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The husband looks mean ...i wont be surprised, if she escaped from his mean attitudes towards her and the children... His face is not helping matters, at all

No...his family should sponsor him.

As for me, am not interested in checking, asking of code or using his phone...He can lock his phone with numerous codes, no wahala.. everyone needs their privacy, i need mine,well!...and the last thing i need is high bp, if i come across sumthn disturbing in his phone..i want to believe, i can trust him and he shud trust me too..i hate clinging...nah, no use...i value my peace of mind at home and at work..

He don enter.... ...to cheat is not easy...phewwww...!

For real, a lady proposing to a guy is just waiting to either be used, then dumped later or stylishly ignored... Nija men liver no strong reach to accept such women, when it comes to marriage..They are not american men ooo....I will rather be a single mum than propose to a nija man. ...hell NO!

Foooooollllllllllllll, in the highest order

Such is life, but it takes a strong woman, who values herself to move on.

Its not easy climbing most of those bridges oooo... I nearly had a massive heart attack the day i tried it..the design of the bridges is not friendly at all, only very few, one can easily climb and drop from it... i dread the bridge like plague. I will rather take a bus going to the other side of the road... and if am down with migraine or bodypains , i simply take a cab.. my heart nearly burst

its possible. I use to have a family friend, the husband contactd HIV after getting a very juicy job and juicy jeep car. He turned into a chronic womaniser, cud get any babe he so desires, until he startd falling sick with different ailments. The wife tried to cover up his illness, but unfortunately kidney failure was waiting for him , along the line. He went to see their family doctor, who diagonized him to have Hiv but if not quickly treated wil result to Aids. His kidneys stopped working, she was devastated when she heard. She flew him abroad, and that was where he died slowly in a private hospital. His numerous gfs were dying inturns, including his personal female secretary, that was always warming his bed in a guesthouse. The wife is hale and hearty, he stopped touching her, when big money started coming and then,babes were glueing his body like superglue. Aids is real, be wise. It can ravage anyone, it doesnt care about status..Be safe.

@efeme. maybe its herpes.. i dont know...but i will speak to her tonite to go for more STD tests

Sad, but i have a close cousin that is always infected with STDs from the husband..she says she is tired of the marriage..she is faithful but every time her private itches her after few weeks of sex and taking medications from her doctor.

I guess the act of arrogance comes with the fact that the men or women in quote have a comfortable life, they have never imagined they could have . In past relationships, immediately i notice such standoffish behaviour, am off.. i dont waste time to lecture the guy why should he behave proud towards me?...its no use...when such behaviour is in the mindset, its hard to evacuate, thats why they continue , even in marriage.. If a guy or a lady is not humble , pls dont come close...nah, dont.. i dont need the stress.

Highly dangerous having a favourite...wrong move in the family, and when the parents are gone.. War starts between the kids bad act.. Even my female friend says , she and her other younger brothers know clearly that their eldest blood brother will drive them out of their dad house and inheritance because he was not loved as much as their dad loved her and her two younger ones... so their eldest brother Resents them.. And their dad foolishly shows it.. she had to speakup during a family meeting.

Real daft comment, when i hear pple say that trash. Just take a look at Lagos, the magnificent buildings around, are all owned by pple from other states.. sorry to say, a typical lagosian is born lazy. On christmas moments, lagos is always deserted with most pple going back to their villages to relax and be with families.. na that time, u will understand who makes lagos city, bubbly.

he is becoming too obsessed with his looks and himself...

honestly i cant place my fingers on it....i guess deep down, av become scared of d whole setup , i see these days in marriage.

with experience, i will say ugly guys could be more interesting, and engaging in chats and also attentive, loving and they spend their hard earned money on fyne babes. Pretty guys or fyne guys could be so self centered with their looks and stingy too.. so with time, pretty girls have come to realise that fact. So they are sticking with ugly guys than fyne guys.

It happens, sha...believe it or not..shit happens

hell....NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO......after the same ladies will say the guys used them ..why wont he use u, for christ sakes...U r easy peasy... and he gets the koko free both early in the morning, afternoon and nite , then she washes his laundries, irons his clothes and she is there hoping to get married to him... for crying out loud,and most cases it doesnt end in marriage and if it does through maybe having kids immediately to trap the guy, it will be a loveless and sexful union ... i taya, for mindsets , sha

Just buy a washing machine,and there will be no hassle.. I work everyday,come home tired even weekends too, except sundays..i had no choice than to get a washing machine with dryer.. so washing his clothes is not an issue...dump it in the washer and dryer, then few mins, they are clean..easy peasy ...no hassle, no quarrel about washing his clothes. ..everyone is happy.

sorry, but is it only garri, u guyz eat? .....with all these craze about price of garri...as if its medicinal....smhhh

run speed?..pls how?

the four of them...but i prefer the last girl, looks like moi, my tiny version...so cute and lovely...muah!

thanks Beync, oh i definitely will...cant be too careful , though...so its ok to date and possibly marry one of them if i eventually like what i see?...its some how, sha...this is the first for me, though... i blush seriously for weeks in my office, if i end up with one...Baba God, na your hand i dey o.

@olas2u, i sure know its not easy getting to know one well... i will also ask my workers more personal questions, abt them... i hope to God, they tell me the truth.

@ beync, without blowing my trumpet, i can be too good to be true..but am shy...as if i cant make right choices in guys that come to me...hmmm, i even told the 2nd lady that i hope she wont laugh at me , that av fallen for her uncle if we start dating and i agree to marry him. She just shook her head and said, nope with a straightface, that its life, for such things like this to happen...i intend seeing them this week, separately as friends, ask them questions and see how it goes..
please wish me luck...cos i need it, phew!

Hello guys and babes, am here again but unsure ... my employees, two females want to matchmake me with, one her elder brother who is single and wants a good wife and the other her uncle whose wife died after one yr of marriage through natural causes and he has been wary of women... they introduced them to me , on different occassions in the guise of consulting. Then later, they both came to me differently that their brother and uncle like me and will i please think abt dating them. the two of them do not know they asking me of the same request. Although, I like the uncle of the 2nd one, but is it ok?
i feel abit shy, sha for my workers to get a guy in their family to marry me....is right ?...pls matured answers, abeg.