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Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:02pm On Dec 19, 2017
alexialin:






Eeyah


Don't worry, there is a woman for every man. Not every woman is hung up on sex.

So don't loose hope yet. The most important is having a companion with similar likes and dislikes, then mutual understanding.
The rest, we can say is history.
For me, have learnt to take life easy. Can't come and kee myself cheesy

I can't o.




Goten tired of the search jare. I'll focus on my career from now !

Thanks for giving me hope, i actually have passed through eight chicks, and from the enthusiasm i feel they exude, it seems they live for sex, so i'll just pass! I'm not saying i'm not highly sexual oh, or that idon't have high libido, but it'snot as hyped in my life as i see it here freely expressed on social media, and it's an indicator of much bigger thing. Who knows i may just be a Rhinoceros myself once i start the show, but one thing i know, i'm highly sexually-controlled.

But for these ones, too much porn ti ba ye won je !
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:03pm On Dec 19, 2017
lefulefu:
well u have to be careful b4 u trust a babe.u don't jus trust anyhow.


Bros we can love without trust oh. Loving doesn't need trust firsthand, trust is built in the process of relationship. I don see one Benin man wey get this your mind say all women are sluts, he's approaching 42 now, no wife, nothing, na the same thing he still dey shout upandan
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:08pm On Dec 19, 2017
lefulefu:
yea kudos to the faithful couples in marriage.not like many of rubbish marriage wey we dey see nowadays. Oga dey carry campus girls...madam dey sleep with gateman and the houseboy cheesy.




Mehn! Such kind of marriages is useless.

I wonder why they got married in the first place. Thank God I don't witness this types around my hood . In my compound, am the only spinster. The rest tenants are married, responsible and grounded. The husbands takes care of their responsibilities, while their wives support them. No fight, no quarrel, everywhere is peaceful.
Except noise of kids that's all.

Their team work no be here o.

If u see them, marriage go dey hungry u cheesy sometimes o

Lol
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:09pm On Dec 19, 2017
Jupxter:



Bros we can love without trust oh. Loving doesn't need trust firsthand, trust is built in the process of relationship. I don see one Benin man wey get this your mind say all women are sluts, he's approaching 42 now, no wife, nothing, na the same thing he still dey shout upandan
hm 42? He probably has a baby mama/mamas somewhere cheesy.
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:10pm On Dec 19, 2017
[quote author=Jupxter post=63422561]




Goten tired of the search jare. I'll focus on my career from now !

Thanks for giving me hope, i actually have passed through eight chicks, and from the enthusiasm i feel they exude, it seems they live for sex, so i'll just pass! I'm not saying i'm not highly sexual oh, or that idon't have high libido, but it'snot as hyped in my life as i see it here freely expressed on social media, and it's an indicator of much bigger thing. Who knows i may just be a Rhinoceros myself once i start the show, but one thing i know, i'm highly sexually-controlled.

But for these ones, too much porn ti ba ye won je ![/quote]







@ the bolded.


Lol cheesy


It's well smiley
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:10pm On Dec 19, 2017
alexialin:





Mehn! Such kind of marriages is useless.

I wonder why they got married in the first place. Thank God I don't witness this types around my hood . In my compound, am the only spinster. The rest tenants are married, responsible and grounded. The husbands takes care of their responsibilities, while their wives support them. No fight, no quarrel, everywhere is peaceful.
Except noise of kids that's all.

Their team work no be here o.

If u see them, marriage go dey hungry u cheesy sometimes o

Lol



If i see woman wey go give me peace of mind, i will build a shrine for her. Just peace of mind so a man can think and strategize...Not all these noise-making peddlersleft and right, so annoying to see a wife quarrel with her husband, my sisters are all married ten years now, and i am yet to be them argue once with their husbands. E dey make me wonder if i can find ladies like them.
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:11pm On Dec 19, 2017
lefulefu:
hm 42? He probably has a baby mama/mamas somewhere cheesy.


He doesn't o. He stayed with my family for up to five years self, i know him firsthand. He's now 44 self, not married.
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:12pm On Dec 19, 2017
Jupxter:



Bros we can love without trust oh. Loving doesn't need trust firsthand, trust is built in the process of relationship. I don see one Benin man wey get this your mind say all women are sluts, he's approaching 42 now, no wife, nothing, na the same thing he still dey shout upandan






Lol cheesy


Such men ehnn, only a miracle will make him marry and stay settled.

Lefulefu I take God beg you, no reason all women like that o.


Or else lipsrsealed
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:12pm On Dec 19, 2017
[quote author=alexialin post=63422798][/quote]


Porn has now become family entertainment, a guy and his sits down to watch it, and then they plan to act wht they internalize. Tufiakwa !
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:12pm On Dec 19, 2017
alexialin:





Mehn! Such kind of marriages is useless.

I wonder why they got married in the first place. Thank God I don't witness this types around my hood . In my compound, am the only spinster. The rest tenants are married, responsible and grounded. The husbands takes care of their responsibilities, while their wives support them. No fight, no quarrel, everywhere is peaceful.
Except noise of kids that's all.

Their team work no be here o.

If u see them, marriage go dey hungry u cheesy sometimes o

Lol
wetin i dey notice here be say na married ppl dey frequent Hotels pass. Hotel business is a booming business here. Without married couples away matches most hotel business go crash.
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:14pm On Dec 19, 2017
alexialin:







Lol cheesy


Such men ehnn, only a miracle will make him marry and stay settled.

Lefulefu I take God beg you, no reason all women like that o.


Or else lipsrsealed


Please beg lefulefu, the evil news he propagates about marriage on a daily is too much ! He needs to disabuse his mind, na so that bros wey be 44 start him own ! Woman are this, women are that. I have seen a lady with AIDS got married to, she's in U.S.A now, the alhaji just say he liked her, na me counsel the relationship self. Even if a woman vjaydon slack and she will gie me peace, i rather settle for a slack vjay, than a virgin that will make my existence miserable
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:15pm On Dec 19, 2017
Jupxter:



He doesn't o. He stayed with my family for up to five years self, i know him firsthand. He's now 44 self, not married.
bro believe me..he has a baby mama hidden somewhere that u don't know.he might be ashamed to admit he has a babymama.u know how shy some guys can be on dat.
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:18pm On Dec 19, 2017
lefulefu:
bro believe me..he has a baby mama hidden somewhere that u don't know.he might be ashamed to admit he has a babymama.u know how shy some guys can be on dat.



He does not bros, he stayed with my family for five years, where he moved to i still have eyes on him there. You no sabi Fidelis Okosun pass me nah. Him family since ten years think say him dey Europe self.
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:21pm On Dec 19, 2017
Jupxter:



Please beg lefulefu, the evil news he propagates about marriage on a daily is too much ! He needs to disabuse his mind, na so that bros wey be 44 start him own ! Woman are this, women are that. I have seen a lady with AIDS got married to, she's in U.S.A now, the alhaji just say he liked her, na me counsel the relationship self. Even if a woman vjaydon slack and she will gie me peace, i rather settle for a slack vjay, than a virgin that will make my existence miserable
na waoh but no be me dey post those news on marriage infidelity on nl fanpage nacheesy.thank god u were on that thread yesterday where a married man caught his wife having sex with another man in a hotel after telling her hubby she was visiting her relatives in the village.i see u for d thread nacheesy.
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:24pm On Dec 19, 2017
Jupxter:




He does not bros, he stayed with my family for five years, where he moved to i still have eyes on him there. You no sabi Fidelis Okosun pass me nah. Him family since ten years think say him dey Europe self.
pls advice him to get a baby mama.even if im no wan marry he can preg a girl and have a child of his own.abi he no want pickin?
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:24pm On Dec 19, 2017
Jupxter:




If i see woman wey go give me peace of mind, i will build a shrine for her. Just peace of mind so a man can think and strategize...Not all these noise-making peddlersleft and right, so annoying to see a wife quarrel with her husband, my sisters are all married ten years now, and i am yet to be them argue once with their husbands. E dey make me wonder if i can find ladies like them.





Such women exist.

The women in my compound works, and they are peaceful and supportive.
Their husbands too try well in making their lives comfortable.

When a man starts sharing bills with his wife and buying of household stuffs as 50-50, that's where bickering and quarrel emerges from.

But if as a Man, you take care of your family needs and the wife supports voluntarily , then u are good to go.

For example : am closer to my next flat neighbor. I saw the husband monitoring his mechanic fixing his wife's car. I was like what's wrong with the car? He said the engine knocked and she didn't check the oil before driving it to work, so he had to go buy another engine for his wife, with his own money, cos he does not want he taking their kids to school with bus or bikes. I was like Eeyah u are such a caring husband. He smiled. He said thanks. He then asked, how about my car, it's been parked for a while., won't u repair it? I sighed and said, repairing of car is not in my. Budget.
He then asked what's really wrong with it? I told him.

He said hmm OK, when the mechanic is done with my wife's car, he will repair mine and how much is the master brakes of the car?

I told him, he said OK. He then called his customer at ladipo for his price, that one told him.
After the call, he said don't worry Alexy, I will repair your car.

I was like what! shocked

Wait! Wait! Are u serious or joking? He laughed, he said what's there? Your own repair is not as much as my wife's own. Don't worry jare. What we neighbors for?
And moreover u are a nice humble lady.
Don't worry it's nothing. The prayer I prayed for the guy, no be small thing o cheesy

My dear, Na so this man repair my car o. cheesy

Am still grateful to him. You can imagine woman get that kind husband for house.. How quarrel go dey?

And am not dating him o.

We are just like brother and sister.

No some real. Men exist.. No be lie.
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:25pm On Dec 19, 2017
alexialin:






Such women exist.

The women in my compound works, and they are peaceful and supportive.
Their husbands too try well in making their lives comfortable.

When a man starts sharing bills with his wife and buying of household stuffs as 50-50, that's where bickering and quarrel emerges from.

But if as a Man, you take care of your family needs and the wife supports voluntarily , then u are good to go.

For example : am closer to my next flat neighbor. I saw the husband monitoring his mechanic fixing his wife's car. I was like what's wrong with the car? He said the engine knocked and she didn't check the oil before driving it to work, so he had to go buy another engine for his wife, with his own money, cos he does not want he taking their kids to school with bus or bikes. I was like Eeyah u are such a caring husband. He smiled. He said thanks. He then asked, how about my car, it's been parked for a while., won't u repair it? I sighed and said, repairing of car is not in my. Budget.
He then asked what's really wrong with it? I told him.

He said hmm OK, when the mechanic is done. With his wife's car, he will repair mine and how. Much is the master brakes of the car. I told him, he said OK. He then called his customer at ladipo for his price, that one told him.
After the call, he said don't worry Alexy, I will repair your car.

I was like what! shocked

Wait! Wait! Are u serious or joking? He laughed, he said what's there? Your own repair is not as much as my wife's own. Don't worry jare. What we neighbors for?
And moreover u are a nice humble lady.
Don't worry it's nothing.

My dear, Na so this man repair my car o. cheesy

Am still grateful to him. You can imagine woman get that kind husband for house.. How quarrel go dey?

And am not dating him o.

We are just like brother and sister.

No some real. Men exist.. No be lie.





I do more than this nau.
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:26pm On Dec 19, 2017
lefulefu:
pls advice him to get a baby mama.even if im no wan marry he can preg a girl and have a child of his own.abi he no want pickin?


The matter tire me !
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:27pm On Dec 19, 2017
Jupxter:




I do more than this nau.





Oh that's nice o


Then don't worry..

God will bless you with a peaceful and caring woman.

Just watch. Don't stress yourself
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:28pm On Dec 19, 2017
Jupxter:



Please beg lefulefu, the evil news he propagates about marriage on a daily is too much ! He needs to disabuse his mind, na so that bros wey be 44 start him own ! Woman are this, women are that. I have seen a lady with AIDS got married to, she's in U.S.A now, the alhaji just say he liked her, na me counsel the relationship self. Even if a woman vjaydon slack and she will gie me peace, i rather settle for a slack vjay, than a virgin that will make my existence miserable







Lol cheesy


We take God beg you o.
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Maxi112: 1:31pm On Dec 19, 2017
I'd say "Yes" cause most of our parents married without love or knowing their spouses yet they remain happily aftermath.

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Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:32pm On Dec 19, 2017
alexialin:






Such women exist.

The women in my compound works, and they are peaceful and supportive.
Their husbands too try well in making their lives comfortable.

When a man starts sharing bills with his wife and buying of household stuffs as 50-50, that's where bickering and quarrel emerges from.

But if as a Man, you take care of your family needs and the wife supports voluntarily , then u are good to go.

For example : am closer to my next flat neighbor. I saw the husband monitoring his mechanic fixing his wife's car. I was like what's wrong with the car? He said the engine knocked and she didn't check the oil before driving it to work, so he had to go buy another engine for his wife, with his own money, cos he does not want he taking their kids to school with bus or bikes. I was like Eeyah u are such a caring husband. He smiled. He said thanks. He then asked, how about my car, it's been parked for a while., won't u repair it? I sighed and said, repairing of car is not in my. Budget.
He then asked what's really wrong with it? I told him.

He said hmm OK, when the mechanic is done with my wife's car, he will repair mine and how much is the master brakes of the car?

I told him, he said OK. He then called his customer at ladipo for his price, that one told him.
After the call, he said don't worry Alexy, I will repair your car.

I was like what! shocked

Wait! Wait! Are u serious or joking? He laughed, he said what's there? Your own repair is not as much as my wife's own. Don't worry jare. What we neighbors for?
And moreover u are a nice humble lady.
Don't worry it's nothing. The prayer I prayed for the guy, no be small thing o cheesy

My dear, Na so this man repair my car o. cheesy

Am still grateful to him. You can imagine woman get that kind husband for house.. How quarrel go dey?

And am not dating him o.

We are just like brother and sister.

No some real. Men exist.. No be lie.


lol but any man wey do a lady favour cos he wants to have sex with her na dog nacheesy.many guys can do a favour to a lady without looking for sex nacheesy.
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:32pm On Dec 19, 2017
alexialin:






Oh that's nice o


Then don't worry..

God will bless you with a peaceful and caring woman.

Just watch. Don't stress yourself


Thanks. No give me hope abeg
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:33pm On Dec 19, 2017
alexialin:








Lol cheesy


We take God beg you o.






I'm not joking, the alhaji said he just liked her, na me counsel the relationship self. My sister's friend back some five years back, she was like wetin the alhajisee for her body, she dey U.S.A now as we speak, five years on, AIDS never kill am ! Some people dey na !
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:33pm On Dec 19, 2017
lefulefu:
lol but any man wey do a lady favour cos he wants to have sex with her na dog nacheesy.many guys can do a favour to a lady without looking for sex nacheesy.


Nice to a lady these days, them go say na kitty man dey after. I'm not nice to any naija chick again. They should keep their kitty.
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:35pm On Dec 19, 2017
Jupxter:



Nice to a lady these days, them go say na kitty man dey after. I'm not nice to any naija chick again. They should keep their kitty.
na d ones wey dey do olosho business dey get dat mentality
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:37pm On Dec 19, 2017
lefulefu:
na d ones wey dey do olosho business dey get dat mentality



All of them, Niaja chicks despise good guys. I have decided to change for my peace of mind. When guys are good, they take advantage, when the guy vex them go say he get issues because they expcect him to be permanenetly soft, accept all their bullshit, and not say NO at all when they act out of line !
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:39pm On Dec 19, 2017
lefulefu:
lol but any man wey do a lady favour cos he wants to have sex with her na dog nacheesy.many guys can do a favour to a lady without looking for sex nacheesy.




A favour that costs up to 35k?

Are u for real?

Many guys will help indeed, without waiting for sex inreturn?

Na so.


Abeggi.. Most Men wey stingy pass devil sef!

Keep lying o, you hear cheesy
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:40pm On Dec 19, 2017
Jupxter:



Thanks. No give me hope abeg




Am serious..

It's not just hope.

Things do happen. smiley
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:40pm On Dec 19, 2017
alexialin:





A favour that costs up to 35k?

Are u for real?

Many guys will help indeed, without waiting for sex inreturn?

Na so.


Abeggi.. Some Men wey stingy pass devil sef!

Keep lying o, you hear cheesy



Not saying i'm rich oh. I've given ladies more than this without anything in return nah.

I know guys that give as much as 100k self without sex in return, simple altruistic people !
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:41pm On Dec 19, 2017
alexialin:





Am serious..

It's not just hope.

Things do happen. smiley



Lol. Me wey go soon call family meeting tell them say be like say i go overlook marriage. I plan on calling he meeting January ending sha, if all things are equal
Re: Is it possible to marry without loving? by Nobody: 1:42pm On Dec 19, 2017
Jupxter:




Not saying i'm rich oh. I've given ladies more than this without anything in return nah.

I know guys that give as much as 100k self without sex in return, simple altruistic people !







I know..

But such men are rare..

They are not common.

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