adedolapoololade:

You are just so stupid to have made a comment like this

You are just so smart to have made a comment like this.

I like the fact that everyone is saying "Get admission and go".
You that you cannot read one book in this life, you want to do masters abroad

Cheato64:
I am looking for a business to start with 1.5million naira, I looking for a business that can keep we busy morning till night, this ASUU strike is making me look like a stay at home dad.

You can just go and learn under someone. A business person. Just learn.
If you insist that you want to trade, you can rent a shop in a strategic place where there are students and sell noodles in cartons.
You can easily employ someone there. You do stock taking so you know how many cartons sold, how many bought. And you can continue when school resumes. Don't sell in pieces oo, so that your sales person will not chop you finish. Just sell in cartons. Get your supply from a distributor.
But you have to be patient so that the business will grow. It will not pay your bills for at least a year. So brace up.

6-pack is not easy.

Stop trying to change people who dont want to change.
Are you his doctor or his therapist?
You know he smokes and abuses drugs. You started dating him in order to what? Change him? Are you his mother?
This is how people deliberately choose a life of sorrow. You are seeing someone's true colors, but you are clinging to some hope that he will change...

She didn't have anyone to watch the child, and she still has to earn a living. I doubt her income will be sufficient to hire a nanny for the period she's at work.
She's doing the best she can.
If you want to help her, help her secure a job in a better environment, with better pay so she can afford childcare for her child.

Where is Pako biscuit??

Nicepoker:
This one is like a tortise making its way across a swampy terrain. The solution is simply. If the child took after the dad there is hope. But if this was how the mom was. Forget it there is no hope.

I see that you took after your Mom.

Show me a 17ft wall, and I'll show you an 18ft ladder.

Your diet matters.
Add fruits. Especially oranges. Take a few daily, and your life will change.

This is a thread from 2006.
It will be great if the Op can update us on his marriage 16 years after he made this post.

This is super storyyyy.....
A life of strife and sorrow........

LilMissFavvy:
I used to think issues like this should be a daughter and mom kind of thing, maybe I'm wrong.

Men should know these things too.
It is important that the children have parents who are knowledgeable. Period is not a taboo, or some kind of 'hush hush' process anymore.
Teach kids about their bodies. If you don't teach your kids, they will look for that information outside and in the arms of the wrong people.

There is nothing wrong in building a house. But you have to be smart.
2 incomes are better than 1.
She wants to either work, or do business so that she will not depend solely on your income.
Instead of encouraging that, you put all your money into building a house that wont start generating any revenue in the first year, and will not yield profit until after many years. During this period, your kids are starving, you probably have not paid their school fees and you are not able to keep up with home maintenance or catering to your childrens needs.
She left with the kids so she can be with her family who will support her in raising her kids and financial independence.
And here you are, talking about bringing in another woman. Someone that cannot take care of his family thinks he can take care of side chick.
Mtchhheeewww!

frozen70:



Why not try adoption
Start from there and if along the line, you made a mistake of pregnanting another woman, at least she will have a child to keep her warm

Which mistake is that??
Somebody opened his eyes wide and deliberately impregnated someone, and you are talking about mistake??
Abeg abeg abeg!!!!

They have come with this subsidy again.

He had "severe chest pain" but did not go to a hospital. He sat down praying till morning.
Let us stop all these things...

FBIBOT:


won't that use electricity? Where is stable power? Fuel is cost... High solar installation is in millions

Off course you can override manually. A small UPS can serve as well. Some locations do get up to 15hrs of electricity daily and a house like the one this incident happened will have back-up generator they naturally run.

We should by now be deploying automatic gate openers that connect to the vehicle when approaching the gate and you can open the gate with the push of a button.
This technology has been there for at least 2 decades.

Nonpartisan1:
Just look at how empty a morning flight is. 50k! 100% increase in air ticket.

When I said the Airlines would suffer especially Green Africa, United Nigeria, aero contractors etc, if they went ahead to follow the bigger players in this price harmonization, people were attacking me..

Now see this

I've been on an almost empty flight like this.
I felt lost.
But I feel sad about the loss the airline is incurring. They, at the very least, made loss on this flight.

ASHTAROTH:
Why do you have Maternity leave?

Maternity leave is not enough.
There's 9 months of pregnancy, and maternity leave is mostly just 3 months after birth.
A 3 month old baby still requires round the clock care and monitoring.
Plus frequent hospital visits.
Where do you keep the baby while you return to work? The baby needs to be breastfed multiple times during the day, as well as at night.
Some jobs are actually very demanding. Some jobs require travelling a lot. Imagine some new mums stuck in traffic for hours while trying to get home to a crying, hungry and sick baby.
Now, add the experience of having twins, or having a toddler and nursing a child, or having 3 kids and nursing the fourth.
Women give up a lot.

Choice.
There is really no rule book to life.
You create what you want. You find someone who wants the same things you want.

But....100k debt is too small.
Can you increase it to 1 million before you quit?
You have to go big, or go home.

Anxiety2022:
I just got diagnosed of been HIV+. I don't even know what to do or where to start at this phase in life. Dream looks shambles. I had that HIV positive patient must take it's drugs everyday in other to survive. I really do not know where to start. I feel like taking my life away. Who can give me a concrete advise on how to survive this. The trauma is much on me. I really do not know who to ask for favor. I am looking forward for your advice.

Secondly is the drugs affordable?

Oga, nothing is finishing you.
HIV is no longer a big deal.
Eat well, live healthily and always heed the doctors advise.

Change the keys to the house.
From the gate, to the main house.
Then sit down and rest.
When he returns, he won't be able to sneak in.

10% of your annual income.
Or 2 months salary.
Anything more, you will be going outside what is affordable based on your income.
Remember that you will pay for PHCN and PHCN bill can be as high as your monthly rent.
You might also pay for water, security, fuel for generator etc.
So.... 10% max of your annual income.

freelancerrr:
, he said " you have lost your job".

In your next job, always communicate with your line manager where you will be unable to show up, or complete tasks.
2 days, and you could not reach him to inform him.
Your colleague probably didn't even pass the message across.

Fred166:
I married my beautiful wife January this year, I Love my wife so much, I

Employ a housekeeper. The housekeeper can come around 3 times a week to do general cleaning and laundry.
Please don't get a leave-in maid. Otherwise, the laziness will be x100, plus she might end up maltreating the person.
She's pregnant. Not much you can do about everything else. Let her eat her sugarcane and egusi soup.
Your pikin na pako pikin for inside belle.

AutoChick4U:
30k is a big money with the inflation? Lolz

Ok na.
Misplace 30k and see if you will not cry.

Stay on the job.
Set up the business and employ someone.
Remember that fuel subsidy will be removed by next year.
Electricity tariff will go up.
Cost of goods will almost double.
Cost of transportation will triple.
30k is very big money right now.

They sent it to you as the resident doctor abi?