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My life and the reason am still breathing...God, i love you

Nice write up,... Mothers are also women and priceless..miss u. mama.

Hello
guys, the 5 pointers the poster mentioned of, is so true. I am a living
testimony of being a successful enterprenuer with all sense of modesty.
I started from scratch by following the first rule of knowing your skill
and acquiring it. I graduated from a good state university, 7years ago.
Immediately i was done with school. i decided to followup my true
passion in an aspect of art and creativity. My mum knew about it, since
when i was little and she could see my vision. So she had no issue ,
sponsoring me on an extra yr, to learn the craft.I came out in flying
colours, but scared of facing the world and showcasing my talent.
Then she bullied me, into taking the bull by the horns , saying she
believes i can sell my services, and in what way do i wish to sell it?
Which category of pple am i selling to? what type of platform, will be
ok to start with? I thought deeply about it, gave her the details in
2weeks. She gave me , her own ideas as well, then she shakes her head
and says you are ready...She went ahead, rented an 2bedroom office space
for me, looked at me in the eyes, as she was giving me the keys of the
office and said...Dont fuckup . i trust u will do well. I sighed ,
i said yeah ,i guess am now ready for the world .
When i started people were sceptical to trust and patronise me,
except customers that that were in dire need of my services, and ready
to trust blindly. I gave it my all and also prayed to Baba God to crown
it with success.
The few people , i started with, loved what i had to offer and how i
delivered. It was totally different from other competitors. The few
ones, doubled . I then advertised online, talking on different forums
about my skills. Then my client base doubled, tripled...I was in money
..
Alot of people , were getting to know and amazed on my skills and my
age.. Most clients get to love and trust me on our first meetings, and
everything fell in place.
I saved money, bought more equipments, re brand and repackage my
product all over again.. Contracts started coming, it has been very
hectic but rewarding.. And i will say, since then...i had to cause to
regret... i live so comfortably like a married woman. ..
I thank God, sha..... God is good... and God bless my mum , a million
folds..She is a bully but she is my angel
You can still make it, if only you try.

Mum and Dad are too busy, trying to make a living.. thats the price, society pays when both parents are so engrossed with work.

There is no underlying issues, especially when one partner washes their dirty laundry,especially to frnds, neighbours and family. And possibly getting bad advise from either one of them , then using it on her, without reasoning..its logical in my eyes... Have heard from a reliable source, how a man hired guys to kill his mother, because a native doctor , he went to meet for consultation , on why he is still poor at the age of 35, then says his mother is a witch and she was responsible for his younger brother's death. He didnt even wait to listen to the rest of the native doctor story, he ran out of the place , got thugs to kill his own mother.. so he can be free from the poverty surrounding his life.. Can u beat that? .... so its deadly having a partner who listens to what people say, and confides in them instead of u.. very unhealthy.

no offense intended, but all the babes are fugly and look wornout...oops!

I know , she faked her pregnancy and her baby is delivered through a surrogate. if you like believe the belly twisting stuff , i mentioned or not..it didnt stop her from having her baby and i didnt post my reply for someone to make research on.. Just said, what i noticed on her interview, abt her baby bump being fake.. and also wonder , why on heart she shud fake being pregnant. Well, she has baby now, that has no trace of her looks ..

@ debrief, abi o.... i was also laughing too, when she was telling me, with all sense of anger. And that she is now thinking of safeguarding her husband,and future more...especially her future, just incase ..it is wa on sum pples mentality.

OP, dont be petty.

Its just like a friend of mine , married lady says she and her husband were thinking of how to tell the husband younger brother that his frequents visits in their house is too much and that they need their privacy. Her husband told his younger brother to reduce his visits. The younger brother just flared up, that he wont reduce anything, and that his sweat is in their house and hope they remebered when he supervised the painting of their sitting room, bedrooms , kitchen and infact outside walls, when they , the couple where at work. So he has every right to be in their house!... my friend quickly readjust her mindset about him, and concludede in her mind, that her husband"s younger brother is her enemy in disguise and she has to be very watchful and prayerful. Cause if anything bad happens to her husband, God forbid, the brother will not hesistate to fling her out, to claim their home,be cause he helped in supervising the painting... His 10kobo is not in the building of that house o...he is claiming equal right..

Ay try.. he knows he good woman when he sees one, irrespective of her beauty. Its good, comedians, celebrities are marrying pretty women as ordinary guys dey fear to marry us ....its a good development..when i hear guys say they will never marry a pretty woman, but will have them as gfs, i just shake my head.. what a sign of low esteeem.. Carry go, Ay!

why most people troop to Lagos, is due to buisness oportunities.. buisness abounds everywhere in lagos. take a look at d environment and figure out wat pple need most, and yur product will sell.. buisness wise, it pays to stay in lagos for some period of years.

True word@ oyb...gbam!..tell them.

handsome + confidence= goes a quick way for moi.

I love monalisa ...so beautiful....yeah, go girl!

hello No..! is he God?

Na 2day? If she likes she can date bill clinton's son, thats if he has one though .....always hyping their relationship... u will be surprised , he is a unilag guy from an average background....next!

Definitly looks matters for moi .....then character next.. i dont joke with those two items......

Being single at 30, or early thirties is not a crime nor a curse , or better still nothing to be ashamed of..Everyone has their time to be married with kids. I have two frnds, the 1st got married at the age of 24 to a loving guy but its going to 7yrs now, no kids....not even one child...She looks so slim with worries written under her eyes.. She scared that her husband could have given in to family pressures and impregnate another woman, then come home smiles and speak so relaxed that she shouldnt worry that God's time is the best. The husband is even getting more robust everyday . While my 2nd frnd, had been waiting to get married and she got hitchd early last yr at the age of 34yrs to a guy of her age too , she became pregnate 2months into the marraige, they have baby boy now, after one yr of marraige..She and her husband are so relaxed , happy doing their things. She even asked abt our 1st frnd, if she now has a baby. Cause she has not seen her for a long while due to adjusting to married life.
I simply told her, do u think its easy having babies..my dear, just thank God for your own , her time to be a joyful mother will come. She kept quiet and said amen o...
There are alot of single guys and babes either at 30 or mid 30's still prepapring for the right tyme...its never too late at 30

I dont believe his story.... Actors of guild not supporting him and Inlaws are against him... Only Him, his dead wife and God knows the honest truth, if he is innocent....nah dont trust him.

I thot people were saying all the good responsible men are married ....and that wat we have left is just bfs not husbands...Dont even know the difference anymore...well, married men change your ways or else God will change it, with repercussions .

Nice one!... its relieving to be true to oneself...some people aint cut out for marriage and it sure works for them..yeah!

Kuylie o...kuylie o....kuylie o...how many times did i type yur id name ...please let issues of other ppple marital woes ,stop making u sad....or better still, i have a great idea ...occupy your eyes and thots with DSTV stations, i bet you.... u will laugh, smile and possible cry depending on wat yur watching...dont overwork yur state of mind...just chill....the unfortunate ones will find a way out...simple....smileeeeeeeeee

But wait o....poster, if u had actually raised your hands to beat your loving babe? Then sorry, its not her pastor that says she should lay off you..It was either her common sense or her mum or probably relative that warned her against marrying a wife beater. A man who raises his hands to beat a girl, no matter what will surely become a wife beater and God help such woman , later in life...if she marries him...work on yurself , dude.

Hello no....dont listen to their confused predictions...Most lie about it.. For, what? only them and God knows

Although, am not yet married ,and in a new relationship... i will say unflinching trust, love , communication ,loyalty..We are both coming in with fresh ideas and believe that we are both good until proven otherwise...

Nigerian wives/ husbands sabi deceive themselves, that all is well...But we all know the truth I pray not to fall in that trap of a loveless but enduring marriage,amen.

High blood pressure kills in a flash, if the person involved is not careful of his or her thots or emotions. Its a very deadly condition. Its sad she died , for a job and the bank goes on and everyone moves on..May her soul rest in peace and the Lord give the family the strength to bear the loss.