₦airaland Forum

People will continue to slide into depression when they continue to believe that life is expected to be perfect.

Life is hard and reality does always reflect expectation. When we realize this as individuals, we learn not to take things too personal.

If someone brake your heart, move on. It's humans nature to scheme. Don't take it personally.

This is why I stay off people who are overly emotional

How does this solve the problem of hunger in Nigeria?

This is the reason people do their wedding without inviting lots of people. Badmouthing someone publicly on her day of happiness is just evil

I hope the couple see this and know the kind of snake you are

ahnie:
Yesterday I visited the mall to get toiletries, snacks and beverages for my gangs
It was an impromptu buying. I was actually dodging from buying it, but my gangs just wouldn't let me.

We got all we wanted, ate and arrived home with our loots.

I was trying to fit all we bought inside the kitchen, when I heard the voice of a neighbor, like she stays 2 compound away from mine.

She's a widow who recently lost her husband to the cold hands of death this year (June) precisely and saddled with the lone responsibility of taking care of her 3 lil boys
She came to buy fufu (akpu) for her sons to eat.

I don't know what prompted me, I invited her inside my pavement, then slashed my loots into 3 places then gave her 1 part including a crate of egg idling away.

She started crying ,father lawd I was confused the more, you needed to see the joys in her face.

I knew my kids needed those things badly, but here was a woman who needed it more than us.

I have planned gifting her 2 paints of rice during Xmas period to put smiles on her face. May God make things easier for every one of us.

The economy is hard at the moment, but let's try and help one another. People are going thru alot, it takes the grace of God for some people to even afford 1 square meal.

Hers was pics 1.
Pics 3&4 for my gangs


Pics 2.....my boy refused sharing his and he held on to his loot

God bless you

YourBestWriter:
Guys good morrow to you all.

So it's going to be my 39th birthday next year and I still don't have one Kobo in my bank account. Still under my parents roof and no job. In a scale of 1 to 10, what are my chances of making it in life?

10

UnusualEmissary:
Look out for women.

Guard yourself concerning women. Otherwise, you will spend the money you are supposed to purchase the car with on women and you will end up not having a car.

Or you will buy the car finish and when it starts to attract women to you and you give in to such temptations, you end up destroying your life.

Na wa oh. Wetin woman do you

The wife self. Just image what she discovered from her dream.

DSS1335:
A minor according to our constitution is any child below the statutory age of 18. They are still going through the adolescent phase of maturity. They are incapable of making rational decisions. Sleeping with such a child despite her consent is called a statutory rape within the context of our legal frame work. He risks 14 years imprisonment. That is the only hope i have now to hold the boy and his family on their jugular. That young girl must not suffer alone. So i don't care whatever method i deploy to ensure that they take responsibilities

Same constitution that recognises marriage of underaged children. Please, don't destroy the lads life because you have the means. Talk to his family, I am sure they will not reject their child

I hope the new orderlies escorting him now will demand bullet proof vehicles too

Oga, it's none of your business. It's his choice not yours. If you don't like the idea move out. Same applies to your mum.

Registeredguest:
I'm a lady in my mid- twenties, I got married aged 22, (always wanted to marry early) on the second year of our marriage we were blessed with a baby, parked to our house and things were rosy. I have always been a workaholic due to that I have never lack as a young lady in terms of finance.

I have always helped him in his house projects, might not be much 100k, 50k, 20k when need be. I never siphoned my money to myself, as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head, (3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)

Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that we should buy it together, I told him no, I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it, (just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller.we did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.

After some weeks, I decided to dig around his phone then I discovered that the account I sent the 600k to, refunded 200k back to my husband, woke him up instantly I demanded for an explanation.he story no make sense. I was heartbroken, for months I was hurt...the two families got involved and settled the issue.money I no see...

Ever since this issue happened,the home has not been peaceful, fighting everyday. I find it so difficult to forgive him. I insult him, he insults me, he broke my phone, I break his door...I was demanded for an apology he says
"I'm his wife, no be today man dey collect him wife money, he say woman go build house for him husband no ear no go hear" those things hurt me more... everyday was fight, I parked out,I went to my sister's place,he didn't call, he didn't reach out.

3 weeks after I parked I discovered I was pregnant,and informed him immediately through text.i stayed at my sister's place for 2 months no word from him... I decide to rent my own place,I rented a place and went to his house to park my remaining stuff,I meet him home,as soon as he sees I came with a truck to park my things he knelt down and started begging me...I was like,na today I commot for your house why now? He say he think say I dey play, he no think say I serious like this,for good two months you didn't say anything why now...with enough dragging I parked my things to my new rented apartment... since the day I park till now this man has not allowed me rest,his family members has been calling me to come back home, his dad came from the village to plead on his behalf.


My dad is insisting I should not go back...I'm now 6 months pregnant ,I need a father in my children's life.im finding it difficult to forgive him,I'm struggling within myself to forgive and trust this man again.

How can I let go of the past and move back with him...I decided to pay him a visit on Friday,he was happy I came,he did everything possible to show me he has changed but that feeling of betrayal and hurt is there.i left there this morning with querrell,I know I started the querrell,but I can't just seem to forgive him.please I need your help and advice on this pressing issue of mine.

No insult please, I have cried enough.

Na wa. Just ontop 200k, you are willing to destroy your family. Continue.

abdulskulboy:
Prior to the APC presidential primary election, I never thought I would ever support or even love Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu like I did today.

I fell in love with him due to the humility displayed by his wife, our next first lady InshaAllah, pastor Oluremi Tinubu when she greeted President Buhari after Asiwaju's victory.

The kind and humble gesture alone triggered my mind toward them.

May BAT succeed. May God grant him the wisdom to move our country forward.

High service you mean?

First mistake you made was allowing her insult you and your mum to the point of you crying, simply because you gave your money to your sister.

Also, you had evidence that she cheated and yet you allowed her back in your life. In some traditions/culture you would be dead and gone already by this single act.

I am really scared for your safety at this point. Just let her go with her baby.

It quite sad that the good guys are always taken for granted. God will see you through.

Most of the Yahoo boys I know are extremely dedicated. You hardly see them faff around. If only they could channel that same energy into legitimate endeavours. There will be no limit to their success.

But Nigerians always ride on bandwagon

Na wa. With all the issues in Nigeria right now, people are busy discussing alpha males. ASUU still dey strike, Herdsmen still dey wreak havoc, prices of everything still dey up..



Go get your PVC and vote wisely.

Trash

mariahAngel:
Op, all those ingredients for just noodles?

That how you know a guy who doesn't cook always. Most times when such guys prepare meals, they focus on the present meal only.
A woman will consider this as waste because she will be very much concerned with utilizing the items to prepare this and many other meals.

The Simp still dey call the public toilet baby. Who dey train all these half men?

Is this not the same woman that called an APC senator a wolf in sheep clothing when the senator was agitating about the incessant killings in different parts of the country?

Madam you are a greedy fellow just like your husband. You can never be a voice for the voiceless

Though I have never been a fan of the British monarchy and don't give any fu*ks about any of them. I think her tweet is just unacceptable for someone in her position.
She is a global citizen and a mentor to many people from different parts of the world. No eyebrow would have been raised if the same tweet was made by a professor in any local university.
Though some parts of her tweet were statement of facts. I believe the delivery was full of hate. She could have stated the same facts with a delivery of hope and reconciliation.
I see her losing her job and her position as no institution would want to associate with that level of hate.

Baba why beg na? If you could do the crime, then do the time with a bright smile as well. It's all part of the hustle. Abi no be him dey smile for that photo?

Abdu81:
Old picture they took in an event, shettima was constantly having meetings with this very terrorist negotiator.

Omo let's be honest, look at all evidences linking shettima to terrorism not one not two even three evidences.

Do know that the chibok girls secondary school school principal later served as one of shettima s commissioner after the girls abudction?

Shettima is simply evil.
Politics asides, how can a human enjoy killing fellow human?
And now he wants to take powers.

Sense dey your head

What's meant to be sacred for only her husband is now in public domain.

How does a sensible man end up marryi a woman like this?

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
Bendel insurance my niggar


But Nigeria league is very funny sha


Home team dey hardly lose

If not refree and away team go suffer beating

No joke. I saw a match between crown FC n Insurance where the ref gave three penalties against Crown FC in extra time. The that was the last time I went to the stadium to see any Nigeria club.

oikirodah:
Source iReporteronline.
https://ireporteronline.com.ng/blog/odogwu-kashim-shettima-tears-the-internet-with-latest-south-east-attire-photos/

APC is a Muslim party. Take this to religion section

Take this to right section. BAT already said Christians all over Nigeria are incompetent. Do channel this post approximately to the people that are competent

Learn how to say NO. I hate yes men

donmelinga:
In the short Video, a young boy named Chibuike from Anambra state creatively constructed this duplex with plywood for the base, cardboard papers and cartons for the structure and aluminium sheet for the overhead tank. He also introduced the wiring system and swimming pool too. This is really Amazing

Please share this picture around so that he can go viral.

How can I upload the video, someone should help. Thanks

Just seeing the design, I knew this is from an Igbo person. I don't understand why they always build multiple buildings in the same house. Then when you ask for their address, they tell you Chief Chibuike's compound

Bro the issue is not with any of you. The economy is terrible. 63k is too small to take care of one person let alone 2 adults and a child.

Let her be with her people. Send her monthly stipend and use your time to learn an IT skill like data analysis. It might be hard but nothing comes easy.

Bottom line. Build yourself

God1000:
This is hair raising, this man was in power between 1993-1998 and only him stole this much.

Almost all our leaders both past and present at the federal, state and local levels have all stolen a lot from state coffers, the reason for Nigeria's underdevelopment.

https://www.facebook.com/660673490805047/posts/pfbid02bMsMYtzgLhMYhQWogXsodw9oUn1H4K3v2TCA4AH4sMwWECNNgyPMqAxxeqjynFTDl/?app=fbl

This is child's play compared to what Baba Sokpe has stolen in 21years

End time brother. Why can't he do yahoo himself?

etrouble:
Why are you in Lagos instead of in your useless state of origin if your state is better?

Very typical of APC leadership and members. Always divisive. Forget about State and address the issues i raised