Girls marry at 16 in the north at free will to men even older, there is no big deal to it. Most of our mothers married before 20 to men at least 10 yrs older. We are in african and our culture is different. 14 yrs gap is no big deal. Our university girls freely dig sugar daddies twice their age and it is considered normal. The guy never said he will marry her at 16 yrs. But only considering developing a relationship that could lead to marraige

what a pedo-phile

men disgust me

onila: what a pedo-phile

men disgust me

.....Men also teach u ow to spell “paedophile“

@op, go and tell the girl's parent of ur intention to marry their daughter of 16 years. Believe me,u wont remain the same again!

Joeblis: Lolzy funny thread..i understand the op plight...the girl may be 16 but she's gat attribute of of a 25yr old lady,she may be big or something like that@op if you really love this kid just wait for the next 7 or 8 yrs by that time ur bear. bear go don white

plus by then also she'd have seen guys within her age range nd definitely prefer them to u but then dt would be d acid test dt she wants to marry u if her choice is otherwise. Again, If u marry her now, she married u cos she's left with no option. Its a different ball game when she chooses u out of two or three of ur kind with advantage over u...besides all these, our advice wont matter if she has d same feeling towards u. Just a thought...op can u be patient with her as she passes through late adolescent wahala Save ur self all this pro nd go for idowu ;-) she's mature nd funny. U know, a rare combination!

@topic, yes. D probability is unity. Like i said when supporting joebliss' post, it all depends largely on whether d feeling is mutual. like u said u guys r relating already. Its very possible but give her time like 5yrs from now nd see if her interest in you wanes. If not, go ahead. But if u marry her in haste i doubt u'll enjoy her at leisure.

This OP is a confam cradle robber...no doubt..paedo!

Bro dude....if she is ready to get married and her parents agree to it, I see nothing wrong with it. And may be when she's 20 you put her in the families way. Its not a taboo!

Operation catch them young abeg don't listen to any advice put your head straight & pray towards it if you having a good intention. What would those condemning say to papa 70 getting married to a teenager, just allow her to focus on her study and u 'll have to overlook many things. Best °ƒ luck.

fresh apples taste better..i support u full time

If you are a Muslim, why not?
An ex Zamfara Gov. Blah blah blah..........

justdream: Please, lovely family (Nairalanders),

This issue I'm about to lay down has been a burden to me. I'm in a relationship with a 16 year old girl. She got admission to study Medicine in the university recently. I love her so much. Can we by any chance get married? Considering the age difference and social status?

I'm gainfully employed and thinking of settling down.

NIGGA U CRAZY U SHOULD BE ARRESTED NA ONLY FOR NIGERIA THIS KIND SHIT DE HAPPEN SO U WAN PUT UR OLD MAN DICK INSIDE ONE SMALL GAL PUSSY. Bleep!! U FIT EVEN BORN THE GAL ARE U NOT ASHAMED FUCKING DISGUSTING. U BE MALO BA? THIS IS CHILD ABUSE IF AM THE DAD OF THAT YOU'LL BE LYING DEAD BY NOW.. GOD HAVE MERCY.. 30 years old man dating a 16 year lord have mercy even me 19 no de date 16 year old gals.

have you considered the fact that by the time shes in her 30s you would be in your 50s and unable to meet her sexual needs low libido, premature ejaculat etc are what you might be battling with,and if shes not the patient type she might just elope with a younger guy.

onila: what a pedo-phile

men disgust me

Can u do without us?
Oh!! So u make up wit aliens or women?

@POster

U r wicked

Please, find someone your own age.

Did you girls dated any of your age mates when you were 16? No be baba 60, baba 70 you dey run after when you were 18 ?

Why is it that women are always jealous/angru when they see men going out with young girls? And majority of them did it when they were 16, 17.

Guy if you like this girl and the girl is matured, take your shot.

justdream: Please, lovely family (Nairalanders),

This issue I'm about to lay down has been a burden to me. I'm in a relationship with a 16 year old girl. She got admission to study Medicine in the university recently. I love her so much. Can we by any chance get married? Considering the age difference and social status?

I'm gainfully employed and thinking of settling down.

If you can allow your 16 year old sister to be in a relationship with a 30 year old man, & then let him marry her, you can go ahead.

No offence, but u sound like all these shameless guys who have slept with soo many young girls & have this belief that there's no virgin(since many have bn disvirgined thru them) & no good girl above 17, hence the decision to marry a 16 year old.

Nawa for you o. FEAR GOD.

Honeycity: have you considered the fact that by the time shes in her 30s you would be in your 50s and unable to meet her sexual needs low libido, premature ejaculat etc are what you might be battling with,and if shes not the patient type she might just elope with a younger guy.

That is just an assumption. The pendulum could swing either ways.
I mean, Fatai Rolling Dollars and the old man with 86 wives are still knocking boots without Viagra!!!

If u guys 2ruely luv each other, carry go. Age z no barrier.[color=#000099][/color]

kumar77: fresh apples taste better..i support u full time

Y u no go support, na so dem pluck u na! Shebi d aristo wey buy u sweet na hin u carry put for house dey call Nkem...SMH!

Omolola1: If u are willing to wait till she's out of school or at least ready, i see nothng wrong with it.
Girls of 15 get married nowadays. The world is turning to another thng

why open a thread about it? Seems u knw u are doing somethng bad

Don't you get it? He is already f**king the girl because that can be hiiden from the public but marriage can not that's why he is bringing marriage to the public to have an idea of what to expect

This is an errday occurence in places like kebbi, jigawa villages in kano and d core-north in entirety, so go on if u one of dem Paedophiles who hide under d cloak of religion and purity. If na my sister u try dis one wit ehn?

You guys are missing the point....age has nothing to do with this. So what his 14 years older than her. Are you guys saying an 18yrs old is not fully an adult? My guy if you are listening just give too more years to become 18 then ask her hand in marriage by then as you said she will already be in the university!

Some ladies with expired p._u.ssies and no NAFDAC number be raving and ranting!!!. I don't think there is anything wrong if there is a concord. I mean catching them young is good too. After all, the young shall grow!!!!!!

ATMC: Save ur self all this pro nd go for idowu ;-) she's mature nd funny. U know, a rare combination!

See dat ur quarter past 9 mouth dia!

When a senator married a girl f this age, what happened?NOTHING, Op she is young marry her when she is 18.A poster said 'let her live her life' which life? LIFE of clubbing, prostituting or following magas?The poster knows he/herself please explain to me because i dont know, pls no insults i didnt insult anybody,if you are frustrated hit your head on your computer and do not direct it at me

thank you

Make una no 4get say ABRAHAM was 100, while SARAH was 9Oyrs. His, it's nt diff so lng as luv exist amongst them... Lol, if her parents permits 2.

I'm twenty and I don't do minors(sixteen is minor)....grow up dude

chio! 30 years old guy dating 16 years old girl? so crazy....

c life o eewo, chai, 14yrs no b small thing o ha ha 30yrs to 16yrs!

Ya''ll should lay off this guy's d-ick. For all you care they've been at it for months, una dey here dey talk about virginity. At least he has marriage on his mind. If this 16 year old girl were in Muslim North she'd even be a mother by now. @OP waiting till she's 18 before getting married isn't out of place though. That should separate you from an 'aboki'

@Op, the family members are hoodwinked into thinking it is still a peripheral relationship. The moment they realize that you are digging that kid, they will arrest your ars*e. that girl is below legal and you should not be doing anything with her let alone marriage. I am begining to think you should really be locked away, did u say 30? and you want a girl of 16? are you like nuts? you want to waste her youth, middle and adult life? Fwool....