₦airaland Forum

Some wounds cut very deep....Especially those wey really wasted your time, energy and soul.

Most people want closure from the hurt but the ones wey dey pain pass na those wey leave you without any explanation whatsoever....You go spend years wondering ki ni mo shey

I no dey blame any nigga or gal for acting weird after breakup, na only them sabi wetin their eyes don see

If this guy saw 1/10th of the support he has now when he was battling depression and bullying, him for dey alive now! All the Davido, the Don Jazzy, Wizzy etc, all of them had amnesia then but now that he's gone, everyone's senses came back.....SHAME!

Funkyswagzz:
Hmm I wonder what policy you are talking about. Well I have nothing else to say I wish u goodluck as u hope for a better future.

All I know is prices of goods and services will never come down. What you guys don't understand is countries around the world pay subsidy for anything they import. The reason why nigeria had to remove theres is because the country is going bankrupt due to corruption. The country has to produce fuel and stop the importation completely to balance the equation.

Why should a country like 9ja be importing fuel? I've searched all corners of the earth for answers that makes sense and I've come to the conclusion that Nigerians are mentally ill hence we produce mentally ill politicians who end up exhibiting their mental illness in enormous proportions!

Kukutenla:
I thought Pantami said Muslims don't criticize leaders from Islam in public when they go wrong
Is Pantami lying or Akintola a fake Muslim

Dust full your brain, leaders as in religious leaders.....IMAM, Sultan etc.

foolbuster:
Oga your woman should not pay your rent. You can continue deceiving yourself all you want

Oga pray you never live abroad....All your macho nonsense go fall off once bills choke you. That woman wey you dey form for, all it takes is one divorce after years of simpology for you to notice your assets are split into half, you would still pay her alimony and her bank account is way fatter than yours.....E go do you like juju

Sometimes you must choose between making more money from the lion's mouth or escaping with the little you have and live to fight another day.

There's more to this than meets the eye, everybody is now shouting justice but when the guy dey alive, nobody fit counsel am to leave the chaotic lifestyle and choose sanity! Not even the wife could advise him to run for his life! F*ck the music industry, na person wey dey alive dey worry about limelight!

He could not confide in his father, friends or wife. He was not the religious type so abeg tell me how was this boy supposed to get guidance? Now this one dey cry, how she suppose tell her son blah blah blah but nobody knew what he was passing through pass you! Wahlahi if she had raised the issue on social media or insist on leaving him unless he leaves the game, the boy might still be alive.

Everybody failed the guy including himself.....An unfortunate situation that could have been prevented if people used logic instead of emotions!

Should parents be blamed for children who turn into adults and face these things?

Gay children
children who cheat in order to gain promotion at work
children who end up getting scammed
children that end up depressed to the point of using drugs
children who ends up taking their own life
children who end up poor

It's already hard enough being a parent, I find it incredibly stupid and myopic that one unknown element online would actually believe parents are the magical solution to all problems their kids face as an adult!

We've had men that grew up in a good Christian home with the father and mother heads of the church, one would imagine such men would never end up falling for the temptations of the devil but alas, they did!

We've had men that grew up from a dysfunctional home, we would expect such men to not be able to keep a happy marriage but alas, they did!

We live in a society where the good that men do are rarely celebrated but the ONE bad thing that he does gets hammered, over and over again! A man caters to his family for decades but slips and fell to the devil once, nobody would talk about the years of faithfulness. Most will concentrate on that one misstep and call him a failed man!

A man marries a wife who is constantly mentally and physically abusive, he treats her lovely for over a decade never once raising his hands or voice at her but one day he actually says enough is enough and smacks her, such a guy would never be commended for the years of suffering but be criticized by the one act of reprimand!

We live in a world of selective amnesia, a world where the bad acts of few gets to generalize the majority! Whether you're a man or woman, each person should be judged individually not as a subset of the general bias. Parents are not magicians, that's why there's a saying, you retrain yourself as you get older, a grown man or woman should not use parents as excuse for bad behavior......That's childish behavior!

toprealman:
Use Google bro. You should know things obtainable in Nigeria!

LMAO.....Na Google tell you say they were indicted in Nigeria?

toprealman:
Biden, a sitting president’s son was indicted.
Trump a former president was jailed.

Wowwwww.....they were indicted in Nigeria?

KanwuliaExtra:
After all the tales by moonlight, you go ahead to blame the people.
You think people in sane climates are naturally law-abiding citizens?

Why you have the security operatives, law-enforcement agents and the extremely dependent judiciary in the pockets of the extremely-corrupt government or lack thereof, what do you expect?

A corrupt police force.
A corrupt EFCC.
A corrupt Judiciary for the poor only.

You expect ordinary citizens to be law-abiding and do the right thing?
Your average Nigerian is only following the irresponsible behaviors your useless government has set without accountablility.

After all every case is solved by bribe and take-a-bow.

Sorry, it does not work that way. The useless government must lead by setting a good example.

Please, tell me how your government has obeyed its own laws in the past 60 years of Nigeria's banana republic existence.

Rubbish!

So it is person with power and opportunity that should be law abiding? We are talking about a mentality change(root cause), you're talking symptoms. The judge, the politicians, the government, are they aliens or spiritual beings?

As long as the mentality of the common Nigerian remains corrupt, we will continue to elect the same type of leaders......GARBAGE IN GARBAGE OUT!

Alpharey:
Financial area you said?. The main Koko is who and who are moving the economy over there. Is it not funny that one junkie born in New York or another"financial area" will be boasting about his home town even though he has nothing but his drugs and a few crumbs to eat while immigrants and business merchants from around the world are making things happen over there.

So in your infinite wisdom you believe areas like New York and Lagos only immigrants or outsiders are financially buoyant? Any data to back that claim?

12inchess:
Nothing like rape. You will both enter agreement ni. She will say the services she is offering and then you will decide the day of the match.

May devil not put you for situation like this, you go know say khaki no be leather. You might be able to bribe police in Nigeria but if na abroad and you happen to be worth something, you're in SOUP!

Atiku customer dada ni......Lawyers must chop

12inchess:
I still insist that the day they legalize prositution or sex work in western countries. Many men there will neither have relationship or get married. Look at this guy now. Superstar and all this woman is going to destroy his carry. Is he not just better of paying for sex from these ladies? A whole Dangote his reputation was ruined by Olosho and she even demanded quiet money of 10k per month. In America, they will try to tie male celebrities down with pregnancy. Then have babies they won't take care of while spending the money on clubs and trips to the extent that Drake start pouring acid in his used condoms to destroy the sperm. For many of them it's just a hustle. When it doesn't go their way they will come to social media to cry foul and ruin your reputation or claim you assaulted them. Look at the case of Johnny Depp too. And as a guy no one will ever believe you. You can't tell me that this pancaked face looking girl is not out to pin this guy for his resources.

You do realize prostitutes can be raped as well? They can also file sexual assault charges against any man

Alpharey:
Shut your trap. Lagos is the dirtiest part of Nigeria with slums scattered around it.

New York city is one of the dirtiest places in America yet you can't mention financial area in America without it.....Una go dey alright la las

There's your truth, his truth and THE TRUTH! Anytime I read these rants online, I beg the question, UNA NO GET PARENTS? NO ELDER IN THE FAMILY?

Moving on, there's no way a guy won't provide for the basic things his family needs and you'll be quiet all the way till after 2 kids! There's something missing here and those that can read between the lines already decoded the exaggeration!

Next, it sounds like you don't have a good source of income either so the problem might be cumulative! Drop the Christian crap, unless adultery is involved, that angle is null and void! So the real question here is this, are you ready to move on or not?

In the end, nobody on Nairaland will help you carry your burden. If you want to leave then so be it, just make sure you get family and elders involved so that your evidence can have evidence as it seems he won't let you keep the kids.......Ire o!

Yoighaman:
Just take a look at your reasoning, to you it is all about money and net worth, no morals, no value. I just pity your children, if it is OK for them to be associated with drugs and crime, all in the name of net worth and money, that's your business, but my own children will never be associated with drugs by God's grace and they will be successful in life too. Amen.

Everybody claims to be virtuous until they are given power and then it gets to their head.....90% of una would do worse than all these politicians if given the chance and resources.....You're hung up on the word drug but your kid might defraud the company they work for, they might steal from their boss, steal from the government, create mlm and ponzi scheme companies that robs people of their hard earned money. Heck your kid might actually jaapa only to end up defrauding a white woman or man in order to get his or her green card......YOU'RE ALL F*CKING HYPOCRITES!

Yoighaman:
May my son's name never be associated with Drugs, whether guilty or not. Amen.

If your son ever amounts to 1% of the so called druggie's net worth, make I know wetin cause am

Now let's wait on the next course of action, will the stubborn man from Anambra continue to labor in vain by appealing or will he accept destiny and focus on 2027?......STAY TUNED!

In the I.T world, that guy is sure to get a job offer. Not only will he be able to do the job better but he would treat it as his home, for one thing hackers hate more than anything is to be called incompetent!

In fact, if you've never hacked anything complex in your life, I would never consider you a cybersecurity expert, I've interviewed several applicants who happened to be programmers, they think just because they can write codes they can perform cybersecurity engagements.....Tah!

Oh sure, they'll just relocate because na your papa go give them money for accommodation.....Useless clueless government, provide shelter for these people so that relocation can become easier instead of spewing rubbish! Una no see how una mate dey do for overseas?

Vinnie2000:
Many of them Eat Crumbs from the tables of Connected APC bigwigs in the South West.😏

So their Mouths are SHUT! They refused to Criticize Buhari's Failures and covertly supported Tinubu/APC. 🤨😒

But During Jonathan's time, they were Barking like dogs.

Truth is Nigeria is Truly Divided.

We reason with Church and Tribal Sentiments!😕🙁

Same Jonathan that was busy kneeling down for them and distributing money? That Jonathan? You want to talk about Yoruba pastors, how about your pastors in the SE and SS, how many of them have openly come out to criticize their governors and senators? Hypocritic nonentities! Even forget APC, how many of them openly criticized PDP when it had power? All of a sudden amnesia dey worry una, na now una want pastors to start criticizing, you're on a long thing .

benjaminlawson:
My own concern is not whether he graduated from CSU or not, but employing five lawyers to prevent the release of his academic record. Suppose at any point, any one intend to authenticate my B,School and other higher degrees, instead of blocking him/ her, I will infant direct him to where he can easily get all those information without stress. That is the only fair I have in this matter.

Was this a simple verification check or an attempt to verify other information that skirts the boundaries of privacy laws? What concerns Atiku with crosschecking diplomas issued by the university in its entire history? What concerns him with disciplinary records of Tinubu or the employee that signed the diploma and how he or she was terminated?
The difference between the really wealthy and average folk is simple, they don't take kindly to intimidation!

Rossikk:
You are very stupid and senseless.

Has Beyonce or Rihanna ever dissed the RnB genre and claimed it is ‘nothing’?

Claimed that all they do is sing about sex and love, meaning that RnB is “nothing”?

No. They respect themselves. Respect their genre. Respect their compatriots.

Unlike your stupid mumu Burna Boy going around burning the bridges he passed through to become famous.

OF COURSE HE IS STUPID.

ONLY A STUPID, DUMB PERSON WOULD DO SOMETHING LIKE THAT.

Mfker I don't know WTF you think you are but if your mama & papa failed to raise you properly, I'll redirect you to yaba left to reset your brain....Abi you dey mad? You no fit have discussion without insults.....Dem swear for you ni? Ko ni ragba fun iyalaya e!

GEEBITE:
You are defending somebody who used a global platform to rubbish the works of his predecessors and contemporaries. A very bad case of superiority complex and arrogance. Beyonce and Rihanna will never speak down on works of Tony Braxton, Mary J.Blige, Brandy or Monica not to talk of those two eternal legends she can't even light their candles. It goes both ways,so the criticism by Patrick Doyle is in order. It is to bring him down from that high horse. Blowing
your own trumpets too hard is bad.

How did he rubbish the work of his predecessors? Name the exact thing he said bad about those that came before him?

ppogba:
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If a public figure in America says the same thing, he will not be taken to Golgotha as Doyle is being taken.

From time immemorial, some have always paved the way for others to walk.

Americans can be truthful more than we think atimes.

The fact remains a public figure would not say such things and expect to be respected.....Americans ya werey gan, one, two, three and you're canceled.

Treasure17:
We shall see. Don't worry, the judiciary will do the needful

And when the needful does not favor your candidate abeg don't shout like fowl o, since we've clearly established the judiciary has the final decision

Imagine a public figure in America saying Beyonce and Rhianna have done nothing great and that Aretha Franklin or Maya Angelou paved their path and they were living off that glory........I swear Nigerians, we are our biggest enemies. No wonder these new generation cats don't really f*ck with the old people like that, too damn judgmental!

Sir Doyle....With all due respect GTFO!

Bombastic elements screaming everybody hates Nigerians, you people would blame anyone and everything except your damn selves! Instead make una learn lesson to stop bribing, to stop looking for illegal shortcuts/fraud, you people choose to play the victim card.

so many of una are used to using money to buy your way, well in some countries that won't work and this lady learned her lesson the hard way....CHANGE PEOPLE, CHANGE!

When Tinubu did it they criticized him not knowing baba is operating on 10G while the rest are still on 4G.

Fredchisom:
What do you mean by overpopulation, do you know the population of China yet their country looks like heaven.Do you know that more than 100 persons crosses the zebra line in guanzhou in morning yet you talk of Nigeria been over populated. Until we face our problems in Nigeria,those people remaining there will keep suffering. Was it not democratic coup that happened between tinubu and obi, yet we want things to go back to normal so that we can buy fuel 100/L

Thank God you used China as an example.....China is a civilization over 3000 years old but their modern government started in 1912. From 1912 to the 1990s guess what their poverty level was? Over 60%! Shocking right? 60% of a billion is what? 600 million! That means 600 million people were living in poverty. Yes they reformed and are doing very much better now but still 10% of the population is in poverty and that's 100 million. It seems you people don't fully grasp the consequences of over population, you think say na beans!

I don't know what you mean by democratic coup between Tinubu and Obi, unless you meant election only happened in the East. If we are talking about Nigeria as a whole, my guy kpuchie ọnụ! Obi lost plain and simple and anyone expecting to buy fuel even at 200 Naira per Litre when the country does not have functioning refineries is the same type of person that believed one Naira can be equivalent to one dollar even though the country imports 80% of all its products....No be juju be that?

Fredchisom:
this is dumb,oga atleast I have been to Benin rep.,Ghana, Rwanda,Ethiopia and outside Africa.i don't know where you got that your statistics of them envying you from.if Rwanda has what Nigeria have,you will be denied tourist visa.

If Rwanda or Ghana had half the population of Nigeria, it would be in chaos. E be like say most of una don't understand what over population does to a country, look at U.K, before they were all welcoming to immigrants, free healthcare blah blah blah, now dem don dey sweat because it is projected in the next 20 years, their resources won't be enough to cater to the population and that's a well managed country o......