The one who died is the real wife.
You are just the "side wife", you just dont know it.

WorldRichest:


Heart to heart talk with a prostitute that has been sleeping around?

Will you prefer a Leg-to-Leg talk?

Damolux01:
9.7 for a year isn't bad at the moment. To think it went lower to 3% some months back. Even when we were romanticizing it. All we got then was 18%. I guess we are making progress. It's coming up gradually.

It went down to 9.65%.
It went downnn....

Emndy:


NTB

Na wa o. This thing no gel.

Hashabiah:
This is not the place. Read Matthew 19:9, “I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness ... ". The bolded is legal ground to divorce a woman who is caught in the act of adultery

So Prophet, you are selecting the part of the Bible that you like....Weldone Sir.

Hashabiah:
The woman was caught in adultery and you are still looking at salvaging? Aunty, please read your bible and see what Jesus said about married women caught in the act of adultery

Prophet Hashabiah,
Since you have brought Jesus into the matter, let me quote the bible here between Jesus and the woman caught in adultery. John 8: 7-11

"7 They kept demanding an answer, so he stood up again and said, “All right, but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!”
8 Then he stooped down again and wrote in the dust.
9 When the accusers heard this, they slipped away one by one, beginning with the oldest, until only Jesus was left in the middle of the crowd with the woman.
10 Then Jesus stood up again and said to the woman, “Where are your accusers? Didn’t even one of them condemn you?”
11 “No, Lord,” she said.

And Jesus said, “Neither do I. Go and sin no more.”

Take some time.
Have a heart to heart talk with her. So you ask the questions that are burning in your heart.
So you can know if your marriage is salvageable...
That is the first step.

family6644:



You have made a lot of sense, you have made me even more weak. More like she has refused to leave, I have discussed it amicably, she has pleaded that she will change, I should give her more time. Her apt is till there but she doesn't want to go back claiming she's in love with me and she can't stay away from me. I think I am in trouble, I don't feel right about this anymore

You are still speaking grammar... until she harms your kids.
You don't know how to put your foot down?

Take your kids to a family members house for a week. Give her 3 days to move back to her apartment. Do not eat anything she cooks and if possible, do not sleep in the same house.
By the 3rd day if she is still there, call a friend, maybe 2(male and female) to standby while she moves ALL her belongings. Collect your keys, change the locks same day and block her.
You don't know what you are neck deep in.

Leave married people and their matters alone o. If the woman wants to leave, let her leave. If the man wants to run, let him run.
Eventually, everyone will make their choices and it will have nothing to do with you.

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Firstly, were they homeless before?
Why was it so easy to move into your home?
Seperate this family matter quickly. Let them return to where they came from sharply!!

Secondly, I will not take any disrespect of a deceased loved one. She is not emotionally sensitive to your needs. Let her go.

Thirdly, she will take over your home, take over your life and destroy everything you hold dear.

Send her away TODAY!!!!!

Make your own money.
E get why...

Firstly, what has Pastor got to do with anything?

Secondly, if he cannot fend for himself and his kids and is always looking for handouts, he has no business being in a relationship with a woman who has as much responsibilities as he does.

Lastly, he cannot claim to love you, but hate your kids.

In conclusion, RUN!

How does the declared public holiday impact Wednesdays auction? Any news on that?

Mrskillz1:
I am from a family of three. I have two brothers. One older and the other younger than me so I'm the only girl in my family.


Can someone suggest a place I can take my two brothers to so they can be cured, please.

This looks like it is genetic/hereditary.
I dont think it started with your Mum.
Look through your mothers family history for siblings, parents, grandparents, aunts who had same condition.
This is not spiritual. The earlier you find medical help for your siblings, the better.
Also look into getting a caregiver. Someone qualified who will administer their medications and take care of them.
Please don't go running around spiritual houses. They will confuse you, they will drain your pockets and you will get no results.

Foolishness.
Fake story but... foolishness.

It is not a sin to defend yourself or your family when attacked.
It is a sin to take up arms to go attack people who have done nothing to you.

Whoever convinced us all to drink sachet water only has done us a great disservice.
This means there is no clean pipe borne water that we can drink?
Many of these "pure water" are unclean. You need to see some production areas. Unsanitary. No equipment.
They just fill a tank with water and start sealing.

I think you are the ogbanje.
All your bad decisions that end in you losing money affects her because that is less income to run the household.
You want to take a loan to buy a car. She said instead of taking a loan, save for a car for a year or two and buy the car. This is what you term bad advice.
You must be an ogbanje.

For now, secondary Market is not attractive.
Patiently waiting for 364 days to hit double digits too.

Stephjeff:
he is into internet fraud

Then he is scamming you too.
He gets free accommodation, free food, free girlfriend, free housekeeping, free everything from you.
And you are still asking questions...
Even you are a fraudster.

What does he do for a living?

IntentionTremor:


Abortion related or idiopathic, the childlessness is not nice at all. Even virgins have fertility issues. Yes. But this case has got to the end point as it were - surrogacy!

Alternative medicine? For assisted reproduction? I don't have any ideas though. You can share. She's not weighty.

I know we are trying to not talk about the underlying issues but this is what I feel based on what you have posted.
If there are uterine issues such as fibroids or adhesions, they can prevent implantation. I know some doctors will review and feel that it will not interfere with the procedure and proceed with the ET however, IVF is not 100% so we can't tell.
So I'm saying, if we have not successfully treated the uterine issues, chances of a successful ivf treatment will remain low. This is where I ask about alternative medicine for treatment of uterine troubles.
Also, I hope other issues like rhesus-incompatibility have been ruled out.

IntentionTremor:


Ya, I am also on that thread with my main moniker, followed the topic some years ago and still following. I got a lot of encouragement and network from that thread during our IVFs.
The solution to the infertility is a HYSTERECTOMY. Just so you have a picture of what it's like. Spare me the diagnosis for the internet's sake. I verbally abused the gynaecologist the day he told us that in his office.
If the past is related to the present predicament I don't know. But my mind tells me if the abortion wasn't done this whole thing wouldn't have been there in the first place..

I still don't see the abortion as the cause of the infertility. People struggle even without having terminated a pregnancy before. A hysterectomy is quite final. Have you tried alternative medicine to treat uterine issues? I don't mean roadside medicine. Also, is she weighty?

IntentionTremor:


Thanks. It's not easy to act OK when you're not sincerely. I will check him out and revert to you. Thanks

There is a TTC thread and an IVF thread in the health section. They provide support for one another. There are more women than men there, but they'll be glad to assist anyone.
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I also do not think that the abortion she had has anything to do with the struggles you are going through now. Afterall, she carried a pregnancy to term.
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You have not stated the cause of infertility.
Knowing the problem is what leads you to a solution.

Anigreat:



Even though the abortion your wife had may not be the reason for the failed pregnancies, but she deserves to suffer for killing an innocent child , and every woman who took a life of an innocent child in the name of abortion deserves worser fate than this. I can only pity the innocent man that will later pick her as a wife as he may suffer from what he knew nothing about as the op.


God bless the new woman you'll pick as a wife, and make her womb fruitful.

What about the men who impregnated the women and rejected the pregnancies? Please what fate do they deserve? Or are they innocent?

Distress fire!!!
Mods need to delete all these begging threads.
If you were offered a job, you won't do it.
But you need urgent 1k

She will have to decide what her life will be.
It's really up to her.
I do hope the disgusting uncle is dead, because it'll be mad if he sits at table when you go to pay brideprice.
I hope the so called uncle is no where near her.

Kiddo01:


I have sufficient sperm and I think I have chances of bearing a child

Have you done a seminal analysis in a hospital?

Go to a hospital.

MummyD2020:
#100 is even so meagre compared to the ones they pay here in Lagos. Does it mean that they have been plying the road for free all this while?? Chineke!! These northerners are really enjoying life compared to what we in the south see. For real, they are been treated with kids gloves. And to think all this is given to them on a plata of gold and things are like this. Meaning if they are neglected the way we the easterners are they will not survive the hardship

The N100 will be paid to the government via remita.
1.Since many are not literate, they will first go to the cyber cafe to generate RRR.(the cyber cafe will charge for this)
2.Then they will have to go queue up at the bank daily to make this payment. Imagine the hours that will be spent queuing at the bank and being unable to operate till you make that payment. So, they might spend 3-4 hours daily trying to pay "N100" in order to operate.
How many productive hours do we have during the day to warrant this on a daily basis.

Mind you, this is separate from all the other dues and taxes they already pay to the taskforce.

Sermwell:

I need answers please!!

Orthodox church members generally don't give much in church.
You didn't mention the church, but I bet it's an orthodox church.
The same you will attend a Pentecostal church and give 1k as offering.

If you as a full grown adult decide that you don't want to do anything productive with your life...
You just want to sit down and claim title of married... I wish you Good luck.
In this life, money earns you respect from everyone. But you choose to be begging, instead of working.... I wish you Good luck.
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You're taking care of children
Working class women, business women, market women all have children and they are taking care of them just fine.
Children will grow up leave the house. What will you be doing then?