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Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by safarigirl(f): 12:34pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
deesquarediddy: stop arguing with this OP. Just teach her English, I'm sure she failed in English comprehension all through her stay in school. I mean, did she really read that lady's post? This isn't a counter thread to that thread. The lady never mentioned it anywhere that ladies should settle for less.I always preach that people should compromise, but you can't on certain things. Physical attraction plays a big part in most marriages, if you don't find someone attractive physically and you marry them, eventually when someone you find physically attractive comes around, you may stray. You cannot tell a man to marry someone with small b00bs cuz the big-b00bed women he likes aren't coming around yet, cuz tomorrow when they finally do, it won't take much to lead him away. You CANNOT do away with the physical part of any relatuonship as much as you all wish we could 4 Likes |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by JoeCutie(m): 12:34pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
safarigirl: I don't have to be married to have a life. If I ddon't get what I want, I won't marry.It's not just about adopting a kid and living your life. I think you should also 'adopt' a man - a healthy man - who would be servicing you too. Very important. Very very important. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by naturalwaves: 12:36pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
safarigirl: I've met ladies who like short guys, to them, tall guys are 'less'Lies would do you no good. No lady prefer a shorter guy to herself. She may not be too crazy about a very tall dude but ladies like someone a bit taller thannthem or same height don't make it sound as if the ones you met readily prefer a short guy. Some ladies are also indifferent about height and that does not necessarily imply prererence for short guys. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by depato88(m): 12:37pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
100Cents: Finally, in the end, you will have only yourself to blame... u nailed it bro.....afta evry sed n done like my mother used to say " the pride of a woman is her husband" 1 Like |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by Nobody: 12:37pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
jennylove7575: ha ha ha ha laugh wan kill me, as I dey laugh my breasst dey shake ha ha ha...see okafor talking.. Ha ha ha ha...my breasst still dey shake as I dey laugh..ha ha ha.........Check am nao....u never give birth but want tall guys. U don't have a job but want men who do...u make no money but have a long list. We are product of our environment and we are in this corrupt and bad economy togeda. Last time I fake-talked of getting married, some US-based female relatives were hailing me. No show for them there. Some wey wan step down, come to Nigeria to marry. Dey there dey mumu yourself. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by Arsenate(m): 12:38pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
Lol another deluded Nigerian girl at it again 1 Like |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by ochon: 12:41pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
safarigirl: her thread was not the sole focus. It was just the inspiration. The main focus is on the insitence that women must manage evryone that comes to them.alright then, I now understand you better. |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by redsun(m): 12:41pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
safarigirl: oga, no be only me. Abi can you settle for less? After making up your mind that you must marry Genevieve, will you decide to marry Lepacious Bose because Genevieve is not available? He can do that if he can afford it and if the women can settle for it.Nobody should settle for less and everybody should go for what they want,what they can afford and what makes them whole. Women have been free for thousands of years.They have been great rulers,warriors,community builders and mothers.It is only those that lacks that lack a sense of history that thinks women roles are that of second fiddle in the 21st century. Everybody wants something.What you know determines your faith and your chioces. 1 Like |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by contactmorak: 12:41pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
safarigirl: I've met ladies who like short guys, to them, tall guys are 'less'I don't think any lady will ever see a tall guy as less, even thos who go for short guys may not mind a tall guy. The problem is with ladies who are obsessed with tall guys tagging short guys as inferior. Another problem with ur post now is that u totally misinterpreted the post by the lady who encouraged ladies to give short guys a chance. She was not saying, 'settle for less', she was only advising people like u to stop seeing short guys as less human, and probably try them out incase ur tall fantasy is failing u. I also have this problem with women claiming they don't want to be subservient to men, yet crave to have a man taller than them so that he can dominate them physical or give them 'protection'. Yet they will be the first claiming equality with me, but they still have a psychology to be 'looked down' on by the men the date or marry. Isn't that ironic? 1 Like |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by bayulll01(m): 12:42pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
ebosse:bros u are not even sure if u are short,okay are u taller than aki and popo,if u are taller u are not short,i beg leave that gurl oooo, been long av seen brilliant gurl like that on NL,there are lot of safari on this forum,and u know the meaning of safari,daftt unintelligent,myopic,stupe,it could be in a sentence stop been safarism 1 Like |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by Nobody: 12:42pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
safarigirl: Being born into a society such as the Nigerian one connites certain things for a female.Is this ur pics? #no offense 2 Likes |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by Nobody: 12:43pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
adegwurulez: Great use of english, great sense of humor and a great deal of guts -- thats just about it.neither does wearing a wedding ring guarantee any woman that she will be happy. If they are unhappy with themselves at least its not because its their husband or the pressure from society causing it. Why spend the rest of your life unhappy because of other people. You were born alone and you will die alone, so why spend the rest of life doing what pleases other and never doing something for yourself. 2. Its fine if you want to marry CR7 cos he's fit but that doesn't make Mr. ibu less a man and non-husband material. Using the word 'less' in reference to the second group of guys is a tad insultive.Men have always placed the physical appearance of a woman as one of the priorities in a life partner. Why can't women do the same, does she not deserve to choose an appealing partner to have good looking children with too? Most men dont want to deal with an obese woman with diabetes and heart problems, but women should just take that Mr Ibu with his diabetes and heart problems, just for society to say at least she is happy? i didn't mean to sound chauvinistic in any way, but if my post betrayed my intent then i'm sorry.if u go on to settle for someone who doesnt make u happy, guess what you are just deceiving that person for that whole time you are married. So of what use will the marriage be when its based on deceit? 4 Likes |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by safarigirl(f): 12:45pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
JoeCutie: It's not just about adopting a kid and living your life. I think you should also 'adopt' a man - a healthy man - who would be servicing you too. Very important. Very very important.ehen, you can even sign a contract with some fellow. The main thing na just to get money. It's all these 'I must marry' women that are causing problem everywhere. Man go just dey use you play chacha. If you form like say you no send, they'll be pertubed. Na woman wey no dey find husband na who dey get better one, then the desperados turn to 'managers'. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by 100Cents: 12:47pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
safarigirl: such ladies are not included in my post. I believe everyone gets what they deserve so ladies like those you describe above are not part of what I mean. A virgin means, her hymen is still intact. She is still a girl with the usual girl brain. Now having dated a virgin once upon a time, she asked for recharge card one day after we met. I took it for a mistake. I sent it the exact denomination she demanded. Dear, the demand continued throughout our 6 month relationship. It came to a point of comparing my financial status with hers. "Imagine how rich you are and I am suffering". Meanwhile I know this is blackmail but I am no fool, I will still enter my car and go and drop money with her. Money was my least problem then. This lady was always visiting my house like 3 times a week that I got tired of her frequent visits. Mind you, the last thing on my mind was to sleep with her, and since she always felt very free with me, I would have succeeded. After 6months, I mentioned marriage, she started her games, " send me money so I can come and see you ". You dey hear this one ? I stopped calling her. 2 weeks later, she employed the services of her parents whom I have never met to beg me to come back to her. Her mother invited me first then her father, I bluntly refused. Now tell me, was that lady actually looking for a husband 4 Likes |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by safarigirl(f): 12:47pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
Ademolapaul: Is this ur pics? #no offenseyou would do well to bring down that picture. It's against NL rules and it's highly immature. Gof Bless |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by logica(m): 12:47pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
Maybe if I explain it like this, some of these girls will finally understand. You know what women call a guy who doesn't settle for less? A player. Yes. The dude has weighed you, and found you wanting. When he calls it quits, then the crying game begins. But you have merely gotten exactly the same judgement you handed out to guys you considered "not in your league". You know, that guy in your university is not in your league. But that bank manager who makes a good living is in your league. LOL. But are you in his league? Question for awon orisa. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by bayulll01(m): 12:48pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
OsoDupe: bro, who collect ur chin chin ds morning? Don't worry, I go help u fight d person.lol dupe u are wicked,person papa haaa,lol pls pm me i wana have as my e-friend and nothing more before some guys start...... |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by Arsenate(m): 12:48pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
Ademolapaul: Is this ur pics? #no offenseLol. you gotta be kidding me...really? men have suffered. |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by safarigirl(f): 12:50pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
100Cents:didn't I say I wasn't referring to such women? I've never asked a guy for something I don't plan to repay. I may hint that I want something, but if he doesn't take it, I won't mention it ever again. I make a lot of 'maga' jokes, but I shake my head at people who use others. You may have had a bad experience, but don't we all? |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by Waspy(m): 12:51pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
Op be looking like Whoopi Goldberg and be wanting a man like Mark Walberg......Robin Thicke comes her way and she won't compromise ( she ain't settling for less). Truth be told, she gon marry Riche Hommie Quan 2 Likes |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by Nobody: 12:52pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
Mondisweets: neither does wearing a wedding ring guarantee any woman that she will be happy. If they are unhappy with themselves at least its not because its their husband or the pressure from society causing it. Why spend the rest of your life unhappy because of other people. You were born alone and you will die alone, so why spend the rest of life doing what pleases other and never doing something for yourself.So dey born una unhappy that u always want a man to make u happy? Men are not happy too! |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by JoeCutie(m): 12:52pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
[quote author=safarigirl]ehen, you can even sign a contract with some fellow. The main thing na just to get money. It's all these 'I must marry' women that are causing problem everywhere. Man go just dey use you play chacha. If you form like say you no send, they'll be pertubed. Na woman wey no dey find husband na who dey get better one, then the desperados turn to 'managers'.[/quote] All these things you're saying, you had better goan find husband like others oh (husband hunting) . Life's too short oh, and there's no time sef. 1 Like |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by safarigirl(f): 12:54pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
contactmorak: I don't think any lady will ever see a tall guy as less, even thos who go for short guys may not mind a tall guy. The problem is with ladies who are obsessed with tall guys tagging short guys as inferior. Another problem with ur post now is that u totally misinterpreted the post by the lady who encouraged ladies to give short guys a chance. She was not saying, 'settle for less', she was only advising people like u to stop seeing short guys as less human, and probably try them out incase ur tall fantasy is failing u. I also have this problem with women claiming they don't want to be subservient to men, yet crave to have a man taller than them so that he can dominate them physical or give them 'protection'. Yet they will be the first claiming equality with me, but they still have a psychology to be 'looked down' on by the men the date or marry. Isn't that ironic?okay. I don't know the kind of ladies you hang around, but I've never thought of women as the superior gender. No one should be subservient to anyone, there should be a mutual understanding, the males will always be the stronger of the 2 (there are some exceptions though)...and he had been created to protect and provide. Not to Lorf over anyone |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by Nobody: 12:54pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
OsoDupe: bro y u dey vex na? I bet u have sisters that have criteria for the guy of their dreams, does that make them an 'oloshi' as u put it? Everybody to their own want and dreams. Abeg no vex Sorry my sisters grew up believing in their independence and they have achieved it. They do not depend on what men have to bring to the table as they are more than capable of taking care of themselves. Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by Nobody: 12:54pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
safarigirl: I don't have to be married to have a life. If I ddon't get what I want, I won't marry.This particular post - I didn't send to you... Pls go to my first post on the First page and tell me where I got you wrong. |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by bayulll01(m): 12:54pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
safarigirl: her thread was not the sole focus. It was just the inspiration. The main focus is on the insitence that women must manage evryone that comes to them.safari ur stupiiidity will not kill u,obviously from ur post is because of the thread so dont lie,u cant even accept responsibilities that ur choice of words is wrong,i pity for u ooo,and na person go put u for house,anyway as one guy said no body give a damm if u like marry short or tall none of my bizness 1 Like |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by Nobody: 12:54pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
100Cents:doesn't sound like you were looking for a wife either though 1 Like |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by 100Cents: 12:55pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
Mondisweets: doesn't sound like you were looking for a wife either though Explain yourself... Okay, I didn't listen to her parents entreaties because there was something very bad she did... |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by safarigirl(f): 12:58pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
naturalwaves:oh, you must be in the head of every female to determine that. Now unless you hold get-togethers with women, you really shouldn't rebuff a claim. I'm telling you now, that I've come across tall, large women who won't mind a guy like Ime Bishop...fine, it may come from an underlying need to dominate such men, but they still want them regardless |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by OsoDupe(f): 12:58pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
calebo101:yea and a lot of girls out their are like ur sisters, independence all the way. |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by Nobody: 12:58pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
safarigirl: you would do well to bring down that picture. It's against NL rules and it's highly immature. Gof Blesshaha...c authority petite |
Re: Why Nigerian Ladies Should Never Settle For Less by MrCork: 1:00pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
....if Nigerian ladies want us men to respect then then they hav no choice but to change color:...light skin! 1 Like |
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