Guy, you better listen to your mom.

You know that moms always knows best.

What does he mean by dating

MissRaine69:

Save your prayers.

Emancipation, I have walked in your lane before. Being free is fine, but have it at one point in your mind. Let me reserve my comment, thank God you're far beyond the shore of this part of the world.

2018 and mum still dictating who an acclaimed man is going to marry.

Hope she tells you sex positions to indulge also.


Wonders shall never end. Thought it was a home video stunt

I shouldn't have commented in the first place but was forced to.
This is very simple. your mum doesn't want her, do the following.
1. Ask ur Mom y she doesn't like the gal, if her reasons are convincing enough. u shud knw wat to do. but understand that wat an elderly person will see while sitting, a child won't see even if he climbs the tallest trees. in most cases she won't say but u try persuading her more.
2. know that if u go against ur mom's wish, and u eventually marry the gal, if problems arise in future and u need a family to run to u are on ur own. take the psquares for example.
3. parents blessings is very important in every marriage. God supports it too. b Wise.
4. ur mother won't open her eyes and allow disaster to bfall u, b wise.

As for me , I can't date a gal my people won't not to talk of even marrying her.

Don't let others push u into disobeying ur mother. I hope you won't want to die earlier and won't be able to bear a curse.
A world is enough for the wise.

no offence.

LilSfc:

We are really into each other and I can sense how much she care about me compared to other relationships I have been in the past.

But when my mum got to know about her, she said she's not in support with our relationship and she has never said such in my past relationship.

Your mother never cared when your were in relationships with people with never cared much about you and she is against the one bothered to care about you? Mothers, some sons got them.

CAPSLOCKED:



THE FAITH OF ALL BELIEVERS ON EARTH PUT TOGETHER CAN'T MOVE A GRAIN OF SAND. BUT AN ANT CAN.
PLEASE DON'T INVOLVE ME IN YOUR RELIGIOUS NONSENSE CUS I'M NOT A BELIEVER.

I'm not religious eirher, But I believe there is a God and he created this world and set the sail of all it activities... Despite all the rebel, I believe he has the ability to do and undo.

Jeferious:
You're the only one here who made sense. The rest are too slow, while thinking they've got brains.

I can fight wars anywhere, but not near my home, not to talk of within my own family. It's stupid to start a quarrel whom you have known for decades because of someone you met days or months ago. It shows that something vital is missing in the cranium.

I understand why the girls are bashing him. They are a selfish lot and would want to mark their territory at the expense of anyone or anything. It is the men that I don't understand. I no go quarrel my enemy over woman, let alone my own mother. Though I must admit that the op's mum owe him some detailed explanation

Their problem. I could remember yrs back when my ex was talking marriage too much. I was forced to tell my family, though, I did it through a family friend. My oldest brother who was meant to stand as my father since my dad is late in such situations objected to any of the promises the guy made even before meeting him. Guess what? Today I'm glad and grateful he refused me marring the guy. I got to know a different person entirely later, one he concealed from me. A child can't grow bigger/older than his/her mother/father.

tempest01:


knowledge is deep...you can never be totally free then

Thank you for this...Being free is not even your call...Death make you free from this evil world, since you are born in this world you are encave in the battlefield. Do you ever imagine how intense a new born child cry stepping into this world, it is a forsaken world. If you are lucky grace preserve you through.

kimbraa:
Their problem. I could remember yrs back when my ex was talking marriage too much. I was forced to tell my family, though, I did it through a family friend. My oldest brother who was meant to stand as my father since my dad is late in such situations objected to any of the promises the guy made even before meeting him. Guess what? Today I'm glad and grateful he refused me marring the guy. I got to know a different person entirely later, one he concealed from me. A child can't grow bigger/older than his/her mother/father.

Don't mind them. Imagine you fighting on two fronts- you are not at peace with the guy and there's also no love lost between you and your brother. Abeg free their case. Who knows, we might be sounding like two old fools to them

hmm

Know what's your mom's reason, if it weighs heavier than the marriage then let go, but if you don't see it a good reason to quit, then convince your mom. But that's if you are sure that you love her.

Why would your mum want you break up with her Like what's her reason?
Biko if she doesn't give you a good reason, hold on to your girl please!

But wait oooo...So you actually want to break up with a lady you claim to be really into just because "mummy" said you should
Awon mummy's boy!

LilSfc:
Seriously, i dont place my GF over my mom, Never. But am trying to persuade her

You be fool o. Mummy's bou. Nonsense

Jeferious:
Don't mind them. Imagine you fighting on two fronts- you are not at peace with the guy and there's also no love lost between you and your brother. Abeg free their case. Who knows, we might be sounding like two old fools to them

The worst thing one would do is to seek counsel from this forum. Even kids believe they have superior knowledge in something experience is required. For me, sort out your issues 'cause social media will get you more confused with divergent views each person holds dear.

xoxo001:
Just tell her your mom doesn't like her... It is not advisable to marry someone your mom doesn't like, no matter how much you love the person cos what an elder can see while sitting down you may not see it even when you climb a tree.

You just spoke my mind. Don't mind those fellows especially ladies calling him mummies boy. I really know exactly how the OP feels. The mum must have seen something.
As for me if my two elder sisters and mum disapproves on the girl I want to marry.. nothing I mean nothing will make me go ahead, be it true love. Mosttimes ladies can read themselves.

buy her an umbrella


a big shoe


and a big bag


den silently tell her u belong 2 Jehovah witness


I swear she go japa

Just let her know ur mom is not in support, n that u feel bad enough for not being able to disobey her. Never marry a woman ur mama don't like!

Baba mother this mother that**see If u love her then marry her and if it turns out good ur mother will rejoice with you na mama she be now!! But if it turns out bad then handle the situation cause that's what makes u a man *imagine probably u are even the first son*

agbonkamen:
tell yah mum her pussy is too sweet to let go.....

c ur mouth like her kini is too sweet, come let me test your own to know if its sweet

godfatherx:
In my opinion, you never truly love the girl.

If you do, you are a man, and should be able to point out to your mum that you love her and want to marry her.

To peaceably break up, call her and tell her you don't love her and you don't want her to get stuck in a marriage without love.

You said it all; he doesn't truly love her

Run

My brother its not simple don't kind people shouting be a man they must be a reason.
*pray over it
*ask ur mum her reasons
*evaluate it
*again pray and pray
Remember marriage if Forever except u want to divorce so be careful again I said pray and pray over it. God will always show u a way out if she is not the one or a way in if she is the one.
#PRAY

LilSfc:
There is this girl I met at my working place in the mid last year, we exchanged contact that day, and one thing led to the other and we started dating. We are really into each other and I can sense how much she care about me compared to other relationships I have been in the past.

But when my mum got to know about her, she said she's not in support with our relationship and she has never said such in my past relationship.

Please I want to seek advice from nairalanders on how I can peacefully end the relationship without hurting her feelings.

And how can I justify myself so that she won't have a bad impression about me (and men in general) that I just use her and dump her.

i pity the poor girl who put hope in this one

A grown man asking for advise on a forum like this is totally amazing... No wonder your mum influenced you

agbonkamen:
tell yah mum her pussy is too sweet to let go.....

True words from a soured pussy

Bullocks... OP please don't listen to those saying you are the man and you shouldn't break up. Parents see what we don't see, There some times be a spiritual connection that is bad or good..

I nearly fell into that trap of forging ahead doing a court wedding with my now divorced ex without the approval of my parents and family and friends. Things started turning on its head, started losing my business, falling sick.

It felt like I walked into a curse then I prayed so hard before I summoned the courage to anull the court wedding. But prior to making that decision her true colors came out because she was hell bent on forcing me to proceed to court and traditional wedding without my family. She was always insulting me and my family, taunting me etc.

After the annulment Bros I came back to life... Partial paralysis disappeared, anal pile disappeared and many others I can't mention here.

My experience made me believe demons can dress up very beautiful

Bro use mine as a case study my mum does not even want anylady outside yoruba land i swear but today she n my mum r bestie ,ask how i did it ?I prayed like and believe me i was not choosing sides.But will say this u r d man n u know wat u want so bro pls b d man u av been called to be

Biglittlelois:
All this mummy's boy sef, nawa

I dont know y i keep mistaken ur moniker to b Bigclitoris, i just dont know y...

Chinedumsimpero:
Most marriage without mum happiness about it doesn't last or have less peace inside it

Very true ...especially if she's diabolical... only Christ can hold such marriage.. who told you to have 100percent trust for our mothers... if God opens some people's eyes, dey might never step home again..

Maybe you're broke, m just thinking