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Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 5:55am On Jun 26, 2017 |
dingbang:How do you determine someone's honesty? Forget the fact that he is from Nigeria. Not everyone is criminally minded. Like I just said earlier on, give him a chance but do not give him any money at this stage. 2 Likes |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by AHCB: 5:56am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal:Can I see the link to the post? Should be a thread, by the looks of it. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nina4u(f): 5:57am On Jun 26, 2017 |
AHCB:No my dear.. I love my Nigerian friends.. The culture food traditions.. There is naija friends I had for many years and they never asked me for nothing but friendship... There is lovley people in Nigeria over 210 spoken languages and dialect.. The cultural diversity is amazing.. I got friends from borno to zamfari to kogi to Abia to ogun to Edo to port hartcourt.. Benin to Lagos and abuha.. In every part of the country.. But u know u self that what I say is true and security is almost non existent with a failing police force |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by dingbang(m): 5:58am On Jun 26, 2017 |
I used to have a white chic from los Angeles loving me so badly... I never asked her a dime.. This made her come all the way from United states to Nigeria just to see me but unfortunately, we didn't get to see due to circumstances beyond my control... So I think in all sincerity, any guy who likes you won't want to start pulling demands. And on the radio today I was advised by the OAP, never give money to anybody you met online who you havnt seen and you both have some "love" If they really claim they like you, let them spend their time and money to come and see you. 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Redgal(f): 5:59am On Jun 26, 2017 |
ChibuzoIkenna:@Chibuzolkenna I sent an email request to you. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by KosiGee(m): 6:00am On Jun 26, 2017 |
DeeTus: I don't believe that he is. He shouldn't be demanding money from a foreigner he hasn't met in real life. Can't his cousin in the US help him with the money? Why does he need an 'agent'? He doesn't need an agent if he has genuine reason to travel. If the woman is worried about her safety, I wouldn't advice her to make the trip. 2 Likes |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Prec1ous(m): 6:01am On Jun 26, 2017 |
RedGal Please forget what everyone is saying. Two things are involved : he is either a scam or he is really genuine. The country is bad enough and everyone wants to escape but that does not make him a bad person. You can also visit Nigeria, stop at Lagos or Abuja or even go to Ghana to neutrality. The media media has not been fair to is. I want you to become decisive, you need to know his person, tell him to scan his credentials to you: ID, University degrees and supporting documents even passport page. You need to know he is genuine. Go to his cousins girlfriend and ask questions. Let me tell you a truth, most African men in his shoes too, no matter how much they love you, using you as an opportunity to get to America will be a priority. Heay truly love but put him through hoops. Am eager to help too. You can send a A PM. Note: Am also from Benin city 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by gayman99: 6:02am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Just two weeks ago I went for a burial ceremony in Ekpoma and I bumped into old school mates of mine. They came with all sorts of flashy cars and I was like inquisitive as to know the source of their wealth. The only response I got was " omon we dey dabo oyinbo man head" and I was like fine " I wish you success in your career but always remember, there is a price tag for every action you take". It was so nauseating for you to see people wasting money they didn't work for all in the name of mugu don fall. 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by AHCB: 6:02am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Nina4u:Security is present, at least for foreign nationals. This I know. What you say is only true as it relates to a very few set of people in this country. The amount of scammers is very very little. Have you been to Nigeria before? You having friends from almost all the geo-political zone in the country kinda piqued my curiosity. 2 Likes |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by dingbang(m): 6:02am On Jun 26, 2017 |
DeeTus:give him a chance to do what? Hasn't she given him a chance already? The only part that remains in their Rship is for them to meet and that requires money.. Deetus don't tell me you really don't know this is Nigeria . ok if he says he is serious then he should use his money to come all the way to america to see her and let redgal tell him she will refund all the cash he spent.. I think that is quite fair too 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Redgal(f): 6:03am On Jun 26, 2017 |
AHCB:Here it is. I recently posted there too seeking advice : https://www.nairaland.com/13194/american-women-marry-nigerian-men/1 |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nina4u(f): 6:04am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal:she could be in on the scam... Thats how they work.. I was told to call this guy in jail that got tortured by the police and other inmate.. Basicly he said the police is charging his phone and let him use it in jail.. But little did he know I knew this guy in jail.. It was not his phone number and I knew the guy was fine and well.. But I called and someone else pretended to b him.. I played along and I played the player for a long time.. Wasting their own money and making a fool out of them and n the Nigerian bank... Lmao 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by KosiGee(m): 6:04am On Jun 26, 2017 |
DeeTus: She should never give him money at any stage. Wtf. Is she his meal ticket? A serious man should hustle legit and foot his bills. If he is frustrated with Nigeria, he has an opportunity to flee but he is ruining it with his suspicious demands. His cousin is in the US, why couldn't she help him? |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by newyorks(m): 6:04am On Jun 26, 2017 |
they always lost job and currently idle, scammers and this statement though 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by AHCB: 6:05am On Jun 26, 2017 |
ChibuzoIkenna:You'd thread cautiously in offering your advice on a faceless forum where no one knows you? Like seriously. I'm amazed, not in the least bit, that is. 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 6:06am On Jun 26, 2017 |
KosiGee:That's true. Asking for money from a stranger is bad. Not withstanding though, some people believe they can only get a visa through an agent most especially the inexperienced ones. What I'm saying here is the lady could test him more so as to know if he truly loves her and not wanted to scam her. She shouldn't give any damn to him now! |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Henrypraise: 6:06am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal: I read some of d comments above me n I felt uneasy, Nigerians always feel d worse dats why we get d worse. to ur post redgal, most Nigerian men became jobless recently n ur man may not be telling a lie abt dat; if u send him part of d money to come to d US or europe, he may not be able to raise d balance to come meet u, n u may feel he has scammed u, I suggest u keep ur money, n meet him up in Ghana, ensure u book d hotel reservations ursef b4 u leave ur country, let him spend his own money to get to Ghana as part of his commitment to d course. av no fear, Nigerians are not as bad as we ar portrayed... 4 Likes |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Redgal(f): 6:08am On Jun 26, 2017 |
KosiGee:His cousin isn't in America yet. The cousin's fiancee is in America and she is processing the U.S. visa for him( the cousin) to come here. They got engaged when she visited Nigeria earlier this year. From my understanding too she is the one paying the $2000 dollars for the cousin to come here. My friend says she is paying $500 dollars every month till she pays it off. That is the only thing holding up his cousin from being here now. But once she pays it off he should be here in the next few months he says. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by AHCB: 6:10am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal:Seen and noted. If you really feel for the guy and you know you can afford the money, help him with half of it. That is, after he's sent you his voters ID/National ID card (these can't be forged, unlike drivers licence) his Facebook ID. Photocopies of his NYSC discharge certificate, university certificate, his house address and a picture of him and his family. If he gives you an excuse for any of the mentioned, then he isn't legit. 2 Likes |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nina4u(f): 6:12am On Jun 26, 2017 |
AHCB:I'm accually comming to las gidi around Christmas to see some artists and good friends I have known for a couple of years |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 6:14am On Jun 26, 2017 |
dingbang:Do you know if the dude has applied for American visa and got denied? There are lots of questions she should boldly ask him first. Not all Nigerians are bad. When I was abroad, a chick gave me her credit card and I used it accordingly without playing smart on her. So, forget about that. Not everyone loves crime. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Redgal(f): 6:16am On Jun 26, 2017 |
KosiGee:I'll be honest I gave him $200 U.S. dollars so far to renew his passport and when he got it renewed he showed me it on video camera. But at this stage I feel wary about sending more money. I really don't want to. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by KosiGee(m): 6:16am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal: You don't need such an amount of money to process US visa. Go to the US consul website and inquire. An agent wouldn't do much for him. They are scammers. The said agent would probably enclose same documents he got from him, send it to the US embassy. If it works out, he would demand more money from him. He can do all that himself. He doesn't need a third party to do it for him. Check US embassy website for their requirements, he should do the same. The only problem would be proof that you've met him. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by dingbang(m): 6:16am On Jun 26, 2017 |
DeeTus:she didn't state it in her statement if he applied for visa and got denied. Let us ask redgal if he ever made any move singlehandedly. Redgal. Did he at any time apply for visa on the grounds to come and see you and was denied ? |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nina4u(f): 6:18am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal:what is she aplying? Fiancee visa? Oh boy.. They could have gotten married in Nigeria in court have it filed and he wouldav been here by now.. Immigration in USA to aply for a resident card is only 700 dollar.. Remember I'm from Sweden but live in USA.. Eighter shes getting lied to or shes in on the scam.. Shes sending the 500 a month to him or the immigration? This makes no sence 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 6:19am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Nina4u: Hahahha..good for u.. I dont get it why some Nigerian men will think once they met a foreign lady they will think like "Oh she's rich..I must ask money from her.." they imagine once its a foreign lady she looks like a cash machine .. 1 Like |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 6:20am On Jun 26, 2017 |
dingbang:Good. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by KosiGee(m): 6:21am On Jun 26, 2017 |
I think the op is the best person to advice herself and answer the questions posed here. I'm just not comfortable with people who has money for internet calls and browsing as well as the credit cards to pay for dating sites but they haven't got money to even pay for their Nigerian international passports. Tell me another thing abeg. 3 Likes |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nina4u(f): 6:22am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Redgal:wooowwww it cost 100 dollar to renew a Nigerian passport about 32000 Nigerian Naira |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Redgal(f): 6:23am On Jun 26, 2017 |
dingbang:No he hasn't. He claims his cousin tried but was denied so that's his excuse. |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nobody: 6:24am On Jun 26, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby:No. It's as a result of poverty. Lots of guys in Nigeria don't have money but luckily for them, they believe foreign chicks can give them money. LOL! |
Re: American Woman Who Met Nigerian Man Online by Nina4u(f): 6:24am On Jun 26, 2017 |
KosiGee:http://www.ustraveldocs.com/ng/ng-niv-visaapply.asp 1 Like |
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