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fidelmarshal199:
Congratulations...

Just remember that DNA is a most

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Op, sorry for the laugh 🤭🤭 Congratulations to you

A senseless thing to do in a society like Nigeria.

One thing about southwest leaders, they will never fight or openly oppose corruption.

It's a 9.1/10 for me. I enjoyed the movie.

Chenzee:
After years of training and loving your children, you discover they aren't yours.

What will you do?
Will you keep them?
Will you still love them as much as you did?
What happens to your wife?

Divorce is the only solution to paternity fraud. It's left for the children to seek their biological father, accept the 'father' they've known all their lives, or manage both.

More often than not, the kids will always attempt to know their biological father with or without your knowledge. What you want is somewhat irrelevant at the end of the day.

Twoclans:
My home town ( I am from an igbo state ) will take any child that a woman gives birth to while still married to the man.If they are separated and the normal rites of returning the bride price has not been done,they will still claim that child.Making the real father loose out .

Mind you they are not claiming the child from a point of love but from a need to spite the woman and her lover.

Can only work when the actual father is dead, uneducated, unexposed, weak, and extremely poor.

You can't try this nonsense with a fairly educated man with #200k or less to spare.

Efuaye:
That baby look like Mercy Chinwe. It’s not compulsory that first born babies must resemble their father!

People just pick one or two cases of resemblance and over-emphasise or generalise their opinion.

More than 80% of firstborns in the world do not look like their dad.

labake1:
Exactly, I don't know what's their gain. Innocent baby

But the baby supposed to resemble his papa, first child always looks like their Dad

How do you know a man's first child? Does it include sperm men have wasted while philandering or masturbating? Does it also include the first "child" they didn't get to meet due to abortion??

This is serious. As of last year and even 2-3 years ago, Nigeria was doing over $24 billion in 3-4 months, but Cardi B and his people want us to celebrate $1.5 billion in one month in 2024? Nigeria has really 'tanked'.

I pity people who rely on daily 'sponsored' media reports for investment decisions and financial planning.

Who no know no go know!

The things that excite Africans 😪


Ask them how they made their money, and wait for responses like Hotels, Clubs, Guest House, and Bar. It must be related to sex and noise making.

Melagros:
Which Reinhardt Bonkie are you talking about? All na arrangements, we took our niece suffering from down syndrome during his crusade in jos. After laying his hands on her, why wasn't she healed till she died?

Everything in life na arrangement, my brother. Even a surgical procedure na arrangement. Some make it out of the theatre while others don't. God arranges things the way he pleases. I'm 100% sure that not everyone who attended the programme I went to in Okene, Kogi state in 2003 received what they came for. God does what He pleases, when He pleases, how He pleases, and uses whom He pleases for reasons best known by Him. All na arrangements.

By the way, I'm sorry about the passing of your niece. Questioning God about why your niece had to die is akin to asking Reinhard Bonnke himself why he underwent femur surgery or why he passed away at the age of 70+. So, you see, he was merely an instrument in the hands of the ultimate arranger.

Good. Now how much are you wasting on hajj? 90 billion, yeah??

Unserious people.

Your mom needs a man in her life. That's the only solution. If your dad is in the picture, talk to him and encourage him to be more engaging. And if he's not, you can try talking to her about remarriage or a relationship.

It's only going to get worse from here unless something changes really fast regarding her relationship status. You are her only child, right?

ngwaIgbo223:
Nigerians are bloody criminals, I've advised my daughter once arrived in Nigeria this year don't speak with any Nigerian except close female family members, always marry Nigerians in diaspora..but typical Nigerians inside Nigeria no no..very criminal minded..all tribes including mine.no no. Or marry White.. simple.

Illiterate. Learn to read.

eepeepook:
Another day, another fraud. Nigerian youths, sha.

Illiterate. Learn to read.

There has always been a non-directional causality between economic growth and banking activities in Nigeria, so this is definitely not a bad idea. It should propel the economy to the extent of our country's realities; implying that we must never be overly expectant given that the majority of individuals and small businesses in Nigeria now rely on fintechs registered as microfinance banks.

Omitting digital banks from this development also gives the impression that the focus is more on the inflow of FX $$$ (a very uncertain expectation) rather than on 'economic growth' itself. If economic growth is the concern, there is no justifiable reason under heavens why Cardi B should ignore digital banks/microfinance banks.

The population of Nigerians that attend Churches on the regular are not more than 10%. What happens to the rest of you-90%? Why can't you make Nigeria great? Wetin do una head?

What do you block heads do on Sundays apart from playing football (project Mbappe at 45 years), smoking igbo, and sleeping in bet naija shops in your neighborhoods?

Rolings:
Like my Yoruba people will say
"Gambari pa Fulani, ko Kan aye"
Chioma cancelling Eric Umuofia company....it's a family affair

That's why you're a bigot. You can accept oppression as long as the oppressor is from your tribe. A trademark of eternal bigots. And no, stop dragging yoruba into your personal ideology.

Bullfallo:
Not wanting to have a child isn’t a choice per say. I hate to put myself into pressure or do things just because others are doing it, my lifestyle has always be different from public opinion.

This justification is somewhat weak. It won't take you too far before you "fold."

I live a live of comfort. I am rich and comfortable but not for many mouths. Because I don’t want adjust resources from my lifestyle.

Another weak reason. The responsibility of child raising does not rest solely on the man. Even if you choose to be with a full-time housewife, it is still cheaper to train a child (financially) than marry a wife. Certainly more expensive to be with a girlfriend. So what are you afraid of, really?

You can't completely dissociate yourself from a norm so long as you remain a social being. There are many things you may not want to do to impress anyone, like dancing on tiktok, hosting a big wedding, etc. Others like attending a school, getting a job, or having kids are not necessarily meant to appease the public.

There are many justifiable reasons why a man may not want a biological child, though. But your reason has to be strong enough to avoid regrets.

Matheusmartin:
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Genetically,there's something wrong with the average black man

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That's one thing about some women. They 'hate' dark skin but end up marrying someone with dark skin. Of all people, Mide shouldn't be the one insulting another woman over her skin colour. How can you marry an Afeez in his dark glory and then insult another woman for being dark? Total M A D N E S S.

And you, Habibat, has got a very low self-esteem. No use Mide as excuse. Contemplating bleaching over an insult from a woman with a dark-skin husband and dark-skin kids, only shows that you've never been proud of your skin colour.

In this life, no gree for anybody. If they come after your dark melanin skin, go after their washed-up light skin.

EreluRoz:
I'll spend major part of it on my adopted grand parents (I adopted them because they have no child of their own and they are old)

Very thoughtful of you. Keep it up

EreluRoz:
I don't like people because of money, maybe I would have been a trophy wife by now if that's what I'm after. What kind of money will a man have that'll even make me desperate sef when I'm not hungry myself.

The truth is most young men of these days have too much baggages, if they are not smoking, they drink and take drugs and other substances. The few good ones have insecurity issues and expect you to respond to them like a hookup girl (make I no bore you with stories) .
My happiness now is I've cleared my conscience and posterity shall not judge me bad

I got that, dear. Don't blame yourself over nothing. From what I've seen in your follow-up writing, you haven't done anything wrong.

I'm only concerned that a man who gives you money in that manner, for no 'known reason,' won't alter your perception about love relationships, as we see mainly in Nigeria. But on second thought, I've never known you to be poor or struggling. Certainly not you. I'm sorry if my previous post appeared judgmental.

EreluRoz:
He's from a rich home (son of former deputy sen presi the one that has the initials of I and M as his names) .
How am I exploiting him. My mom has spoken with him and he said he has no motive behind anything he gives me and I should not bother myself over anything. Guess what he did after his lengthy conversation with my mom, he sent a huge money to me again through his company

Ah, you had to return to this thread? Well, it's very thoughtful of him, though. He's trying to raise your standard so much that guys earning 500k after a 30-day hard labour and struggle will no longer appeal to you.

When a man gives you this kind of money for no reason, he's only making the men around you right now who are no match financially less appealing to you. He will continue until you begin to hate your boyfriend. When no other can match him, his intention will be revealed. For now, enjoy your life, baby girl.

By the way, why u never cash the money? Waiting for my approval?

femisplash:
CBN as at yesterday had also reduced custom duty, so we expect a corresponding reduction in prices of imported goods, unless of course Nigerians do what they do best- which is continued exploitation and greed. Also, all level of government should roll up their sleeves and invest in critical sectors in their respective states.

Prices of goods will drop significantly when pump price returns to Buhari's price -- > #200

Obiedun:
Do not derail the topic.

He is not derailing the topic. If Naira gains significantly without a corresponding drop in the prices of goods, how does that benefit you as an individual? I just want to know.

Obiedun:
Do not derail the topic.

He is not derailing the topic. If Naira gains signficantly without a corresponding drop in the prices of goods, how does that benefit you as an individual? I just want to know.

Streetinvestor2:
@Acidosis thr is fire on the mountain. Unconfirmed report on stock market trade says dollars is selling for 1k and below on the street today.pls call your supplier and confirm....wahala for speculators lol

Lol. You still don't get the point, do you? I'm not advocating for currency hoarders. I don't "hoard" either. I invest when I have or need to.

I'm even of the perception that, apart from political sentiments and hoarding, the majority, which are the ordinary Nigerians want Naira to gain so they can go back to the life they had under Buhari. I belong to that school of reasoning.

I saw the unconfirmed report. But have you asked yourself why anyone will sell over 10k dollars at the black market in Abuja at a rate that is significantly lower than CBN and licensed BDC rates? Funny. Do you still think that an ordinary Nigerian is behind this?

NL1960:
"who invested in dollar-denominated assets ".

Is investing in dollar denominated assets the same thing as buying dollars for speculation or for keeps?.

Why do people buy dollar-based mutual funds? For fun? Everyone is buying for keeps, including those of you "investing" in real estates.

oluayebenz:
Finding all means to defend your hoarded dollars 😂

Writing episode here won't make your hoarded dollar to rise ever again.

@bolded 😂. Who is threatening who?

No, I don't have any hoarded dollar. But trying to labell those who invested in dollar-denominated assets as enemies of Nigeria will be resisted.

Funny, I just listed several federal government-licensed platforms offering dollar-based investments, but none has been able to respond. Why? You people's "unpatriotic patriotism" no dey ever reach federal-government licensed Stanbic IBTC dollar funds?

Ask yourself, "what" is the enemy of Nigeria? A consumer who buys a dollar-denominated mutual funds, the platform that offers the funds, or the federal government that licensed these platforms?? All I see is an unparalleled hypocrisy or hate masked as patriotism to unpatriotic leaders. Let's jointly dare the federal government to name the top dollar investors with Stanbic, ARM, Anchoria, etc. if e sure for them.

Again, why the urge and incessant warnings to sell dollars? To who? You and the new sets of "hoarders" at cheaper rates? 😅

Streetinvestor2:
I am very sure of my stand and can bet against it.I knew the dollar rise to #1900 after floating was manipulation. And if you are sure on your side.Pls do sell all your asset and even borrow and go buy dollars. True demand and supply is making naira find its true value.
And in countries like China they would have executed the binance criminals. This country is too democratic in some crimes against the nation. Tell me what changed in our economy physical after floating of naira. Did our production reduced or consumption from imported goods increase.So what was driving the exchange rate daily if not manipulative speculation from enemies of the country.
Dollars will touch down to 1k soon because the genuine people who use it for business and other things have reduced thr demand for it.The demand will increase within #800-#1000 bend.I speak as a business man.

The demand for dollar has obviously reduced like you rightly said. I'm never arguing against that. If not for any other reason, many Nigerians have become too broke to afford foreign products (like toks cars). Japa has become unattractive either (unaffordable is the right word actually). This is not about enemies of Nigeria at work.

I've lived in Nigeria long enough to realise that when people like you threaten people to sell their dollars, then something obviously isn't right. If dollar is truly losing against the Naira (through appropriate fiscal and monetary policies), there wouldn't be a need to issue threats or warnings. No reasonable person wants to lose money. So, why are you and the federal government mouthpieces "threatening" people to sell off their dollars? Fear of depleting the reserves and borrowed funds?

You'll also be making a mistake thinking that the majority of Nigerians (ordinary people) have dollar stashed up somewhere. People wey dey wait make dollar fall so they can activate their plan. Lol. Even me, I dey wait like this make e fall to N600😅

You're making another big mistake thinking the ordinary people are the enemies of Nigeria. Na ordinary people released the Binance executive from a "heavily-guarded" detention?? Those who have lived in Nigeria long enough understand too much to blame the ordinary people on NL. Hehe.