WackyJ1:
Ted expanciate on your general theory of teasing; What a dude should have in mind when teasing and what limits to which it becomes something not teasing and something offensive.

Teasing is fun. Its all about freestyle tho. When teasing, u don't av to over do things. Dts what u need to av in mind. On d limits. U only tease wen necessary. U will know when u r over-doing it. U will obviously know from her reply, body language etc.

U can tease with just about anything. Try and check pages 2-5.

Eden007:
I used the legendary ebola line today and it worked like magic! I and the babe I just met got talking and laughing like we've known for years. I told her she must have drank a gallon of salt and water and bath a drum. She laughed and told me her funny ebola story. At a point she even said I should get her number that she'll soon enter the next taxi(I met her at a bus stop). I got her number and she told me her name when I joked if I should save her number as HIV. I've never had that easy mehn.

Pure genius. I give it up to u bro.

ifex370:
teddy.. my main man...





its your boy ooo

Hehehe mr cheeseballz...u r highly welcome bk

xxxtedyxxx:



Hehehe mr cheeseballz...u r highly welcome bk

cheese is fine,thank you sir

Willy4030:
@ OP
Xtedy you changed my life man, i plan on ban-ging at least 20 girls or more in 2015, No hoookers included. (Solomon is d man) Life's too short not enjoy... it's all about doing things many MEN will never get to do nomatter how rich they are.


I got a fine face naturally gifted by genes, and great body (a gift i gave myself) by clanging real hard in the Gym 3 times a week)


I am good at my game (not an expert like you though) i usually get on average about 2 - 7 phone numbers out of every 15girls i talk to. And i make sure i talk to at least 15 - 20 girls weekly to reach my goal. (A wing-man makes it really enjoyable all the time, we usually compete who will get turned down the most, how ironic...)


But then again, at first i thought it was big deal to get phone numbers, but then it got to stage where i get phone numbers and i don't even bother getting in touch with them

or i try getting in touch and we don't connect like we did when i was gaming for the number or she doesnt reply at all... So it leads me to confirm and conclude that getting phone numbers is nothing and it guarantees nothing. (Which makes me invest more on the attraction not just request for phone numbers as if it's a business card or something)

I always try and be as unique as possible, and make sure i stand out, to increase the attraction.


But anyways i got a little BIG problem (lol), and that's with girls saying they have got a man in their life.

Typical Scenario: I meet a girl on the street after sharp gaming or even before i start gaming and she says she has a BF... what's your take on this... what will be your move on this (Me i usually jokingly tell them, they can be with their boyfriend when am not around)

But on a serious note, i don't think a girl saying she has a boyfriend means "she's taken" or "no go area"... because to me she's still single bcuz she ain't engaged. Banged a couple of them that i know that has BF for real.


Am not interested in being her long time BF based on my goal, but trust me man, i abide by all the rules Find => Meet => Attract => Close

Am really committed to the process while i look forward to the end goal that's d BIG C for CLOSE.
Experience taught me not to go for the CLOSE fast without Attraction no-matter how many times i gym, nice body and all. Cuz i was making all these mistakes until i saw this post. Have been following since day one... Just registered to ask this question.

So what do you advice i say/do, when i fancy a girl and she tells me she's got a BF but i wanna Bangg/Close her cuz i dnt give a rat asss about her BF.

BTW man, i gotta get your number, i wanna send you some airtime for your time on this thread.

First of all..I must commend ur efforts in putting up dis nice post.


Hmmm bad sharp guy. I cudnt av agreed with u more bro. U r 1OO percent correct. Fone nbrs by demselves r nothing. They only represent a means to an end; seeing her again.

From experience, most girls will bring up d bf ish wenever dey r getting attracted or falling for ur tight game. No girl wana be considered cheap or easy, so dey always tend to use d boyfriend shield as an excuses. The way u reply will make or mar the whole convo. By not acting like u care abt what she said, Ie...saying ok, and switching convo to sth else, or getting more romantic with her, u indirectly tell her dat u know ur stuff. By giving up wen she says she has a bf, u r acting like d oda ten guys dat gave up before u.

So most times, its more like a test. She myt av a bf, she myt not.

Jst say " ok..am not the jealous type....so..what do u do for fun babe...apart from spending time in front of d mirror to look dis good"...blah blah.


U simply walk round her defence.
don't try to start talking about d fact dat she has a bf, how long she has been dating n blah blah. U r automatically shifting attention from ur sef, to her bf, thus making him d centre of attraction. U also get friendzoned easily after dat.

Any other question? Post ur dating sticking points.

xxxtedyxxx:
Any other question? Post ur dating sticking points.

bro is it advisable to date two friends especially when the other is showing you green light

Kovic08:
bro is it advisable to date two friends especially when the other is showing you green light

No..I don't advice u to do such. And even if u do, it might just backfire, and d girls will know about it. If u wana play a fast game..den let it not be on a longterm

xxxtedyxxx:


No..I don't advice u to do such. And even if u do, it might just backfire, and d girls will know about it. If u wana play a fast game..den let it not be on a longterm

ah don change my mind ..the reason why i wanna date her friend is because of Hmmmm , and the girl don gimme the Hmmmm today. Its pointless to suffer the girl .. Yawn Am damn weak

xxxtedyxxx:

First of all..I must commend ur efforts in putting up dis nice post.


Hmmm bad sharp guy. I cudnt av agreed with u more bro. U r 1OO percent correct. Fone nbrs by demselves r nothing. They only represent a means to an end; seeing her again.

Jst say " ok..am not the jealous type....so..what do u do for fun babe...apart from spending time in front of d mirror to look dis good"...blah blah.


U simply walk round her defence.
don't try to start talking about d fact dat she has a bf, how long she has been dating n blah blah. U r automatically shifting attention from ur sef, to her bf, thus making him d centre of attraction. U also get friendzoned easily after dat.

Hey thanks for the advice Ted,

I gotta tell you bro, my game right now is sicker than a sickler, sicker than ebola...

So i have another issue...
What do you advice is the best move, when the game got messed up already...

Yea man, before i met this post, i messed up real bad, and this is a girl that flirt so crazy with me, she
even watches porn on my phone... she was just a flirty friend because we used to live in this same yard...

Though i wanted to banggg her really bad and i know she wants it too, but bcuz we lived in the same
yard i never made any move to bang her...

So i recently relocated... she asked for my address and i gave it to her, and she said she will come and i
waited for 2 weeks didn't see her...

that's where i messed up the game, i texted her that i wanted to have s..e.x with her (to my utmost
surprise she got really angry) i even made it worse by even offering to pay her for s.e..x and she just
deleted me on whatsapp...

so i finally agreed with you teddy, girls don't want to appear cheap nomatter how much is involved unless
they are runs girls...

So Mr.Teddy, i really wanna get her back as my fu..ckk buddy, am not interested in a relationship with
her.

what can i do, we are all already good flirty friends, trust me am not in the friendzone at all, cuz am too
naughty to be in the friendzone with her...

It's messed up already, but there's gotta be a way out of this men, i'm thinking acting like her boyfriend,
taking her on a date or as if i wanna get serious with her...

but since i already told her i wanna bang her, i don't think that plan will work since she knows my motive
already...

(We stopped talking, as she's been ignoring my calls and sms, so i just bounced her for some weeks
now) I don't quit mind you, am ever persistent and i always get rewarded!

I have got other fu..ck buddies, but she's gotta be on that list man... what's ur advice?

just tell her it was all a joke that you want to see her reaction,then take her on a date later...my 10dollars

Hello in-house. Have been following this thread religiously and I must confess, you guys are doing great job.

I met a lady online through a mutual friend and we ve been chatting consistently. Whenever she's online, she ll always be the first to say hi. Throughout this time, I fell for her intelligence.
Recently, she was encountering a problem and she just told me casually(not expecting me to solve it though), but I picked it up, make contact with so many people and starts solving the Ish.
The respect she now has for me has really doubled. She now wants to always talk to me.(mind you on a friendship level).

My problem here now is that I like this lady, but I just don't know how to change our discussion and tell her I like her and wants her to be mine without hurting her or making her think I helped her out cos of my ulterior motives. I really like this gal.
Plz advice on what to do.
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PS: looking at her pix, I can see its either we are of the same height or she's little bit taller. And she once told me she likes wearing heels. Is there any hope for me?

@droid thanks man, dat idea is awesome but its really late cuz its been weeks already.

Damn dat would have fixed this!

Willy4030:
@droid thanks man, dat idea is awesome but its really late cuz its been weeks already.

Damn dat would have fixed this!

not it's not too
Late
To to her house since she is not picking your calls
Tell her you are just testing her and she passed.. That she is a good and disciplined girl
Then just tease her small and walk away..
Den you can start calling

Hi ted ......kudos to you

Hi ted. .....kudos to you

Hi ted.......pls advice me on this

I went to a bank and saw three cute ladies walk in. I was able to strike a convo with one of them. Chatted brielfy with d other two also. I wasnt with ma phone so i couldnt get her contact, tho i asked for her info ( her dept and level).
What would u have done if it were you? ( how else would u get her no there?) i was actually planning to go look for her in her dept when i have the time

well done guys..
I have this problem o. I have two girls i would love to date. I asked out the first girl and she said we should wait for a while. The second girl, have gotten a good rapport with her but have not asked her out yet. The second girl and I chat alot and it obvious she likes me and we even flirt with one another.
I need your advice on how to deal with the first girl and also how to take my relationship with the second girl to the next level so that she can be mine.thanks for the good works so far

Gbaxyll:
Hi ted.......pls advice me on this

I went to a bank and saw three cute ladies walk in. I was able to strike a convo with one of them. Chatted brielfy with d other two also. I wasnt with ma phone so i couldnt get her contact, tho i asked for her info ( her dept and level).
What would u have done if it were you? ( how else would u get her no there?) i was actually planning to go look for her in her dept when i have the time

look for her, but when you see her, just do as if you bump into each other.. Then take it from there

Nice 1 guys

her matter just tire me,

i meet the babe for sch we dey the same deprt.

i been one use gentle man style for her nai she carry me drop for brotherzone as she fine out say we be same local government but different village.

she dey kiss me, dey even romance me join but no they let me reach promise land and they even call me her brother on top.

i don warn the babe tire,everybody for my class think say we dey date so because of that other babe dey back down for me.


i tell her on sunday say i don tire say i wan move on she dey tell me say no be like that.


her matter just scatter my head



what should i do

resurrects thread....
guys when you show off your cute girl friends is it a plus in this game?

Am Enjoying This Post

EejaNla01:
resurrects thread....
guys when you show off your cute girl friends is it a plus in this game?

it is a minus except if you are displaying your pics posing with a girl ( not kissing a girl o, but may be hugging or pecking) then it is a plus

Joke! Joke!! Joke!!!
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Enjoy ya self

tedy i appreciate all ur comments...and it helped. How do one reduces his emotional investment in a relationship? or tip the scale where ur babe wud go heads ova u....

Olayinkaji:
tedy i appreciate all ur comments...and it helped. How do one reduces his emotional investment in a relationship? or tip the scale where ur babe wud go heads ova u....

i need to know this too, cos i'm sick and tired of limerence. I'm emotional too, but once i'm good, that's it, forever, and guess what pal, i'm Yinka too.

bigt2:
i need to know this too, cos i'm sick and tired of limerence. I'm emotional too, but once i'm good, that's it, forever, and guess what pal, i'm Yinka too.

same bro, tired nd its killing me...Woow namesake

Hello!
I haven't really been around here but I have a situation and I'd be glad if you guys could chaperon me. I am not well grounded in the dating game and have never really worried about it until now. There's a girl I like but before I had a chance to personally rap with her, I left town. But I got her connect from a friend and then I chatted her up on whatsapp and it wasn't exactly bad. I kept chatting with her for...like two months and then I came back to town. So we met one on one last week and it wasn't what I'd hope for. She was more outspoken and socially oriented than I am. Deep inside I felt a tad intimidated; it wasn't obvious though. But I think amateur me made a terrible fu*k up. I told her "I'm interested in her, more than a friend" and that seemed like the worst move ever busted. She said she doesn't even know me and that she's okay with just friends and I want more than that.
I need advise and opinion on what to do, where to go from here and how to handle my situation. Thanks.

xamiel:
Hello!
I haven't really been around here but I have a situation and I'd be glad if you guys could chaperon me. I am not well grounded in the dating game and have never really worried about it until now. There's a girl I like but before I have a chance to personally rap with her, I had to leave town. But, I got her connect from a friend and then she came up on my whatsapp friend list so I chatted her up and it wasn't exactly bad. I

kept chatting with her for...like two months and then I came back to town. So we met one on one last week and it wasn't what I'd hope for. She was more outspoken and socially oriented than I am. Deep inside I felt a tad intimidated; it wasn't obvious though. But I think amateur me made a terrible fu*k up. I told her "I'm interested in her, more than a friend" and that seemed like the worst move busted ever. She said she doesn't even know me and that she's okay with just friends and I want more than that.
I need advise and opinion on what to do, where to go from here and how to handle the situation. Thanks.

Ooops..sorry bro..u just got ur self friendzone.

U jumped straight to stage 3 without doing much on stage one and 2.
U don't ask a girl out, wen u avent generated attraction stuffs. And doing some more work on rapport.. After dat u can den close her.

I don't even advice guys to ask babes out, being dier bfs and all dat shit. Just act like her bf. If she is attracted, she will comply and start acting like ur girl. Its dat easy. If she has a bf already, den she will bring it up @ a point..dat shows u av game. But if a girl just friendzones u..dat means u avent done enuf work on stage 1.


I will suggest u lay back..and go back to attraction stuffs, dats teasing, humour, nicknaming her etc, den u can do bit of rapport, knowing her much beta, and letting her know a bit of u too. After dat.u can begin acting like her guy. Don't ask her out again.

Olayinkaji:
tedy i appreciate all ur comments...and it helped. How do one reduces his emotional investment in a relationship? or tip the scale where ur babe wud go heads ova u....

Sorry for d late reply. Nysc go gree me post again.

Understanding emotional investment is key. Itz what's makes or mar the attraction u have for a chick. If u wana turn d scale, den u just need to stop acting like oda guys. Also..focus on abundance..game like 5 chicks @ d same time. Don't just date only one girl. It kills ur game. Date like 5-6 girls @ d same time. It makes u better @ d game, and u don't get worked up, wen one bleeps up..or flakes on u. U just need to call d odas...and ur game is back on.

Only abundance will tilt the emotional investment scale in ur favour.

Also..not replying early wen u receive her message counts, dts if u r chatting, don't rush ur chats, calm down n relax, u av options, she is not the most important tin in ur life. So chill..and don't always reply quickly.

On the contrary, if she is telling u sth emotional, or sth dat makes her feel heartbroken or sad, den ur promp reply will be needed.

EejaNla01:
resurrects thread....
guys when you show off your cute girl friends is it a plus in this game?

Its a big plus, pics of u aving fun with oda girls..esp cute ones..is a big plus, and it always turn the attraction scale in ur favour. Girls love it wen they know oda cute girls like U. This one doesn't need much explanation