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You got me man. I got prove of earnings to show you from flippa. If you are ready, contact me via the email in my sig.

tegills2: am really scared abt these oo

Man, I am surprise that you don't know worth. Even a kid knows the value of a building designer. It's obvious that you aren't passionate about your profession.

Hello, Jarus. It's really great to meet someone of your status at a place like nairaland. There's power in networking. Over the past few days, I have taken time to browse through the pages of this thread and I must commend your effort so far.

The truth is that your time will never be in vain because God will surely reward you and other diginified persons who have been dishing out information to help the un-informed.

Okay, to my own question/case. I'm currently studying Petroleum Engineering at Petroleum Training Institute at HND level but I do not know what steps to take in order to break into the O&G industry as I would be graduating in less than 3 months time.

What advice do you have for someone like me?

mbhs139: This guys should learn from daniel amokachi.

He used to have a private jet too when things were going good for him, but today nko ....?

That's the mistakes many people fail to realise. When the money is there, they spend lavishly without planning for the future.

They fail to note that their time will surely end.

Take a look at 2face, the moment he reached stardom, na furky furky and impreg-nation. I sorry for that guy because history never fails to repeat itself. I am also sorry for his wife anny because decade of years down the road, those children of 2face littered here and there will surely create wahala, and if money finish that time nko, 2face may end up being frustrated.

Michael Jackson, W. Houston, etc never knew they will end that way, did they?

I also learnt from my late mother not to ever throw your future away when the going is good. When Teslim Balogun stadium was being built by Transproject, a Bulgarian company, my mother was the major supplier of all the building materials back then and as a result money was floating. She was hardly around. They started the foundation of that stadium but she didn't invest and many years down the road, we faced the consequences.

People should control money and not the other way round.

blink182: Please what is the essence of having the card without my name on it apart from fast delivery. How will it be identified as mine online?

that's why you need the personalised card

Join www.badoo.com and meet any lady or girl in your city. Its free to Join!

Virgo-maris:
Their is some one i will intorduce u to if u don't mind

who? Send me an email via my signature phone number or email Id.

Sisi_Kill: This is what has always bothered me about the whole thing. The only conceivable ways they can make money are

1) Selling people's info to 3rd parties

2) Advertisement.

The former they swear they don't do and the latter. . .well let's just some companies are finding out that advertising on FB hasn't increased their sales and are pulling out.

So tell me. . .what exactly does FB bring to the table??

The Advertising issue is were they should work on if they want to remain. They should think of an innovation could change the interface without losing traffic.

azpekuliar: Shut Up! and stop persuading honest Nigerians to circumvent Paypal's rules. Just used my Africard to fund my BetonMarkets account and it rocks!

Thank you jare. I don't know why people are so heartless.

Alleinad: thanks OP for this post, it has given me a new perspective to things.....i think i need to sober down and bring out my true self... There's more to life than wealth,besides i dont want my eulogy to just be that she was wealthy... Great post!

I'm so happy for you. Money isn't everything. The bibles says:" My People Perish For Lack of Knowledge"

Only a lazy,brainless and autoretarded girl like my ex would do that. I was at a cafe today and I saw a woman searching the internet for white men. This woman should be in her late 30 if not over. Why? Money. It's crystal clear that she's the lazy type wanting to reap where she didn't sow.

Another thing I would like to is that parents also contribute to this menance.

Imagine a mother whom her daughter ask for money would without a modicum of shame tell her daughter to go and get a boyfriend. A lot parents do this with impunity.

@ 190 thanks... I cant help but wonder what ladies want. Though I have learnt not to treat them bad because I too have a sister . I have also learnt to put them where they belong.

Here is how I do my things.

If I am dating a girl, I score her 100% as we gone in to the relationship and I beginning to see that she is trying to act smart, I deduct mark and if eventually she keeps losing marks, I place her where she belongs.

Mynd_44: I guess this is a point 190 can never get to in his unnatural life

Well, that is because of his own experience with most girls.

I too do fall into that category but I have decided never to say anything hash about Nigerian girls for a reason. Thanks to Kitty-Kat!

Kitty-Kat, there you go again. Thumps up!

zeddicus.... you dey see your guy abi?

Any way I go remove the pic soon

I did what most guys has never done for her, that is give money without sex. But that one done pass sha.

I too pass, pass the so call guy she lost her virginity to and all what not.

BolaBankole: @2Sexy exactly what I said in my last post, no one hear when girls did there own....if you marry her now and you try to revenge she will begin to shout around that she stood by you when you are still struggling but now you have abandoned her. The whole idea of this piece is to help our girls see beyond what they are seeing, to help them think inward in choosing the right partner other than making money your top priorities. But i still give it to some girls, 10% of them are good but others.........

My bro, the funny thing is that she said the guy below is ugly

[EDIT] I had to remove my pic cos it's no longer necessary.

Killz.:
[color=#000030] And so what? [/color]

Killz, why don't you just let people be? Does this mean that you often frown each time people comment/post on here?

And it has earned you the attention and popularity that you seek for it , but that does not make you right all the time.

SMH!

Here is my own. A girl I dated back left me because thought I had come to the end of the road. She even went as far as saying that I don't plan ahead. So many things went on that I can't say here.

A so call already made guy came around and she danced to his tune. The guy gave her money, told her about marriage, bla bla bla and she opened her legs for him. She even did more worse things in my presence in 2009, insulted me, called me all sort things and that was when I ended the relationship.

Anyway, I moved on with my life and before I knew it, she started calling me, begging me to forgive her etc. Why? Because she knew that I would graduate soon. She knows that if I graduate, I will get a job, if I get a job, I will start thinking of marriage.

Now, you tell me, how do you expect me to treat such a girl?

The guy she was crazy about then dumbed her and many after that and by 2012, she realized that I am still in existence. I laughed. Some girls thinks they can be faster than their shadow.

OP, take am easy o. You can give them the sexkillzing bullet shot.

pDude: The allowances were just slashed on paper. The looting of the treasury will continue as usual. Business as usual.

Sick country. Thank God I have finally left that hellhole

so pdude which country are you in now?

kandiikane: I like to make a guy THINK he is in control. .


Anyways, I like a guy who is in control, that to me is what I call "manly" having control in everything.
There is difference between forced control and subtle control. .
@OP, you have not opened that thread you said you will open"women, how to keep your man" some women on here don't know how to keep their men.


Men control your women, I can promise you right now although they will say "oh no, not at all" women want men in control. It is in our blood.
As a man you should be in control of everything, not forced control but subtle control.

seriously, are you she-male?

Tee_Jay: No point reading the post, why would anyone want to control another human being? This craze for control is the very reason there is witchcraft and all the sort?
If you are worthy of respect she will give it to you, if she is just naturally troublesome then dont marry her all this talk of control is just pure madness

mumu like you.

slimyem: hey!relationships are about compromises.
If you do not want anything to affect you education,try and make him uderstand that you'd delay baby-making until you are thru or almost thru with school.if he truly loves you,he'd respect and support you.
Remember,there are not so many great guys out there.

Gbam! Tell her make she hear. I decided to let a girl just for the reason she does not want any relationship any longer even though she knows that I so much loved her. I pleaded for 7 months but d babe say no. I just let her be. Her claims is that she does not want anything to disturb her and that when she is ready, the right person will come for her as if its that easy to find nice guy. I know I am a nice guy and I know how to care for a lady and make her feel like a queen but what this girl does not realise is that my kind her so hard to come by.

She says she would pray about it but honestly no need for prayers in this case because even God is not sleeping.

Floxyluv: I dont prefer good or bad guy/girl, i prefer someone being who they are, and not trying to be someone else, because they feel, i'd be impress by doing so.

floxy, I don pursue u tire u no wan gree me chance. Y na. I beg give me ur email or number 2contact u na.

blink182: There is nothing I hate more than people telling me something I do is impossible whereas they haven't tried doing it.

Gbam!

Ummm OP you are getting it all wrong. And you invariably concluded the best advice would come from only a married person.

You seem to be looking for an easy route and who told you that life offer us anything on a platter of gold?

If all you hear about marriage isn't good, then I must say that all those people are fools. They probably married on the basis of a wrong notion which is mostly the trend today.

And if such fools are the kind you wish to get advice from, you are likely to be turned into one as well. When the blind leads the blind, what do you get?

Too many people do not know what to look for before going into a relationship; they hardly know who they want to spend the rest of their life with because of 'love',blind love indeed.

Like PDude said you are moving with a wrong set of friends.

Life is gabbage in , gabbage out. Before ever thinking of marriage, all your senses should be alert.

Some people fall in love for silly reasons this days.
Let's take an hypothetical case study.
2face idibia just wedded anni as we all know. But the question we should ask is that, what does she hope to gain in the future from a man that has slept with too many ladies and impregnating them in the process with impunity?

It may not seem obvious now to her because there is money, tuface na fine boy, bla bla. . .

Did she ask if such a man would be faithful to her? Oh she doesn't care either.

But wait and let's see how things pan out in future for both of them.

I no wish dem bad o but I know HISTORY and the UNIVERSAL rules of life never fails.

My elder sister is married to an awesome man, a warrior and a man who love her so much, not just her but we her younger sibling.

If you are the author of those thread dugged by Pdude, it's obvious that you should re-evaluate your life.

You need self improvement. Get books that will educate you more, but thats if you love reading at all.

Mrs Chima, thumb up!

But the truth is that ladies like Mrs Chima who prefer the good guy are hard to come by.

I only recently met another nice lady here on nairaland.

On a more serious note, bad guy rule. Its the reality facing our world.

Over 70% of naija chicks would prefer bad looking swaggerlicious guy over the mr. Nice guy.

I am personally talking from experience but I don't intend to change who I am just because the world does not accept me.

Most of these girls who prefer this kind of guys do not know what they want. They would prefer a guy who doesn't call them more than once a month to the one that calls over 100 times a day,says I love you a million times, spend money them etc.

Know this, I am even happy at the increasing rate of the bad guy domain. Why? Because, if a lady does not want me because I chose to be nice to her, I simply let her be with her bad guy and move on. Hopefully, when the bad guy starts dealing with her, she gets to miss me in the long run. But then, I would be gone.

This was the case between me and my ex and today, she regrets ever treating me that way. Some bado don use and dumb her tire only then did she realized that she had allow gem slip through. She's has apologize severally but its too late to cry when the head is off. Beside, I don't have plans for someone that has been used countlessly.

I was being nice with another, giving calls and even bought some gift for her. Omo, I started seeing those trait of typical naija girl and i being an old soldier, withdrew and put a stop to all that. For about four months, I neither called her nor text. Only for her to call me that she's missing me. Really? I even met with her some days back at my friend's(her cousin) place and after a while she she asked me to see her off to her house and that she's hungry and I pretended not to hear anything like that. I followed her but never gave a dime. A few minutes after I left her at the gate of her house, I took a bike off to nice a "mama put" and had very good delicious meal with fried turkey and malt.

I knew she was hungry, very hungry but I've learnt not to be cheap and also place them where they belong. Even if she had to die of hunger I don't care. I remember even a few months back when she called me from lagos that I should help with transport fare to come back to Benin. I had the money but refused to give it. I simply told her I don't have. There's nothing I hate as when someone take you for a ride.

But I don't wanna be a bad guy. Its even harder to tell lies like a bad and I don't like the idea of playing on people's intelligence or emotion 'cos my consciences would almost kill me if I do.

I now prefer spending my money on myself..

I just love me.

i_shekinah: @gini and 2sexy thanks for your information i will do just that.
I'm so grateful

Read everything here , including my own comments : https://www.nairaland.com/793026/uba-naira-visa-africard-makes

danielng: Does any of you have account with bet365? Ok if you doubt me make some deposit into the site and withdraw it back, leaving only 1 dollar.

Today i got the withdrawal of $615 i made yesterday. Into the same card.

Try it first

Hello everyone. I am in Delta State but someone just told me that boko haram bombed PH. Could someone confirm if it true.

MzD@rkSkin:
AH! playa playa!

eh? Una know each oda b4? D@rkskin, 2buff play u?