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@Ladies. Biko keep playing hard to get while your age mates getting married evry saturday. Shey na ashebi u wan be till eternity ni??

Hard to get, or no hard to get, a man who wants to pursue you, will pursue you.


If he can't wait, let him leave. Simple.

U make a point

I don't like girls that play hard to get cos it could lead to being friendzoned n i hate it passionately

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And if the lady tells you that she has no more time for meaningless s3x and wants to settle down.

What does that mean?

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Unibenstudent: Wasting mb on nairaland,,, what is ........., i will bite u oh

Even me, NL and baby topics

hmmmn...de mor shakara i do. d better for my self esteem...besides..wat will be will be...

Almeria: for me I really don't think its a bad idea on playing hard to get depending on how long u played it,, but don't give in easily and don't play hard to get too long either

but don't just jump into a guy because u love him without getting to know him first because u will end up jumping out as well, some of them pretends to be what they are not

Still you seem to be promoting the act to your detriment and that of the other ladies listening to you. Why don't you try however hard to read comments from the men folks who are at the receiving end. See how they view the act and try to adjust you behavior and that of those who listen to you...

I hardly have time for dat. I believe a girl should uas her brain. what is playing hard or playing soft to get.? if I approach u and ur shakara because persistant like d boko haram bleeping., I withdraw because I nid my energy elsewhere

Ladies be wise, hard to get ladies suffers heartbreak most

mhizcovy: hmmmn...de mor shakara i do. d better for my self esteem...besides..wat will be will be...

thank u. pls continue

bustyhelen: if I don't like u, I will tell u outrightly

if I like u, I don't hesitate to say yes, but saying yes isn't all about sex immediately, unless if our body chemistry needs it sharp sharp.

y play much hard to get when u actually fantasize about d gut touching u and how big he is down there?

a cute sexy ajibutter guy on my street, I admired him, one day he saw me and was starring at my chest as d 2 big water melons bounced up and down as I went to buy tooth paste in d morning as I had no bra.
I caught his eyes at my chest, he became shy and embarrassed, I walked up to him and told him, hey cutie, why were u starrig at my milk industry?
he was mumbling some words

I told him never mind.

that he should feel free.

he demanded for my number which I gave him

he later called me for a drink I told him d next day.

we went out d next day and he told me how he has been dying for me and thanked me for making things easy for him

we r still dating and he values me so much

now u are talking. I can see d maturity in u. roll out how u want d relationship to be. if it is marriage give a targetted period of time. simple. I date to know my destonation I don't have time to waste hanging around.

evegran: I don't need your protection, I'm a big girl I can take care of myself. . Oh and do read again-my comment on the topic, it explains my feelings on the ish.

Didn't have enough time to read that. You're a big girl in a big world?

NickiRoman: Why are the guys lying like this especially englishsmart and LaurelP ...Ugly Niggars be claiming I f*cked and dumped her...If I hear.

Wat will I gain from lying

sandijey: Ain't nobody gat time for that............
If u like someone go for it. If u don't let him no straight up.

. If d guy keep pestering nko?

Though i am late to this thread, talking abt playing hard to get, I think my matter pass that one now.

I need help pls.

I am a single lady and kinda outta Love. Guys matter no just dey my agenda in a very long yl now but, I met this guy and i'm kinda really into him.

He likes me too but I don't sense he wants anything more than just frns. He is really cool but I am tripping really hard for this guy. I have tried the green light part but seems he doesn't get it. He is more drawn to work and I don't know if I should just wait until this feeling dies away or just tell him straight.

Pls ideas

The part I hate is when she realizes that your interest in her is deminishing, she would start hanging around street guys to make you get jealous.
Funny enough, she is compounding her problems by:
1. Firstly, hanging around street guys is an indication that you are cheap b/c birds of a feather flock together.
2. Secondly, the impression that you already have another guy will kill the little feeling left.

Splasshhh: Though i am late to this thread, talking abt playing hard to get, I think my matter pass that one now.

I need help pls.

I am a single lady and kinda outta Love. Guys matter no just dey my agenda in a very long yl now but, I met this guy and i'm kinda really into him.

He likes me too but I don't sense he wants anything more than just frns. He is really cool but I am tripping really hard for this guy. I have tried the green light part but seems he doesn't get it. He is more drawn to work and I don't know if I should just wait until this feeling dies away or just tell him straight.

Pls ideas

You have a problem here. You do not need to wait. Go for him now!!

Almeria: for me I really don't think its a bad idea on playing hard to get depending on how long u played it,, but don't give in easily and don't play hard to get too long either

but don't just jump into a guy because u love him without getting to know him first because u will end up jumping out as well, [b]some of them pretends to be what they are not [/b]

somethings just flow. i'd rather everything just flow.

why play hard to get? here u r: two adults , digging each other and the one that gains most no matter what, is forming. id simply walk on by.
and some dont even know that robes of how to go about it: even if you must, let it be that u leave some hope percentage. not pulling it all out 100%.

as for your second paragraph, if there is any body who pretends to be what they are not, it is the female folks! you want a real guy yet you are fake from head to toes? wow! fake hair, fake face, agumented boobs, padded booty, ehmm, to mention but a few. how real can it get?

and stop decieving your selves, i have seen guys join church, join choir and waited for month/years just to get a girl. immediately he visits the zone, it all just dont make sence no more, he ports.

leave with some people a life time, u can never tell in details who they are, so stop the playing-hard-to-get-crap!

n let d heart leads!

Splasshhh: Though i am late to this thread, talking abt playing hard to get, I think my matter pass that one now.

I need help pls.

I am a single lady and kinda outta Love. Guys matter no just dey my agenda in a very long yl now but, I met this guy and i'm kinda really into him.

He likes me too but I don't sense he wants anything more than just frns. He is really cool but I am tripping really hard for this guy. I have tried the green light part but seems he doesn't get it. He is more drawn to work and I don't know if I should just wait until this feeling dies away or just tell him straight.

Pls ideas

Tell him indirectly. How you ask?
1. Be nice to him
2. If he lives alone, volunteer to cook for him and please cook a delicious meal. If you don't know, learn from your friends.
3. Jokingly, find out if he has a girlfriend, if he doesn't, you have 95% chances.
4. Get to know his friends and be nice to them too. Chances are there that they will praise you before him
5. Use eye contact to send the message across to him and I promise you that he will be begging for your 'YES' in 3 weeks time.

Hard to get is the reason why so many girl are single and will remain single until they die..even single women in their 40s who still wish to get married are still forming hard to get...LoL

Very soon the only thing hard to get from you will be a Baby

Simplefaithy: . If d guy keep pestering nko?

Hmmmn.

elipheleh:

real men like me don't play hard to get. I play hard to keep. hardtoget is for women
I encourage guys to play hard to keep and those that did liked it.

NO guys dnt play hard to get its jst dat in dis 21st century guys don scarce

It dosnt matter if yu play hard to get or nt...who ever d@ will cheat in you will surely do...if yu like play hard for 3 years..yu can still get dumped on d very day yu ve sex with him..a guy can meet yu on d first day,ve sex with yu and go on marrying you..d same guy can play by ur rules and dump yu d moment he slept with you...d@s life!!

Polchiz:
Tell him indirectly. How you ask?
1. Be nice to him
2. If he lives alone, volunteer to cook for him and please cook a delicious meal. If you don't know, learn from your friends.
3. Jokingly, find out if he has a girlfriend, if he doesn't, you have 95% chances.
4. Get to know his friends and be nice to them too. Chances are there that they will praise you before him
5. Use eye contact to send the message across to him and I promise you that he will be begging for your 'YES' in 3 weeks time.

@Splashhhh, please take this guy's advice. However, ensure he's really into you before (if you must) get intimate with him.

LaurelP: Playing hard to get is one of those things dat has never worked on me and I don't think it will ever do
As a matter of fact, any atom of feelings I have for a lady dies d moment she starts feeling too big. I just don't think I shud work hard to get a partner who is going to benefit from me. It just doesn't make sense to me!

I feel you bro well said. ....but...to me...you play hard to get. ...I join the game. ....and by the time you want up....I give you the chase. ....and then I will so work into your heart and then out of the blues....revenge is best served chilled!!!!!....so that next time someone you don't judge their action with their looks....

Playing hard to get really turns me off... Most ladies while playing hard to get they make the guy look so foolish and for me i don't take that... I might meet a girl today and maybe in a week time we become so intimate that doesn't mean she is cheap. In all, i get easily turned off when ladies play hard to get

THE REDEEMED CHRISTIAN CHURCH OF GOD 62nd ANNUAL CONVENTION

it just doesnt pay ..forming shits and all ..life is too short as you may end up losing your right MAN!

Joenice: You have a problem here. You do not need to wait. Go for him now!!

I'm kinda scared