When you talk about women and their way of thinking , I must say they vary according to different cultures.

To get laid by a Nigerian girl takes extra ordinary things and trust me it isn't all about your money or swag.

I have to tell you this, the last girl I got laid cost me less than 500 Naira and I must say we shagged many times before I quit and she even begged but I knew I was done and had to move on.

That doesn't mean she's cheap, I only brought in my A game to get what I wanted. She even told me about guys who came with their money and swag and she asked if she could "chop" their money.

Ofcourse I had to act the good guy, so I told her she shouldn't.

As I speak now, I just spoke to another girl tonight and hopefully she will be visiting tomorrow for her first gig.

My next post will highlight what you need to convince a lady your are worth her body and time.

Comments are welcome.

Get her attention

Once you've spotted a lady you want to get with, the first and most difficult move is to get her attention.
Weather it's online or offline, the rule of the thumb is the same.
Make sure she's in a more relaxed mood.
This way, you can easily start up a conversation and make yourself interesting.

Let your introduction be brief and make sure you tell her what you do.

Don't go all like, I'm Abe and I'm a 25 years old student of so so so and so.

No.

Hit the nail in the head by telling her how you earn a living or else she will not take you serious.

She has to see you as a potentially dependable person. Someone she can rely on when the need arises.

So you can go like, my name is Abe and I'm the lead dancer in the Alpha dance group. That intro line will get her interested and make her ask questions like "so what is your role as a dance group leader?".

Never mind the question because what she's really driving at is how being a dancer affects your finances.

Now if you're not a student and you have a legitimate job then that makes it even more easier for you.

Perhaps you were recently hired as a technical assistant in an ICT firm. You can spice it all up and introduce yourself like " Hello! My name is Abe and I'm a Senior technical analyst in an ICT firm". Now this line of intro will pique her interest and she will want to know more about the firm you work with and where your office is located.

A lot of guys make huge mistakes while introducing themselves. They mention their name and that's it. That kind of introduction doesn't make you any less than a stranger and she sure wouldn't want to probe any further so her defences would be up against you.

Over to your next line of action.

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Observing!!!!!!

Keep the conversation going

This is where the buck usually stops for most guys but if you're lucky or your game is an A plus then your chances are high with just anyone.

It's all about shared interests, history or affiliation.

Now get this clear. If it isn't a one night stand and the girl believes you are a potential boyfriend which you want to convince her you are, then there has to be something both of you must identify with together.

Interests could range from hobbies to music, movies, even something as little as your favourite past time. Your history. And affiliation could be your tribe, culture, religion, denomination e.t.c.

Once you have identified a common ground, then she feels more comfortable with you and tend to open up more.

This is where you must up your ante and get her hooked.

Next is identifying her weak spot or entry point.

My heart goes to d woman dat will end up marrying u

Mimido2:
hmmmmmm

Beadex1:
Observing!!!!!!

You guys are welcome.

halfricanadian:
My heart goes to d woman dat will end up marrying u

Knowing this things doesn't mean I abuse them. The truth is, sex is a necessity and denying yourself the pleasure is just like cheating nature.

That doesn't mean I go around sleeping with every girl I meet. No!

I'm only teaching these things so other guys especially the young and inexperienced ones should know.

I learnt most of these things the hard way and it shouldn't be so for everyone.

halfricanadian:
My heart goes to d woman dat will end up marrying u

why ??

PushPlay:



You guys are welcome.

Knowing this things doesn't mean I abuse them. The truth is, sex is a necessity and denying yourself the pleasure is just like cheating nature.

That doesn't mean I go around sleeping with every girl I meet. No!

I'm only teaching these things so other guys especially the young and inexperienced ones should know.

I learnt must of these things the hard way and it shouldn't be so for everyone.

Do u av a gf?
Do u av conscience at all?

my God hope u conduct hiv test on dose girls sha

Beadex1:
why ??

Nothing men who do random girls a lot finds it difficult to stay with a woman

But dey not gon let their woman cheat its like purnishing d woman

I just hope op doesnt av a heart nd shd nt marry with a mind like dat

Ops headache future wifey headache too

halfricanadian:

Nothing men who do random girls a lot finds it difficult to stay with a woman
But dey not gon let their woman cheat its like purnishing d woman
I just hope op doesnt av a heart nd shd nt marry with a mind like dat
Ops headache future wifey headache too

I think what I posted above explains enough.
Firstly, I don't do random girls.
Secondly, I protect myself.
Thirdly, I don't keep multiple sexual partners.
I will advice anyone to also keep to these things.
Nonetheless, this is not the goal of the thread .
More updates coming.

halfricanadian:


Nothing men who do random girls a lot finds it difficult to stay with a woman

But dey not gon let their woman cheat its like purnishing d woman

I just hope op doesnt av a heart nd shd nt marry with a mind like dat

Ops headache future wifey headache too

there Is an adage that says ''na condition do make crayfish bend '' I won't blame guys that sleep around, majority of players we have now were in love once but girls ruin things up ...that's why u will see someone just like De op will study girls like a course and know all their weaknesses........

Though I don't encourage sleeping around but girls should stop playing smart

PushPlay:


I think what I posted above explains enough.

Firstly, I don't do random girls.

Secondly, I protect myself.

Thirdly, I don't keep multiple sexual partners.

I will advice anyone to also keep to these things.

Nonetheless, this is not the goal of the thread .

More updates coming.

U dont keep multiple partners? Yet u knacked one girl anoda is comin for her first gig u dont keep multiple partners indeed

Beadex1:
there Is an adage that says ''na condition do make crayfish bend '' I won't blame guys that sleep around, majority of players we have now were in love once but girls ruin things up ...that's why u will see someone just like De op will study girls like a course and know all their weaknesses........

Though I don't encourage sleeping around but girls should stop playing smart

even ladies have been hurt pratically everyone has been hurt at one point d act to move pass all dat be a MAN stick to a lady nd live life

If op can channel such intellect of studyin women he wud get a better good lady dan random numerous ladies i wish him all d best sum ladies myt b clean hiv wise bt spiritually dem carry pass anytin b careful

Beadex1:
there Is an adage that says ''na condition do make crayfish bend '' I won't blame guys that sleep around, majority of players we have now were in love once but girls ruin things up ...that's why u will see someone just like De op will study girls like a course and know all their weaknesses........

Though I don't encourage sleeping around but girls should stop playing smart

You've got the point and I think some ladies are more concerned that more guys will understand their game on this thread hence the criticism.

Trust me, girls have torn me into shreds many times. As a matter of fact, my bad experiences thought me the hard way.

As I speak, I have close to 100 contacts of girls of different shapes and sizes that I can choose from at any time.

all I need to do is follow these simple steps and I'm sure 4 out of 5 will fall for it.

It's not magic, it's just simple common sense.

PushPlay:


You've got the point and I think some ladies are more concerned that more guys will understand their game on this thread hence the criticism.

Trust me, girls have torn me into shreds many times. As a matter of fact, my bad experiences thought me the hard way.

As I speak, I have close to 100 contacts of girls of different shapes and sizes that I can choose from at any time.

all I need to do is follow these simple steps and I'm sure 4 out of 5 will fall for it.

It's not magic, it's just simple common sense.

Dont worry wen d time is right it will take just a little young girl to change ur mindset

Be calm she is coming u will remember my words!!!!

PushPlay:


You've got the point and I think some ladies are more concerned that more guys will understand their game on this thread hence the criticism.

Trust me, girls have torn me into shreds many times. As a matter of fact, my bad experiences thought me the hard way.

As I speak, I have close to 100 contacts of girls of different shapes and sizes that I can choose from at any time.

all I need to do is follow these simple steps and I'm sure 4 out of 5 will fall for it.

It's not magic, it's just simple common sense.

hahaha . Why won't I get your point when I have bin in such position several times....lost trust on girls years back...they are good in making good guys turn bad....fear girls

why gals d vex Na? continue joor. so far the summary of the whole gist is " how to exploit the greed of ladies to Ur advantage"

halfricanadian:


Dont worry wen d time is right it will take just a little young girl to change ur mindset

Be calm she is coming u will remember my words!!!!

dear what you are saying Is true but The truth Is that no girl can change a player mindset unless he wants to change on its own.... Players are very emotional and good lovers that's why The hypnotized their target easily

Beadex1:
dear what you are saying Is true but The truth Is that no girl can change a player mindset unless he wants to change on its own.... Players are very emotional and good lovers that's why The hypnotized their target easily

Hmmmm ok feel for d women who loves him

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halfricanadian:


Hmmmm ok feel for d women who loves him

don't feel for them because girls never loved real/good guys.... THE love players and heart breakers ......ask The op how many girls loved him when he was a genuine lover

Beadex1:
don't feel for them because girls never loved real/good guys.... THE love players and heart breakers ......ask The op how many girls loved him when he was a genuine lover

Well ive learnt my lessons too ive been hurt i dont voice out the real deal behind my pain dunno why

But av been dealt with severely doesnt mean i wont or cant love again just d way girls has dealt wit op

So also guys has dealt with me bt wat im glad i av never done is make my present bf pay for my ex mistakes i dont do dat nd never will i study my partner nd move with his own scale bt wen i notice some games i just withdraw walk away nd never look back weda goin to lose or not

Mimido2:
hmmmmmm

Hmmmmmmm

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Happy mothers day everyone
More updates coming...

In the process of keeping the conversation, you should be able to identify her weak spots or entry points like i would prefer to call it.

Some girls are desperate to find a husband. This is where you propose to her that you are ready and willing to start a family with her.
Other girls just want a guy who would fill in for her financial needs. This is where you would make financial promises.

While some girls are just plain freaky and would prefer a guy who'd give them wild sex. By all means, make her understand why you are the best man for the job.

Human needs varies according to individuals so it is not limited to the ones i listed above.

Some might even need academic assistance. Maybe they've been struggling to pass an exam. Your job would be to become that brainy guy who would help her pass the exams or at least help her in one way or the other.

The list is endless my people.

My point here is that you become indispensable and the first guy she will call up on when the need arises.

This now leads us to the next stage where you walk the talk.


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guente02:
This is interesting.
Ride on

Thanks for dropping in.

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Okay guys.
Sorry for keeping you waiting.
I had a hectic weekend and I eventually couldn't make an appointment with my new catch so we rescheduled.

According to our chat today, she informed me she will be getting her hair done "to look beautiful and sexy for me". That's in her own words.

She also promised she would visit tomorrow.

As our chat went on, she made me understand her birthday is coming up and would want a special gift.

Do you now see what I'm saying guys.

I wish I could upload screen shots of our conversation but then I really don't have to do that just for you to have proofs.

I'll save it for future references after I might have chopped and clean mouth.

More updates coming soon.