pendo89:

oh I didnt see it.He really really wants to marry a teen but he is fighting his conscience that's why he is asking the forum.
well at the end of the day, at least he was advised.
The 16 year old girl will be posting here in 10 years to come, complaining about how she left her old husband for her agemates because he was more a father than partner.
Or better still, she will be searching in the dating section as a sugar mummy since she will be having 7 kids but a very wild mind and body.

Idowuogbo:
Kandi! Come on.... She is16!

Marriage already!

Btwn! U also started gbenching @ 14?

Honey! Ur labour go easy o!

justdream: Please, lovely family (Nairalanders),

This issue I'm about to lay down has been a burden to me. I'm in a relationship with a 16 year old girl. She got admission to study Medicine in the university recently. I love her so much. Can we by any chance get married? Considering the age difference and social status?

I'm gainfully employed and thinking of settling down.

Sciencs: @poster...wat bugs me most abt u is how u were able 2 even harbour a 'feeling' 4 her in d 1st place. D most cogent brotherly advise i can u is 2 ask u 2go 4a premarital-counselling under a very gud conducive atmosphere(wit a chill glass of water by ur side...if necesary) dt wil encourage beta understandin of wat everybody here is telin u.

P.S....i av dis odd feelin dt if u continue wit ds same mind-set of urs, u might end up infatuated even 2 ur own daughters in d future. NO OFFENCE INTENDED!

amygreat24: @Op you're 30 and she 16. That's not dating, that's babysitting.

kpolli:


Paedophile's like u shud be shot, sttupid girls like her don't deserve better

Maria-Goretti:
Wif al dese advice, curses, insults, d guy must b confused nw or even in regrets nw! [font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]

Idowuogbo:
Amala dey hungry u bad abi? Lol

raynold17 :
he should better be what kinda example will he be setting for his kids.his kids will probably be eying or nyashing 8 years old gal at twenty(20).

kandiikane:

Lmkmd!!@my labour go easy

So? It's legal where I am and in nigeria If both the parents consent. If the girl is mature enough why not.

Shebi, u forget wen we married you off at 11 abi?

Ah, ah, no oo! I still have my virginity intact aha and unlike onila mine is not expired.

I am waiting for that 30 year old.

D-Explorer:


Is there anything wrong in saying the obvious truth and since you've mentioned amala, bring it on babe. Which spot?

Remii: This is link to Nigeria marriage act, http://www.nigeria-law.org/Marriage%20Act.htm, all you need to marry someone below 21yrs is father or mother's consent

D-Explorer:


C'mon the poster has good intentions.

Maria-Goretti:
buh seriously speakin, wo knows wot ladies his age did to him. Abi, Mr poster, cn u enlighten us? Lyk in ur earli twenties, wot did ur gfs do to u?

muslak: if you truly want to marry her for good,i will advice you go ahead.dont mind those that are discouraging you.
what you should observe is her maturity as girls of these days are exposed to so many dirty thing even before
they are twenty years of age.if she really understands what a marriage is go on, if not,go for counselling with upright people.wish you well

kandiikane:

Unexposed paedophiles like you should be castrated and shot.

Idowuogbo:

Meet me @ junction 11 off isale muwonleru

It's buka tinz o!

raynold17 :
help me ask am. instead of advising the young gal to face her studies and stop mingling around with guys. he's the spoiling her. who knows his gf then might have been an 8year old.

raynold17 :
ur an id!ot advising a Guy to date and marry a sixteen year old when his 30 u must me a malo Guy that what u guys do marrying/dating under age gals.. bet you'll advise a 20 year old to go out with an 8year old. can believe there still humans like u.

ITbomb: My message to all those girls beefing this dude
1. You are all old cargoes probably jealous that the guy has found what he like in a young girl and not you who have seen 16 different sizes of ddickkks.
2. All of u old cargoes started fingering urself in JS 3 and started having sex at 16 so don't envy the poor girl's tight hole
3. You are talking about 14 yrs difference but a 25yr can go for 40yr.
4. The 16 yr old is in uni studying medicine while must of you old cargoes were at that age sleeping around with ur JAMB/WAEC lessons teachers and Corpers.
CC:

milehigh06:
good intentions my A@@,she is 16 for God's sake
at least wait till she is 18

dasparrow:

You need to stop being a shameless and pathetic chuvinist and leave the ladies on this forum alone. Don't most of you Nigerian bred males get tired of your misogyny/hate for females? Don't you have female members in your family? You want to bash the ladies who crticized the OP but most of the respondents on this thread that have criticized the OP have been males. Why are you not bashing the males? because it is easier for shameless male weaklings like you to pick on the weaker gender.

This is why I will never allow any female child of mine to marry a Nigerian bred male. There is just something about you Nigerian bred males that does not seem right. Most of you are rapists, perverts, paedophiles and chuvinists.

A 16 year old is still growing. If OP should pregnate her, she will have a high chance of pregnancy complications. By the time the girl is in her 30s, the butterflies and infactuation that she had for the OP will fly through the window and then she wil begin looking for love outside. Couple of years down the line, OP will come back again on nairaland to report to us that his wife is cheating and then you chuvinists will come out again like locusts to accuse Nigerian ladies of being cheats.

This type of stories is why I do not think I will raise kids in Nigeria because the society is just crawling with shameless perverts and alot of ungodliness. Here in the states, OP will go to jail for dating/sleeping with a minor/underage. Even doctors will not approve of girls under the age of 18 making babies due to complications that arise during the pregnancy. Nigerians like the OP are just a disgrace and we wonder why God has long forsaken Nigeria.

@Post

Go and date a female your age bracket and stop being a craddle snatcher. When she begins to resent you in her 30s for robbing her of her youth, then don't come here and complain. I have an uncle who married his wife when she was 18. Today, said wife is in her late 30s and treats my uncle like trash. She does not love him, she has refused to get a job in all the years they have been married even though she has no young children and a few months ago, she gave my uncle a dirty slap on his face. That is what happens when men like you manipulate young teenage girls into marrying them. When they grow older and 'open eye', they will teach you a lesson you will not be too quick to forget. Mkpi!

milehigh06:
good intentions my A@@,she is 16 for God's sake
at least wait till she is 18

raynold17 :
help me ask am. instead of advising the young gal to face her studies and stop mingling around with guys. he's the spoiling her. who knows his gf then might have been an 8year old.