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Between Tribal EAST and Loretta lets keep it as civil as possible that way we really learn from each other"s point of view

When people keep talking about HOT girls i wonder what is HOT about girls who have never ripened in their mind, heart and soul; a girls physical can attract you but if it is enough to sustain the attraction it simply tells me you are as immature in taste like what attracts you!

"A REAL MAN" (lol, I RISK LOOSING MY PRECIOUS HEAD FOR USING THIS TERM) would not MISS all these girls who are yet what counts in life and in a man they would the rest of their life

Unpopular talk, I trust NLs they are to scared to even pass by

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Wonder why Nigerian babes will clock 30 years to realise celibacy is for their own interest in a relationship, why not way earlier?

Evrybody is a big boy on nairalaond o

Its needleSs to share with your partner those details, u may just leave him or her insecure and loose whatver u have to an idle remark

Men and women make mistakes!!!
Cheating is not natural for men, its just what society has made us accept; who told you you can't be happy with one woman in one lifetime?

Positive, this tale is from Igando! Axis

The man has LUST his left palm for illusion of happiness SMH

Sad event thid is!

Adulterous relationship reman highly condemnable but having said that I don't subscribe to the scorning of the deceased .....can we leave all judgments to his Maker!

If u have not committed any atrocity please pass your judgement

21. ****smile and say****Time will tell

I do coconut chips and when am on the island I love this colourfully packaged plaintain chips! If I must take fluid its water and if am running low on sugar I manage fayrouz!

Won't toouch Gala or any so-called beef sausage!!!

I have wondered what will become of Gala if Fashola clamps on those gala hawkers cos their goods are consumed mostly in traffic. The economy of gala is supported on Lagos traffic!!!

ogugua88: Ooh. I just saw it and emboldened it for you.

You didn't say it outright, but it was implied and I doubt I'm the only one who perceived it.

As for power couple, lol it doesn't have anything to do with power per se. A power couple is an influential couple. They're envied/admired, and appear to be perfect. Women in power couples are seen as strong, determined, and have minds of their own. Some examples are Barack and Michelle Obama, Duke William and Dutchess Katherine, David and Victoria Beckham, and Jay-Z and Beyoncé.

A woman doesn't have to inferior or a subordinate for a man to be the head of a household. The women in the aforementioned power couples still know who the man is.

Thanks for helping out with the bolding but the opening remark of my submission is explicit enough so was all the staements that followed

I get your response of what a couple power means but then the OP's post put it side by side with dictatorship which means she is objecting that the man's has the power of piloting ultimately the affairs in a marraige!

The problem I see is that the feminist position that the roles each gender plays in a union is interchangeable all becasue bread winning is!
Marry a man you can respect so that following his lead won't be an obnoxious affair!
'Weak husbands never ran a happy and balanced family

Each party must put family first before career and the so-called dreams! It is sad to see men and women sacrifice their family development for carreers and ambition that are suppossed to be at the service of the family!

Women feel that men got the opportunity to live out their dreams while they to do all the fore going of their dreams! A real man will put his family first and we'll show that his efforts is at the service of his family; any aspiration that clashes with your family is a misplaced one, please let it sink!!!


Let's assume your definition of what a power couple is is what the OP meant are the Unions you listed now role models for others to to emulate? Like seriously

De Beauvoir: Wow....
What is wrong with asking for equality now? Must women always be under men?

I can't wait to see the day when all this oppression against women will end.

Just to clarify things

I do not consider a woman as infereir to a man for women and men are equals as far as there stature and dignity as a human being is concerned

Having said that yet a woman is not equal to man and vice versa, for they are different in structure both physiologically and psychologically which is what marks out the role they play in a relationship or marraige

Equality in this sense is not the sppropriate word rather complementaryr is it: each person's role is as important as he other

Without recourse to quoting any scripture you can verify things for yourself, in your personal experience!

Play the role of the man for awhile and see if you will be happy: you will feel like a stranger to yourslef and vice versa! For exmaple a woman likes her man to give a sense of security in one form or another imagine if your man is a sissy expecting exactly that from you, incapable of making sound decisions, always shifting them to you....I am not a woman but I can tell it sucks!!!

The thing it will be natural to follow the man who shares your life viewpoint, the task is to discover a true life viewpoint that correspods with your truer needs as a woman bereft of the herd mentality that is being sold out by the media, peer and so-called revolutionists crussader!

crackhaus: Good points!
But I never understand how women believe they know what and how a real man should be/act like.

I mean I'm not trying to knock the game but truth be told, a real man to a woman is a man who does all the things she wants done to her.

The moment a guy acts in a way that upsets, angers, pisses or makes a woman feel insecure, he automatically gets 'termed' as not being a real man.
Now if this isn't sentiment, I don't know what it is. #imjustsaying #nooffence

Strange but do: do ALL a woman wants and she would end up despising you

Women want men to do everything they want yet want men who have a mind of their own!!!!

ogugua88: Where are the red flags?

I don't understand why whenever such threads arise, someone has to mention that a man is the head of the household. My question is, what's your point? Did the OP say otherwise? An article says "women, a man who trusts you, listens to you, and has his own goals is the right kind of man", and you're against that?
A man expressing concern or interest in his wife or girlfriend and her feelings or thoughts doesn't make him effeminate. Fact.

Just as age comes with wisdom, "real man" status comes with responsibility, determination, trustworthiness, and whatever else that makes a good man or husband. That's my personal opinion.

Some of the 5 points you listed are similar to what the OP listed by the way.

Redflag? I tried boldening but am mobile so I got it messed up yet my opening remak about power couple rather than dictatorship is what I was pointing at!

I never said a man expressing concern for his gf or wife makes him effeminate nor did I object to the entire list the OP put up! I ONLY harped on the power couple

What does power couple sharing mean in clear language?

Beautydiva: A man may be able to put across a great
image, but it could simply be a cover for
hidden shortcomings, or he could just be
totally faking it to ‘get the girl.’Here are some
ways to know if you’ve struck gold:
1) A real man values more than just your
looks.
Is every compliment from him about a
different body part? It doesn’t matter how
creative he can be, if a guy’s sole focus is on
how you look, or ‘talking dirty,’ see it as a
red flag. A real man will value your
personality, your kindness, your intelligence,
and who you are as a person, in general.
The things he makes you feel good about
will be things that you control, not just
results of getting lucky in the gene pool.
relationships
2) A real man will never be intimidated by
your motivation.
A man who has goals for himself, will want
to be with a woman who has goals for her
own life, too. He will never feel intimidated
or threatened by a woman who goes after
what she wants He will want to be part of a
power couple, rather than a dictatorship. Be
mindful of anyone who tries to keep you
from pursuing your dreams.
3) A real man will have more interests
than just you.
I don’t mean this in a negative way. You
should, of course, be a priority in his life —
but he needs to have a life as well. Interests,
friends, hobbies, aspirations. If a man works
his entire life around you, it’s another red
flag — relationships should be a great part
of your life, but not encompass your whole
life.
4) A real man will give you answers.
No matter how awkward or uncomfortable
a situation is, a real man will approach it,
and you, with respect. I have always felt that
a mark of a man is how he handles conflict,
criticism, and less-than-ideal situations. A
man will not dance around answers or
make excuses. If there is something you two
need to talk about, he will talk about it.
5) A real man is direct.
In addition to the last point — there will be
no mind games or manipulation in your
relationship. A man will be direct, to the
point, and honest with you… but with
kindness.
6) A real man will trust you.
As long as you haven’t betrayed his trust, a
man will NOT be paranoid, or snoop around
invading your privacy to make sure you’re
not doing anything bad. He will have
confidence in your relationship. A boy will
project his own insecurities onto you, and
like termites in a house, will eat away at the
foundation of what you’ve built.
7) A real man is cool, calm, and collected.
It should be understood that part of what
comes with the territory of having a
girlfriend, is dealing with her getting hit on.
If you’re at the bar together, or if she’s out
with her friends, it goes without saying that
your girlfriend will get hit on every once in
awhile.
Instead of letting his primate instincts
prevail and beating his chest like an angry
gorilla to scare off competition, a confident
man will calmly make his position known,
and understand that you’re still going home
with him at the end of the night.
A real man will show you respect.
Nothing signifies an empty shell of a man
more than someone who disrespects
women, animals, or children. A real man will
treat you with the respect that you deserve,
never force you to do anything you’re
uncomfortable with, and never mistreat you.
Be honest enough with yourself to walk
away from any situation that is dangerous
to you, physically or emotionally.
9) A real man will put effort into your
relationship.
Boys are generally apathetic and just look
for one thing from a woman. A man, will do
what it takes to make you happy, both
inside and outside of the bedroom. Your
happiness, is his reward.
10) A real man will make you want to be
the best version of yourself, without
changing who you really are.
A man will empower those around him. He
will strive for greatness and therefore
inspire others to strive for it as well. This not
only includes friends and co-workers, but
also significant others.

Which wan is power couple again?

This definitely is a red flag for the authour of this list and is a subtle pro-feminism!

A man is the head of the family is that a pill too hard to swallow?.

....what such blind femisnism don't understand is that being the Head is not even an enjoyable position and one will render account and assume full responsibilty for decision made!!! Moreover two captains cannot be in one ship!!!

What a REAL WOMAN must do is to NOT sacrifice the most important values in whom she wants to spend the rest of her life with for secondary ones!!! You can't have your cake and eat it

When you hunt for and get a Made-Man to marry you chances are that he will not be the listening type......yet every man will listen to his wife depending on how she presents it to him and even when he does not buy your input you have to support him as long as it is not something unlawful cos most times when a man is driven by selfless motives he percieves things in his spirit to take some decisions which you may not understand!

Point is the key things you should look for is a man that you can respect because:

1. He is selfless
2. He is listening
3. He is astute in decision-making
4.He has a clear picture where he is headed for and is taking diligent and practical steps to get there.
5. He is not arrogant towards people

Headsship in a family falls on the man, make him more of that man by supporting and encouraging him and not demanding he must consult you before taking any decision; men will naturally consult their wives if they are comfortable with the way they present their opinions

OP do adjsut the tiltle of thread, I no somebody who won't like the term "real man" LOL

Now how about THE REAL WOMAN

[quote author=Teespice]chei.

what wont someone see these days

women have suffered sha.

o ma se. [/quo
Laffwan tear my belle

I have the feeling that posters are just forming refined here!!!!

Granted the lyrics is never serious but they got Nigeria dancing and you have even enjoyed it in some way, at some point!!!

Nigerian artist are a product of the poor educational syetem in Nigeria,....how many good songs enjoy massive airplay or how many have you bought online so as to encourage the good artsist!

As it is most artists in nigeria do pop and hip-pop so u can fault their song which is in tune with the genre they sing
Can we stop this whining already and start buying the songs/albums an d attend the shows of the few good ones and see if more artists won't emerge

Sagamite: So if a guy is a player that has played around, had numerous kids and abandoned the women to single motherhood (lets say 15 kids by 8 different women), he never contributed to the upbringing of the kids, but now he is 65, has no more mojo to pull women and now is ready to settle down afresh with a women because he knows he would need company and care in his old age. Do you think any of the women (be it a new one, or one of the ones he haf abandoned before) should take him?

Am beginning to understatnd why uou ar ebeing hailed sagamite the dynamite, you!!!

In other words what are you trying to say brother: that women would never cling to a man who has nothing to offer.....but can't same be said for men.....what attraction is there for a girl notorious for being a 'public toilet' or damaged her skin with bleaching skin or looking simply all aged and dry.....

Tell you what: I know of a man, I know him one on one, he is married to a a well known brothel prostitute several years back and they have like four kids....I even saw them in church two sudays back.....point is there are no hard and fast rules

Like isaid I don't have the right to cast anybody into the lake of fire of whatever
[quote author=2s£xy]I disagree with you here. When it rains, you say it is raining. You don't call that snow, do you?

The above is a clear misconception of what the OP is and no wonder you have failed to understand his point of view.

What the OP has done was only to express something that has been in existence for lord knows how long. And negating this would be a self-inflicted suicide/injury.

The so called 'women' on here who have had the temerity to comment can't deny the fact that they have never been guilty of the crimes listed by the OP.

If they say they are not guilty, then my grand-mother is a virgin!

My take is this: if you don't like a guy, do not go into a relationship with him or eat his money. Kindly turn him down.

I for one do not like a case where I am being fooled to believe that I am being loved when I am not.

I know you are grown man and possibly married by now.

Do you want to tell me that guys would just agree to paint the female folks black without any cause? I mean virtually all the people who are agree with the OP have experienced this, I inclusive.

The only time they often become good is when they are becoming conscious of their aging skin with no man to call their own, which I believe the women here also fall into, but claiming to be innocent.

One thing they fail to realise is that we are all born devils, but some just had to discipline themselves to contain theirs. Nobody has a monopoly to such acts.

If I had retaliated to the girl who took advantage , she would have know she has a long way to go as far as being manipulative is concerned. I only use mine positive outcomes.

At least she did get the hint that I could be dangerous and also confessed that she is scared I could harm her.

It's for that same reason that I have almost zero tolerance for the female folks. I do not hesitate to tell them to Bleep off if they try non-sense with me and I can definitely slap any who tend to take me for a ride. Do not slap a woman does not apply to me these days...[/quote]I always tell the guyfolk you are not her father or her husband why are u foolish as to play that role in her life, financially? But the ladies object that they are already playing the wife role so u should pick the bills....

Sad but true, Broke guys will go and borrow and give to the ladies until she feels the cash supply from your end is not worth her time and effort a. nd she wants out then they scream Blue Murder....the guy called for it

Its obvious when she is not into you, don't spend exravagrantly on dates,, turn her requests for things that are not your responsibility as her boyfriend and see if she will stay; how many guys have the guts to face what could be the likely consequences

WackyJ1: [b]

Ha I love the admission in the bolded but then the question comes
1. How many of them are willing to admit that it is true, even the same girls with the characteristics above will come on this thread and be saying all the same crap about real men and meeting the right matures women?

2. Maturity has been used as a defence here by many girls here, all of them claiming to be different from the rest and claiming that what has been put here will not work on them.
But at what cost did they get that maturity? did they not also pass through that age range(that is if they are not still there?) is their maturity not as a result of them falling for them saggy pants boys and then getting plowed by quite a number before they decided to cool their heels?
They now come here and act like they have had the sense and maturity since they came forth from their mother's wombs.

3. How many of the true mature girls at that young age are available to the guys that are seeking to meet them? Or are you implying that guys looking for mature babes should stay off from dating till they are old and accomplished enough to be able to date girls who were once foolish in their youth and have now calmed down?
are you also saying that a guy knowing the kind of girls that are likely to be found among the age range you mentioned should come with the mindset fvcking and passing through?

Personally I am of the. opinion that girls unaware as they are of what they do, do many things that are unsavoury and manipulative and this post are simply just ways to counter Them and ensure balance. even in those mature girls, the tendency is supressed and not eliminated

I enjoyed reading your post as they are largely constructive, objective amd perceptive!!!

Now to clarify myself

1. Yes give a woman an inch she will take a mile, but then you will agree with me that is not common to women alone but to humans in general

2. Women can be very manipulative and deceptive (but that is the basic characteristic of every Player, male or female) the name of the game is seeking your interest and protecting it at ANY and ALL cost, this are mild psychopathic cases and sadly that's has been dubbed the last option to be in a relationship with the opposite sex or even in marraige!!!!
A game of continous scheming, having the power, calling the shots etc all at the expense lof love (ok love is dead and buried, not so)

3. Sad that our society is churning out many young women and men who are superficial, vain and have twisted judgements of whom they are and how one can live so much so a lady told me is a crime-of-passage to mess around first then behave later.....the truth is like majek fashek would sing 'Only the Angels of Jah is white now' we all make mistakes and mistakes are the best that can ever happened to you if they help you grow,mature!

4. I don't judge anyone cos everyone has a past, infact your 'good' young maiden may start her own rubbish after three kids in marraige.....my position is to focus on the present, to verify the person as far as I reasonably can, never to compromise my stand with any woman on what is clear to be true and as such I am never scared to let her go, not afriad of loosing her! I know what I want I will not stop at anything to get it

It is not so for me cos I wanna play or be macho, am just being myself as I understand myself more and more daily, as I understand what counts in my life!

I can relate with any woman young or not -so-young but I would never consider dating a lady who is immature in thought, undecided in what counts for her or manipulative (only the needy or greedy are subject to manipulation)

Once a man knows himself is always in charge, he has nothing to fear with 'controlling' women, absolutely nothing

The issues I have with the OP and threads like this is that they shift focus from on how boys can be men so as to take charge in their lives and reltionship rather they spoonfeed impressionable boys with nuggets that turn them to zombies without a mind of their own and that's missing the mark!

Women are not the enemy, you are!
Conquer yourself first and the whole would ne yours for the taking!!!

[quote author=WAM?]Lol- singing money money money money money!!! It's a joy to submit to ones husband especially if the man is worthy of the crown. Husband having more money wouldn't make me more humble- in fact I would relax and bask in the blessings o shu house wife things mehn. If the money is equal submission remains the same but of course I would be on my toes as well trying to be the support should in case. If he has less- lol submission wouldn't and shouldn't change. Although it might be an uphill task but it could be done it has been done and it should be done.[/quote]Was listening to a radio pragramme on my way from the days business and the topic was on wives submitting to their husbands and I begin to wonder of what nature is this submission.....

Submission is but a natural thing for a woman to her husband if she understands what marraige as an imagery of Christ relationship with His Church.......

The problem is that even a 'christain' lady would not consider if her boo has that Christ-like quality in the first palce they are concerned with his tasefully furnished apartment and all other persk which I must say are not bad at all(it may just be due to her passing her so-called prime and you start hearing MAM NA MAN....what is 'bad' is that they allow theese things to make them exchange marraige vows with a man they hope would be' worthy of submission'!

There are no guarantees in marraige and that's the more reason why we must get it right where it matters most at the outset

How can you miss somebody that DUMPS you? Cos that is what the OP stated when she said 'END' the relationship!

If its a mutual break off is a different matter; even if the reason for the dumping is tenable (not every relationship leads to marraige) we can still be friends and I don't miss anything unless we have been eaten of the forbidden fruit!

I am still friends to ladies that I couldn't walk the aisle with and I was not dumped in the casess but that's possible because there was no crossing of boundaries......

Sad, tragic end
Can't even get a rational explanattion so I think it must be jazz things

There's a way that looks right to a man but its end is destruction

Presumption!!!!
Not everyone is doing it as nairaland, media and peers make one believe!!!

There is a time and place for everything, its a natural something

Ptoocool: Ever wondered why women cheat so easily? You may know a few reasons behind why women cheat.

Women cheat to fill the emotional void that's empty after a man neglects her, or perhaps the sexual preferences in the marriage are just too different. But experience has shown that women cheat for completely different reasons.

Looking for real life reasons behind why women cheat? Well, these 25 truthful reasons will reveal the real truth.

1. Women get too close to others, too fast. Women build strong emotional connections really fast. It's easy for them to get close to a guy and confuse the bond with love.

2. They love any man who can give them emotional support. It's true. Want to steal a girlfriend, just give her a shoulder to lean on. She'll give you her bed to sleep on.

3. Women favor the gene pool. They instinctively want to favor the gene pool and play their part for Mother Nature by constantly picking other dating and mating potentials.

4. Women fall in love fast. They fall in love too fast with just about anyone who shows affection. They try playing hard to get, but almost always end up becoming really easy to get for potential girlfriend stealers.

5. Women are progressive. They like sprucing men up and working on little man projects now and then. And just when you think you've been perfected by your girlfriend, she'll find another man to perfect.

6. Women love drama and gossip in their lives. It's the truth. Women get bored extremely easily and need constant attention and drama in their lives. Once the man settles down in love, the woman starts unsettling.

7. They're confused about their feelings almost all the time. A girl may love her man generally, but her mood swings ebb and flow like the tides of the sea. She likes her man sometimes, and she bitches about him at other times. Add another man into the equation and it's a teen sitcom.

8. Women are suckers for affection and compliments. Women fall for compliments and flirty touches really easily. When another guy flirts with your girl, she may think she's just having fun. But in reality, she'd be falling for him even if he's just having fun.

9. It's ridiculously easy to make a girl doubt her own boyfriend. All another guy has to do is point a few flaws, talk sweet, touch her in a few places, and she'll start to think her boyfriend's a loser and the new guy is a sex god who's in love with her.

10. Women say they don't want to stray. But yet all they think about is straying. Every time a guy flirts with a girl, she temporarily forgets she has a boyfriend already!

11. Women close their eyes while kissing another guy. Yeah, just shut your damn eyes and say it all happened so fast! Women get physical and then say it was a mistake. Men, on the other hand try covering it up by saying it didn't happen. Women want pity, men forgive them. Men get caught, become a punching bag.

12. Women always think they're in a relationship crisis. When a woman's life's not crackling with romantic and sexual electricity, they always think their relationship sucks. Women say they don't like vibrating, entertaining intimacy gadgets and dildos, but yet they want men to behave like one.

13. Women think they're too good. Almost all women think they're too good for their boyfriend. With that kind of logic, it's easy to stray when a "better guy" comes along to play.

14. Women cheat for the dumbest reasons. Men cheat because they find someone sexy. Women cheat for the dumbest of reasons, to prove a point, to get back at her man, to let him know she's not getting enough attention, to get something they really want and more dumb reasons.

15. Women have cravings. That is, chocolates and unavailable traits in men. If her man's not very clean and tidy, and she meets a coworker who's a perfectionist when it comes to being clean and tidy, she'll involuntarily be drawn to that trait. So if a guy wants to lay a girl, all he has to do is show off a trait her boyfriend doesn't have and she'll diveboard into his bed.

16. Women get attracted to any man who makes her feel good. Men usually have affairs only with women who are sexually attractive. So unless the guy is rich or super charming, his odds are slim to have an affair with the girl of his dreams. But women cheat with any loser who knows to treat her better than her boyfriend.

17. She's a gold digger. There's no point here. If you're dating a woman who's more interested in your money and the fun times you give her than she is in you, you can't hold on to her unless you strike oil.

18. Women cheat when they're emotionally vulnerable. Men need booze and a sexy girl to cheat. Women just need to feel vulnerable. They'd feel vulnerable for the smallest of reasons and circumstances. And if another guy makes a move at the right time, he'll be able to sleep with her that very night.

19. Committed women love getting the attention of other men. And when they don't get the attention from a guy they like, they try harder to get a second glance. Why do you think girls go weak for bad boys who treat them like crap?

20. Women don't learn from their mistakes. Women make moves and mistakes, and they regret it. But they don't learn. They know when they're crossing the thin red line with another guy, but they just don't try to put a stop to the guy because "they like the attention".

21. Women cheat when they're unhappy in bed. Do you have a small weeny? Or are you suffering from impotency or erectile dysfunction? That's reason enough to cheat on you, don't you think?

22. Her man's charm is wearing off. If a woman isn't sexually attracted to her man anymore, she'll definitely dive head first into any other sexually attractive man's pants.

23. Women are stereotyped. Most men look at women as cute, walking talking intimacy gadgets. Hey, women can only resist temptation so much. If a woman's constantly being hit on by a million guys everywhere she goes, it's only a matter of time before she succumbs to temptation, wouldn't you say?

24. Once bitten, never shy. A woman may cheat and get over it after a heartbreaking while. But a few months later, the drama starts all over again. Women just like the constant rush of falling in and out of love all the time.

25. Do women really ever want to be happy? Really, a woman could be in a perfect long term relationship with a perfect guy. But all she has to do is meet another great guy who knows how to steal a girl and she'll do his bidding in no time. Perhaps, women think they like being happy when in reality, all they want is to experience bursts of happiness and lots of confusions all the time.

True??

Add yours..

******yawns******



Women try that they have reasons to cheat......I hear men don't even need a reason to cheat!!!!

Dubemkelly: Hmm,my own two kobo of the topic...We r emotional human n sometimes we lose it,we wanna have da sexual feeling n to us it makes more sense,hardly u see a guy who is in a r/ship n doesn't have sex,it creates bond between the parties involved,its rare these days but truth be told,the basic essence of r/ship is 2 get along,share aspirations,goals n interests n if its worth it then u can take it 2 d next level not a craddle 4 intimacy but d question is this, how many people believe in such thot n can manage such excesses? Personally, I don't see myself in a sexless r/ship,its an emotional torture cos I luv enjoying it buh if u don't do such,no biggie,keep it up till u walk down d aisle

The fact is once you start having premarital s.ex it becomes difficult to stop unless you find a more fulfilling reason not to u will so abuse s.ex that it won't be fulfiling after a period of time, its not about thte Thou shall nots....but about your happiness and freedom in and out of that relationship
The herd mentality is to let the instincts dictate......

Oni Suru apekotje konijebaje!!!!

Bottomline is are u happy without excluding all aspects of your life....every human person has the responsility of verifying the credo and sociio-cultural systems they are born into using the criteria of the deepests needs of his heart as a tool for carrying the verification of their faith no matter beaustiful it is.....

When this consciuos effort is not made you are merely a lazy adherent because of its political correct to do so and not because it is something rooted in experience

Do not swallow Hook, lina and sinker....open your mind and verify

Let our boys just keep playing more friendlies so as to blend as a team. Grow in confidence based on not just pyschology tweaking but on what they have perfected through practice; grow in tactical dicsipline and the world cup may just come away next year

Very delicate topic I must say and one needs to thread with caution not to say the wrong things!

For practical reasons a man must equip himself with an education, job, skill not because of wanting to get married or impress the women but for pure personal and psychological reasons; being a liabilty to yourself, family, friends and society is not a good thing at all!!!

If you are not striving to be independent, to pepetually develop yourself you are not mature enough to think about marraige, which is for adults(not people who are just old enough) and don't get indignant if your advances are turned down by a lady!!! Or if you are lady a Man only wants your so called hot body
No food for lazy Man!!!

Its pure reduction to base and judge a human being by his current financial status, this is a sad form of segregation just like racism, rather the more adequate icriteria is the content of his character, and that's where I object to the OPs and Oguguas submissions.

Then this brings me to the question: who or what makes a girl HOT, her velvet skin, bust size or what.....these are only superficial things that will not only pass but that you will get tired off like an old toy! Let's fix our gaze on the content of the person's level of maturity, when you value things that don't meet the untrained eye you will find hapiness with a lady common mentality will tag plain jane but of course attraction is a total thing: physical or non-physical yet the a mature person will not fail to strike a balance when making a choice

Yes that was a good showing no doubts, but its time to get the eagles to soar to intercontinental heights.....last 20mins there was a bit of loss in concentration as the Italians went full trottle....but then for a naescent team I stand and salute the Eagles they were Super going by the fact that they just all sore from the saturday game and a six hour flight thereafter!!!

Keep it going guys