Foreign Affairs › Re: RUSSO-UKRAINE WAR : See Stupendous Transformation In Bucha - Pics by Westerhoffe(m): 7:04pm On May 11, 2023 |
Before and after the war… War has never been good. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Young Men Bathing In River With Special Soap Sparks Speculations (video) by Westerhoffe(m): 7:01pm On May 11, 2023 |
 What most of them don't know is, if it works, it's because they are meant to be rich in life. But in haste, they pull it to themselves faster, only to be given death timing. |
Family › Re: Man Hospitalised After Beating From Wife by Westerhoffe(m): 6:29pm On May 11, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Man Hospitalised After Beating From Wife by Westerhoffe(m): 6:27pm On May 11, 2023 |
 Power changed hands? |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend's Family is now A Liability To Me. Man Cries Out by Westerhoffe(m): 6:26pm On May 11, 2023 |
Awww… eeeyaahh… sorry sir… what a sad story and headline.  People at times can be something else. Please whoever reads the write up should summarize it for me because I didn't read it. |
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Family › Re: Do You Make Someone Your Enemy When You Are Generous To Them ? by Westerhoffe(m): 6:13pm On May 11, 2023 |
sukkot: See at this point I don't understand most Nigerians anymore. Every time I offer a helping hand to Nigerians they turn to your enemy. I don't understand the dynamics behind it. The whole interaction just gets very awkward after that . It's like they hate you for " humbling " them. It never fails.
But the ones who have a pure friendly relationship with you? Are the ones you haven't given anything yet. So in my everyday life person to person I try to do charity because charity covers a multitude of sins and givers never lack.
So this is a recent case study. This young guy , a security guard was sent by the company to guard the house I stay. I would say about 19 years old. One night I went grocery shopping and I was going through the gate he runs over from across the street and told me he was hungry. So I said what does he eat ? He said he likes indomie . So I went to my place and brought out like 5 indomie and 3 soft drinks and 2 sardines and gave it to him. He thanked me.
Every 2 days when I go out I would do small grocery shopping for him. Indomie and biscuits and soft drinks sardine or bread. A few times when I go out to get bottled palmwine for myself I would get him palmwine or orijin beer he likes. But I started noticing his entitlement behaviour like on the days when I don't buy him anything he would time when I Am coming home and sit beside my door when he sees me carrying my own groceries and he would be looking at me like he is depressed. And he would Always be watching me to see if I am going grocery shopping and he would hang around the car to see if I would come out with grocery.
Let's just say this guy got ridiculously stalkerish and so I called him up 4 days ago and asked him has his salary being paid yet? He said yes. Because am thinking all these things he is doing because he is new on the job and has no money and is hungry so I put up with it for like a month.
But once he told me yes that he had being paid, I in a roundabout way told him I don't tolerate the stalking. That he doesn't need to be following me or waiting on me. Anyway since that day this guy just turned into an enemy. Someone who I have been buying groceries for for almost a whole month just turned hostile like that. Now all that time I was buying him grocery he would do ass kissing stuff like when I drop my black trash bag outside my door he would take it to the bin outside for me but since that day the guy just bone my trash bags lol.
Anyway the point here is this ? You create an enemy unknowingly out of those you help - not family members- because I think it is humiliating for them and they despise you for it, so if you are going to offer charity don't offer it to people you have to see on a daily basis. Just find a beggar in the street that you would never see again. Nigerians are funny, they beg you for money but they hate you for giving them that money especially if it is not a life changing amount.
It's like a guy I gave 5000 naira one time and he thought it was an insult, just a regular guy who I don't even know like that, God is my witness, which 5000 is no money but it was just for him to buy beer for the weekend, you can get 15 beers with 5000 when I gave it to him.
So out here on these streets you have to be savage. No more mr nice guy ooo lol. basically if you are not offering guys over 100k just forget it cuz they would hate you. look for a real beggar who would appreciate 5000 or 1000. In the Bible, JESUS CHRIST said: “Give to him that asketh thee, and from him that would borrow of thee turn not thou away.” — Matthew 5:42 (KJV)And He also said: “Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you.” — Matthew 7:6 (KJV)I believe this is enough to understand. |
Science/Technology › Re: 4Billion-Year-Old ‘Rock’ Smashes Into Family’s Bedroom In New Jersey, Still Warm by Westerhoffe(m): 10:44am On May 11, 2023 |
HappyPagan: Too old. But not old enough. When you don't have an appropriate answer about the age of GOD, then don't say anything. Your comment is derogatory. |
Politics › Re: HEY! HAUSA ARE ALSO SEEKING SELF-DETERMINATION & FREEDOM FROM FULANI! READ THIS. by Westerhoffe(m): 10:41am On May 11, 2023 |
We can't call this a Family Affair any longer because the family seems to be separating themselves now… May GOD help us. |
Science/Technology › Re: 4Billion-Year-Old ‘Rock’ Smashes Into Family’s Bedroom In New Jersey, Still Warm by Westerhoffe(m): 10:36am On May 11, 2023 |
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Celebrities › Re: Fair Skinned Beautiful Lady With Hairy, Bushy Chest Goes Viral by Westerhoffe(m): 10:33am On May 11, 2023 |
What happens to clearing them? What's the show off in this now? |
Sports › Re: 7 Interesting Facts About David Alaba's Sister Who Wishes To Speaks Yoruba by Westerhoffe(m): 10:29am On May 11, 2023 |
I'll teach you… but not free. 2 hours class each day, 5 days a week. |
Crime › Re: $268,000 Fraud: EFCC Arrests Yahoo Boy At His Luxury Hotel In Delta State by Westerhoffe(m): 10:21am On May 11, 2023 |
correctguy101: Nigeria get better image before? 
Even without them, your political magicians will always disgrace the country and rub mud for the white wey dey una flag.  If it's just mud, it can be washed. But it's blood that has stained the white in the flag. |
Crime › Re: $268,000 Fraud: EFCC Arrests Yahoo Boy At His Luxury Hotel In Delta State by Westerhoffe(m): 10:16am On May 11, 2023 |
southsouthking: Funny as it may sound, Nigeria is not even among the top ten countries with scammers. Argue with your keypad. Funny enough… |
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NYSC › Re: Nysc@50: Osun Holds Unity Walk To Commemorate Golden Jubilee by Westerhoffe(m): 8:11am On May 11, 2023 |
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Celebrities › Re: It's Not My Destiny To Work for Bishop Mike Okonkwo and Co... by Westerhoffe(m): 7:31am On May 11, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Journalist, Wife Welcome First Child After 11-years Of Marriage by Westerhoffe(m): 7:18am On May 11, 2023 |
Congrats man! Congrats. |
Crime › Re: Gunmen Burn Bus, Tricycle In Onitsha To Enforce Illegal Sit-At-Home by Westerhoffe(m): 7:16am On May 11, 2023 |
 Someone's source of livelihood cut off. Nigerians self… Only in Nigeria the poor will be inflicting more pains and hardship on the poor. |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi's Lawyer Explains Why Tinubu Must Be Sworn In On 29 May by Westerhoffe(m): 7:12am On May 11, 2023 |
 for those happy he'll be sworn in.  for those unhappy he'll be sworn in.  for those cool he'll be sworn in.  for those unbothered he'll be sworn in.  for those laughing at the whole election, dramas and processes.  for those saying, "Ntoorr" to those who said he won't be sworn in. Pick yours for free. Don't ask me mine… because I'm neutral. |
Politics › Re: Plastic Pollution: Why Can't Buhari's Government Do This? (pictures) by Westerhoffe(m): 7:05am On May 11, 2023 |
You can't find these kind of waste plastics anymore around! |
NYSC › Re: NYSC Is 50! Please Tell The World Where You Served. by Westerhoffe(m): 7:04am On May 11, 2023 |
Manigie: I served in Zamfara State, then there was nothing like banditry and Zamfara was a peaceful state and my allawee was #9800. Then Nigeria was still a beautiful country since ' most of the demons' were still in hell but now..... looks like devil himself is in Nigeria to supervise wickedness and killings and man's inhumanity to man....
In fact I pity corpers nowadays..... this is not the Nigeria we knew back then. This comment offed me. The last time Nigeria smelt peace of banditry was until 2008.  |
Politics › Re: Aisha Buhari Shows Oluremi Tinubu Around The Aso Presidential Villa (pix/video) by Westerhoffe(m): 6:55am On May 11, 2023*. Modified: 4:22pm On May 12, 2023 |
Hope the kitchen and the otheerrrrrrr place of somewhere are not included?  I believe you can't be confined to the kitchen and otherrr place…  treatise: TAKE CORRECTION, IT IS OZA ROOM Bros, I refuse to take that correction o… it's the otherrr place.  |
Politics › Re: OBI Can Never Be President Of Nigeria, He Is Irresponsible - OMOKRI Blasts Obi O by Westerhoffe(m): 6:54am On May 11, 2023 |
meditator: Yes, reasonable people still pay attention to him when he's saying the truth as he just did about the religious warlord. Religious Warlord you say? As in Jihadist or Crusader?  |
Phones › Re: I Got A Call From This Number 0912 992 2913 Today by Westerhoffe(m): 6:53am On May 11, 2023 |
Wagwanbrethren: Bad omen, what's that? I personally get some signs of bad omen if something bad is about to happen. Some people today just move about doing their things without observing anything. Try to notice signs, signals, omens. Some tell you of good things about to happen while some of bad things. |
Politics › Re: OBI Can Never Be President Of Nigeria, He Is Irresponsible - OMOKRI Blasts Obi O by Westerhoffe(m): 6:48am On May 11, 2023 |
cpu2006: That is what Reno was talking abt. You too want to insult Reno. See, you guys are causing damage to obi & it seem you dont know. OBI is having enemy on a daily basis & it may cause him of not being a president of Nigeria. Only you guys can not make him president. Learn how to play politices not insulting Elders bcs of Obi. That is my advise to you guys. You guys are free to insult me as well  If you don't understand my comments and its sarcasm, Oga rest o! I'm not a fan of anyone. Reno or no Reno, I don't know him and I don't need to insult him or anyone else. |
Politics › Re: Gunmen Leader And Gang Killed In Anambra State (Pics, Video) by Westerhoffe(m): 5:07am On May 11, 2023 |
1Alex: watch it on twitter They banned Twitter in Nigeria.  |
Autos › Re: Distress - Tokunbo 2016 Mercedes Benz Gle63s AMG V8 Bi-turbo - Duty Paid - 29.7m by Westerhoffe(m): 5:00am On May 11, 2023 |
 Argh! Baba GOD when? Errmmm… Oga, shey you get the one of ₦29.5? |
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Nairaland General › Re: One Month Stay In Dubai Or 5million Cash by Westerhoffe(m): 4:55am On May 11, 2023 |
₦5M cash… And I'll travel to and fro Dubai on First Class in 3 years. |
Politics › Re: Gunmen Leader And Gang Killed In Anambra State (Pics, Video) by Westerhoffe(m): 4:53am On May 11, 2023 |
Video is age-restricted like I said I wanted to watch it by force.  |
Sports › Re: REMEMBER HIM? : Clemens Westerhof Is 83 by Westerhoffe(m): 4:52am On May 11, 2023 |
Is that not Peter Rufai? |