You know Mummy can be jealous at times....Na women them be.

Your story is lopsided with hidden details or information from where we could advice you.

Tell us what she said exactly about her and not just telling us not in support.

Christian Bible aptly stated that "" you will have peace of mind when train your child in the right way"". Huncle! You have family standard and what grew up with.
For me, I know what my mum would say the day I bring in a girl that falls far the family standard.

Forget indomie love. Forget anyone telling you that you're man enough to make decision.

Mothers are blessings from God, they are women and will tell more about other women.

Go back and ask while or complete the story if want to get a helpful advice here.

your mummy is classy and fair in complexion. your girl is simple and homely. You do not really love the girl. You want to use and dump her.your mum is just an excuse.

My bro never you do that mistake,I did because of my mum said she is not in support and i regreted and still regreting because her reason when i got to know is not on point atall so pls stand as a man go for what you want,stand by it and have evalution of it compared to others and take your decicion

Another one again..........

Mum might have seen something.
Something she can never tell you.

Your girl may possess something.
Something she will never tell you.

Four words are enough for this wise.

Your mum won't stay with you in marriage and if you cannot defend what you started now, am afraid your controller is your mum in marriage and believe me you won't be able to handle things when slight thing goes wrong. Marriage will open your eyes. Stay real to yourself. Love yourself and your wife-to-be if your intention is to marry her. If not, continue to be your mummy's pet and be cunning with your emotions...

GCsomething:
Your story is lopsided with hidden details or information from where we could advice you.

Tell us what she said exactly about her and not just telling us not in support.

Christian Bible aptly stated that "" you will have peace of mind when train your child in the right way"". Huncle! You have family standard and what grew up with.
For me, I know what my mum would say the day I bring in a girl that falls far the family standard.

Forget indomie love. Forget anyone telling you that you're man enough to make decision.

Mothers are blessings from God, they are women and will tell more about other women.

Go back and ask while or complete the story if want to get a helpful advice here.

Best advice!

Lol!

Mummy told you to break up with a girl you love.

Mummy didn't give you a cogent reason.

Now you are asking strangers how to dump a girl mummy said you should break up with.

When are you going to start making your own life decisions?!

You KNOW your girlfriend. You should be in the best position to scheme out the lie you want to tell her. Okay, tell her your mother asked you to break up with her. If she is smart, she will know she just escaped a lifetime of mama's boy issues.

Goodluck in your search for a new girlfriend.


_{If it was a lady asking this question, she will be called a who.rre looking for excuses for jumping from one man to the other.}

xoxo001:
Just tell her your mom doesn't like her... It is not advisable to marry someone your mom doesn't like, no matter how much you love the person cos what an elder can see while sitting down you may not see it even when you climb a tree.

Rubbish

Your story is not complete and biased

It's evident you don't want the girl and want a way out.

Tell us why your mum doesn't like her or why you perceive she doesn't like her.

Tell us what th girl did wrong or is doing wrong.

When you respond to these questions.. Then we can advice you properly.

However... .
Even though your mum's reason for disliking her might not be tangible, you can't afford to take mums or parents in general for granted. They usually...most of the time, have our best interest at heart.

derrydinny:
forget those calling you weak, ask your mum the reason why she wants you to break up with her, if she can't give a concrete reason, continue dating the lady... it may be that your mother thinks she is a hoe because she expose small breast in one photo

U must Tell her genuine reason why u are breaking up. You see life now, When u dey pray to find someone dat will love u, u must also pray his friends should also like u, because they can confuse him. After that u will pray his parents should accept u and his relatives. which wahala be this......Any guy dat pay stupid prank on me and tamper with my heart........I will show him d next world, he will never be useful to himself again. Radarada

My brother please am begging you, put the issue before God almighty in prayers because I know God through His working angels will direct you. Don't blame your mum because she is not support it might be for a reason known to her. Finally, try and find out from your mum why she is not in support. May God help you to succeed marital lyrics. Bye for now

Baba; are you sacrificing your joy peace luv (which moni can never buy) for your mother? Bros if u luv her,wht you need is a peaceful way to make your mama accept her.
Why is she against it? This will interest you.
Can't daddy or other respected elders in the family step in and resolve it.
Baba neva let go why you luv except there say u neva tell us somtin.

Parents especially mothers have covalent bond with their sons which makes it difficult to let go of them whilst this is normal but if they are too curious & malicious hence dish confused and shady advice discouraging their sons not to marry a particular lady, this shouldn't stop the guy if he really loves his lady to fight for her.

Sometimes I don't believe in this cock and bull story about what an elder sees, a child can't see it. It could be out of selfish reasons they are speaking. It's not all cases parents are right.

A story comes to mind where the parents ill advice their daughter to marry another man against the one she loved. Fast forward after 5 years in her marriage, she is the bread winner why her husband is lazy, unpatriotic and abusive. The other man is doing well in his marriage. This lady in question even advise me as a man to be careful when taking parents' advice in marital decision.

That being said, discuss with your mother and get a reasonable explanation to the reason why she did not subscribe to your relationship.

danhans:
My bro never you do that mistake,I did because of my mum said she is not in support and i regretted and still regretting because her reason when i got to know is not on point at all so pls stand as a man go for what you want,stand by it and have evaluation of it compared to others and take your decision

Dear OP, you see it from a different perspective by weighing this gentle man's advice. A stitch in time saves nine!

BIXYBABE:

U must Tell her genuine reason why u are breaking up. You see life now, When u dey pray to find someone dat will love u, u must also pray his friends should also like u, because they can confuse him. After that u will pray his parents should accept u and his relatives. which wahala be this......Any guy dat pay stupid prank on me and tamper with my heart........I will show him d next world, he will never be useful to himself again. Radarada

easy sis, be like man don break your heart plenty time

Toks2008:


Any mother who refuses to discuss why she believes her son or daughter should not marry their choice should shush.

Shut up

Badgers14:


Before thinking about breakup... First ask your mother why she is against your relationship and then put 2 and 2 together.

I had similar experiences my self, I asked my mom and the response I got was not satisfactory , I proceeded with the marriage, she did come around after a while. As I type this message, she is here in my house talking to my wife and carrying our child just right now at this moment.

Always remember this, we all love our mothers but the bottom line is, we are the ones to stay married with our wives/husbands and not them.

Cheers!

So you're married

I wanted to advise you on how to convince your mom that you love the girl and why she(your mom) should accept her but the problem is that you do not need any of that except how to end the relationship. From your post, ending relationship is never new to you. let the relationship follow its predecessors.

LilSfc:


Thanks alot, thats what am thinking as well

I pity you. What I have to tell you is not for this forum. You really need to grow up. If your mum cannot give you a very reasonable reason why she hates her, you better don't make the mistake of leaving her, else you LL have a long road of regret to travel. It is obvious your mind is made up to dump her. You are just seeking public opinion for fun.

Same girl will find a far better man while you wallow in pain and regret.

Screen munch and save this post..you can contact me via mail in my signature if you want to hear more.

I go dig 8 patition and pour 8 bags of cement.

Babyforever:
So you're married

Hmmmm... why the question? I don't think we have met

There's no better way to end relationship without one person being hurt.

What an elder sees sitting down.....if you like climb everest you no go see am....all of una wey dhy shout mamas boy instead make una allow am ask imm mama why first.....she might not be right for him

kimbraa:
The worst thing one would do is to seek counsel from this forum. Even kids believe they have superior knowledge in something experience is required. For me, sort out your issues 'cause social media will get you more confused with divergent views each person holds dear.

I don't even know how they do it. I as a person can't wash my dirty linens in public.

Shalom. More sense to your skull

LilSfc:


Thanks alot, thats what am thinking as well

abeg just talk say u re tired of the gal instead of giving us cock nd bull story. I am not sure u even loved this person in d first place.

swaggprofessor:
True words from a soured pussy

false mention from an expired expired dick

Lonestar124:
Look at how your comment look different....Funny woman.

How is life revolving around you?...........Do have blissful sleep.

Lest I forget, do you notice the blood moon eclipse in your area?

not at all o i waited outside just to see the blood moon but i saw nothing

OneSentence:
isn't it funny that all your other relationships that mum never said anything bad about ended. why didn't she stop you from ending them? because you saw the bad in them yourself...even when mum didn't. I can't tell you to go against mum but at the same time be a man for yourself

Are you related to the Op? The famzing in this your post no be here ooo

Badgers14:


Hmmmm... why the question? I don't think we have met

Don't take it personal was just asking for a friend

merxi55:
One mummy's boi spotted. Shows you're not yet a man.
When you become one, you'll then be eligible to have words you need. Wodahell!

hey merxi55 long time, wait I misplaced your contact.... sorry sorry wish I can have it for a second time...