
Funny enough, if Rihanna gets to know her, she might really appreciate her.

Americans that all do dental work to correct their teeth. They won't waste time to do plastic surgery to erase the marks on this girl's face.

How to build toilet.
You need it seriously.
Water tank, pipes, toilet, septic tank.

kindnyce:
Some moments you feel proud to be a Nigerian.
This is one of such moments.

These people are so sick of Nigeria that they entered plane and RAN AWAY.

These people are 200% DEPENDENT on whitemen to keep them alive. What "independence" are they celebrating? Daft

Chidex2442:
mine is noodles..... when I knew the seasoinig had large amount of monosodium glutamate. (MSG) A carcinogen.

Don't add the seasoning.
So what is your next problem? Let's solve it.

Excallibur:
See as we are denying our own delicacies because the are made with bare hands forgetting that globaly celebrated wines are grapes crushed with bare feet

Don't mind all these bush people trying to form Oyibo more than Oyibos themselves.

Mariangeles:
You can never tell...

So how many people have died after eating donkwa?

Olalan:
Nigeria school feeding programme is a scam just a channel to loot govt funds.

Whom are the looters?
Nigerians also.

Soon
Please when is "soon-O-clock"?

dazzlingd:
Oga airline no fit pass 18 to 27k depending on how fast you book. You village peeps should stop making a deal out of flight. It's ridiculous, its no big deal at all

Village peeps? Curse them well.
Shey when you want to marry, you will go to the same village peeps and lie down on the floor rolling in dust to appease all their demands.

Curse them well o. They will increase the punishment of traditional marriage.