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DaddyMorenike:
If I say what's on my mind now, they will say I have come.
Shebi last last Na straf she straf the white man for hotel.

I tire, and them go say na 'God's time'. No be every thing we go put God inside abegi.

etrange:
Lol.... as usual, when guys go cheating and dating multiple girls; girls are the ones to sit down and ask themselves questions.

The infallible men.

Sorry, that guy knows nothing about females.

Then my contribution to the post ; be very carefull with most girls who say 'I am beautiful'.

luminouz:
I stopped reading after 'Girls stick to only one'....

Where dafuq u been living? Open ya eyes bro or it will end in premium tears for you

Exactly, I was shocked when I read that line.

Oluromantic:
No need for therapist jor. Her own dey her body.
Most girls say they're in relationship, most guys say they're single. But if you observe well, most guys have 3 babes or more, girls stick only to one. Out of those 3 babes or more the guy has, there's always one that has all his heart that he's always serious about. She need to sit down and find out what is making her not that special one..that's all.

It's like you know little about 'most girls'. That person who likened guys to dogs and girls to cats was really intelligent. Dogs aren't nearly as secretive as cats. Truth is most guys brag about their several girlfriends, girls on the other hand hardly talk about their guys, they may talk about the main guy, yes. You will be shocked to know that even the ones you see as faithful ones have several side guys. Let me ask you some questions;
How many girls actually 'toast' guys? - very few
How many guys toast girls - so many.
Within a short while, one girl is being approached by several guys, whether she likes it or not, but a guy HARDLY gets toasters, except he makes the move, if he chooses not to toast, he may remain single for life. Now, how many girls have the capacity to say NO to all their several toasters all the time? They have several boyfriends for several reasons - company, money, other assistance, se.x etc. You just don't know. Do a survey, ask several girls, even the ones you think are faithful, if they truly want to be truthful to you, you will be shocked to know how many boyfriends they have. Most girls(not all) only stick to one guy as you claim, only after marriage, but a cheating guy almost always remains a cheat, whether married or not.

YoungLionken:
Nothing is as sweet as one who's already prepared before an opportunity comes..

Imagine having a sure cure to the virus.. You will not only be famous,but seen as a savior through history, you will also become an instant billionaire ..

Happy sunday...

There's no cure for any viral disease on earth. Viruses come and go on their own, are treated(managed), or prevented by the use of vaccines.

Salvador1:
First time of having 500 cases
Looking forward to see over 1000 cases in 24hrs.

No, over 600 cases have been recorded twice or more.

angelEmade:
I have done this several times...that's why i have a big circle of friends. There is a young man who calls me his second wiffey and his wife calls me my wife. In the first year of their marriage they had issues and the man was of the point that he was no longer interested. She told me about everything on phone and i opt to speak to the man. Good thing he opened up and i was able to advice the wife on her shortcomings. The simple thing causing issues between them is that the man was in the seminary preparing to get ordained as a pastor. the wife however loves to make exploits in bed. The husband feels things like mouth action or crazy styles aren't Godly. I told him doing such things and keeping his marriage is much godlier than sending a married woman packing...everyone have their own secrets and when God created sex he didnt mandate any style. Furthermore he sees all those things before he married her so why should he back off now?
Both parties are my good friend till this moment.

If only you see the way they display their love and affection now, you will be amused! the man is about 29yrs now while the lady is 25

These ones aren't the fighting type I was referring to. Your friends are ajebos. I mean the ones who fight physically as described by the OP, the kpako fighters.

angelEmade:
hmmm u have to speak to her.... Her smiles might be a decoy....she might be dying inside. Don't avoid her cuz u dislike her...she might need help!

Coming between such fighting couples most times, even if one wants to kill the other and you choose sides, you become a common enemy to both of them as soon as they reconcile -which they'll definitely do in no time.

Confusedgirl869:
Hello everyone. This account is created for this .

This issue has been bothering me a lot and I am very confused on what to do.

We have been together for more than 2 years now and we hardly have issues, infact we are a perfect match or so I thought.

I am 26 while he is 35, we both working and I never disturb him for money, I take care of all my needs myself. He is very calm and peaceful, doesn't hit me and I really admire him a lot. I on the other hand is also good, hardworking, not materialistic and all that makes a good woman.

So after thinking of our relationship thoroughly some weeks ago, I realised that there is really nothing stopping us from getting married this year or next. I decided to hear what he has to say because he never talked about us being or getting married. I also noticed that whenever he sees or hears about bad marriages he felt lucky he is not in yet. This always makes me feel bad because I know myself. I also wasn't a fan of marriage before I met him because of so many bad men out there, but everything changed when I met my guy, he is what I want. The very first day we met, the first thought that came to my mind was 'this is my him' I don't know why I had that thought being our first time meeting.

Anyways, few weeks ago I decided to ask him what his plans are. Are we in on a long thing or not? I got the shock of my life when he made me understand that he doesn't want to be tied forever, he loves his space and the way nobody disturbs him. That he only wants a baby mama, he wants me to be the mother his kids but not in marriage. I was mad and I cried for days. He was even sounding like nothing is wrong with being a baby mama, maybe not but I just can't.

Well, I made him understand that I can't be a baby mama and it will also be hard for me to move on with another person. I've bonded so well with him and all that. And I also hate jumping from one man to another. I told him to talk to people who are in successful marriages and stop looking at the bad ones. Today when we were talking I asked him about it and he is still maintaining his stand on the mama.

I don't want to give birth to kids that have 2 homes, I grew up like that(it took me lots of self discipline not to become useless) and wouldn't want that kind of life for my kids, I want them to grow with their parents in ONE house. At the same time, I don't want to lose my good man and relationship.

I need your opinions please.

If truly you're who you say you are then you must be a good girl. The good ones suffer more in relationships. I hated break ups while I was still single cos' I get hurt so bad for so long.... As a guy o. But truth is, some persons just don't see you as one they'd spend their lives with, no matter how convinced you are that you're meant for them. It's hard to move on (used to be for me though), but you don't force such persons on yourself. If he wants you, he'll stay, explain to him again, if he isn't ready for the kind of union you want, I think you should move on.

specialmati:
nigerian scamming virus.nigerian government especially this set ruling now na full time idoits.they should open up everything abeg.i hate this stress people are passing through now.

Funny thing is some of you making these kinds of comments would still come here later to accuse 'the government' for allowing the virus to spread. In fact, some people don already start to complain about that. Bros, wetin we want for this country na him I no know again.

[quote author= post=90498771]Same people shouting they wanna go out by force!
Comedians everywhere!![/quote]I'm not much into politics but most times my thoughts align with yours and just a few others, not just here on Nairaland but all over the Internet. The way most Nigerians think really baffles me.

Nezzjnr:
You guys are saying OP should mind his business... For what exactly??
Didn't you see where OP stated that he's like a Fatherly figure to her and she's different from the others

This girl is still a minor working as a sales rep... If something bad happens to her... All fingers will be pointing towards OP.

About the topic, what more can I say? Things happen, but bro, you don't refer to a 21 year old as a minor, even worse a Nigerian girl. Most (not all) 21 year old Nigerian girls aren't minors. I repeat, they are not minors. They know and have done what a 45 year old male has not even thought of doing. Women are older than men- if you know what I mean.

3rdavefarms:
Kogi not Gombe

You saw Yahaya and just concluded it was Kogi, no?

Naija246:
staged !!!

Exactly my thoughts after reading and watching the video.

EgusiSoup:
This are result of this APC government we were deceive to vote for as a Yoruba man. PDP would have done better to manage the protest but who does not knows where we are now. We knows who is to blame for this protest. By 2023 we shall collect this mistake

Who be this?

I'd have liked this post if there was no religious undertone attached to it. The way we de take play with God these days sef, if we don't believe in God then we simply should state it, if we want to do wrong like we always like to do, let's go on doing wrong but trying to justify our wrongs by bringing God into the picture isn't just right. Abi God don change?

1stola:
She's not close to beautiful.

That many guys are sleeping with a girl who collects their money doesn't make the girl beautiful.

Ok, that's why I put 'beautiful' in quote, because even if we don't believe they are, in their heads they believe they're beautiful. I proceeded to check her profile to confirm if truly she isn't beautiful as you stated, only to discover she doesn't even have a face. Perhaps her world only revolves around her you-know-what.... and judging by the picture, I was right, she's poor, that's just how they talk.

Onyi22:
Getting pregnant for a rich wealthy man or guy is the prayer of every ladies out there...

Congratulations Regina for not settling down for less all in the name of Love,
My advice for ladies, please marry money, Love na scam.

Only the Poor broke ass guys will start wailing after seeing this news

I'm not saying you're wrong but I'm a 100% sure you're from a very poor family. Don't get me wrong, saying you're poor isn't an insult, I don't even know why people ridicule those who are poor. I just know how girls from very poor families talk, particularly the 'beautiful' ones.

FGonline:
hmmmm



Or have thy bn dia since?

slimjohn2k5:
Which US wen they ban flights

Make una de read before una comment na.

Op ma confuse like Bob's gender. Some times him go write 'he', next minute him go write 'she'.

"The Delta state police public relations officer, Onome hskevshshgeca"...... I skipped the name and continued reading.

HIPROFILE:
Why does his post bite so hard on all of you

If you dont like it and have nothing to do with it why not move onto the next

It seems his post torments you conscience in other words your conscience isn't a good one ! Please change and accept Christ...its simple

I want to ask you a very sincere question ;
If that guy were to be a Muslim writing Islamic preachings on any and every topic on Nairaland, how would you feel?.... I know how you'll react. Mind you, every religion feel their way is the only way and see others as lost souls. We are Christians or Muslims or Buddhists or whatever religion MOSTLY because we were born into one or scarsely by choice. A fanatic is a fanatic, Christian or Muslim or any other religion at all. Think about it bro.

Naija246:
Women are economically better to rent than buy.
Don't marry that lady.
Don't say I didn't warn you

Bro, say 'bad women', I repeat ' bad women'. I rented a bad one for years and bought a good one in the end. The difference was/is clear..... 7up.

Iamvetlander:
I'm on this table, my problem is that I read too fast and I'll end up not understanding too well. I try my best to read slow, but it's not working. Help a brother my people.

I have self esteem issue.
I need help

You're not alone. In addition to yours, mine is that I write better than I speak, then speak perfectly in my mind and with some persons too, whereas with some others I feel like my tongue is glued to my jaw- I hardly can say more than two words without my brain going blank. I'm getting better with age though.

boookworm:
Who else has noticed that "Shit is getting real" crew has reduced


Meanwhile Anambra is scoring one goal in all their matches, I think they are desperate to get relegated

And Edo is just like crystal palace, they don't want to go up, they don't want to go down, they just want to remain mid table

Lol, you're irredeemable, always on first page on every corona thread posting like you have little info, yet with all explanations you remain like a student who refuses to learn. Perhaps you're just doing this to get 'likes' from your likes.

chatinent:
Yet nobody knows anybody who knows anyone who has the virus.

Of all the five cases in Benue, all names were mentioned. Guess what? We complained about it. People just post anything and follow the crowd blindly on the internet. In this country, nobody knows what anybody really wants.

NorthPrince:
so what is ur point now

maybe we should give you the gun so that you can go and use your mathematics formula on it

Thank you for this reply. People just talk any how and complain about everything that one begins to wonder some times whether we weren't really ready for the Internet.

Subduer:
Why are the Chinese leaders CONCEALING data?
Why did WHO give unscientific protocol that HAS caused the deaths of thousands of people?
Why did WHO order against autopsy?
Why is Bill Gates, not a Medical Doctor, insisting everyone MUST RECEIVE his Vaccines.
Why did Nigeria's National Assembly rush a Legislation, to FORCE everyone to RECEIVE VACCINES that they themselves haven't seen, or even know anything about.
Some SCAMS are in Trillions of Dollars, & well ORCHESTRATED.

I hear you bro. I've gone past the stage of engaging in unnessary arguments. Cheers.

fatymore:
I said except. May God heal our land

I knew wrote except, but there was no need for that..... Amen.

fatymore:
I am sorry for disturbing you, but please read and be safe...

This issue has been troubling me and I hope Lagos State Government, Lagos State Environmental Protection Agency(LASEPA) and the ministry of health can take note.

We are actually doing more harm than good to ourselves with the use of Cleaning tap bucket that is being used in Markets and Garages.

These taps are placed in dirty areas with no or little drainage system or with the aid of bucket for collection(pukes). I keep thinking what if someone who is infected washes his/her hands and the water got infected or the tap got infected, is that not a calamity again. The kinda soap being used is even worrisome.

Except this virus is a scam, aitirinkankan. The issue of nose masks is another day discussion.

May God help us.

You gave a very good advice but ended up with that Nigerian word "scam". It has spread globally, it wasn't scam before, but because we like using that word too much, it became scam in our own case. May be when some of these fans of scam start knowing people who have it, they'll learn to stop using the word "scam " for the virus. I know someone who has it.

DrGoodman:
Dr. Jonathan, health minister Dr. Onyebuchi Chukwu and PDP swept Ebola out of Nigeria in less than a month.

I don't like it when you guys do this PDP/APC thing. Is it because of your love for a party that you fail to realize that even though Ebola is far more fatal than corona, it doesn't spread even nearly as fast as the corona virus? Is APC ruling the world? Do you guys type these stuff out of mischief or this is how you really think? As far as I'm concerned, the problem with this country isn't PDP or APC, our real problem is the mentality of the average Nigerian.