You are doing a good job. There is this girl i have being trying to catch for like 3 wks, though, she as not said yes to me. But the last time we chat, i told her that, 'let me love u' her reply was, i'm not stopping u. What does this mean, is it possible for a gilrl to love without saying yes?.

O.michael.O:
I do most of these stuffs
most times.but the only
part am nt yet in control of
is meeting a gurl on d
street
most of the time they get
attractd to me first or a
mutual thingy.
So when the going gets
good.like we've known
ourselves well.we prolly
have TRYST sef.and i barely
start convos
they do most times except
for some.
Then voila i go
incommunicado.i mean
unable to reach me
anywhere for weeks
(whatsapp,fb,twitter nor
calls)
then they cal my sibilings or
friends they knw .
PS:this one is stil my
longest 3wks n counting
except 4 fb
Now,where the prob lies is i
get too emotionally
detached besides i think am
not ready to date cos of d
emotionally entanglement
n shii


PS: it's kinda weird cos i feel
comfortably nt
communicating with any of
em gals or other friends of
mine
let's just say am a lone wolf



thanks

As for d street hooking up part..u can always use this...

"Hey hi..I av seen u arnd a few times, but we avent met"

Its classic

Or u can use "hi, I don't mean to be two forward, but I was gona regret it if I didn't stop n say hi" take tins from dere

Or u can just even say..hi..wit a smile.

As per d emotional part...u r av rily built a high emotional wall arnd ur sef, and u need to just pull it down fast. Starting from now...start doing tins dat u were not doing before. I mean thins dat relate to social interaction.

As make sure..ur always on..so u don't get out of reach again.


I feel its an internal problem..u need to bring ur sef ur out, bring out dat social warrior hiding behind dose emotional walls u av built over d years.


#cheers

omigin: You are doing a good job. There is this girl i have being trying to catch for like 3 wks, though, she as not said yes to me. But the last time we chat, i told her that, 'let me love u' her reply was, i'm not stopping u. What does this mean, is it possible for a gilrl to love without saying yes?.

Yes its very possible. Attraction is not a yes or no thing wit girls. U shud take dat reply as a yes...from her, and start acting like her bf ryt away, use embedded commands..." Sup wit u babe..ow u doing"...

If its a text message...

"Morning sweets, hope u slept and had a happy wake...xoxo"


Only a guy who is romantically interested in a girl will act like dat or send such.

Don't expect a yes from her.

Go on a date with her.

I want to explain investment for those of us who haven't gotten a solid grasp of what it means.


Coming Up

There is this babe the first time we met at all we fought not physically now the ish is that I want to get in her pant she's my friends friend another female and that one has refused to give me her number i'd steal it from her mobile tho but how do you suggest I make my move on talking to her ( this girl is very RUDE and she's a couple of level ahead of me uni thinz ) she's one proud mofo exactly why I want to chop the cokkies

DailyNews: ...and the girls/ladies are also reading all these open tactics to be used on them

Poster, u shud have invited guys only into a secret room na for a private session of course malaria keep changing form to counter the latest preventive measure

And there is one adage that says: when the hunter learns to shoot without missing, the bird will also learn to fly without perching

So the fact that girls and ladies are also allowed to read all these tactics will soon make it inactive, which means: be yourself and u will meet your kind of girl someday at the right time, except u wanna be a player keeping numerous girls, dunno.

Nice thread all the same, well done @Op

Loool... Shey you think they don't know all this nii... They do nah and most times, contrary to what they say, it will always work. Women are all about 'feelings', how you make them feel and even if they know from the get-go you wanna 'woo' them, if you do it the right way, make her feel relaxed, make her feel like she can trust you, make her feel happy, my guy you'll reap the rewards.

@D3BO9:
There is this babe the first time we met at all we fought not physically now the ish is that I want to get in her pant she's my friends friend another female and that one has refused to give me her number i'd steal it from her mobile tho but how do you suggest I make my move on talking to her ( this girl is very RUDE and she's a couple of level ahead of me uni thinz ) she's one proud mofo exactly why I want to chop the cokkies

When you put it like that 'Get In her Pants', this thread isn't for you. You have to at least like her. Sounds to me you looking to score and nothing more.

@ op, U̶̲̥̅̊ r doin a gr8 job. I salute. Bh, I av a lil problem, I don't walk up 2 gals on d street, bh d few I av met, I av bin able 2 get them talking n open up 2 me freely, some even feel lyk we r dating already. bh ma problem is getting dem 2 bed as am always shy 2 talk abt sex most tymz... Any help?

kasillars: @ op, U̶̲̥̅̊ r doin a gr8 job. I salute. Bh, I av a lil problem, I don't walk up 2 gals on d street, bh d few I av met, I av bin able 2 get them talking n open up 2 me freely, some even feel lyk we r dating already. bh ma problem is getting dem 2 bed as am always shy 2 talk abt sex most tymz... Any help?

If dey can feel like u r dating dem alrdy, den dat means she Is attracted, ..if u r aving issues wit sex..trying from d basic step..getting a kiss.

U shud start from there.

S****x aint rilu difficult if u av a girl dat is attracted to u..and is well invested.

@op nice job u re doing here. Just have this ish. There is the girl i lyk, admire and rate very high. We attended d same pry sch but different sec skul. We got talking online 3 yrs bk and she asked me if i had a gf, i said no. She said no when i returned d ques. A mistake i made, i asked her immediately if she would be mine, her response was "i will think over it" i never asked for her reply till date. I have a problem with rapport esp during calls and face to face. I always want dem to make d move and even when dey do i am easily discouraged maybe because of d rapport or i am very emotional(it affects my educationally). I rate girls too high as in will say in my mind am i fit for her or what do i have to offer. And because of that i will keep quite. I am also the quite type and a little proud and for fear of regection i will lock up. The prob nw is we hardly see just twice in the last 3 yrs. Her bother frd also trying to get her and we are not at good terms. I notice she was trying to frd zone(this happens to me always. I always act d gud boy and dey will think i can't do anytin) me and i cut comm for d past 2 months. I want to make her my target for d new yr. note: different higher institution but will surely meet at a base. Ur advice

@D3BO9:
There is this babe the first time we met at all we fought not physically now the ish is that I want to get in her pant she's my friends friend another female and that one has refused to give me her number i'd steal it from her mobile tho but how do you suggest I make my move on talking to her ( this girl is very RUDE and she's a couple of level ahead of me uni thinz ) she's one proud mofo exactly why I want to chop the cokkies

U are 1OO percent desperate. And wen u feel like dis, it shows in ur actions. To catch a butterfly..u don't go running n chasing it, u chill in a spot,and it will come n perch on ur hands.

vxyz: @op nice job u re doing here. Just have this ish. There is the girl i lyk, admire and rate very high. We attended d same pry sch but different sec skul. We got talking online 3 yrs bk and she asked me if i had a gf, i said no. She said no when i returned d ques. A mistake i made, i asked her immediately if she would be mine, her response was "i will think over it" i never asked for her reply till date. I have a problem with rapport esp during calls and face to face. I always want dem to make d move and even when dey do i am easily discouraged maybe because of d rapport or i am very emotional(it affects my educationally). I rate girls too high as in will say in my mind am i fit for her or what do i have to offer. And because of that i will keep quite. I am also the quite type and a little proud and for fear of regection i will lock up. The prob nw is we hardly see just twice in the last 3 yrs. Her bother frd also trying to get her and we are not at good terms. I notice she was trying to frd zone(this happens to me always. I always act d gud boy and dey will think i can't do anytin) me and i cut comm for d past 2 months. I want to make her my target for d new yr. note: different higher institution but will surely meet at a base. Ur advice

Thanx for stopping by.

#ok....the problem u r aving has to do wit ur confidence and inner beliefs. Its an internal tin.
U need to first of all accept dat rejection is part of d game. Its just red cards, yellow cards and injury in football. No difference.

I used to be a shy person too, I had dis massive approach anxiety back den. Which made me lose lots of opportunities. I had an awakening..and I was like..I just have to fix dis dating/social issues I am having. And I didn't regret I did dat.

U need to do the same tin. Forget abt rejection...its part of the game.

And another tin.. U r valued and appreciated just like any oda fine girl out there u r trying to game. Stop thinking what do u av to offer dis girl?...start focusing on ur stregths...and ur beliefs, ignore n bored d negative talk. I used to av fone game issues too, but now..I can talk for 5hours on fone.wit a girl..dey won't be any dull moment. Its all abt calibrating ur sef tru practice. U will make mistakes..no doubt.but dats how u learn.

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Also, stop wating for ladies to make the move..if a girl likes u...at times, she won't wana be responsible for the interaction..girls don't wana be considered as cheap or easy..for example..a girl myt wana give u her nbr, she myt be waiting for u to ask, but if u don't, she will just bone..and not give u @ all..asking her some oda time for her nbr myt be futile.

So u need to just do it. Just do it. Once u get dat feeling, act fast, before ur mind tells u and gives u 1OO reasons y u r gona fail on the approach.

I av approached girls in buses before, danfo, brt. dat realy helped ma game..cos I noticed I was able to talk to girls..anywhere.

So its all abt practice and calibration.

Thnks for helping. Something happened not too long ago, i her invited to my place, she came, we both sat on the chair gisting, after a while she lied down with her head on my laps. As a sharp guy, i started teassing and touching her, she was removing my hands from her body but i refused to stop. With annoyance, she got up, took her bag and said to me, 'never to come to my place again' tried stopping her but no way. Although, i realy dont care, no time for long thing. I have noticed one thing about girls, if u are dating a girl and u don't enter the place on time, its a waste of time and money. To me, the earlier u go ur separate ways the better for the guy. What do u think concerning my action or behaviour, was i too forward?

xxxtedyxxx:

Just ignore d bf topic, and tell her "I am not d jealous type"..smile..n continue.

Sometimes girls even used dat classic line" I av a boyfriend" to test guys. Once u fail, its over.

gals sef why most they test guys 24/7 they r always using their brain on us thank u oga ted I no go Bleep up again buh u r too good how did u learn all these

vxyz: @op nice job u re doing here. Just have this ish. There is the girl i lyk, admire and rate very high. We attended d same pry sch but different sec skul. We got talking online 3 yrs bk and she asked me if i had a gf, i said no. She said no when i returned d ques. A mistake i made, i asked her immediately if she would be mine, her response was "i will think over it" i never asked for her reply till date. I have a problem with rapport esp during calls and face to face. I always want dem to make d move and even when dey do i am easily discouraged maybe because of d rapport or i am very emotional(it affects my educationally). I rate girls too high as in will say in my mind am i fit for her or what do i have to offer. And because of that i will keep quite. I am also the quite type and a little proud and for fear of regection i will lock up. The prob nw is we hardly see just twice in the last 3 yrs. Her bother frd also trying to get her and we are not at good terms. I notice she was trying to frd zone(this happens to me always. I always act d gud boy and dey will think i can't do anytin) me and i cut comm for d past 2 months. I want to make her my target for d new yr. note: different higher institution but will surely meet at a base. Ur advice

Friendzoning happens to a guy wen he doesn't stir attraction in a girl. Asin....if a guy is not acting or showing boyfriend potential...he gets friendzone. Its dat simple. Over investment in a girl dat is not invested in you can get you friendzoned too.

So if u r getting friendzone a a lot..its becos u r acting too nice..like u said...or u r kind of reserved. U need to get dominant. Call her babe,baby,..even if u just met a girl....dats pbf potential...talk abt future plans..dats potential too, tease her, joke wit her.


Concerning dat other guy dat is trying to get the girl too, forget abt him, and play ur game bro. Its nice u avent called her for some time. Its gud.

I will suggest...also..dat u game oda girls, meet girls, real life or online... Boot ur ego and skills, its all abt practice.

Den for the chick...start acting like her bf right away...call her, tell her its been long, n blah blsh, dat u missed how she used to be, end d call, by telling her, to check up on u later or call u. U need to use light comands to make her invest.

teddy

i was using dat ur rapport technique with one yeye gal like dat and she told me why am i interrogating her....gals and dumb questions op i tire ooo(one of the reasons why i hate some females)

Nastydroid: i was using dat ur rapport technique with one yeye gal like dat and she told me why am i interrogating her....gals and dumb questions op i tire ooo(one of the reasons why i hate some females)

Don't use successive questions back to back. The rapport techniques works wen u can pick up hook points and tins to feed on..from her ply..its not series of questions...

And next time...

Reply her wit.


# am interviewing u for a job..a strippers job..

Or

" U look rily weired wen angry..geez...can u just make dat face again"

Dats if d interaction is one on one..cos u didn't specify...if not u can use d first method..d one abt d job.

jae_o: gals sef why most they test guys 24/7 they r always using their brain on us thank u oga ted I no go Bleep up again buh u r too good how did u learn all these

Thanx, I learnt tru constace practice, I got rejected manytimes, and over d years,.I noted all d stuffs dat workd and didn't work.
I made countless of approaches..and took note of what was happening. And through this same method, I av met and dated..lots of cute girls.

omigin: Thnks for helping. Something happened not too long ago, i her invited to my place, she came, we both sat on the chair gisting, after a while she lied down with her head on my laps. As a sharp guy, i started teassing and touching her, she was removing my hands from her body but i refused to stop. With annoyance, she got up, took her bag and said to me, 'never to come to my place again' tried stopping her but no way. Although, i realy dont care, no time for long thing. I have noticed one thing about girls, if u are dating a girl and u don't enter the place on time, its a waste of time and money. To me, the earlier u go ur separate ways the better for the guy. What do u think concerning my action or behaviour, was i too forward?

Yes u were to forward.

There is sth called diversion.. Dat u didn't use den.

A girl coming to ur house..knows whatsup alrdy..she knows...s****x can happen..so in her mind.. She is open to dat. U did a nice work..inviting her, and got ur invitation honoured. Kudos.

###..all d chair wit her, gisting, she later laid her head on ur laps..next tin..u started d sharp guy tin..hehe..no dulling... She was expecting dat, dats y she objected, u shud av continued the talking, gisting, dat will make her confortable, let her know.." Oh..so I can encroach his personal space witout anytin happening"..dt gives her a sense of trust.


The next tin..is to keep the convo goin, and playing wit her hair, or pass a compliment, ..from caressing her hair, u can apply light strokes.. A kiss from u..can come easily.from dat...kiss her a for.a while..den just smile..n continuem.ur convo..dats d diversion technique.

Wen u r gona go for d kiss again, it won't be objected or rejected, but make d kiss longer, from..u can take it on..to her buuubs..and blah blah..

Wen she told u stop den, u shud av stopped, just obey, wen u obey @ dat moment wen she was struggling wit u..she wud av felt relaxed later, and u guys can continue again, but u not stopping, worsened it, In her mind...she myt think rape.or think.."So dis is ow u act or behave wit oda girls" . Its kinda desperate on her part.

Well urs is beta..I learnt mine d hard way, wen I was stil gameless, almost a similar story, kissed,smooched, I even suck boby..but all of a suden..she just reacted n said stop..and agro don catch me..die..omo d babe no gree oh..my jonny walker don stand @ attention. She no gree oh..and up till today.we never still meet...she travelled tho, she just got bak..and we r meeting on the 26th of dis month. Now baba don learn em mistakes..no dulling.


After dat my incident wit dat chick I mentioned, I learnt a lot, so with oda chicks..I av been applying d same method, and In no time.. Dem go just dey moan..dey call ma name..teddy..teddy.


#cheers bro

xxxtedyxxx:


Don't use successive questions back to back. The rapport techniques works wen u can pick up hook points and tins to feed on..from her ply..its not series of questions...

And next time...

Reply her wit.


# am interviewing u for a job..a strippers job..

Or

" U look rily weired wen angry..geez...can u just make dat face again"

Dats if d interaction is one on one..cos u didn't specify...if not u can use d first method..d one abt d job.

i was picking the hook point which was abt cooking she said her fav food is fried rice she talks abt vegetables i talked abt her putting vegetble leaves inside frice rice......no be hook points be dat.....btw dat stripper line is gud i go do d remix.thanks

Nastydroid: i was picking the hook point which was abt cooking she said her fav food is fried rice she talks abt vegetables i talked abt her putting vegetble leaves inside frice rice......no be hook points be dat.....btw dat stripper line is gud i go do d remix.thanks

Wow. Nice onem. U did great. May be d girl get skoin skoin for head..or sth...u know sth times..its not abt us. Some of dis girls fit don go tru bad moment..or had a bad day..or sth

xxxtedyxxx:

If a girl is not behaving well..dere is not need to reward her behaviour. If a guy continues doin dat, she will one day walk over d guy.

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It depends on ow she is to u..does she valu u?, does she call u?...av u guys..had anytin togeda?


She wants sth for xams...don't guys want sth too..so u need to ask her what ur own xmas gift will be too...cos her request seems kind of shady.

After d xmas gift, will u guys stil go out, like on a date or sth..and be togeda?..

Make her invest and be serious too.

wen we statd datin evrytin wz balanc, she alwayz cal me....text me. I tink she loved me den until she changed. I av indirectly ask ha d reason 4 ha strange bhaviour.... She said dat she cnt hlp wit hw i relate wit galz includin 2 of ha frndz.... Dat she fear i myt b cheatin on ha. We av hd tinz 2geda.... I luv ha so much.... Am convinc she luv me bt ha prob... she z 2 jealous(NID UR ADVIC). Dat has bin ha prob 4rm d on-set. Av decided 2 gv ha ntin (xmas gift)... Cn only tk ha out... Hw u c am??

Op aswear ur sth else....I wish I found this earlier....bt its not too late too....gosh I've been so naïve this certain girl was almost my girlfriend nd I threw it away wit d will u b my girlfriend nd do u have a bf question....she even sent me a text like "I'm rili happy I have a friend like you,nd I want to ask you a really important question....how much is fufu in ur area".....mehn nd I fooolishly said "wtf they don't sell fufu in my area" nd now she hates me....I'm nt stressing it sha cuz I'm nt d kind ov guy dt cannot talk to girls bt na d finishing touches been dey kill me....thank God I found this and thank you for starting this bro. Nd I also support d whatsapp group ish. It would be exceptional to have that.

For those who myt av questions concerning investment.

It is not enuf to call a girl ur gf..or enuf for a girl to be attracted to you. She must become invested in the interaction. Asin..she must be doing some work too..no be only u go dey do work.dats what am saying

Once a babe is invested, she calling u, sending u cash, credit, n***d pics**, caring abt u, telling u more abt her sef, opening up to u..she will be forced to get a return on dat investment.


Sex is the greatest investment.

Y do u think after s****xin a girl she suddenly becomes loyal to u?...investment bro.

I used to be ignorant of dis concept..chai..I suffer tire.


The more she is invested, the more she is likely to get sexual wit u...or be involved in a relationship wit u.

Y do u think guys lament after months or even years of dating a babe and d babe finally leave dem..?..bro.na d guy invest pass dats y.


Always check on ur investment level wit any babe u r involved with..even if its just normal chatting. Investment sef dey inside bro.

Here r some forms of investment..

Emotional investment... She is always attracted to u, or she feels happy wen she sees u or hears from u.

Physical investment. Kissing is a form of physical investment..I hope u guys can name d rest sha...heheh..physical tins..una grab

Time investment- time is a form of investment too. More time she spends wit u, the more times she chats wit u, gets her invested... If a girl is seeing a guy with bf potential 4times a week..in her head..dat guy is automatically her bf.

Energy investment..what energy is she putting on the relationship?..is she serious wit u?...is she calling, asking u y u didn't call?...


Dats all friends.. Dats investment.. And its very Important.


Wen she is investing, u shud invest too..don't just sit back.


#cheers

no story

CHRISKY: wen we statd datin evrytin wz balanc, she alwayz cal me....text me. I tink she loved me den until she changed. I av indirectly ask ha d reason 4 ha strange bhaviour.... She said dat she cnt hlp wit hw i relate wit galz includin 2 of ha frndz.... Dat she fear i myt b cheatin on ha. We av hd tinz 2geda.... I luv ha so much.... Am convinc she luv me bt ha prob... she z 2 jealous(NID UR ADVIC). Dat has bin ha prob 4rm d on-set. Av decided 2 gv ha ntin (xmas gift)... Cn only tk ha out... Hw u c am??

Sure..e make sense. The best gift for her ryt now..is both of togeda..

If she is d jealous type.. Den u will need to instill trust into her head..let her know she is special to U..and dat u care. I was forced to think she myt be using d jealous stuff as an excuse before.

mrsuperswag: Op aswear ur sth else....I wish I found this earlier....bt its not too late too....gosh I've been so naïve this certain girl was almost my girlfriend nd I threw it away wit d will u b my girlfriend nd do u have a bf question....she even sent me a text like "I'm rili happy I have a friend like you,nd I want to ask you a really important question....how much is fufu in ur area".....mehn nd I fooolishly said "wtf they don't sell fufu in my area" nd now she hates me....I'm nt stressing it sha cuz I'm nt d kind ov guy dt cannot talk to girls bt na d finishing touches been dey kill me....thank God I found this and thank you for starting this bro. Nd I also support d whatsapp group ish. It would be exceptional to have that.

Am working on d whatsapp groupie..its a nice idea.


Thanx for stopping by..am glad u can see ur mistakes...I used to make mistakes like dat too. Now I never ever ask if a girl if she has a bf alrdy... If she is attracted, along d way, she will bring it up, wich I just ignore, or switch thread to sth else. A girl only does dat so it won't be as if she is easy, or single..so she brings dat up..to counter U.

I hav a female friend,cynthia..she cute as hell..and she told me a secret..she said if she wants to chase guys away..or fall dier hand... She simply tells dem she has a bf. Dat weakens dem as hell..I was awe-struck .cos den.I was still a learner.

gsparks01: my story: I saw this chick in 100l n she jus had this hold on me from then on.. it took me roughly 6months to summon courage n talk to her(omo no be small thing). So I got her digits n all was going fine then the 'hangout '. after that, it all went south n I bliv it's due to what has been said here already as I didn't invest. So I decided to move on for about 4months,I no contact her. But then I jus could not get her outa my head so I contacted again during this strike n it was going 'ok' the n then I decided to tell her how I felt about her but lo n behold this thread appeared n made me undastand that it's best to wait n build the tin, so I hope to get what I want by following the thread so help me God¡ thanks teddy

Wow..u cud av blown everytin. U r doing fine for now...u will need to do some rapport stuff, get close to her, mk her open up,tease her, and get ur bf potential on. U need to let her see u in a different light, and remove the former images off her mind. If u had told her ow u felt abt her, after a long time of not contacting her, mhen..it wud av been bad..cos she will be using dat former image to scale u. So u shud gv her rapport, act a little caring, n act like a bf. Don't forget abt rewarding her efforts wen she behaves well..and not rewading her wen she doesn't. E.g..if she calls u...before d call ends, let her know u.r gina give her a call too. Dats basic the basic act of rewarding a girls effort for a little investment on u.

Girls don't think love,they feel love!

Don't bother telling a girl how you feel, show her how you feel! (Technically) plan every move you make with a girl.

Never let emotions take over

Menh dis thread is epic...thumbs up @ op....well ma probs

met dis gurl after our sec sch days and we started talking and those kinda ish....she invested and i jx invested a bit....ah bleep up real bad...she saw me txtin a gurl like dat and said xo ah could txt oda gurls wen shez der....baba ah nay fit tel her say ah love her though she gave me alotta signs dah she did....
Wen ah summoned d courage to tel ha ah loved ha,,she cum dy tel me say she jx wana be friends wit me and she jx take me like her elda bro.....buh bros e dy pain me die......for long ah kinda forget abt it....buh ah want her man...she nay geh bf to best of ma knowledge........xo op abeg wah can i do?

Ted and co..frm ur experiences in relationship matters do u tink a relationship can work without S*X?? My gf ended our 2yrs relationship few weeks ago, for reasonable reason..do u tink it was because we never had s*x?

whew
this is

uhmm just saying sth.so that i can follow the thread

#tedy thumbs#

guys careful wif knacking apako ooo,not to forget AIDS IS REAL,e no dy show for face
if u must knack use CONDOM


(clears throat)....see as cough and catarrh wan spoil ma parols wif dis chick abeg,,
i am coming guys...#zooms off thread....

...to be continued