Bola146:


Maybe you are the lady here, same same, asewo kobokobo , why would I be offended when I'm not a public toilet? A lady having sex with two best friends? Oloriburuku ma ni lady yen oooo She smells there are million of decent ladies out there who will never take nonsense nor double date! Why deceiving yourself? Why not call a spade a spade Na your type dey spoil female image Repent before it's too late! HIV and STDs are real! Kindly pity your parents

....and you are the decent lady?
Sorry about your problems in life.

Bola146:
But you slept with her or you raped her You didn't think of that before you accommodated her alone in the house, who does that? Who be the mumu lady self Your friend want to kill you because of public toilet All of you are I just pity the useless goat sleeping with two friends, haba! Wonders shall never cease It's a matter of time, your friend will soon come down if she never used juju on him. Go far away from your friend's area for now.

You can do better than this foul language.
If guys use such terms, we females feel offended. For a lady to call another lady 'public toilet', 'useless goat' etc.
That reflects poorly on you too.

Are you indebted and defaulted on the payment?
If not at access bank, any other bank?

IbnBattuta1960:
If he had an accident that left him paralysed, how would he be able to overpower a girl of 17 (as at that time)?

You underestimate the upper body strength of someone who has lost the ability to walk.

mabeni:
but she for at least talk to her daughter or commanded her to go and bring my food.

"Commanded"?

Ahmeduana:

Probably she played away match with an AS carrier!

Even an away match will not result in a sickle cell child. She had to have been AS herself.

NoToPile:


Considering how mistakes happen here, its not out of place.

1,2,3, maybe 4 times might be considered being cautious.
But 5,6,7 times seems out of place to me.
We don't know her family history. We don't know if she has a sickle cell sibling.

Something made her jittery enough to keep running the test even after marriage.
That is the missing piece of information.

NoToPile:


Not necessarily @ bolded she was most likely trying to be very sure she was AA ( Knowing how often these mistakes happen ) because she knows her fiancee is AS to avoid stuffs like this.


Its simple if you want to marry an AS, its common sense to confirm, confirm and reconfirm your AA status.

7 times??

As she is not the one making the post, there must be something we don't know yet.

Most people don't do genotype testing 7 times.
If you're AA, you do maybe one confirmatory test before marriage, that's all.

Why was she running up and down doing genotype test?
It is because she knew she was AS long ago.

Death rate is 1.2% of total infections...

The men/women in your circle is a reflection of your person.

Self respecting men will have self respecting women in their circle and vice versa.

KamiSammy:
I'm having a problem with Nipost and I'm tired
My package from Ali Express has gotten to Nipost 7days ago and I haven't been contacted at all. I only got contacted once and the woman just called to verify my name and that was all, when I tried calling back she always says it will get to me, it's been 7 DAYSS NOW!
I don't know if there's a way I can collect my package or something I'm tired

They won't deliver it to you. You will need to go pick it up.
You can call her back to know which Nipost office she called from.

RayRay06677:
I paid for my solar system in 2015, cost was a little above a million naira, installed first quarter of 2016, using it till date, no change except some minimal maintenance. Highest I recharged my meter was 5k which I almost used for 8 months as per no light and I relegate them to third source after solar and generator.
My people, before I got my meter, I was paying 14k monthly in 2017, with solar, I only recharge 1k per month and it's never exhausted. My people, choose your battle wisely. I no more threaten them with litigation. We are on parallel lane. They avoid me and I avoid them. Even waiting for my battery to die off so I upgrade my system.
Me alone, they will fold up.

Hi, which company did you use for the solar installation?

luminouz:


Why must it be restaurants for fuq sakes?

Dem use food swear for una ni? How will those useless calories aid her outlook? Lemme guess, make her more portly, triple chinned and feeble as fuq with diverse health issues.

Let them go to the mountains to pray biko.

As dem swear for you that you cannot read with comprehension, you did not see this part: or places you guys could go.

Why don't you go and climb Mount Kilimanjaro and pray about your shortcomings in life?

You just want to open thread.
No context. No background story. We don't know who they are.
Please correct your grammar too. I know you are an upcoming blogger

Do you take her on dates?
After 2 kids, If you guys don't do any adventurous things, she will only get clothes that are comfortable for staying home.
Set up a routine where you guys go out. Ask her to list different restaurants she will like to visit, or places you guys could go.
It doesn't have to be expensive. Just mildly fancy.
Tell her you want to make it a date. You both dress up. Look and smell good. No kids.
You can do it twice monthly, or once a month. Depends on what you guys want.
It's a gradual process, but you both can work together to bring back the spark.

Who told them that sharing money is how to run a government?

No Sir.

AkupeMBANO:

please go away from my mention. my statement up there was a sarcastic One and nothing serious. if you noticed, I typed it with a "question mark". take your patriotic advice to the hospital I don't need it.

As you did not need advice, you should not have quoted me.
Have a nice day.

AkupeMBANO:

sue or burn?

What will burning the hospital achieve?
Destroying public property is not a way to get justice. Make we dey use our head na.

So, "Goodmorning, How are you doing?" is not enough for you?
You want to ask about her ancestors too.

captainamiedi1:


Madam what has the endsars protest yield??
Is the entire citizens ready to fight these fight?

My mama will always advice not to fight an already defeated battle

Oga, what has complaining yielded?

captainamiedi1:


Funny enough the judicial system is a failure. It might take you 10 years to get justice that's if you have money. Knowing that will not bring back the dead, many people just live the matter to God the entire system is dead. Even the human right lawyers are waste.

But leaving the matter to God is how we got here.
It is how the nobody pays for negligence. It is why the system is is dead.
We need to demand accountability. Hold them accountable for their mistakes. Expose the rot in the system.
We need to start. Even if it takes 10 years.

There's a lot of abuse in many marriages. Emotional and physical.
I mean, there are soo many of us who come from abusive homes. Many people have watched their parents fight over and over again, but the marriage did not break up.
Unlike in the past where a lot of women endure abuse, women have learnt to walk away from abuse situations.
Plus, more and more women are becoming financially independent. They can take care of themselves and their kids without having to depend on the husband. So where the marriage becomes unhappy, they have the means to walk away.
Of a truth, the world is changing. We all need to change with it. The rules of marriage is changing. Everyone now has a voice.
.
Marriage is like a contract. What are you offering? Know what your partner is offering. If the terms are acceptable to both of you, fine. Proceed.
But people just go in with sentiments, emotions and blind trust. Many expect marriage to solve all their problems in life. They become disappointed when they learn that marriage is just a continuation of life, not a problem solver, or a happiness delivery truck.

Please sue the hospital.
Let us learn to take things up legally.
When hospitals start to pay for their mistakes, medical licenses get revoked due to malpractice or inappropriateness, hospitals will sit up, medical personnel will sit up.
Lives lost cannot be regained, but more lives can be saved by removing bad eggs making the hospitals pay for damages done.

If both of them can not see beyond their differences and provide adequate healthcare for their child, they need to be punished for their irresponsibility. BOTH OF THEM!!!

Marriage might not be your cup of tea.
But if what you typed is what marriage is about, then no one will get married.
Re-orient yourself.