₦airaland Forum

izadi:
This lady has only gone back to factory reset. Polyandry was widely practised in Africa before the continent was corrupted by the main religions. People need to read up on the African history long before the advent of colonisation..

Africa is not a country, so please be specific, which country in Africa are you talking about? Which tribe? I know for a fact polyandry is a taboo in Yorubaland and you can't show one single evidence that it was practiced. I know for a fact no Hausa or Fulani tribe practiced such so can you clarify? When you say Africa, you must be referring to other nations in it, right?

MadamExcellency:
Can you interpret what Jesus Christ was trying to teach from these direct quotes?

Matthew 19:4-6 KJV
And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, [5] And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? [6] Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

Matthew 19:10 KJV
His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.

Read the next few verses and you'll see nothing about the verses you quote forbids men from marrying more than one wife!

I hate when people generalize, I see such people as low intelligence humans! There is plenty of time to socialize abroad, in fact based on your education and career level, you will never work a weekend again in your life, that leaves you with at least one or two days to socialize.

Further, if you are wise and actively investing while you work, your job provides you at least 2 full weeks of paid time off each year along with 5 or 6 holidays, why wouldn't you be able to schedule time for partying or vacationing?

Finally we have people making money while they sleep in the USA, there's no free money abroad but some money are easier to attain than others, places like America allows you to work remotely, some of my goons are working 2 jobs remotely cashing out big time and if they are really really good at what they do, most of their daily tasks takes less than 4 hours to complete, the rest is spent playing PS5 or chatting on Nairaland/Instagram. Ji ma sun!

siofra:
Why would a young man or woman in their early twenties be in relationships with people above 40? It screams daddy/mommy issues.

Some early 20s girls have been through more than 3 breakups, sexual abuse or multiple abortions......Don't you think they need a more matured man in their life? Isn't the goal of most relationships durability?

Zooposki:
Why should I personally know one person? I have given you the most famous Virgin Birth aka Jesus, you no believe na. I can’t come and kee myself, you this Y chromosome that ain’t needed. 😀😀

Ah now I understand you fully......You haven't taken your meds......Get well soon

Zooposki:
Would you believe them? Las, las una go still claim say them be all olosho collecting dick on the side. Or maybe sperm touch their vagina. Useless Y chromosome causing the earth to be in a state of unrest with all your wars, criminalities, murders, rapes etc. No wonder Nature has deemed you guys as more than useless. Lolz.

Hogwash.....First you criticize those who look up things on Google then you use the same Google to try to bolster your weak ass claim.....You're not bright are you? So you don't personally know one person that has successfully given birth without sperm, chimoooo

Zooposki:
Well, the Holy Spirit is there at least. Man still not needed according to nature to keep the human race going on. Nature has deemed the Y chromosome as the most useless chromosome in the body. Deal with it. Imagine being the only chromosome not needed by the body. It means you are even more than useless. Omo, things are really happening o!!!

Still spewing shit....Still waiting for the first evidence that proves your theory....Nature this, nature that but you can't name one person that can be verified as being produced without the need for sperm.....No be juju be that?

Zooposki:
Whatever rocks your boat. If you believe it’s only a lubricant, whom I to argue with your Google knowledge. The most famous parthenogenesis(self reproduction) birth in the Bible is your dear Jesus. The Bible is a coded book.

Ah yes Bible and science perfect combo.....Nigga you're cracking me up . Even that theory is flawed because I recalled it required the holy spirit to complete the process so it is not self conception.....Nice try tho

Zooposki:
ad hominem, (Latin: “against the man”) type of argument or attack that appeals to prejudice or feelings or irrelevantly impugns another person’s character instead of addressing the facts or claims made by the latter.

You do not have a valid claim so the only option is to treat you as a clown! The bartholin gland has nothing to do with pregnancy, it is just a lubricant producing gland needed by the vagina, even if you plan on introducing an external liquid into it, that liquid would still need to be spermatozoa or a chemical derivative which has not been invented yet.....once again olodo like you would rather peddle conspiracy theories than use actual facts! Name one person in the world that actually got pregnant using the method you stated? I bet you believe in human cloning too.....Werey

Zooposki:
The diagram below is one way it can be achieved. I can give you several more natural instances but I leave you to go do your research.

Heck, even a small electric current applied to her egg is enough to start the division of cells for new life to occur(artificial method)

Let me ask you a question, what purpose does the breast serve in a man and woman?

Like I said earlier you should consider comedy....You're a perfect fit

Zooposki:
Ok, XY(male) and XX(female) if that makes you feel better. The man is not needed for reproduction, the female can do that all by herself, so the world is not going to face any extinction, hence why the male aka XY is deemed useless by nature, and considered a throwaway.

I’m not even going to digress and go into why I think the XY is a genetic manipulation of the XX chromosome, hence unnatural and deemed as the only chromosome not necessary for life, hence why it’s dying off and the body could care less.

You must really suck at biology/anatomy because unless men all of a sudden start developing XX chromosomes, male gender is still needed for reproduction....That alone tells me you're a comedian

Zooposki:
Do you know nature deems the Y(Man) chromosome as the most useless chromosome in the body, aka the Y(Male) chromosome is the only chromosome not necessary for life? Meanwhile Nature goes to bat to do all to protect the X(Female) chromosome. Nature does not even want to see any mistake in the X chromosome. The X chromosome has not change since the beginning of time, while the Y chromosome has depreciated badly. But luckily for the Y chromosome, it is now latching onto the X chromosome to save itself.

Y chromosome alone does not make you male, it requires a combination of X and Y hence your whole analysis is flawed! In reality, it is actually reversed. A female having two X chromosome but unable to control whether she has a male or female offspring sounds pretty useless. In fact if all males stop putting out Y chromosomes from intercourse then the world itself would face extinction....Now who does nature consider useless again?

Mind your business and let your sister and her husband raise their children the best way they see fit! You're going to end up causing serious problems in the family with the way you meddle in their affairs and your apparent disdain for the husband!

You pose more danger to that kid than the school itself and if care is not taken that man would explode one day with your oversabi family disrespecting him......Keep it 100% and mind your business, you no fit love the boy pass the papa!

13. Don't have sex with your wife or husband unless both of you are financially stable....... Abi religion does not care if you bring children into this world that you can't take care of

14. Don't have sex using doggystlye or any other style apart from missionary.......Shey ni e mad ni

15. Before starting sex, recite our lord's prayer.......E ti ya werey seh

chukwuebuka65:
Is the lady handicapped? Can she add her own? The guy is already paying for rent plus school fees. Nobody is even asking how much the guy makes. What if he is not that buoyant. The lady should add her own as the children belong to both of them.

If he was not buoyant, his prick should not be functioning to the point of getting her pregnant! It's because of people like una weymake the Western government implemenet compulsory child support/alimony.

Even if the lady matched his effort and supported with 15k herself, you believe 30k a month is enough to take care of children? UNA DON MAD O, NA ONLY ROPE REMAIN

Real and successful men don't worry much about sex, in fact na their wives dey drag them go bedroom. Na the jobless e-diots dey put sex for mind as if na their daily bread......Young man make money, make lots of it, it's the single most important factor in commanding respect in your home.

Forget about love or what's fair or right, most women are not wired to be breadwinners, the sane ones among them fit support you for a short period but vast majority go change am for you once it is apparent that you're useless.....So for Christ sake, MAKE MONEY, MAKE LOTS OF IT!

olakraft:
You obviously inherited INSANITY from your lineage... Na why u think say everyone be like ur family. Awon iran diran e werey!

As you dey talk am, you dey use ur head carry am.

CUTE

olakraft:
You're the FAILURE here if you're trying to justify abusive and barbaric practices like child marriage and child abuse... Religion isn't an excuse for MADNESS!

Isoro ni igbesi, if you talk anyhow, you get anyhow response! Ciao!

Again kindly locate your local Alfa or Imam and have these discussions with them, I no get strength nor time to cure your CRAZE

olakraft:
LOL so what is the basic entitlement of the religion, child marriage? Hahahaha 😂🤣😂

Go and sleep please.

Again I'm not here to defend Islam, if na wetin you dey look for be that, you don FAIL

olakraft:
You're the only one cherry picking here by referring to America as a Christian country and focusing on that. There is NO American alive today that would claim that Christianity is their state religion. America is the highest supporter of Anti-Christian values.

In the meantime, manage this reportage on Kano (the Nigerian state with the highest Muslim population) from AlJazeera

You're still spewing jargon and I never called America a Christian country, I said it has the highest number of Christians, KNOW THE DAMN DIFFERENCE! Furthermore, I already gave you an example with a Muslim man not able to marry more than one wife, if that does not show you where its mentality lies, I don't know what will! It's a secular nation that allows freedom of religion yet they'll throw a Muslim man in jail for practicing one of the basic entitlements of his religion.....No be juju be that?

Finally, are you kidding me? Even the 2012 Al-Jazeera article that you posted offers zero credible evidence, it even states that there are no definitive source......WHY DO I BOTHER WITH YOU? My guy GIVE UP ALREADY, YOU'RE EMBARRASSING YOURSELF!

olakraft:
The bolded is true... But another truth is that America is a SECULAR COUNTRY, NOT A CHRISTIAN COUNTRY. America doesn't have a state religion like Muslim countries where is it mostly illegal to practice another religion outside of Islam.

Now, focus on where we both come from, which is Nigeria: which religion has the highest divorce rates?

Stop catching feelings, let's argue as enlightened individuals.

Again, you're not arguing intellectually but using sentiments and cherry-picking your stats. First you criticized Islamic countries with false statistics and when I disproved your stat, you switched the focus, this is not very intelligent! Furthermore, America might appear secular politically but that is just camouflage! For example, Islam allows men to marry multiple wives, if an Islamic man tries such in the USA, he's heading to jail!

Moving on, okay let's not catch feelings, can you show me a credible source that states divorce rates are higher in Muslims than Christians in Nigeria? Wahlahi you go search tire bro because you & I know that you pulled that stat out of your ass

olakraft:
Who came up with the statistics and the original post? Definitely not me, so I don't see the lamba you're talking about unless you just wanna chicken out... 🐔

Northern Nigeria is a case study here, so you don't need to go far! If you've lived in the north, ask about divorce rates and child marriages, you'd be educated.

You mentioned the US as a Christian country? ❌
America is a secular country, NOT a Christian country. There are only a few countries in this world that identify as Christian countries, most of them are in Europe and Hungary is the only one I know of...

America has the most Christian population in the world......I deal with stats for a living and also live in America and NO, Northern Nigeria was not the discussion, you specifically mentioned Islamic countries! My guy farabale and read your initial post that I responded to, you'll see the error in your premise!

olakraft:
The reality on ground is there, despite whatever you want to say about Islam. The fact is that Islamic societies have a HIGH rate of divorce and it is often underreported because everyone is focused on western societies.

I once saw a video of an Afghani husband behead his wife for leaving the home and running to her father. Most Islamic societies are downright BARBARIC!

What about child marriage? I am sure you don't even want us to go there.

Reality based on your own sentiments not based on any statistical data.....I didn't want to get technical with you hence I gave you the watered down version but if you want to go there let's compare actual statistics!

Stick to topic my nigga, I'm not here to defend religion or even Islamic countries, I'm just calling out your LAAMBA! The country with the highest Muslim population in the world is Indonesia with a population of 280 million and a divorce rate of 1.6 per 1000 people, compare this to the highest Christian population in the world, USA with a population of 330 million and a divorce rate of 2.3 per 1000 people. So statistically you've already LIED! Everything else, you can miss me with it.....PEACE!

olakraft:
Naah, 4-5 out of those countries are Islamic countries, not really tourist destinations and they have nothing in common with Europeans.

Islamic laws support divorce more than any other society I have ever seen. It's under Islam that a man can decide to marry and divorce without consequences.

Go to Northern Nigeria and see how they marry little girls and divorce them anyhow...

That's not completely true, Islam encourages counseling before divorce and in fact divorce laws are more favorable for women under Islam, your example is confusing religion with other factors like poverty. Did you know that any physical or mental abuse that can be proven gives the woman the right to seek divorce? Did you know promising the woman sweet sweet things and then marrying her failing to fulfill those promises is ground for divorce?

Did you know impotence is also ground for divorce and even infidelity? In fact any man that cannot provide for his family can be divorced under Islam, the problem where women become disadvantaged is the return of the dowry.

I SPECIFICALLY WARNED YOU BUT HEAD WEY GO CHOP KNOCK GO CHOP AM REGARDLESS!

TheSuperX:
Most of you are just so ignorant and full blown hypocrites.

When Israeli IDF killed thousands of Palestinians throughout the years what did hypocrites like you say? Israeli forces havd been killing, oppressing and harrasing Palestinians for years but nobody said anything but now just because Hamas threw rocket at then they are the bad guys right?

The fact is that if Hamas are terrorist, even Israeli forces are terrorist too because they have been terrorizing innocent Palestinians for years too, most of you are oblivious of the fact because you guys are evil hearted and vile.

This is funny, it's clear you don't know the difference between Palestine and Gaza. Here's a hint, one is disputed territory while the other is recognized as a state. The state of Palestine does not have a problem with Israel, in fact the government is looking forward to a two state solution. The problem is the terrorist group Hamas, the group is overpowering Palestine government and does not give a damn about the Palestinians. Young blood educate yourself, not everything you read online is the truth, dig deeper!

phr0nesis:
They promised $1 = ₦1. I'm only asking for $1= ₦200

Because dem know say you be sheep...Otherwise why would you believe such? What does Nigeria produce? What magic would they perform? Our problem has never been bad politicians, our problem remains our gullibility!

airsaylongcome:
Lol! See ekpa! Point went over your bent head young blood. "goes through my company" like that is supposed to change anything. A Nigerian owned company stateside is the last company I want to freelance for. See who dey hustle freelancer for Fiverr dey run mouth that "I own my company". You aren't even doing 1099 o. Fiverr freelancer. Get on UW and hire me as as a TR then we can start talking.

You're a comedian.....Read again, I'm still curious how you ignorantly believe you would know that a Nigerian is behind the company. Oh by the way, I'm also an American citizen so I'm genuinely curious to know your thought process

My guy dey talk 1099 as if I'm going to hire you directly.....You are contracted to Upwork my guy, I have no business issuing 1099 to you, CLOWN

airsaylongcome:
Does living in the US stop you from being Nigerian? Abi lizard for Naija nobi lizard for US? Fly abeg. We are not and cannot be the same. Take several seats back bro. Even in the so-called US you cannot be on my level

The point went over your head lil nigga, everything goes through my company so you wouldn't even know if you're transacting with a Nigerian or not but once again you showed your inexperience See what I mean when I say we're not on the same level....It's ok my boi, REST IJN!

Many of you would be shocked when the rate falls to less than 800 but many would be even more shocked to see that sellers refusing to lower prices....9ja what goes up must not come down

airsaylongcome:
Lol! I am on Upwork and never ever respond to Nigerian clients when they invite me for their gigs. The paltry sums they pay is disgusting. One was offering $100 for a task that I easily charge and earn $1000. So yeah it's okay for you to be an "employer" on Fiverr. We are not the same

Well good for you, I don't how you would even identify someone like me as a Nigerian when I'm based in the USA and never use my personal detail but operate through my various companies. You can earn whatever you want, I'm just telling you the reality of things, majority of people are not making $300 daily on Upwork or Fiverr.......Nairalanders like you seem to have this problem of not knowing what is considered exception and what is considered the norm, so save me your sarcastic response!

You're right we are not the same, not even on the same level!

airsaylongcome:
Hehehe...some of you make this gig work look and sound easy when it isn't. If $300/week is big money for you then you really need to recalibrate your mindset. That's a days job

For somebody that's struggling in 9ja, $300 a week is something when you're just starting out, your mindset of hammering or making it big needs to change if you're talking about freelance work. Most people in 9ja don't make $300 a month not to talk of per week but then again you already know that, you just decided to be mischievous!

Personally for me, I'm an employer not an employee, I hire guys from Fiverr all the time for various tasks and I have never paid $300 for a day's job.