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caesymore:
Mehn...

The adopted will be made to know he is not my biological son, and I will definitely take care of him as mine but definitely not as my first child and I pray I trained him well not to feel jealous because any atom of jealousy will mean I'm sending him away far away

I believe this would be you destroying your own family yourself. The child that came later naturally wouldn't have any problem accepting his position as the second child. Why create an unnecessary mess then? If you don't believe your adopted child is fully your child, why adopt? You think there's anything you can do for that guy for him not to feel terrible? By sending him away, you're literally telling him he doesn't belong. If he's not your first child, whose child is he? You're not only planning to kill him with depression, you're also starting an endless war in your family.

My opinion.

Y'all need to understand the world is already mocking you.

Congratulations, bro. Better days ahead!

was learnt that some members of the community are trying to cover up the incident, saying that "the 12-year-old girl was not a virgin” and that “sex is not a new thing to her," Warri Aproko reports.

I thought it was only on Nairaland that rape apologists rush to defend rapists with such statements.

Snitch24:
Well I'm talking about my self
Alot of things has changed about life
I will choose the red ball anyday any time

Ok. Cool.

Snitch24:
What guarantee do you have that the money will sustain you till 60yrs

50 million US dollars? Lol... Even if you spend $1m per year without investing (which is very unlikely), it will still sustain you till the age of 90. Even with life uncertainties, that would still be your "best" bet. If you start all over (from the age of 10), you'll need to know something that will fetch you more than 1 million per year in order to have 45 million at the age of 45. How many people have that knowledge today? We aren't even talking about the required hard-work yet seeing that knowledge is not enough.

What guarantee do you have that the knowledge you have now would fetch you $50 at the age of 45 if you had it earlier? What knowledge do you even have now?

Sad

Onyeka still has her golden voice.

You didn't tell us what makes the son "prodigal".

St. Michael’s College

The front page people forgot two people were involved. They both agreed to do that and they're both responsible for the outcome. Yes, the dude wasn't fired probably cause he was doing better at work; but if you guys want to blame anyone for the unfortunately outcome of their romance, it should be both of them. Except I missed the part where the OP said the lady forced or even persuaded her lover into the PDA.

Konjiboi:
How, please I need that type of job.

I'm currently broke and frustrated with life as I write this.

Please, help. Link me to the company. Thank you a million times

Sorry, bro. I'm not in Nigeria.

Stop hitting children, people. It only hardens or harms them.

His name is unique.

Those guys abusing the OP on the first page for sharing his concerns would be the first to type "suicide is not the answer!" if the guy gives in to depression tomorrow.

@OP, there are thousands of people like you. Nature is extremely diverse. Whatever you do, remember that the greatest love of all is the love for oneself. Your sexuality is not a choice. You don't sign up to be straight, gay or bi. It just happens. What's important is that you know yourself and accept yourself the way you are. Safeguard your mental health, choose to be happy.

Beautiful.

The main function of a business websites is to engage prospects and customers. To rate one, it's necessary to view it from the perspective of a random internet user who is a potential customer. Clicking on the links you supplied will not achieve that cause we'd end just rating your artistic skills. Therefore, the ideal approach would be to type the names of these companies on Google and see to what extent your websites have enhanced thier online presence.

When I type the names of some of these organisations on Google, I don't even see anything to validate thier existence, not even the website you did for them. For example, when you type Citi Standard Bank, nothing comes up to show there's any entity that goes by that name. This already casts a shadow of doubt on your work cause one would then begin to wonder, does this company really exist or this web guy just made up a company name just to market his services? Well, it could be that the company exists but they don't have a strong online presence. The next question would then be, why is the website the guy developed for them not giving them that online presence? Why isn't it popping up?

I didn't go through all of them of course, but I noticed Google actually indexed some properly. However, they showed up with the vanilla WordPress favicon. Considering how the companies are presented, one would think they'd settle for something a bit more customized.

Hope my feedback helps.

Lord!

Laughnow419:
So because of state of country make person no laugh?

That post was for another thread where Kyari'a police case was tribalized. I had two tabs open and ended up commenting on the wrong thread. It was around 12 midnight here and I was already half asleep. Lol

Sorry.

Each time we read something like this, people shout "religion of piss!", "violence!", etc. But these same people would gladly beat gay people to pulp if given the opportunity. At the end, y'all are just the same. Unleashing violence against those who don't share your views.

#LiveAndLetLive

Lol...

kenzysmith:
Kanye west is a simp and women hates simp that y kadishian left him.

Lol... see them.

Sad... I don't really know him. Maybe football was the only egg he had in his basket and obviously, that didn't work out. Many others would have gone into scamming or other illegal stuff to save thier reputation but not him. I wish things would turn out well for him so his story would be a source of motivation to others.

_{Out of curiosity, what do you really mean by "... hugged him, and then cried like a man". I assume you're a man, so why do you feel the urge to add "like a man"? You fear people would judge you for crying?}

Stankovic22:
You are just looking for who will draw a line for argument then you coach us on the difference between an employee and a staff.

Chill bro, we all understand

Dude, your title is misleading. It's been pointed out to you. Just correct it and move on. If you knew any better, you would have typed the right thing. Funny enough, it would have taken you less time to correct a word in your title, but here you are chocking on your own pride.

michael1508:
To start with,I wanted quoting your assertion according to paragraphs but couldn't find my way around it.
I tried answering you paragraph to paragraph.

Exactly and both genders are in need of both, primarily,sex is meant for reproduction which serves as continuity for man existence.
Stop equating sex to other needs of life,if you want food,go hustle,if you want shelter,go hustle,if you want an I phone, go and hustle in respective of the gender,and if it's sex you crave for,go and get married. See,religion,society has made healthy rules to these things so as to create a balanced society.

My first assertion above still answers this,the only disadvantage a man has here is high libido, compared to a woman and which is still arguable,it takes a man of discipline to overcome that urge and not fall into the hands of the prostitutes that are ready to exploit his biological needs for money.

We shouldn't justify immorality all in the name of meeting needs,a lecturer demands sex from a female student as an example, every right sensible person sees everything wrong with that despite they are both meeting up with their needs.


For the record,an average man is ready to ask a girl out for relationship and marriage since we are by default the ones doing the asking out so as to fulfil his need for sex and primarily reproduction of an offspring that will both be owned by both,but the new era lady won't even give you a listening ear if you don't tick are financial demand from afar with shallow demands, those shallow demands are what is making the men run away from relationships and the likes these days,they will rather opt for the easy way to ease their urge as it's primarily the major things they get from the new era relationships anyways.
If a man gets married to a responsible girl who supports him in all ramifications and still decides to cheat on her has himself to blame as I am also against that but our topic isn't that.

I said this to someone not too long on this, about the customer ruling the market, the lady said and I quote" if everyone wants to go mad,they should and the women should keep demanding for money in exchange for sex" I replied her with a simple demand and supply analogy,if everyone wants to be mad where nobody is being held by morals anymore,people sleeping around with anybody and paying for it, a man will have almost nothing to loose as supply will out number demand with no family, societal responsibilities on the man's shoulder anymore.


I will opt for the second option too like you have stated,the first is illogical,I made mention of a related solution above too.

Like I said above,until men seek for marriage and still go out to cheat on their spouse,I won't heap most of the blame on the man as the average man is ready to get married but the new era lady is not ready to give into a man that can't fulfil her materialistic demands.

As a man,I choose a good relationship of healthy benefits or stay being abstained.

You guys love strawman's argument. When it's obvious you erred, you start typing things that don't even have any bearing in the bone of contention. So I am now the one justifying immorality? You made a clear attempt in your first message to make light of immorality on the man's side by presenting thier choices as driven by natural desires while women are the ones exploiting them. And I told you that is wrong. Both genders should be held culpable cause women could also be said to be driven by the natural desire to live a better life. Whether material or sexual, we are completely responsible for any decisions or actions we take in quest of satisfaction. My stance has been the same from the onset; both genders are equally culpable. You said those that want money should hustle and those that want sex should stick to a woman. Great, however, if two people that want to take a shortcut decide to trade, they should both take responsibility for thier decision. It's that simple.

This is not a question of who has anything to lose or not. That is a different conversation of which your conclusion is also very shallow. This is rather a question of who should be held accountability for the growing prostitution market. And I'm saying your first message was wrong cause both genders are equally culpable. We just love shying away from anything that'd hold men accountable but until you also start calling out men the way y'all call out women, nothing will change. A man takes his bath, dresses up and goes to a brother to pay for sex. He's got no one to blame for his actions but himself. Otherwise, you'd only be presenting them as brainless entities driven by natural instincts. You said we shouldn't justify immorality on the grounds of meeting material needs but you're hell bent on justifying it on the grounds of meeting sexual needs as if that's any better. There are millions of men who don't visit brothels, they also have libido. Brothel addicts are mostly men who can't keep a woman cause they sleep around.

Men should take responsibility for thier actions and women, for thiers. I'm even surprised this is being argued.

nachisunday:
no her rod

Going by the video, she did not surprise her staff. She only surprised an employee.

Did y'all watch the video? He wasn't looking at her derrière. This is just one of those picture angle stuff.

MufasaLion:


Redpillers will not like this while Simps will derive more motivation from this.

I thought the people called redpillers like it when women celebrate them.

MrSamsung:
We all have it in us - hate and racism - be you black or white. But left untamed, the black man's hatred and racism would be worst.

Hmm.... I agree we all have the tendency to maltreat others. I agree the black man would have probably been worse if the table was reversed. But it I don't think it makes any sense to leave the reality on ground to focus on hypothetical situations. It just doesn't add any value. If anything, it's a deliberate attempt to shy away from addressing the situation. #SayNoToRacism

Her staff?

michael1508:
I never said the men who patronised them are right by moral standard,but one thing for sure is the need for sex is natural and will always be there,the society coined out a concept to ease this need in the form of marriage or the now boyfriend and girlfriend, my point of contention here is why should there be a monetary barrier in attaining this,a girl won't look at you twice if you are not holding a Benz key and a dollar pack,no one is naturally equipped with that,we all have to work hard for that and unfortunately,not everyone will have that,should such man be denied the privilege to have a mating mate?
I still put it to you that,the ladies of easy virtuous today are doing so because it's an easy way to riches and not even necessarily because they are after caring for the man sexual needs,they are all out there for their own selfish needs and not to satisfy you as you might have thought,that is why the high you pay,the higher she's willing to satisfy you more.
Lastly,I will still say that it's the women that are taking advantage of the men's sexual needs to cash out,don't be surprised that if such exchange of services are banned in our society today,most of these girls won't have a way out of life,they are always looking for the easy way out.

The only thing you need to know is that the need for sex is as natural as the need for better life standards and we are all responsible for the choices we make in quest for both needs. Women are not taking advantage of men's needs more than the men are taking advantage of woman’s needs. Both parties have needs and they are willing to exploit each other. If ladies are doing so because it's an easy way to meet thier needs, then men are doing also because it's an easy to meet theirs without any responsibility. Or didn't your Economics teacher tell you that the customers rule the market? You think olosho business is an exception? If the exchange was banned, the men will survive and the girl will not die. Each will find better ways of meeting thier needs.

What do you think the women should do to stop the societal menace? Start giving sex freely or get into a proper relationship before having sex? The first is illogical and if the second option is really a possibility, then it means men can actually do the same but choose to do it the fast way. The keyword here is "choose". Patronizing olosho is a choice and people should take responsibility for thier choices. Whether morally, logically or otherwise, both genders are equally culpable. There is simply no other possible way of looking at it, so just stop these futile attempts to make light of the issue on the men's side. I am a man and it's highly embarrassing.