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michael1508:
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There is a difference here, a man must always have a sexual urge,it's the prostitutes that are taking advantage of that need.
The so called relationships have always been a give and take scenario,sex for money and other subtle benefits,stop giving your girl money for a while and lets see if she won't start giving you attitude,all she needs is someone better should come along and you are done and dusted.
Ask an easy virtuous woman to take an offer of farm work of 120k and whoring of similar pay monthly,your guess is as right as mine.

The guy you quoted is right. Lagos men "hoe" around with Lagos women. All this trying to justify men while still complaining about prostitution is hypocrisy laced with stupidity. If men will always have sexual urge that must be satisfied, then why blame the women who satisfy them? You don't think they also have needs that must be met too? No matter how long y'all keep calling out women, if you keep shying away from acknowledging the fact men are equally culpable, nothing will change. Two people are messing up but you're bent on heaping the responsibility of stopping it on one party as if the other party is one brainless toy all because you just don't want to place any form of restriction on your own gender? Are men animals? Dude, you either leave the prostitutes alone or you call out all involved.

You're asking the same people doing the hookup how they cope? You guys are just funny.

HellVictorinho3:
Which problem that is affecting every African??


Forget 'if"

No matter how stupid a living thing is...,why suggest all Africans are passing through the same thing specifically?


We(all humans) are into more than madness...... which means we're into twists and turns..... which means something or the situation that can't favor anyone except by chance!!!!!

Which problem is affecting evert African? Sure you quoted the right post? I can't really tell which part of my post you're addressing here. I don't even see any correlation. A mistake?

Siberia01:


Poverty capital of the world

The video was taken in Ghana though.

Life is hard

People are already hurting each other just to survive.

Lol... nice one.

You get into another country through illegal means and then come on Twitter to write epistles about corruption in Nigeria; who is deceiving who? Some say if Nigeria was any good, they wouldn't have to migrate illegally. I guess it's very easy to blame an entity called Nigeria for one's actions/decisions. I'm sure even politicians do that. It's basically all about opportunities.

But the painful one is when Africans come out here and still do those things they're running away from all in the name of being "smart". Some of them believe they're smarter than everyone else and would stop at nothing to game the system. Even little things like returning the book they borrowed from a book exchange box or dropping one before picking up another or properly arranging refuse into recyclables and garbage are issues. It's all about what they can take from the system; this set of people don't care how the system is sustained.

We just need to understand that Africa/Nigeria isn't just the geographical location (landmass) but the people as well. If there's a problem with Africa, it means there's a problem with the people (leaders and followers alike). God help us.

Ogamysamo:
why they shock na?
what is funny? what is strange?
he no be human?


human being de sing song sang by human being and other human beings are shock.
mtchew

*sung by

I see his point here.

It's important to note that the protesters are not designated as a terrorist group though. Also, as valid as his point might be, it doesn't justify shooting at civilians.

robinso01:
Rihanna wanna be. Ojuelegba Rihanna.

People have been sharing pregnancy pics long before Rihanna became an adult. How does one sharing it now make her a Rihanna-wannabe?

tophumble:
Jor ooo.

This does not look like a joke

Lol... did you watch the video? She merely pointed out a few vices obtainable in today's society.

Haha... cute. He was probably emulating the adults around him.

"How did South Korea become 100 times wealthier than African countries combined in less than 70 years?"

Is the above really true? Do you really know what this statement means? Why is no one questioning this outrageous claim?

Because they like it.

You can't use hard-boiled egg for every kind of meal obviously. That would be odd. Lol

Nice! I'll try this someday.

luminouz:
He got what he wanted and that's to rile you dafuq up. I don't invest my emotions like on clout chasers. You shouldn't. You get triggered by stuffs like these, you won't last a week in this country, BP-wise

I'm actually more riled up by the guy I quoted than the perverted dude. Lol

buyAride:
Some of you are so messed up, up there!
When or where did he say or did he have carnal knowledge of a Minor, even in the original post or you dont know the emaning od "have carnal knowledge"? That means have SEx with an underage! Did he actually have sex with her (even in the Joke post)?

And the end of the day, a Joke is a Joke and you accepted it was a Joke so, why all the frothing from the mouth and the farting from all orifices?

What are you typing? Which part of my post suggested he actually had a carnal knowledge of the girl? I said he made a joke about it and that is sick, dude. You can't go around talking about how you'd sleep with your beautiful mother all in the name of "a joke is a joke". That would be a sick one. Yet, this guy's so-called joke is even more messed up than that. You don't make light of statutory rape. Rape is a very serious subject and the moment you begin to make light of it, you begin to normalize it. What exactly was he expecting? Laughter? What's so funny about sexualizing a minor? Would you actually read that and laugh? Oga, this joke is not okay. It is not normal and should not be encouraged. It is not everything you joke about. If you think people are messed up for rejecting this kind of joke, then you probably need to check yourself.

luminouz:
Lol...

Look at the reactants up there. Surely, y'all don't believe the story is real?

Kai....it's just the Oxlade reference that started all his made-up stories.

Be more logical, less emotional.

When people say he's sick, it has nothing to do with whether the story is real or not. This is a sick joke. You can't go around making jokes about having carnal knowledge of a minor entrusted to you and expect people to laugh with you. The annoying thing is that he doesn't even seem to understand why that is wrong. And it appears you also don't.

You can't love someone else if you don't love yourself. You can't even accept love from someone else if you don't love yourself. You just feel worthless and undeserving.

luminouz:
Cc. Woundedlamb

Why am I tagged?

Why do most titles on this platform use the superlative in place of the comparative?

richeeyo:
Fashion and civilization aside
, some people just no get dignity

Hhmm... Unfortunately, you can't really talk about dignity in isolation. In other words, fashion and civilization cannot be tossed aside when the concept of dignity is being discussed. That's because what is considered dignified is a function of civilization phase. Our women were running around with bare breasts in the past. And you wouldn't say they didn't have thier dignity intact. They were just in a different phase of civilization. At that time, bare breasts were "dignity". So when you say "fashion and civilization aside", what you're actually saying is "judging by what I consider the present phase of civilization...."

Nice!

paulolee:
bcoz of Instagram achievement?? mayb e go win insta d or

Hahaha... you guys are so funny on this platform

luminouz:
I don't agree with your second paragraph. It's definitely worse in the US, compared to Germany or China. Their culture was never like this in the 60s, 70s and 80s. But we can always agree to disagree.

One love

I see.

Just for discussion sake, when you say it is worse in the US, what exactly are you referring to? Kid's behavior or the state of society? In my opinion, society is changing everywhere. The culture in Germany hasn't always been like this too. I grew up in Canada, and I know a lot has changed. This applies to the kids as well. Gen Z, as they're called, is very different from the millennials all over the world, Nigeria inclusive. They're bolder and more adventurous. If it's more obvious in the US, it's probably cause of the more liberal system (a sacrifice they make to produce confident adults that respect human rights) and if it's better in Germany, it certainly has nothing to do with beating kids cause this teacher would still be wrong there.

Moreover, judging by the quality of adults these kids eventually become, it is arguable whether this change is really for better or for worse. My parents said my generation would ruin Canada cause to them, we were rebellious. And yeah, we certainly have our issues, but here we are making the country proud. Our generation now believes kids of today (especially those in the US) have lost it. But I personally believe they're just coming with thier own uniqueness, good and bad. Thier courage could become a source of great advancement to the country.

This is a deviation, though an interesting one. I quoted your first comment just to mention that the teacher here had no justification for doing that to someone's child and that the American system is just different and certainly not perfect but not necessarily worse than yours.

Lol... it's funny how everything said by the government receives exactly the same type of response on Nairaland: lies! Rubbish! Scam! Useless! Which way, Nigeria?!

Things have really fallen apart.

bigcasava1:
if na Jim ikye and Rita Dominic u go know quick quick and you say u no be indomie generation.

Rita Dominic has been acting before some of the shows the OP shared were released. So if the person you quoted knows Rita Dominic and not the shows, it doesn't make him Indomie generation. It simply means he prefers Nollywood and that's a valid choice.

I feel Lord of the Rings should be here.

TheWolfen:
This is pathetic.
Gone are the good old days.
Why should a student get in fight with teacher in the first place.

Same shit is happening in African society too. Rude and badly trained kids everywhere.

The kid might have been rude to the teacher, but I don’t think pulling her by her hair was the right thing to do. The teacher certainly didn't do that as a corrective measure. She did that out of anger. She lost her temper and engaged the kid in a physical combat just the way she would have done with any other adult. She didn't pull her hair with the mindset of "let me pull this baby girl's hair so that she will become a better person in future ".

I know we like to believe that anytime an adult hits a kid, it's cause they want the child to be better. But the truth is, it's mostly out of uncontrolled anger and because they know that anything they do to the kid would be accepted as "discipline". This leaves kids at the mercy of people with different personalities (including those with anger management issues). Real discipline is premediated and goal oriented, and it doesn't need to be physical or extreme when dealing with kids in thier formative phase. I don't think there's any justification for pulling her hair and I doubt if any parent would appreciate a teacher pulling their daughter's hair like that.

Again, my opinion.

luminouz:
You made nice points but I still stand by my words.

She never hit that girl, so I don't know where your comparison on beating or hitting comes from.


The American system is not perfect, but I'm not comparing it to the African system at all, hence my last post conclusion. My take is that, when the grassroots are spoilt, expect your next generation to be irredeemable.

@bolded: you make it look as if pulling a girl's hair is any better.

Yes, I agree the future looks gloomy everywhere. I'm only saying the way kids are raised in the US is neither a coordinated attack as suggested by your post nor necessarily worse than anywhere else. It's just a different society with a different system that has worked for them over the years. You're just viewing it from the perspective of your own culture.

Besides, each generation tend to think the coming one will be worse (and maybe it does actually get worse in some aspects) but the world keeps adapting. I'm sure the past generations said something like that too and yet here we are.

Allisgud:
Na only the line wey him hear na

Awesome!

angelfallz:
I swear, Especially the part he was singing, "omoge no be so"

Lmao.... so of all the mad lines the guy was spitting, "omoge no be so" was the one that pleased you the most?

angelfallz:
You need to pay more attention.

The US is actually collapsing on itself.
We're currently witnessing the gradual decline of the American Empire and American hegemony.

So the post you quoted is correct, America is declining.

Yours is a different discussion. Whether the US is declining or not was never the gist of my comment. I only pointed out that their model of raising kids isn't the cause as suggested by the post I quoted. Pulling the girl's hair is simply wrong.