bennyraz: which issue are we talking about here? In all honesty, if ur sister was 16 & a 30yrs old man like Op comes proposing to her or he comes to ask for her hand in marriage in the presence of your family, what will you do? Merely even knowing that a 30yrs old man is wooing your 16yrs sister will make u go mad! Is 40-26yrs not different here? 26yrs old girl has seen life compared to a 16yrs old girl. The difference is 10yrs man! What is bad is bad! Yarn realities and stop coaxing the op into doing what is morally wrong!

Bobo! Which church u go today? Mehn.... Anointing dey happen for ur posts today o! Abi on gbawe ni? Woeva it is, u gbaskimacious ojere!

I jus dey pray say d girl parents dey sell cutlass

How will you feel if a 30 year old man is dating ur 16 years old sister/daughter?

justdream:

i used the emoticon tinking it was for "depressed" mind. dint know it was for "anger". all i asked for is constructive critics or good advice, not abuses or bashings. besides i dint state that i have anyoda girlfriend apart from her. just wana know if its ok if we continue..

So u depressed over a gal dats still in search of a head start abi? Grown man! Go meet ur mates abeg! Yes! I no we often find love in a hopeless place, but dis ur own na prison sentence.

D papa go d sell cutlass and d mumsi go d sell mortar and pestle

jmoore: Most eyes are focusing on 30 years and 16 years which is 14 years gap.

40-26 years
50-36 years
60-46 years
70-56 years
80-66 years

All the above have a gap of 14 years. The main issue here is not about the age gap but when he wants to marry her. To settle down with her you should be looking at when she has turned 20 and above.

bennyraz: which issue are we talking about here? In all honesty, if ur sister was 16 & a 30yrs old man like Op comes proposing to her or he comes to ask for her hand in marriage in the presence of your family, what will you do? Merely even knowing that a 30yrs old man is wooing your 16yrs sister will make u go mad! Is 40-26yrs not different here? 26yrs old girl has seen life compared to a 16yrs old girl. The difference is 10yrs man! What is bad is bad! Yarn realities and stop coaxing the op into doing what is morally wrong!

The problem with some of you is that you can't finish reading a comment before you post, I never in anyway said he should marry a 16 year old. Please read my post well before commenting. I clearly said he should wait till she turns 20 years old or above before marriage.

na wa oooo
OP,
does matured ladies of yur age irritate u or some form of complex hold u?

how on earth would u be thinking of dat, God!

be ready to take a lot of sh*t from dat toddler.

wishing u de best all de same but u have to get mature and find an adult

jmoore:



The problem with some of you is that you can't finish reading a comment before you post, I never in anyway said he should marry a 16 year old. Please read my post well before commenting. I clearly said he should wait till she turns 20 years old or above before marriage.

i read your post very well.

jmoore: Most eyes are focusing on 30 years and 16 years which is 14 years gap.

40-26 years
50-36 years
60-46 years
70-56 years
80-66 years

All the above have a gap of 14 years. The main issue here is not about the age gap but when he wants to marry her. To settle down with her you should be looking at when she has turned 20 and above.

the bolded is just fine. The rest above is like making the Op feel there's nothing wrong in what he's doing which is bad. The idea of even dating a 16yrs old now at this very moment is totally wrong, not acceptable,barbaric, wicked and selfish.

jmoore:



The problem with some of you is that you can't finish reading a comment before you post, I never in anyway said he should marry a 16 year old. Please read my post well before commenting. I clearly said he should wait till she turns 20 years old or above before marriage.

i read your post very well.. The thing is what is bad is bad, we shouldn't see any good in bad.

Idowuogbo:
Bobo! Which church u go today? Mehn.... Anointing dey happen for ur posts today o! Abi on gbawe ni? Woeva it is, u gbaskimacious ojere!

mo'n gbawe o

Wonders shall never cease

Is the girl in a consensual relationship with you already? I hope you haven't manipulated her into having s[i]e[/i]x with you.
Well the easiest way to find out the answer to your question is to approach the girls parents, you hear?
SMH. You even used those fingers to type 'girlfriend'

OMG!!!! Dat is child abuse..

bennyraz: mo'n gbawe o

Awe a gba o!

Idowuogbo:
Awe a gba o!

amin o!

pendo89:

This is why I said there is a thin line between care and love.

Please for the sake of u both, channel ur energy elsewhere and avoid her.It's natural to fall in love cz men are visual.
But don't let ur feelings numb ur sense of reasoning.
Marriage is not about 'feelings'.Feelings don't sustain a marriage.Marriage is responsibility and hardwork, something that needs to be cultivated in that girl's heart and mind. Right now she's riding on puppy love not matured love.

She also has got her life ahead of her,education,social life please don't cut it short cz chances are that this wont last.
Find another lady and avoid her after uv told her and asked for forgiveness cz Honestly, you are mentally old for her.
Forget about her body and how matured she looks.Her mind is what is needed to run and sustain a marriage.

If teenagers are grabbed by men ur age,what would be left for teenage boys?

You just spoke my mind

Catch Dem Young

Dat no look like teacher o!

U don see Maga abi? Msteeew

14 years age difference?

am sorry it will not help ur future

PERV DUDE YOURE A PERV

justdream:

tanx very much for your advice. for the records am not a pervert, just that we have been very close family friends for long. i got attraceted to her, thats all.

u are exposing urself more. U've been VERY close to her? Since when?

Pls Dε̲̣̣̣̥a̶̲̥̅̊я̅ check urself again to confirm and be sure ​U̶̲̥̅̊ aя̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ not driven by ur senses. This seems child abuse to me not Love as ƔU̶̲̥̅̊ termed it.[color=#000099][/color]

Get advice fron NL? , go get it from bittyend or 190,...... For me, talk 2 d gal and tel ha ur plans! If she's isnt like Idowuogbo, no offence!

CharlieMaria: Pls Dε̲̣̣̣̥a̶̲̥̅̊я̅ check urself again to confirm and be sure U̶̲̥̅̊ aя̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ not driven by ur senses. This seems child abuse to me not Love as ƔU̶̲̥̅̊ termed it.[color=#000099][/color]

Ur BB NEEDS REPAIRS!

pendusky: Get advice fron NL? , go get it from bittyend or 190,...... For me, talk 2 d gal and tel ha ur plans! If she's isnt like Idowuogbo, no offence!

Am offended

the age of consent is 16 so its okay legally, but its a ethical gray area because most 16 years old are immature because their prefrontal cortex is still developing.

Idowuogbo:
Am offended

Go and sleep jor!

pendusky:
Go and sleep jor!

Make me!

Msteeewwwww

owo2390: the age of consent is 16 so its okay legally, but its a ethical gray area because most 16 years old are immature because their prefrontal cortex is still developing.

@OP, answer this
When did you start sleeping with that kid

Brooossss. . . .

Stop watching olu jacobs and ini edo movies. . .