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The guy na pig.

Mutemenot:
Colonial bridge located in Anambra/imo skirt

So they saw no reason to maintain it after white man had it built eons ago.
Black people deserve their leaders!

Sooooo....I guess the only way to upgrade from shithole country to "A place to visit" is to buy $450 Million+ fighter jet from Trump.
Who knew?!

Shugavee:
oh really then idont blame u tho!!!! The ladies u hv met hv probably made u think that way!!! But i say it again I will dump him if i realize it's a test or whatever!! I am not a m6achine he be testing n lying too

Well he wasn't lying though. He never said he didn't run shit anymore. He just said he lost his job.
CEOs step down everyday, but still have shares in the company.

Daft female liabilities have no understanding of these things.

donstan18:
And that's a m'dafvcking point!

Yea, pain isn't about muscle, you are right, pains of emotion and psychology can be way more heavier than that of physical. It kills, just like you stanced.

But how do women do this? Like, live with you knowing you aren't training your child, and they'll be comfortable. It's absurd Just annoying

What if Martins is a strict Nigga in reality Social media appearance isn't reality

Most women don't really love men.
They just love the utilities and benefits that become available to them as a "wife".
Even though they might play the part of the good wife, deep down, they don't give 2 bleeps about the guy.
Sometimes this fact is even unknown to the women themselves. They will be there thinking that they love him, but let him come with a challenge. They will not be able to understand how their pussy dries up when they look at him in the middle of his challenges.

After all, he exists only to service her needs and he is not allowed to have issues. Only she can
So yes, I'm sure you can see that with a mentality like this, most women would think nothing of comfortably sitting down watching a man finance what isn't his. She sees all [the good things] he has as her own anyway, but not vice versa.

Thegeneralqueen:
Which slavery again

So you will outsource your husband to the mines of obodo oyinbo like the slave he is while you tanda and flex in naija in a house that some distant guy far away you're NOT having sex with, pays for and sends you all his money. It's the perfect long con.

He doesn't even get to enjoy the family he is financing!
Those arrangements are always what they are...slavery.

TheUpsetGirl1:
never marry a broke lady..

This is the long and short of it.

Avoid them like the plague out you will just be seen as an ATM nothing more.

Just picture the mentality of this foolish so called wife now. She obviously does not love the foolish man she is married to. He is nothing but an ATM she is training to produce money in unnecessary ways.

They're probably fucking too...

Your boss would rather get rid of you than his current lunchtime special.

Johnholmes:
Withdrawal method has the highest failure rate and it's not just because of poor technique.
The precum is rich with sperm

The woman should just get under-arm implants. It's the simplest way.

TheUpsetGirl:
in Asia too,thought their weddings are like the western ones?

Chinese folks pay brideprice....sometimes in the hundres of thousands of USD.
Na them be the original Ibo people in every way (just joking O)

Thegeneralqueen:
Nah it's not too much lefu as long you're in obodo making the money I'll be in naija flaunting my diamond rings and making the babies

See invitation to slavery �

skarlett:
So now you're a feminist? Interesting. After you stop yapping like you just discovered the concept of feminism, deal with the issues I brought up. You made it seem like everything is the woman's fault and the man has no say. Meanwhile looking at the African milieu and the average Nigerian male's penchant for pulling up his trousers and asserting dominance, why can't he do that in that situation? Of course I think it's crazy for any woman to want to give birth to more than 3 children in this era, some women believe having a big family is as wonderful as Kris Jenner paints it to be. But if her and her husband had a prior agreement of so-so number of children, it's just mature for them to stand by their words. If the woman is too emotional to see things for what they are, the man should stand up and be the voice of wisdom.

I believe some decisions are to be arrived at as a couple and something as sensible as having less number of children should not be left to one person's whim . For gorsakes, stop making it all about the woman and the man giving into the woman's needs. If he really believes that having more children will spell hardship for the family, he should be more firm and assertive as it obviously takes two to tango.

Woman that is the whole point of this thread.
To STOP those arguments by appealing to the senses of women on a greater scale to see wisdom in keeping things simple and/or NOT fighting their husbands over already laid out plans....because SHE sees the wisdom in it...she for herself.. as a human being with a brain and self-agency... not simply because her husband is "pulling up his trousers" and "asserting dominance".

You make it seem like women are fish brained and cannot be appealed to with logic.
I think you just want to be pedantic and argumentative for no reason. That or you have a very low opinion of the female gender.
I expect more from women, so that one is your own!

skarlett:
This op is funny, you're talking like the man doesn't have any say at all in the family planning process. If you both agree to have two to three kids, why don't you take measures to ensure that after you get the number of children you both want. There are things like IUDs, hysterectomies and vasectomies for a reason you know

It's not enough to call yourself the man of the house and make it seem like determining the size of the family is at her whim and caprices. After you allow her make such important decisions based on her hormones, you deserve the outcome. So stop complaining and start acting abeg.

These are disappointing assertions.

It sucks that when the average Nigerian Lady sees no other avenue than to engage her own effort to effect change, she immediately instead relegates herself to infantilism to absolve herself of all responsibility, questioning the man's manhood on the way out of said responsibility for extra kicks.

Statements like these weaken the progress women are trying to make to be seen as equals in their matrimonial homes and in the society at large.

I leave you to your sisters to descend on you if they wish to defend themselves and move their struggle forward.

Diamond23:
[/color]Nd who told u I can’t provide for them, before talking a decision u must know d consequences nd outcome. Dnt just conclude every lady u c has no ambition or z a leech just because all ur life u only v encounter such. We still v ladies who work their ass out every day, they depend on no man nd foot their bills [color=#770077]

As long as you are fully conscious about these matters , as you say you are, then all the power to you.
Help advise other women to think ahead too because not too many do!

Diamond23:
[s]U r entitled to ur opinion/s. I know my reasons, wot I want and how I want it to be. Judging a person without been in d person’s shoe or knowing his/her reasons z very bad [/s]

Madam, all that talk is beans.
I'm asking you if you have a plan on how to long-term finance/provide for these 5 new human beings you want beyond just saddling them on someone else's back because he chose to marry you.
It's not just to "have babies". The more you start thinking about that dimension of things, the better for everyone involved.

Have a sustainable plan!

Diamond23:
[/color] As for me 5 is ideal.....2girls nd 3boys [color=#770077]

I take it your only aspiration/goal in life is to be a housewife and marry an ATM...unless you have other plans?

ojoj:
I hope the women will hear. I don't know why they want a large family. I have three but there is pressure from wivey to have one more! I asked her for what? She just said she wanted one more! I tire o. It is stressful raising up kids especially on women!
Honestly I always say it I don't blame the whites that don't like large families. They know the effect.
I beg ladies, consider your health and above all, the overall stress.

Bros I feel for you!
This is exactly how t started with my older friend.
You need to assert yourself in this matter O.
I don't know how your marriage is setup but women who have that kind of time to be wanting 4+ babies usually are not thinking about the economics, which means that she likely doesn't work (Apologies if I assumed wrong about your mrs).

She may later flip the story for you if things get tight and start using bible to insult you i.e "Whoever does not provide for family is worse than slowpoke blah blah blah". This is how a woman with a mindset like that reasons.

Don't let her make you bite more than you can chew please.
I know how stressful they can make it at home when these type of women don't have their way with that baby matter.

It is usually not even fair to everyone around you. There are people today who have retired but still have one or 2 late born children in school!
That "Go and meet your 10 years older brother (who is working and tryng to plan his own life) for school fees" bullshit is dumb. Why have children only to one day have to force them on someone else like that?

Stand your ground my brother.

I'm always apprehensive when I'm talking to a girl and she says that she wants a "Big Family".

Children are getting expensive! Honestly if you must have children, max should be 2! (if it enters 3, somebody needs to get neutered!)
But I find I'm meeting some naija girls out here who want 4, 5, 6 children....usually because "that's how many her mother had".

This is also an indicator to me that this individual sees her partner as nothing but an ATM who should do nothing else with his life than constantly provide for her offspring. Ain't nobody got time for that. More often than not, the woman who wants pop out these many children usually has no other vision for her life but to be a babymaker. They are usually empty and feel having so many children will make her feel useful as she ages. Sister, go and find a purpose for your life!

I have older guy friends who married their wives agreeing they won't have more than 2 children. Only for one of them's wife to get bored (she quit her job prior to boredom because of "office stress" ), change and start stressing the man's life until he had to give her 5 children for peace to reign despite earlier agreement. Ofcourse, this woman never worked after! All her talk of wanting to do this or that was all beans. They say those things to trap a man but after marriage most just want to sit home and have some man be her financial slave.
Now they are having financial problems and the man is not finding it easy at all having to feed 7 mouths!

It has become a burden even on extended family members because he has to keep going to them for support and everybody is thinking "why have so many children only to now push them into someone else's care?" As if the other person doesn't have plans for their own life. That's selfish! My brothers, the blunt message you send to people who you inconvenience with your huge family is "I will persist my own generation in greater numbers, even if I have to use the resources of your own children to do it. Forget your plans, forget your kids, take care of mine!"

He has no respect for his wife now. She takes whatever shit he gives her because she has nothing going on for her to derive any kind of self-respect from. Unable to provie even the slightest thing for her children because everything is "Wait, your father will soon come home". She was never a partner...only a womb attached to a liability....a body part.

Men of this generation are not interested in liabilities. Don't waste your parents money that they used to send you to school.
Stop making your lives just about children. Those children will grow up and leave one day to marry their own and then what will you do?
Do you have anything else going on with you besides being the shadow of your children?

My sisters...this is the 21st century. You were born IN THIS ERA for a lot more than just being a baby making machine.

Nope sounds like you handled yourself.
There are fuckboys everywhere just as there are parasitic sluts.

Neither take no part of or become any of these. You'll meet a good guy soon.

TheUpsetGirl1:
you've earned my respect on this forum.

That Cinderella complex is very educative, dependent ladies are scared of being independent because they feel as a lady you must need a man to be a provider for your every needs.
Some even suffer when they lost their spouses or when their spouses lose their jobs.

It's also revealed that since feminism came on the rise, marriages in America have reduced from 76 to 60% and will continue to reduce because independent made women don't have marriage as a priority .

Thats great!
Men are generally okay with this no marriage thing too.

It is better that way so that when a girl is marrying, it is for the right reasons, and not just "Ok I need to find an ATM to lock down. Can't be going to work everyday sef". You know the type that want an expensive wedding, yet want the man to pay for everything. Totally disconnected from reality.

Out here in the US, when I talk with most naija girls, I just see a lack of vision. Yes they have their small jobs or whatever, but if you dig deeper you find that a lot of them DON'T want to be working. They keep talking bout missing naija because at the end of the day They'd rather sit at home while hubby slaves for them and brings them money.

Evaberry:
lol

Some girls who earn better than their boyfriends demand more

It depends on the female.


This dude just wants to escape responsibility.


A man who has balls will never be scared of bills.


Hustle hard and bills will be scared of you!

Here we go again. "A man who has balls".
What does his preference have to do with his balls?
Parasitic fish-brain woman logic = "If he doesn't agree with me, attack his manhood!"

Maybe you don't know that a real woman who has falopian tube should be able to prove that she can support herself?
It is only slack or stank pvssied idiots without functioning ovaries that parasitically drain their partner's resources just because y'all are trying to enjoy each others company.

Choose what you are!

Someone tell me why this woman's hands an fingers are larger than his

Why do men beg women to be their financial slaves i.e husband? Should be the otherway round

Redpill doctrine states that most women are incapable of true love and see men mostly as ATMs....no matter how much she herself actually believes she loves him. The women here so far prove this doctrine right.

It all comes down to money. Women tend to love men parasitically, while men tend to love women for real.
You know a parasite (or takist) by its logic (or lack thereof). E.g. Attributing the sex she and him have as enough of a balance for all the slavery an resource gathering he does for her...as if her body is made of firewood and is not also enjoying the sex.
A parasite never admits to the reality of such a symbiotic balance. It always feels the other party must give more to it...despite the obvious fact that said relationship is mutually beneficial as is.

The fun is in slaying, fvcking, enslaving, leading on, and eventually, kicking out the parasites for fun while looking for the girl that actually has brain enough to not be a parasite. A girl that believes in actual symbiosis.

You have bad breath...
Compost Halitosis!

She is basically using the stones to build her house because up until now, I never heard of the thot. Even though I will forget her 15 seconds from now, all this did was give her more unwarranted publicity and perhaps more clients.

It's at a point now that when I meet a girl with bad breath, I immediately also relate that to the smell of her vagina. I just know that thing stink too. I space her and leave her to figure out why I'm not interested.

Ladies, If your hygiene game is so weak that you can't take care of the smells coming out of your face, how am I to trust that you know what to do with the smells coming out your crotch? Basically it is an indicator that something isn't right inside you. Your insides are too toxic. All the holes on your body are simply baring witness to it by way of stench.

Sometimes I wonder how some girls can have this constant halitosis Everytime you see them, yet they will be dressing all up attempting to slay.... With gbench mouth?! I don't think so.

You better take care of it, because your man crush is judging you based on that suckaway you call a mouth.

It's at a point now that when I meet a girl with bad breath, I immediately also relate that to the hygiene of her pussy. I just know that thing stink too.

Ladies, If your hygiene game is so weak that you can't take care of the smells coming out of your face, how am I to trust that you take care of the smells coming from your crotch?
Just means something isn't right inside you. Your body is toxic and the holes on your body bare witness to this by way of stench. Do a detox!

Sometimes I wonder how some girls can have this constant halitosis Everytime you see them, yet they will be dressing all up attempting to slay.... With gbench mouth?! I don't think so.

You better take care of it, because that guy you like is judging you based on that suckaway you call a mouth.

Who are the 4 losers that "liked" the OP?

Must be broke desperate bitches and/or stupid manginas.

purem:
This your question reminds me of a lady I met the beach last Dec, my middle finger smell for 3 days despite using hypo to watch my clothes the next morning (because of the smell) I still perceive some smell on the middle finger.

The smell of a stinky vagina takes alots of process to get rid from the finger, am talking about a real stinky one such as that lady am talking about.

The smell of poop is easier to wash off your fingers than the smell of a cheesy, gutter-smelling toto.

missterious:
So how many of the claims have been proved to be false? Why are men like this? This is why if a woman is raped, she'll keep quiet because she knows people like you will always be there to support the man involved even after he has admitted to the crime.

I won't support him if he has admitted, but I would be careful if its a he said/she said matter.
False rape accusations destroy lives more unjustly than everyday sexual advances.

If she believes she was fired wrongly, it is a simple matter of getting a lawyer involved to sue the company, depending on the labor laws of the country.

And if the laws of country do not suffice, well hey, see it as God removing you from a bad situation that he saw you succumbing to in future. If your oga (At the top kpata kpata) has the hots for you, and he is a lecherous swine in naija, and there is no one above him to report it to, you are better off working elsewhere TBH because it won't stop.

kimbraa:
I don't get you.

Have you heard of the MeToo movement?
The social movement that allows women to claim anyone sexually harrassed them, causing social/ PR/ professional homicide against the accused?