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nikkflexible:
My hubby wasn't around when I delivered of my two children. Reason being that I had to travel home to deliver because I don't have a mother in law anymore and my mom still in service couldn't take permission to come stay over where we reside. The best option was to go meet her at 8months for both pregnancies and I had our family doctor and hospital take over while my hubby stays back cos of work and joins us for their naming ceremonies..
Hopefully he gets to witness my third labor when the time comes

Giwoni:
My Love Experience

Good day NLanders

I'm a medical student, and gf ( not sure what to call her now) is in MLS. We are both in same level (500l).

It all started in 2015, when we gained admission into the University. We began to read together and subsequently I started teaching her. Later on, she made me to read and susummarize her course topics (which I did for up to her 300 level) for her as she usually found it difficult to read with textbooks and understand the contents.

Months before my 2nd MBBS examinations, I began to notice changes in her attitude and behaviour towards me, up to the point that she told me that if I did not pass that examinations that, she will forget about me. But as God may have it, I passed successfully.

Financially, it started right in year one as I celebrated her and her mummy's Christmas from my own pocket. It got to a point that I usually give her her money almost every day (for up to 5yrs) Whenever, I'm traveling in any of our vacations, I usually give money for upkeep until I'm back.

In 300l, I bought her gift worth almost 30k and also celebrated her birthday which she demanded I get her 'point and kill cat fish' that cost 9k.

I usually pay for her textbooks and seminar work as we are all in medical school, I really do a lot for her, as she always told me she would never leave me right from yr 1 to 500l after which she started telling me, their people from Anambra will not let her marry people from Ebonyi State.

She's has known this for all her life, but decided to bring it up just now, when I'm beginning my marriage plans with her, She's started giving me unnecessary excuses in one form or the other.

In 400L, my elder brother told me that I should leave my medical school here to go and study the same medicine abroad. Because of her, I told him that I want to finish my school here since I am already in 400 level. That after my MBBS degree, I can then go abroad for my Masters degree...

This January, my elder brother told me that since I would be graduating in 2022 (which supposed to be 2021 but due to strike before the 2019 election) which is two years time, that I should be planning to get married before I leave this country.

This made me to ask her again if we are ending up together and she told me that she has to seek for her mother's consent, and would give me a feedback.

Before, she travelled (this is just before the lock down) as she was complaining that she does not have any money on her to eat and she want to go and learn how to plait hair which will cost her #8,000, I gave her #16,000. The next day after collecting the money, she told me that she received a call from her mother that she must come back to her State and she travelled with that money without learning anything.

Yesterday by 8:24pm, I called her to tell me the outcome of her mother's discussion with her. She told me that her mother insisted that she cannot marry an Ebonyi man, and she cannot go outside her mother's decision.

In conclusion, she told me that she cannot marry me.

Well, as expected, I'm bracing myself up for insults, (I really don't mind this right now) but amidst the insults, pls advice a brother who's fighting emotionally.

thanks

Lefty500:
Hello boss. I still jam you for here again. Lol.

I'm a young engineer, and most of the jobs I've taken is company job, and the major role is quality assurance. So I always have problem with this calculation of materials needed to produce concrete.

My problem is this: Using the 1:2:4, you calculated 380bags of cements, 43 tonnes of sand and 106 tonnes of granite.

1: 2: 4 means, for 1 bag of cement, we will put 4 head pan of sand, and 8 head pan of granite.
I was told that 5 tonnes of sand contains 20 wheel barrow, and 1 wheel barrow is 4 hp of sand, approximately 5 tonnes contains 80hp of sands. So we can therefore say 4hp is equal to 0.25 tonnes.
Same calculation for granite too, that 5 tonnes of granite contain 20 wheel barrow, since granite is twice that of sand, 8hp of granite equals 0.5 tonnes.

Using this information with 1:2:4, it means 1bag of cement to 0.25 tonnes of sand to 0.5 tonnes of granite => 1:0.25:0.5

Since we calculated 380 bags of cement, if we use it to multiply this ratio :
Sand = 380 × 0.25 = 95 tonnes
Granite = 380 × 0.5 =190 tonnes

Which is quite different from your calculation.
I will like you to enlighten me more on this.

NB: waste is not included in my calculations.

blacklexus:
Good evening NLers,
Please guide me o.
My car came with 205/55/r16 tires and are too low for my road. (Matrix XR 2008)
I want more ground clearance (height) and i dont want to change the rim size.
Kindly advice on other sizes that can achieve this without danger.

Thank you all

gaussian:
The E300 and C300 cannot be compared in any way, The E300 is luxury redefined and you are going for a 2018 model which has a powerful engine and artistic dashboard. My Advice to you is to Take the 2018 E300 and run!

nakoks:
You need to have a second mechanic look at that car.You will waste money getting a new engine and gear.But the sad thing is if you are billed 40% of what it would cost you if you go get a new engine and gear you will not want to pay.

Also note that if its flood problem replacing engine and gear alone wont solve the problem.Sorry but in the past year i have seen 3 Mercedes like this get fixed without replacing engine or gear so am speaking from experience.Hala me only if car is in lagos lets have a second look at it.

Pele

9icetoo:
8. Is your AC on while attempting to restart engine? Consider turning it off if it is. I've encountered this problem before.

Seun:
Do you work for the NCDC? If so, I urge you to create threads educating us about the situation.

Chi59:
I put it to you that there is no "friend" anywhere. You are the one. What do you take us for?
Anyway, what goes around, comes around. Prepare to care for a child that's not yours.

seanwilliam:
hmmmmm.. people like you should be in position of power.. honestly.. I wanted to bash everyone on here.. but your analysis gave me a rethink.. tbh, you should be a first class student...

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that being said.


your write up makes me to believe that Chinese are the smartest set of people on earth.. why? they know that interms of military and economy( by economy, I mean the currency of transaction which is dollar) they cant Match America and it would be a lost battle for them.. so they devised a mean which is 5G.. they know 5g is what the world cant do without, they know that everyone would love to have the taste of it, so they quickly funded the process and made it reality.. automatically nations of the world wouldn't have choice but to follow and imitate them, and this is where they get ally and support..



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well, to me, in terms of real tech, America is atleast 40 years ahead of China.. only countries that come close are japan, Germany and South Korea.....
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being smart is different from being innovative.. Chinese are thief of intellectual property... but they are very smart to make use of it and rub it on the face of ' the owner'




finally, I dont think china would become world power, while?
1. there are many conspiracy theories surrounding 5g
2. China is gonna face sanctions from most countries of the world
3. many countries would boycott China's product( this would greatly affect there economy)
4.most countries would pull our their investments and companies from China
5. most would stop trading with China
6. position of USA in UNO, WHO, NATOe.t.c would never allow China to smell the top
7. economy of usa still stand gidigba
8. usa controls 33% of the world's wealth
9.after this corona China would become the common enemy
10.. one thing about America is that , when they pull you down, the world would pull you down( directly or indirectly we all look up to America, if they sneeze, the rest of the world sneeze too)..




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now finally. nobody can survive by being a ' one man mopol'.. and who ever has the POWER( by this, I mean money) controls the world.. it doesn't take America anything to develop even 7g.. they have the money to spend on the research and guess what? they have the 'support' to test it and make it acceptable to the world unlike Chinese' which comes with lots of questions...
I'm on orijin typing this
would love your input once again...

Mrpsly247:
And you know how many layers of atmospheric conditions was put in place to keep that rays 4rm reaching you direct. 5g is direct, if it's gonna kill you the producer will rationalize it and set it aside as negligible in his pursuit of profit

International guidelines on exposure levels to microwave frequency EMFs such as ICNIRP limit the power levels of wireless devices and it is uncommon for wireless devices to exceed the guidelines. Wikipedia

cassidy1996:
We Have No Reason to Believe 5G Is Safe
The technology is coming, but contrary to what some people say, there could be health risks
we shouldn't forget about effects of cell phone radiation, scientific literature tells us about the health risks from wireless radiation.

JAMO84:
They will ask the OP to bring visual evidence in 3D before they can believe it.

Those people's hatred for Buhari is so hot that it is contributing to global warming.


I AM DONE TALKING

recklesslove:
5G is already in Abuja and Lagos. Why is the Federal Government lying that there is no 5G in Nigeria?

einsteine:
You are very stupid

emmaelectelect:
10 years is Ok

0m0nnakoda:
You are a liar

The posts are still there in the sequence that they transpired
I have nothing more to add other than what I first said

Home schooling could be state funded and is in developed countries for many children with special educational needs usually those with disabilities or behaviour problems like ADHD,social phobia ,,agoraphobia anxiety etc So provision for gifted children are not out of place
Google Government funded home schooling

YOU RESPONDED BY SAYING

'Home schooling cannot be state funded even in developed countries

A came before B

0m0nnakoda:
You evaded the question. You said


'Home schooling cannot be state funded even in developed countries"

That is TOTALLY FALSE
All what you are now saying is peripheral, tangential and irrelevant

Home schooling ÇAN be and is funded in specific circumstances.
Home schooling does not have to be Total ,there are hybrids of school AND home schooling.
Each person is different and based on qualifying criteria people can get supported. Home schooling also can involve online tutoring etc based on whatever is called a Statement and EHCPin the UK ,other countries have their own system
Even now as we speak because of COVID 19 Homeschooling is happening

Home schooling could be state funded and is in developed countries for many children with special educational needs usually those with disabilities or behaviour problems like ADHD,social phobia ,,agoraphobia anxiety etc So provision for gifted children are not out of place
Google Government funded home schooling

einsteine:
Comprehension is apparently the issue here.
You don't even understand what you are quoting. Of course, the section of this Wikipedia article was a survey and they are looking at factors in general that schools look at for admission. Note the word 'general', then go back and read my points.

There are over 800 schools in the US for instance that give admissions without SAT or ACT scores.

Lamanii22:
I swear you've got it all.... That system can never work in Nigeria....

0m0nnakoda:
Are you speaking from experience or assumption?

einsteine:
This is trash.

I skipped classes twice because I was far ahead of my mates and had learned what needed to be learned at those classes at home. It would have been a waste of academic time if I had to be kept in a class when I had already covered and understood the curriculum for that class. It's the same reason some people are told to repeat classes or even demoted. Academic progress is not age related.