₦airaland Forum

Welldone Mr PPRO. You acted rightly.

aaking:
Make her sign a written document that
1. If she purpose to leave you in UK you are entitled to the Children on the said document write that " I am not fit enough to withstand the problems of the Children and don't need them around me"

2. Every of your assets and finance wouldn't be shared between both that "am ready to go for free"

Noted !!! Don't tell her about this info but give her to sign that is part of the document she'll needs to get there.

Another method for her to sign without she noticing what she is signing.

Type the following agreement document with all the wordings in it and the signatures both of you right and left side. Then input two witnesses from both families.

Then start this method.

After typing the following headings leave it blank without any inputs then go down to put the signatories . Same pattern
The headline should be in your own surname e.g your name is John book while she is ciara don. Your headings MOST be AGREEMENT BETWEEN JOHN AND CIARA BOOK.

I am giving you the experience of what my cousin went through.

All this wahala because you want to marry and relocate to the UK?? Nawao


All this wahala na to what end, biko?

Such a shame.

Vote4ObiDatti:
This Kwankwaso is a clown, because Christians are against Muslim-Muslim presidency, and rightly so, doesn't mean we are religious bigots.

Kwankwaso, using a bishop as vice president doesn't mean anything to us, because this man won't even win his own polling boot talk more of winning his ward or LGA

They've scammed Kwankwaso

Not a fair analysis. Do you think Peter Obi's vice can win his own ward or LGA?

GloriousGbola:
This sounds like a Nigerian solution.

The reason why we are in so much shit. This cannot work.

We have a clown in our neighbourhood who has not paid dues for the last 10 years. So maybe we should all stop paying dues, get rid of security, leave gate open and wait for the night of a terrible robbery incident so that one ediat will get sense?

Rather than force a 5k solution, allow the situation to degenerate to a 150k solution (that's how much you may pay for the pump). And as for the inconvenience of no running water.

This is Cutting off your nose to spite the face of the neighbourhood ediat.

No talk like this my guy.

Well, personally, I don't like too much talk and neighborhood confrontations. I don't think mere talking or shouting like the vile woman in OPs narration will solve the problem. The easiest solution would be to evict her but this is not going to be easy either. We have read stories of how tenants terrorize landlords here. So what can a co-tenant do?

I haven't had a similar experience with the op but the closest I remember, I simply relayed my grievances to the landlord and when I realized that my issues were left unaddressed, I jejely moved out of the property. I left the house with a lesson (never to share electricity bill with anyone).

Na make we no jam crazy tenants sha.

Many people have died trying to prove their "manliness" to a woman. Some couldn't swim but forced themselves to the pool because a woman somewhere called them cowards. Don't die trying to impress anyone.

...sometimes ask yourself whether your mom will encourage you to do this or that as part of your evaluation process. Will your mom allow you to fight a gang of 10 cultists just to prove your manliness? Will your mom allow you jump into water when you clearly can't swim? If your woman is not scared of losing you, then you're clearly dating a wicked human. The need to prove your manliness should not outweigh the desire to preserve your soul. In an ideal setting, na your woman suppose force or push you to run.

Be wise.

"How do I get to know if my intended is good in bed?"


I don't understand the purpose of the above statement. I think it's one of the most senseless statements I have ever come across in my life.

So what if your intended is not good in bed? What are you going to do about it? Send him or her to a catering se.x school? Or get her a se.x trainer?

Is your "intended" supposed to be good in bed in the first place? Was she supposed to attend a s.ex training institution before meeting you? So his/her ex was the teacher while you're what? The thoughtless f00l??

What an ediotic self acclaimed evangelist.

Simply piling up taxes and IGRs and doing nothing with them makes you the best governor?

When the average Osun woman wants to buy a loaf of bread for N1,000, she would pay happily knowing that you have saved $100m trillion somewhere?

helinues:
Tinubu wouldn't have been Apc presidential candidate had Pdp zoned their presidency to Souththern Nigeria and present Christian candidate

As long as that Southern Christian is not Wike. Wike can never get votes outside Rivers state.

By the way, if PDP presents Wike, APC will present Amaechi and that would be the end of PDP. Amaechi is loved both in the Southern and Northern parts of the country, Wike is not.

Atiku is greedy but I also understand why he failed to step down.

A Peter Obi (PDP) versus Osinbajo (APC) would have been a perfect match.

Mumben:
Well, ur approach isn't that good cos it will amount to turning a blind eye to what you know deep down is bad. For God's sake this is somebody's property we re talking about, how can a pumping machine be running through out nonstop anytime there is light even if d light stays for 12 hours. The efficiency of the machine has even reduced due to overlabour and mind you this is the second sumo in 4 years. Now what if you are d landlord in this case, will u be happy to keep replacing sumo every now and then?

For the records, my husband did not engage her, it was another neighbor who reported her and my husband only affirmed what the neighbor said. She is obviously angry cos my husband didn't cover up for her cos we r of d same tribe but when it comes to doing the right thing, tribal sentiments shouldn't come into play.

Like I mentioned earlier, we all know the problematic tenant in the compound. My approach is not that good but it's the most practical approach to avoid insults. Your husband affirming what a neighbor said in her presence tells me that you guys must have called her attention to the leaking tap long before the landlord intervened.

A better approach would be to sound a note of warning in the meeting that if the borehole ever gets bad due to frequent use, leakages, etc. you guys won't be contributing a dime. This may attract more side talks but that's how to deal with such people.

My kind of person would ignore after that warning and wait till the borehole gets bad. I'm a plan B, C, D, and even F kind of person. Na when borehole spoil we go know the most powerful.

Mumben:
You understand d situation very well, the truth is other co_tenants are afraid to call her out cos she is very troublesome. Even her husband is scared of her. She is d only tenant in that compound that openly insults her husband. Infact, if she is insulting her husband from their flat, d whole neighborhood will be aware cos she will be shouting at the top of her voice. Truth is, d man is a very quiet gentleman. I honestly don't know how he's been coping with his wife's attitude.

No, they are not.

Klass99:
How can the husband mind his business when what is happening affects him too? He did nothing wrong by confirming a truth to their landlord during the meeting.

It is as if you have never jammed co-tenants who are just troublesome without cause or justification. The ones that will push your clothes from your own rope/line to spread their clothes, rope that you bought with your money and put outside.

Or is it the saboteurs who will never contribute fuel money to pump water, but will deliberately leave their bathroom taps on and go out to spite others for calling them out, so all the water you are pumping is wasting away and the water tank is not filling up because of them.

Please free that man he did not do anything wrong, that woman is just vile. What stops her from fixing the tap head to save everyone (including herself) the water loss?

If I was the landlord she will not last long in my property, because the tap head is an indication of her careless and negligent attitude. I shudder to think of what the rest of her flat looks like now or what it will look like, when she moves out.

I think we all agree that the woman is vile and maybe senseless but what can he do in this instance? Embrace violence with a razz woman?

I've learnt never to engage such people. If you want to waste water, I will help you waste it after securing an alternative for my household.

The 5-year gap was a trophy to you, reason you couldn't stop talking and bragging about it like a damaged radio. According to you, you had that discussion with just two people? Really? Trophy wey more than 5,000 people have read online in your previous threads?

Wait, after discussing your personal matter with colleagues, you went ahead to discuss the outcome of your gossip with your woman? What were you expecting?

You're not ready for marriage so don't bother talking to another older woman. Settle for a 20 year old lady and wait 5-10 years before delving into marriage.

OlumSOJ:
Good day to you my Brother. As an experienced married man that went through the same situation in the early year 2000, I want to advise you not to loose hope. With your savings, shear it into two, then learn how to drive Keke Marwa (You should be perfect within 4 weeks) then make a purchase of a new one with your half of savings or you go to your bank for partly loan to finance part of the purchase. With Marwa driving, you can make more than 150K every month. The remaining part of the savings could be used to finance the household. May the Grace of God Almighty shine on you and your household. It is well with you. Amen.

From banking to marwa driving?

Please, this young man is in his early 30s, according to @OP. Many things he could do with his life, experience, and academic qualification. Better to join a school, take economics or finance classes than go into marwa driving at 30.

VlamesIffect:
How will you be in banking & finance for 10 years. & You don't have investments? Or some business by the side? You are talking about savings. So all people are taught in school is to having a degree in finance but use it to work for people but don't apply it to yourself?

"Half a decade" = 5 years.

SMJay:
Can you give more info on
How you started?
The equipments required?
Market challenges?
What to look out for?I think � they would need to do a feasibility study and the area you are targeting and putting power factor in place.
if you are starting on a low scale, you can get a deep freezer say about 200-400ltr btn 250k and above,
The frozen items such as chicken,turkey lap,wing,gizzard and fish may cost u about 50-100k to start with and you can add garri, beans etc
Your ur stand by generator i.e 2.5kva-4.5kva which may cost u btn 200-350k.

Bad business move for someone with a total capital of #1.1M.

The fixed assets you listed here is #500k. Add that to another fixed asset (rent) and you're already close to #900k.

Food business without sufficient working capital is dead on arrival. They will end up eating all the garri and gizzard to stay alive.

Ahh! So unbelievable. The other day, she opened up about her struggles with depression and now...this?!

The Johnson family has lost an irreplaceable talent.


RIP Madam.

cococandy:
My mood is the problem here

Not the underhanded behavior your baba is exhibiting

Well, it's very evident from your responses.

I don't think he meant any harm. Check am well.

@truthsayer009, baba it's time to withdraw. Cococandy is not in the best mood today.

Ah. How much is 13/14 model?

@Op, sorry you had to endure those insults o. You will get over it. Your husband should learn to mind his business next time.

Your financial issue is not the reason you receive those insults. When you drag a ma.d woman or call her out over her inadequacies, then be prepared for the outcome.

Channah1:
You don't need to fight or reply her back. Leave her to God,. God will surely fight for you.

I have been mocked here on nairaland when I had accommodation issue but I hand all my mockers to God cos hes the only one that can reply them for me.

Leave her to God.

You still haven't gotten over the fact that nobody cares about you on Nairaland. You should be appreciating God for taking you out of trenches not looking for how God will punish your mockers. Your so called "mockers" serve your God better than you do. So how God wan take punish them bayi?

Shugavee:
and get atleast 25% of 24 states

Yup

Labour Party may end up dividing Atiku's votes, thereby making the Muslim-Muslim ticket a reality. That being said, Peter Obi will definitely get a substantial amount of votes but to achieve total victory, you have to win at least 13-14 states.

Only if Ambode had the balls to decamp to PDP like his friend in Edo.


Jandor and Jenifer can never defeat Sanwo-Olu.

...because they want the world to accept their bullsh't.
You can't force me to like what I hate.

Presidential material.


He successfully promoted that hospital and the team of consultants. This is so presidential. This is how you run a country. Not running to the UK to buy paracetamol. Osibanjo believes in Nigeria more than any other Nigerian politician.

humberjade:
Don't know about anywhere else, but most ruling parties lose the government house on election days in the SW (with the exception of Lagos though). Maybe because the attention of the movers and shakers of the party are major directed at their local bases. However, this doesn't determine where the pendulum swings.

Losing the sit of government is a sign of perpetual failure. That's the same way Buhari lost Abuja twice...

Can someone post the results from Iragbiji? I need to check something

naija4life247:
Unfortunately Oyetola has lost.

I salut Engr Dr Iyiola Omisore PhD. He took care of his Ife Constituency. Osun people will suffer under Ade de Dancer. Very soon, we will start ejecting then from Lagos. Let everybody go to his father's village.

Start by ejecting the drug lord. For as long as you refuse to send the drug lord back to Iragbiji, Osun people will do whatsoever they want in Lagos.

This is a clear evidence that Adeleke won the last election. A clear indication.

Oyetola has lost. 100%




Atiku's greed is why APC may win the presidential election. In a sane society, no APC politician should be allowed to win elections across all levels