GeneralShepherd:

You are not the centre of the universe Boo. He should avoid you like a plague because you are way too jealous

Incrizz: [size=18pt]You have never been so wrong about someone.[/size]

oludamy: hello ifex, pls com to ma rescue.ast week i went to see ma big sis in skool, and she introduced me to her skool daughter who lives in d same compound, and i like d gal. So later in d day, ma sis went out and i was alone wit d gal in a room till around 12pm watching film, u can believe i didnt make a move, i was scared of fucking up. Well i left d house d second day and i got her number from ma sistas fone, pls ow do i go about scoping dis gal and i dont want ma sis to knw till she goes back to skool in Jan.... Pls am waiting for ansa

oludamy: hello ifex, pls com to ma rescue.ast week i went to see ma big sis in skool, and she introduced me to her skool daughter who lives in d same compound, and i like d gal. So later in d day, ma sis went out and i was alone wit d gal in a room till around 12pm watching film, u can believe i didnt make a move, i was scared of fucking up. Well i left d house d second day and i got her number from ma sistas fone, pls ow do i go about scoping dis gal and i dont want ma sis to knw till she goes back to skool in Jan.... Pls am waiting for ansa

GeneralShepherd:

Sorry if I seemed harsh,but you have other romantic interests besides he is not yet your bf. He is allowed to have other interests till you guys get serious

GeneralShepherd:

True!

xxxtedyxxx:

U can't exhaust d topic wen d topic is about her. Interaction wit girls is in different stagers, introduction, attraction, rappport, seduction..den relationship or dating.. So d questions in each section are different.

lafex: OP, I could see that ur ministry is movin.
My own case is the I jst met this gal on monday nd I av started d parol but she told me to take her to shoprite on satday but I dont have enough money to take her for shopping.
How you think I can boycut the shopping nd she wnt feel as if am stingy

thegoodjoehunt: Thanx man. Nice info. I will follow your tip. I will see her today. That card trick is nice man. Are you Lebron James? Cos you gat game.

Well I hope it goes well.

The problem is that I can't get a customised card in short notice from an artist. I guess I'll use a commercial card with a simple gift.

RED DEVILS: I ve been chyking this girl. We nw hv a rapport. Before she travelled we talked and she asked me "so you don't hv a girlfriend" I told her I have been single for some time nw. Well from the look of things I think we are officially a couple. She has travelled for xmas and am having problem on what to talk with her when we talk on phone I really don't wanna draw blanks when I call her. Thanks a lot man. I love this girl!

lafex: OP, I could see that ur ministry is movin.
My own case is the I jst met this gal on monday nd I av started d parol but she told me to take her to shoprite on satday but I dont have enough money to take her for shopping.
How you think I can boycut the shopping nd she wnt feel as if am stingy

Obidike jr.:


You dont reject a gurl in public, that's bad. Sincerely you spoiled her christmas.

You got her wer u want her now, in ur hands, she tripping. now stop your big boy act and reciprocate her love before she builds a wall around her heart.

Get an artist to design a cute happy christmas / new year card and send to her, write your name and number at the bottom if she as so much as flash you, then she is still into u.

Hope this helps.

Obidike Paul C.
Abuja.

Obidike jr.:
↑↑↑ @falcao

Theres just one thing I believe you cant make possible, considering your ish, you cant force love and you cant force someone to love u. I'll advice you to move on. but b4 u do tell her you love her and hear Wat she has to say, based on her reply u'll know wassup.

Hope this helps.

thegoodjoehunt: I didn't use the card or gift system. I didn't want to be trapped in the guilty zone. As soon as I reached her friend's place, I just went straight to her and pretended as if I was unaware that I hurt her.

I started acting nice and caring. Till she opened up of how bad I made her feel. That for once she opened up to me that she needed me around. Yet I abandoned her.

For the first time I really felt bad. She was really broken.

I asked her for a chance to prove myself caring.

She gave me her number and told me that it would be difficult for me to get her to trust me.


NOW I GOT HER DIGITS. I just sent her a very nice text with a short apology. She didn't reply. I will call tomorrow.

Kai I bleeped up too much. The Chick is really disappointed.

thegoodjoehunt: I didn't use the card or gift system. I didn't want to be trapped in the guilty zone. As soon as I reached her friend's place, I just went straight to her and pretended as if I was unaware that I hurt her.

I started acting nice and caring. Till she opened up of how bad I made her feel. That for once she opened up to me that she needed me around. Yet I abandoned her.

For the first time I really felt bad. She was really broken.

I asked her for a chance to prove myself caring.

She gave me her number and told me that it would be difficult for me to get her to trust me.


NOW I GOT HER DIGITS. I just sent her a very nice text with a short apology. She didn't reply. I will call tomorrow.

Kai I bleeped up too much. The Chick is really disappointed.

lord_falcao: mehn there's this gal am gaming on...have used all rapport techniques with her but am not sure she' likes me....I do call her sometimes...but DX gal have never flashed me talk of calling....wen it comes to chat I always Starr first....she had only started once....since we began charting...d only favour she has returned was to send me an Xmas message.... mehn I just said lemme freestyle her for sometimes now...what do you guys think....and also give me advice on how to get her

ifex370: 4ck up man...
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i'm ashamed of you...

Obidike jr.:


She will get over it, she likes you alot bro.

Incrizz: Aww..I didn't think you were harsh but I was like wow! I have never been so wrongly judged, you get..?
The thing is: the OP said it's a strategy to get a girl you like to fall for you. So, my question is, if you're really wanting to get girl of your interest to fall for you, is it by showing off your other romantic interest..?
And the funny thing is, once I lock up on a guy who does that, I become more friendly and open and easily accessible to him (because somewhere down my soul, I already know we wouldn't happen, lol). It 's not on purpose, it's what I have noticed.

oludamy: Hello op, ur advice is urgently needed, i met dis gal on whatsa, like 2weekes now, we've been talking well and she opens up to me easily, she told me about her ex, i didnt ask her o. We are not in d same city, but she came to dis city for xmas so we met on xmas day. But d following dat she told me she was going to see her bf, but since dat day, she has been behaving somehow, no replying BBM. Op d gal was almost mine befor dat day, i dont knw wots wrong, wot can i do to scope her from dat her ex o?

ifex370: just check it out