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SoapQueen:
I am quite sure they do not mean it. I think they say it for fun. They get kicks from seeing us feeling insecure. Guys know it makes us batsh*t crazy!

Same reason why nigerian women feel calling someone "big head" is toasting him

MissRaine69:
This has been a reoccurring theme here and on other forums . All the Nigerian men in my circle of friends, family and acquaintances are adamant that they will never date or marry a Nigerian women I find this point of view very unsettling so I will ask the Men of NL....What particular aspect when it comes to MOST Nigerian women do you struggle with?
Bear in mind you have sisters and aunties that are Nigerian think about it first before dishing out the insults

I'm guessing these guys are in the US.
Problem with a lot of naija babes out here is that they want the best of both worlds but are generally not interested in paying the price for either.
This is a society that actively REWARDS any responsibility a woman intends to take up into her life, at the detriment of the men around her.

Not many naija women that make it out of naija cling to their culture, especially if she starts making small money.
See women from India or other asian countries. When they come out here, they hold on tight to their culture and family regardless of the fact these women make x2/x3 of what african women make.

A lot of naija babes come to the US and na dem go pack tattoo put for body like say na dem be the real akata.

Even with that said, it is still the deep desire of a naija man to find a SENSIBLE naija girl....they grow scarce by the day.

As a guy, stop complimenting random women!

mhisbliss:
Is it just me? Or the woman in the first pic is not really the one in the third pic, HML to them though

Thats the power of make up. It's how women been deceiving men since the days of Solomon
The last pic really shows her age because she didn't have on multiple layers of that ish.

I really think there needs to be an equivalent of make up for men in this day and age, as we can't be the only ones being deceived.
I guess that's why men lie. It's all the same thing!

I have been envisioning what a futuristic naija would look like, akin to what one sees in scifi movies. Particularly cyberpunk movies the likes of "Altered Carbon".
Any artist here ever had such thoughts or created any original illustrations?

The only parent I see allowing these kinds of upbringing is women. Father's just don't let indiscipline fly. This is why the shittiest way for a child to grow up is in a single mother home and why America is going to shit.

A lot of women do not even know how to respect themselves, talk less of knowing how to respect someone else, talk less of also now TEACHING a child how to do either.

Even me sef hates kissing some black women who don't understand how to keep their mouth fresh.

Halitosis is a major turn off.
If as a woman she fails at controlling the smells coming out her face, then she damn well sure won't know how to control the smells coming out that stank crotch.

Some females are just Grotesque. No be by face, body or makeup.

MrsNwaAmaikpe:


The license of the medical doctor should be revoked.......Just imagine the excuse

I think the doctor was just trying to "cure" her with his own kpekus hence the nonsense diagnosis. This is what you call medical toasting.
Unfortunately she nor get (be like say she no too sharp) , and took it as a real medical diagnosis.

Eh-hen
You will now see Every female termite crawling out the woodwork claiming world's most decent girl and how her conc. singleness is the fault of all the men that came close to her and left....not her.

Mchew abeg give me cold orijin!

Women generally lack the ability of fore-thought. They cannot think past the NOW.
This is why women should not be political leaders.

It happened in the US and that is why now, the family unit in that once great country has been destroyed.
They allowed women/feminazis to have a say.
Most women reason on the level of a 12 year old when it comes to serious matters.
They go "Free candy for fellow women every day!" but then are surprised that they wake up tomorrow to find that all women now have diabetes...and they will be wondering what happened.

With her sexy K-leg

chiommy123:
raising an ideal Christian home shouldn't start after your wedding its starts years before you even meet your spouse. now these helps you to plan your home before it arrives. I think some men do not understand the pain that women go through when they find out that their husband's are cheats. it really hurts. if only we can find our way back to the author of this great institution then and only then will our marriages be heaven on earth.

In as much as I agree with you, I disagree on the fact that women should be feeling the need to get all twisted about men playing away match.

From time past, there has always been polygamy.
Abraham, Moses...they all had more than one wife.
Solomon....the guyman ... was a legend.

Even Christianity today...every person in Christ can be seen as a "Bride of Christ".

This is because from time past, a family consists of ONE man, but one-to-many women.
It is not in the nature of virile men to maintain themselves with just one wife.

That he gathers his loins and attempts to for her sake, should be met with appreciation...as it was back in the day.
But no, trust the 21st century female to start throwing all manner of stupid shade, disrespect and feminazi attitude in his face until he can't but go back to original programming and reach out for a concubine to balance his sanity.

Get your historical facts straight.
If you really want to "Make Marriage Great again", shift for polygamy/side-chicks and everyone can have their peace.

That's like saying "Make America Great Again" while also trying to say that slavery was not a major part of america being great before.

Nigeria is the only country in the world right now that is stranding it's citizens around the world by not having passport booklets available.
This is shameless. No doubt whoever has been given the responsibility of solving this problem has looked for a way to loot the money for the blank passport booklets.

Last I heard, Nigeria uses some European company to provide them with these booklets.
Should a country not be manufacturing it's own??!!!!

What is in freaking passport booklet that the manufacturing cannot happen in Naija itself?

Can one of our lazy nigerian youths start a passport booklet company and spare the country from further embarrassment?
I don't even know what kind of liver BUBU is using to going around visiting other countries when Nigeria is failing at BASIC things like these.
What "Talk" is he going to go and do here and there?

He does not know that the world is watching and laughing at him...and hence...Us.

Hanseel1:
When I was in 100lv I dated a girl who's very clean... she purchases 13 new panties every month and she also takes her bath regularly yet her Pussy smells like rotten ice fish. ..

I looked for a non existence excuse to break up with her some day later.

The funny thing is the girl was very beautiful and curvy...

Do nigerians even go to the doctor?

Or do they try to fix every health issue themselves?
She should go do gynocology examination to determine her situation naw.
She's probably trying to hide it with vagisil and co instead of solving the actual infection.

QueenSuccubus:
Chaaaaaiii...


I bet she was hiding some rotten dead rat inside her NUNU ..HAHAHAHAHAAHA!


Food thing the man didnt faint sha..

If you watch closely, it looks like he almost wanted to faint while removing his face from the offending area

Guy looked like he was about to puke after having smelt whatever the fawk that was

LOL this thread is still on?

Alright all jokes and trolling aside, I love women.
Some of them look hot and cute in their 30s sef. These ones are wifeable....as long as they understand she's been done a favor

Happy? Good. Thread closed!!!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Nothing new... Civilized societies have been doing it since. They pay unemployed pregnant women 500 euros every month in Germany. ... I trust Nigerians to Abuse this kinda free money..

Sis, this ain't for naija.
It's for other countries that have already let their family morals die off long ago.
Baby mamas go too full ground with this bill oo.

Bayelsa babes sabi like to dey Bleep before.

No...what they need is better industry creation opportunities. THEN if they DID want to do this somewhere down the line, there needs to be checks and balances with the bill. e.g Giving LESS money if the woman cannot identify the father, etc.

We cannot let naija become like this obodo oyinbo in that regard.

I disagree with this.

This is how the broken family situation started in the US.
Our women need to maintain discernment in when they have children and who they have it with.
Learn from other nations and avoid a baby-mama land.

SexyDenzel:
LOL don't mind them, the ones over 30 are not really digging this thread. it hurts them and reminds them of a lot of things, when they were doing shakara for that bro that came for their hand in marriage, when they wanted the young, tall, fresh, rich, handsome and whatever thing on that their long list to come and marry them but unfortunately that didn't happen and the lost those years and are getting old. The young fresh chicks are not helping their ministry too hahahahhahaa the young chicks makes them look bad and stuff. A pregnant women at 40+ is likely to have issues during child birth, don't mind this one seems like she wants to be the Sarah of our time hahaha but honestly they're hurt about this thread.
Personally I have a side pussy that is 31, she got issues and I've seen why men didn't want to tie the knot with her. I would have dropped her last two months after her birthday but she gives very good head. As soon as I get extra young chick that gives better head she's gone.

True. Unmarried women in their 30s are best kept as make-I-sha-do or sex slaves during "winter season".
To be promptly replaced during summer period with fresher things though.

Not much use for them besides that.
Their situation can at least be salvaged if they accept this.

The over-30 females on this thread are doing all they can to fight depression.
It must be tough knowing she is violently approaching expiry date.

I mean, if the positions were switched, I would say all I can to lie to myself too.

I thank God for sha making me a man.

That's even okay. I saw a pic of one of them sticking their face into their cows butt, no doubt doing something sexual to it.

These are the diseased horde bubu intends to bring into the country.

OP is this you and her?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eZxoL0gPN-0

jessca048:
spit at the kinda shallow mentality being displayed by some men

We have our shallowness. Leave us.
Women have their shallowness.....until they hit the wall. Then all of a sudden men should be "stripped" of their power of more available choice to suit your low-quality ass abi?

If female hypergamy wasn't a thing, maybe old men would maintain themselves with old women.
But like we say, you women are your own worst enemies. A girl in her youthful prime would mostly ignore her struggling mates and aim up for established/set/older men...so blame your younger sisters for your old asses no longer being relevant, not men.

you were probably like that when you were younger too, so enjoy the fruits of your female tendencies.

ayaomen:
so the only thing you can bring to the table as a man is to impregnate a lady?

What can you bring to the table besides opening your legs?

I can understanding marrying a woman in her 30s, but who still marries women in their 30s WITH kids?

Talk about sufferhead.

bigfrancis21:
First I sympathize with you on what you are going through.

Second, the good news is that you are eligible to get your green card through VAWA act (violence against women act). The act was originally intended for women experiencing violence in the hands of their US citizen spouses but has since expanded to include both genders as violence can go both ways. Now, both men and women married to US citizen spouses can file on that basis if they experienced violence in the hands of their US citizen spouse, which in your case you clearly did. Be sure to keep ALL evidence of the violence (physical, if any, emotional etc.) you went through. Do not leave any piece of evidence out. Here in the US, threats of murder are taken very seriously and if you have not yet, you need to report that to the police to have solid evidence of that threat to support your VAWA application. Also, if need be, get a restraining order against your spouse which helps to solidify your application when you file. You can file for your green card by yourself if you can understand the USCIS forms and whatnot but if you cannot do get an immigration lawyer to help you file your application with the right supporting evidence. Your green card will take about a year to come out and it will be the permanent green card (the 10-year one, as opposed to the initial conditional 2-year one you would have gotten had your spouse filed), but in the meantime they would give you a work permit to be working with. With the situation of things at this point, you don't need your spouse to file for you. Majority of Americans barely know about this law/path to green card and it is highly certain that your spouse doesn't know of it either. Your only mistake is the child involved between you two = child support payments for 18 years, that is if your spouse puts you on child support.

Hang in there.

https://www.uscis.gov/green-card/green-card-vawa-self-petitioner

Very good advice.
I think with this one, you ca trust nigerians to game the system.

Expect a lot of naija guys, who have been previously avoiding akata, to start vehemently dating these broken, unstable creatures in expectation of abuse. n fact they will look for the maddest of the mad with tattoo everywhere to do the thing so that they can quickly switch to VAWA mode

Naija folks will overdo everything until it get shut down. confarm.

Damn...you caught a devilfish instead of betta salmon.
Guy you no search well.

I don't believe her crase just started like that. You would have seen some signs, but as you said, you were blinded by beauty and sex.

Let me be real with you: 100% of Women in this generation are incapable of romantically loving men! You are only a tool for money, sperm and attention. Something is always required of you. And that goes double in the western countries. I'm not saying this so you hate them, I'm just saying this so you understand them.

Know the game and stop smashing these girls without protection.
That is a sure-fire way to give female hobgoblins power over you out here.
This is not Naija. The court system will Bleep you up here, and don't be surprise if after all the evidence you provide of her mental instability, that they still side with her.

"Did I Commit A Crime For Been Good To Her"

Always.
Never be good to bitches.
You have to be an asshole and self-reliant to deal with the women of this generation
Whether it be an evil asshole or a good asshole, just sha make sure you've fully evolved into an asshole before you deal with them.

Be selfish with women. Always. And all will be well.
The alternative just makes you weak, and no woman wants that...no matter what they say. They deeply crave punishment.

Depends honestly.
Not every guy wants a baby. Plus there's always adoption!
It's really not the end of the world.

But come o, what did she now trade it for?
Has she finished it with an abortion every week?

Who tax epp for naija?

Have they fixed electricity yet.