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Truvelisback:
Whether u like it or not, men will definitely stare at ur wife, especially if she is beautiful or has big bum bum. By the way the story goes, i don't the story is real. Why? No sensible neighbour would keep knocking at ur door looking for ur wife, knowing fully well that u are married and that u are at home, except u as the man, u aren't at home or around b4 such could happen.

It is real life story, the woman that came to tell my wife live in the same compound with them. The husband is always away from home due to the nature of his job, and sometime he stay at home to rest withiout letting anyone knows. I think the major problem is the time he used to come knocking. The hour her husband suppose to be at work.

Kobojunkie:
Rather than bully the wife, i would explain to her that I am not comfortable with the neighbor and then leave it at that. A woman is also a capable adult quite able to manage her relationships on her own. Where she needs help from a third-party or even her husband, she knows to ask and only then can she should a husband step in to intercede on her behalf - never before.

What this man did here was disrespect his wife each time he took to bullying her regarding her relationship with the creepy neighbor, thinking his manhood bestows on him alone the right to respect in the relationship.

Let me just assume you are still single or just trying to be unnecessarily civil.

As a married man, you must try as much as possible to protect your home and your wife. Women heart/mind are very flexible, and at the same time extremely subjected to change where you least expected. Let me tell you this, being persistently nice and caring is one of the best trick men use to have their way with married women especially those whose their husbands always busy with work.

Since he had once subtly warned him but refused to stop, I think it responsibility of his wife to follow his instruction by ignore or give him straight face whenever he come again. The husband grievance is quite right and understandable because she has more power to stop him since she is the one always at home.

Kobojunkie:
And you figure that by him bullying and fighting his wife, he can stop that from happening?

Baba, what will you do if you are the husband.

Beremx:
Is the husband of the woman afraid to confront the other man and ask him why he’s seductively being attracted to his wife?
Is the neighbor heavily muscular?
What manner of fear fear is that?

I think they claimed he has done that but not on serious confrontation manner, yet the man wont stop and the wife too dont follow his instruction of ignoring him or give straight face whenever he comes knocking.

The husband point is, maybe that is how he normally come to meet his wife when he is not at home.

Kobojunkie:
And?

Finish the story... the man asked his wife and the wife did what?

Already finished the story, the husband was fighting his wife for encouraging him by giving him a welcoming attitude after he has warned her he is not comfortable seeing them getting close.

It happened between this lovely young couple living in my street. Honestly, I always admiring them whenever I see them together, cant just believe they are fighting.

According to the eyes witness, the husband has been warning his wife against one particular married man living in the same compound who was always in the habit of knocking their door for unnecessary or petty thing( petty thing like woman to woman stuff that he could send his wife), but the woman wont listen. The husband claimed he has caught the said co- tenant starring at his wife bumbum or looking at her seductively several time, and he is not comfortable letting such a person get close to his wife for whatever reason.

According to him, despite warning his wife to ignore or keep straight face whenever he comes knocking, she was still welcoming him with smile. This morning again, the man came knocking for one useless excuse, but this time, the manner in which he did it surprised the husband who was at the living room. He said, he did not call his wife by her Child name as usual but knock silently and pressing door handle to force entry.

The fight broke out when the husband demanded his wife tell him the relationship between her and the married co-tenant or see his other side.

The husband is a very busy type, in which the married co-tenant know of, and his wife works from home.

What will you do if you find yourself in such situation.

James4358:
Am barely three years into marraige, the least reason i got married to my wife was for making babies.
My wife is going through a family planning method, but my mum and inlaws wont let us drink water.
It is grand children this & grand children that'. Even my own mum i always thought was learned & invoke with 21st century lifestyle has been in the fore front of disturbing our lives.
My wife is barely 26 and pursuing her master's programme to a conclusion & i've been busy traveling & attending various courses to gain speedy promotion & hit the peak of my para-millitary job. Where else would i get the time to start baby-sitting, which i know is a full time job.
Am not just the type to let a house maid take up the responsibility of training my children, this i know has negative effects & may some day backfire.
My mum have even gone ahead to tag this the handi_work of witchcraft. My elder brother has 3kids already, why the cry after my own.
This women wont just let us live our lives in peace!

Except you and your wife has medical or financial issue bordering you, having your children at young age is much more beneficial to you than later in life.

Women, between 20yrs to 32yrs. Men between 28yrs to 40yrs.

Why asking a kid what he would do with money in the first place. Why not simply take your money and probabaly buy him an ice cream for not stressing you much before he remember to show you the money.

@op, the best thing to do is to send her back to her family. A girl that stoled as much as 200k can do anything unimaginable in future.

@op, I dont know your wife or how intellectually sounds she is, but I can tell you some women are like that, not that they are wicked or stingy with their money but simply cant think fast to provide a solution to solve immediate problem. The funny thing is that, she might not even think that way at that moment, since she is used to being giving everything needed by you. The fact that she used to buy you something whenever she went out is enough to tell you she might not do it intentionally.

Next time, you simply ask her about the money in her account and commands her to withdraw some for the family until pay her back the next day.

No matter what you do as an employer, employees will surely leave anytime they see better offer. It is all about comfort and pays for Nigerians.

Moving from Real Madrid to Juventus really cost him the award as Madric caucus and Pereq vow to deal with him. It was a pure robbery from those who voted for Modric ahead of a deserved winner Cr7.

needsansa:
I'll cut the long story short.

I met this girl sometimes in 2018. She was living with her aunt who was not being nice, and early 2020 she returned to her mom. Im fact it was so terrible that and she survived several abuses from her aunt's husband, which she told me. I was actually the main force behind her eventual liberation and relocation to her mom. We've been together all through.

Then, mid this year, things went rough with her mom, and the poor woman returned to the village. Then she landed with this family friend of theirs(not related, but their mothers are old friends). This family lives a stone throw to her mom's place.

She's told me before she joined this family how their last son was troubling her for a date, but she has been refusing. Then mid this year she moves in with same family. It is a family of 3 boys. She would always be the one cooking for the family. Sometimes, she would have to cook and wash for the same boy and take food it to his house (which is a short distance from d family house). It did not stop there, anytime they are broke, the mother would send her to go and beg the same guy for money (teasing her that she has a way of collecting money from her son).

If I had d means I'd have also gotten an apartment so we could have more time together, but things neva set..I dey hustle nor be say I lazy, but soon sha God go perfect am.

I know what and what could have happened in all this drama but I want to gear from my agbas in the building - how should I go about this matter. Thank u.

Don't worry u can yab me

HER MOTHER USED TO TEASE HER THAT SHE KNEW HOW TO COLLECT MONEY FROM HER SON.

The above statement in logical sense of it indicates something is going on between your girl and the said guy. The only girl that know how to collect money from a man is the one warming his bed.

Yes, it is very bad to be poor. A poor man is a living dead.

Meanwhile, one thing I have realised in the world is that, prayers dont work but only what you do with your God giving time and resources. What I meant by "resources" is not really material possessions but your innate ability. The power to be successful lies solely on you, and nobody can do that for you but yourself. Even if you were born into wealth, there is a limit to how far you could go in life withiout finding your own path.

@op, now that you are still young, you have every chance to be successful, all you need to do is to get lost and rediscover yourself. If your environment is limiting your chances, pick your bag and move to saner environments. Being educated is an added advantage to you, trust me within 5 years( with discipline) of wandering a strange land where you wont be ashamed of doing whatever you want, your success will surely locate you.

What is really wrong with some people self. Why are we so obsessed with material things? Materials things or money is the last thing I will ever fight, steal or drag with someone in my life.

A woman that will eventually willingly handed over everything to you the moment she see you are not the type that is obsessed with her wealth or properties. Infact, she would be the one begging you to manage it for her.

If fuel price is increase to #450 per litre, the present hunger among the masses will be a child play.