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Happy New Year peeps.... here's wishing us all the best 2021 has got to offer.

Cheers to great success this year.

Prechgold1180:
Best feeling

My mum go dance and sleep for ground

Best Christmas package for that woman

Meanwhile
FTc on new year Eve

Satan you are a bastard
Mynd44 you are playing with me dangerously

To all nairaland family I wish you the best

Special advise
Nur too spend today / tmr remember say January Nur dey quick dey finish


Lasticalala I need an estimate of all the snake you ate this year

Bush meat grill
Change work

Boss slawomir. Try reduce ur weed


Pastor righteousness preaching is not all about putting fear in the heart of your readers try teach the good side of the kingdom of God

To all upcoming nairaland celebrities I greet u o


At dis junction I beg to off my mic

I smiled while reading your post...nice one, you are a true Nairalander.

You will see the new year by God's grace.

Cheers.

ostechno:
If there's no money for the paid platforms, YouTube is free, and it has everything you need. The only thing you need is data
Codecademy is free but has paid subscription for certificate and other things and Coursera has some some free too, I use both.

FUTURE LEARN is also free, COURSERA is free as well, I believe there are other platforms that are free too.

However, they all have paid courses which are usually affiliated with Universities.

Most important is to keep learning, whether it's via the free courses or the paid ones.

We should keep learning....

ostechno:
Education is not necessarily schooling, infact schooling is just a small part of education. We are in the age where schooling is less effective for self development. In school, students are made to compete for grades, the schooling system 100 years ago is still thesame as today, Every other things have changed, did you know people have different way of learning, some prefer learning when they are alone, some learn buy drawing, some people won't understand what they read in a book untill they watch videos, some learn by commiting themselves to practicals only, but school has always remain thesame, go to classroom, the lecturer teach all students who has different convinient way of learn thesame way, in the end, you get thesame exam for grading, some will fail, some will pass excellently. The way people are being lectured in school today doesn't help student discover themselves, they put that fear in you and limit you to only what you're being taught. A while ago when I was in secondary school, the teacher gave us an exam, he asked us "what are some examples of tools used for 'something'", I gave him the answers of the tools I've learned by myself online, and he marked me wrong, because he didn't know about it. Don't let what you're taught in school limit you, self discovery is what matters the most.
When I was in 100 level, our lecturer asked us to give examples of Operation System in CPE 101 class, the someone said Android OS, and the lecturer asked, is Android an OS?, I said to myself WOW, these lecturers are outdated. These people live in 19th century.
Alot of thing have changed but they don't know, new things are being invented everyday, if you limit yourself to what you're taught in school, you can never invent any good. Please use the available tools (most especially the internet) to discover yourself, you'll be surprised how the wold is changing.
Another thing about student who limit themselves to school is that "they are not good decision makers", students can't come up with original ideas again. Don't be surprise the exams you write is affecting student, the teacher choose for you, they choose the questions they give you, you're made to choose answers from objective questions, is it A, or B, or C or D. students are not allowed to come up with original thought again, they're made to choose, things would be worse now that most university wants to start making all exams CBT, all the questions would be objective. This alone affects student's ability to make decision In real-time.
All I'm going to say is don't limit yourself to what they teach you in school, everything is changing.
At the moment the world is even better off without the current schooling system. That's why I love Finland so much, the have the best schooling system in the world but it's still not good enough
To me, the internet is the new universities the and it can be a source of 90% of what you'll ever learn, 90 percent of the things I know today is not what I learned from school, its the power of the internet.
Peace

Well said bro....

To buttress your point, the power of the internet should never be underrated, it's a very powerful tool that should be properly and aggressively mined.

Personally, I am an addict of FUTURE LEARN.COM, that's my University. We also have COURSERA, and a host of others to learn from.

Anyone who is not highly educated in this age and time has him/herself to blame.

The internet has put the world at your feet, strike it peeps!

AltarBoy1:
99% of wealthy people are business men, you wont get to a greater height in wealth if you dedicate your entire life on a paid job. The average worker who is upright and doesn't involve in shady dealings ends up not been too wealthy or achieving much in life. Aside from multinational company's, most firms in Nigeria pay belwo 100k and when you factor in cost of leaving and daily expenses, how much can one save out of the salary in a month. Thats why I noted in the beginning of this write up that except you are working in a firm where your salary is above 100k and promotion/upward review of salary is certain within 3 years, then you are just wasting your youthful age when you work in such a place for long. If at the end of a year, you cant be able to save up to 1M, just try as much as you can to quit the job. Though its not easy, but its better you bear the heat and get out when you are strong and agile than wait when you get old.

My advice is that as early as possible, one should start looking for a business to start, irrespective of the nature of the business, as long as its legal and pays your bill just dedicate yourself to it and nurture it to growth/maturity. Business is easier to manage and nurture when your personal expense and responsibility is still very low, thats why its good to start when you are still under your parent, as a student or during NYSC. That way, even when the business fail, you have your family to fall back on until you gather the necessary resource to start again.

On a last note, when you have a striving business, by the time your kids grow up, one or two of them can you in the business and probably be on their own by having an offshoot of your business. That way they wont have to be looking for a job after school especially in this period of unavailability of jobs. But if you retire as a worker, you have nothing to pass to your kids to help them kick start their life. They will have to search for job or establish their own business.

I will also advice that if you have the opportunity of picking up a job as a sales rep of a company, please do not hesitate to accept it as this type of job gives you first hand experience of how businesses of buying and selling works. You will get to know how the market moves, the season when some certain goods are in high demand and with this experience, starting your own business in same line wont be difficult for you as you can even get some capital and purchase goods in the name of your customer and if you have a good relationship with him or with those around, selling the goods wont be much difficult through their help pending when you get your own shop/warehouse.

MODIFIED...
My own rule of thumb is... IF YOUR JOB IS YOUR ONLY SOURCE OF INCOME, DONT QUIT YOUR JOB FOR A SIDE BIZ UNTIL THE BIZ IS A "GOING CONCERN" AND IS GIVING YOU MORE THAN HALF OF YOUR MONTHLY SALARY.

Your write-ups are amongst the best I've read in 2020 and I really commend you for that.

The passion and sincerity with which they were written is so glaring to anyone that read with an open mind.

I wish everyone, not just young people would heed your advice which are plain truths.

May God give you the courage to pursue your dreams and also the grace to succeed at them.

I wish you all the best life has got to offer.

Happy new year in advance.

Mubbyleey:
Shout out to you guys... You guys really made 2020 fantastic for me. Some of you here can be pain in the ass at times but i couldn't help it following you guys because of the values you guys give out daily here on nairaland, through your comments.

Keep being you!!! These are the realest people on Nairaland... I learn daily from you guys & y'all always put smile on my face everytime i log on.

Romanoff, MJBOLT, naptu2, purples25, LadyTianna, Marvieduke, adg98, sweetmelanin, 9jatriot, Rosskivvy, thebosstrevor1, NGpatriot, Bonjovi13, Chiquitq, BitterSoul, makanma, TecM0, crackhaus, Oizee, lilyheaven, Psych412, dederocs, Navar, Magnoliaa, JoeEeL, obowunmi, LordKO, TheRedpillguy, emmaodet, Dpsychologist, GLYCOLYSISS, Yoighaman, Priscyized, layla129, blinking001, ibkonekt, Randy100, Fisher007, HolyCaligula(m), Regex, Drfinn, hfinest1, PerfectMatchNG, Pascopele, Leezah, donstan18, MrBrownJay1, acidtalk, LabuleofNigeria, Wolgrace, eezeribe, Newboss, nuggarito, Shugavee, Biglittlelois, swaggzo, Oluromantic, czarr, Zabiboy, WORDWORLD, purpinkx, Blackmoran, AussiePlayboy, Explorers, CaveAdullam, Factfinder1, ekaF, pansophist, bodybuilder, crackkhaus, bukatyne, 24kmagic, izzou, Fuadeiza, Omar09, BossDante, NwaAmaikpe, JONNYSPUTE, ColonelEmeka, TonyeBarcanista, SmellingAnus, Martinez79, Martinez39, ikp120, FROGMAN10, NiRfreak, deebrain, ThierryJay, Belafonte,, ubunja, Quinolone, Donshaga, Mynd44, tosyne2much, lalasticlala, Toks2008, olaboy33, Mzflexydeeva, Seun, CharlesNneji1

You wouldn't believe I'm just getting to see this.

Thank you so much for the honor.

We'd cross over to 2021 by God's grace.

Hearty cheers!

Choose your spouse carefully.

It's usually not a case of "Oh, he might be bad but I am a good person"... or vice-versa.

Always remember that you are jointly responsible for his or her actions or inactions.

May the soul of the departed rest in peace. Amen.

SimpDetector:
Submitting to a man doesn't indicate weakness, rather it indicates femininity. The desire to submit to a man is the quintessence of being a woman. Every woman wants to submit to a man, but there is a caveat: It has to be an attractive "alpha" man that's higher than her financially and in terms of social status.

Even so called feminists and independent women still have men that they submit to in private. These men own their bodies and they do whatever these men ask them to. But they'll come online to pretend and talk rubbish.

Even this Kemi has a powerful man that has her pussy on his beck and call. The reason she isn't married is because no man in his right senses will want to get married to a 56 year old woman with serious mental issues.

Another thing is that the kind of men that wealthy, successful independent women like Kemi, LindanIkeji, Genevieve etc would be attracted to, tend to be on the top 10% percent of men, and these men are so alpha and so high value that their commitment and attention is so difficult to get. These men find it hard to commit to women, hence why most of these successful women hardly get married.

The more successful a woman becomes, the harder it is to get commitment from the high value men they are attracted to, because these men simply will not commit. So they either have to settle for the low value beta men that will willingly commit and endure a boring, unsatisfying relationship with him, or become sex partners/baby mamas to the high value men that won't commit.

There's sense in your write-up...Agreed to a very large extent.

I keep wondering who will date this kind of a woman....

Take that crazy risk at your own peril...

This is raw talent.

More power to his or her elbow.

2special:
A carton of soft chicken is #14,000 while orobo chicken carton is #13,500, you find about 25 pieces in each carton which the seller will cut into 3 each making 75 pieces of big chicken

The difference between killing live ones and the frozen ones is huge, be it chicken or turkey.

It's all about quality not quantity.

GOTVee:
As a born again Christian who is meant to speak the truth at all times, I think we Christians are deviating from the teachings of our lord Jesus christ. Jesus never told us to celebrate his birth but his death. Christmas is a pagan god celebration and real Christians should not partake in celebrating Xmas. Jesus wasn't born on the 25th of December as people believe but many have been misled to celebrate this abomination called Xmas for too long by irresponsible religious leaders who are meant to guide people with the word of God. Until we Christians starts reading and understanding the Bible, we will keep committing unpardonable sins against God in which Xmas is one. Do not celebrate Xmas if you don't want to end up in hell fire

Jesus (Yeshua) might not have been born on December 25 but it's practically impossible to ascertain the specific date he was given birth to... whether we celebrate on December 25 or April 29, all na jolly....just appreciate his birth and death and leave all these arguments. When we get to heaven, we would seek better clarification.

Merry Christmas to all my fellow Nairalanders. Please have fun and enjoy yourselves.

One love.

EdoFirstBorn:
Who is creating these sort of posts ?

Hungry bloggers have ruined this site

Kai

How nairaland has fallen

So Nairaland had not fallen when stories of promiscuous actresses, Slay queens, Bobrisky and the likes were posted?

I shake my head.

You better read and move on...

Ikillbrokehoes:
This guy have left that shíthole for real, every Nigerian men dreams

Which "...every Nigerian men dreams"?

Please speak for yourself.

Frustrated007:
our women are very ungrateful creatures.
You won't believe the amount of effort I have put into just trying to see if things would work out between anyone I come in contact with..but I always end up getting burnt.

They are so fake! everything with them has to be a transaction.
Even the ugly and despicable ones..they have this exaggerated sense of self importance.

There's this church girl I approached several months back. Took her on several expensive dates and all.
God knows the girl no be my spec but I just wan manage am.
If you see the kind behavior wey this girl display ehnn.
Untop say her teeth rotten oo.
Chai I was just laughing, disappointed with myself that I ever went this low!!!

Good you learnt a lesson.

It is best to never date or marry someone who is not within your social class, there is usually some form of friction when you do. Either stay within your class or practise hypergamy. All things being equal, hypogamy should be a no-no.

Olarewaju89:


The moment I knew Nigeria was in trouble was when someone stole his neighbor's white goat and dyed it black... Only for the neighbor to say he recognized the goat by it's smile.

You will not kee me with laughter!

Nuttella:
The marriage I want is the one arranged by God himself.

Nice post.

TemmyT002:
I used to dislike the man until I began to read his nuggets.
He is full of wisdom.

As a matter of fact, I frequently visit IG because of him....just to read his posts.

The man is indeed full of wisdom.

WeNoGoDie:
Like him or hate him this chap is always making sense.

True.

To me, he is one of the most intelligent and wise persons on earth.

BleedingPen:
https://igberetvnews.com/1376256/breaking-many-passengers-kidnapped-benin-auchi-road/

"...Today's incident comes three days after the State Head of Service, Mr. Anthony Okungbowa, got kidnapped in Edo town, with his driver and orderly killed. Okungbowa has since regained freedom..."

If the HoS of the state can be kidnapped and nothing happened; we can all imagine what the fate of an average passenger would be.

We need to be very careful when travelling, especially during festive periods.

Please stay safe friends.

I just love the owner of this club...me I can do better.

theophilusj31:
and were the hell did you get the idea that women that woman love those stuff you mentioned there,........let me tell you what attract women
1-women are attracted to men who are confident and who have balls
2-Women are attracted to men who are wealthy and successful,don't get it twisted, having money and wealth is an indicator of high value and is attractive to women,but using money and wealth to attract women is an indicator of low value,that why you should not spend on a woman,
3-Women are attracted to men who are preselected by other women,when a woman see that other women are attracted to you,she instantly becomes attracted to you.... Because you being preselected by other men is an indicator of high value in you
4-Women are attracted to men who have an high capacity to succeed in life,when a woman see that you have a high chance of succeding in life she becomes attracted to you.....that why the medical students are hot cake for women in schools, because women know that they have a high chance of succeding
5-women love loves men who are a leader of other men,that why the boss always Bleep all the ladies
6-and by far the most important of all,women loves men who are non-needy and indifferent towards them,treat a woman desame way a king will treat his queen not desame way a servant will treat his queen

the two most important of all this is num 1 and num 6,when you are confident and non-needy,it indicate high status and attract women


were did you get the yeye idea that being arrogant attract women, arrogance is a sign of insecurity,the most insecure people are usually the jerks and the bullies....and insecurity is a big turn off for women

You made sense but all you wrote shouldn't deter you from being a Redpiller.

Kokaine:
Seriously the value for women has dropped. They are everywhere now. There's really no need to chase any girl. There are well accomplished ladies who are looking for male partners too. So why cheapen yourself so much as running after a woman who is not giving you any attention.

Well said.

anochuko01:
No one losses feeling as fast as I do.

Today I'm making your head swell, tomorrow I can even delete your number sef.

Badt guy....

CsRockefeller:
You're a big FOOL!

Noted with thanks Sir.

Now you are beginning to reveal your real attitude, I hope you won't blame your wife for this as well.

Have a blessed day.

hashtagged:
.well you know when she hits 28 she is sour and no one wants sour goods

Age 28, sour?

You've not seen 35 years old looking very beautiful and young; it's all about packaging and taking good care of yourself, case in point is Genevive Nnaji, many guys wouldn't mind getting married to her even at that age.

mrblessed:
It is just a visa-for-marriage affair common with lazy minded African youth, who are both physically and mentally impoverished. That we celebrate this kind of nonsense is a measure of how backward and confused we are as a people. Had it been that this woman is an African, a lot people, including his family members, would have declared fatwa on him. No, a white person is adored and venerated as a god in Africa. Pity!

Imagine the screaming gaps in their age and tell me what this dude intends to benefit from this women if not that he is going to move to the states, and momentarily banish financial poverty in his life. Maybe as a Muslim he might get to dump her after, say, ten or fifteen years, and look for someone more deserving to be called wife. This white aunt looks like his mother. Considering the fact that most female western commence sexual activity early and couple with the fact that teenage pregnancy and early marriage are common over there, this woman is suppossed have children that are the age mate of this guy.

What is the meaning of this epistle you just wrote Sir?

We all know the boy is doing it for the papers, so what is wrong with that?

If he feels that is his escape route from poverty, good for him.

Everyone's race in life is different.

Leave him alone and do what works for you too.

hashtagged:
Amen, 8yrs wtf he just wasted her prime years

Which prime years?

She's just 26, started dating at 18.

MeeztaFabulouz:
7 years of struggle to cater for and build a decent home, I have spoken so many times and to no avail. Since I was born up till this year, I hit a woman for the first time in my life. The reason is just because she did something stupid, I didn't want to get involved in any argument or fight, I just went to book a hotel room and had a quite time to myself that night till the next morning and on getting home she just attacked me saying I went to sleep with another woman.
I have given her the options so many times to go her way if she is not happy being with me but she won't go. As am writing this, I have not eaten her food since yesterday and I just got home only to see her serving me food and trying to make up but this is not the first time. I practically made her not go to the shop today and I was expecting to see that she went to the shop. When ever we talk, she listens and behave herself for a while but its like there is a spirit that comes into her and when it does, she forgets everything and only tries to bring trouble and more trouble.

Go back to your fathers house, she will not. Ok go and be with any other person that will tolerate your attitude she will not leave my house. All she does is money money money this and that. Even with her business, she does not use a dime for anything in the house aside her own stuffs.
Can you imagine she had a fight with me some time ago because I personally went to pay my kids school myself? All because I didn't give her the money to go and pay herself as I normally do?

Can you also imagine she had a fight with me one day all because I bought a jeans and slippers for myself without buying anything for her and the kids because I had bought some nice stuff for all of them including her like a week before then.

This is a woman that has never bought me even a boxers since marriage and has never gotten me anything gift for my birthday or anything but I just ignore all that and focus on making the family happy. Yet I am not happy in my home because I know what I go through especially this year that corona made things rough, I have passed through hell just to ensure my family is fine and we are not put to shame yet a matured thinking lady does not even care about anything.

Those saying I am a fool for thinking of suicide because of a woman, it is not because of the woman I am thinking of such, if you really know what depression can cause, knowing how hard you struggle to earn your money and spend it on someone who cares less for you, you will understand.

Guys have been asking you to take the "Redpill", why don't you try it? You'd be surprised how amazing it works

LagosInter:
No woman who has done prostitution will ever leave it.

The money they make will never allow them value normal job.


She will be like " Why would I work here for 30k when I can get that in a night with pepper soup, smirnoff, AC hotel etc."?


Ironically, many of them amount to nothing eventually.

You wonder what they do with all the money.

ASIDE: We all pay for sex, either with time, money, affluence, etc.

Even in marriage, because women are wicked by default and incapable of loving.

It's all about what she is gonna gain there.


A woman can only manage to love the son a bit genuinely, not the husband.

The husband is a mere provider and is replaced the moment he loses this ability.

All men should beg Chukwu to be able to have means till death.

Otherwise, whatever you see, you take.

We also have to make our own input as well by working hard and saving for rainy days.

Professor....wait o, did you graduate from UBUNJA University?

LagosInter:
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You are right bro.

When I was young I used to think manual cars were better till I started driving my friend's automatic car.

Guys banging only oshos are missing a lot.

The intensity of orgasm and treatment you get from a girl who is into you can never be gotten from olosho even if you pay her 1m.

I would rather fuuckk a girl whose beauty is 4/10 that's into me than fuucckk a 9/10 olosho.

You won't know the difference till you experience it.

I used to have a girl that once she noticed I was hard, she would laugh and would ask, "Can you wait till I come back" ?




Most times If I said no, she would oblige immediately.

Her desire was my happiness. She did everything in this world to please me and have me all to herself.

I returned the favour as well and appreciated her efforts.

She never complained because she wanted the sex as much as I did. And initiated it most times. Unlike oloshos.

With her I knew I was a stud. I could do her for over an hour.

Most oloshos want you to cum even at the sight of the vagiina, but a girl into you wants the sex and wants you to last.



Or is it the moaning, that heat of the moment?

I heard one say he was sucking oloshos breast, lol.

What's there to suck, all her nerves are dead. Most of her moans are fake just to get you excited so you cum quick.

That's why she isn't happy if you stop a bit, maybe to control ejaculaation.

MOST ashawos are damaged. It's psychological, check stats. They are likened to war veterans.

They feel "looted" that's why many are drug addicts and junkies.

Trust me, I know what I am saying, I have been there.


ASIDE: I had a bj yesterday from a girl into me, she is a virgin. I don't want to deflower her sef. After smooching i told her i needed to releaase, she said, let's go, went on her kneees and did it, i saw the passion to please me, it increased my excitement and i came.

No olosho can give such bj, at least not with passion.

There is always a woman that likes you, go for her and appreciate her. That way things will be easier. Ubunja would call that "chosen"

Prof. Prof....I hail o...

Jodha:
A virgin can actually know what sex entails by regularly watching porn....

Experience is not always the best teacher.... sometimes yhu learn from others..

YES, you can know ALL what it entails by watching porn but can never know how it feels until you experience it.