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You tell a lady you love her and act otherwise, they'll say action speaks louder than voice but in this situation the Op posted, seems like it's the other way round.

God go help una... You know what you want so help yourself

IntersexSherry:
i'm not happy with myself. This is not the life i struggled for. This my fu#king condition just ruined everything for me..

I see you are at advantage... Yes. Even with that condition. Think deep dear. You have what many lack and it's the willpower to succeed.

IntersexSherry:
If only i had a job, i'd be working and earning money for myself to take care of my needs and wouldn't need anyone again but securing a job been very difficult for me due to my medical condition. I had to resort into begging men online but all they do is take advantage of me and start asking for sex. Seriously, virtually all men i came across only talk about sex which makes me wonder whether they have a conscience or not. They can't help without asking for something in return, something you can't give back. All their whole chat is like poison, only dirty dirty things they know. I just keep pretending to please their needs so they can help me for money but all these really affecting my mental health. Am so tired of this world. Am so depressed

What health condition are you faced with?

Do you mind talking to a friend? We can talk things out if you don't mind sharing some of your personal information, pls check my mail and drop your contact.

Jas80:
just comment 'in' if you are interested

In

If I were to be a military personnel and maybe a senior rank officer, I'm sure I would have staged a coup to end this run of disgraceful government or democracy regimes we've been having since OBJ. It just keep getting worsened than we could have imagine.

And we're all brainwashed to believe the worst of democracy is better than the best of military rule. Let somebody tell me if we've ever had it this bad in our history under military rule....Come to think of it, the cost of running this over-hyped democracy is a torn on the flesh of the citizens on its own. You hear them borrowing as if we're about to be declared bankrupt yet there's nothing to show for the money they're borrowing.

[quote author=TerryMcGinis post=90587106][/quote]Check the link below... You should find free programming courses that might interest you there. They're all on Udemy.

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marvelphysics:
which program course do u suggest i start with cos am interested in any thing computer especially software, ai, robotics and all
and any websites, programs and all do u also suggest
can some get lyk really good work here in 9ja wit no uni only programming certificate

I know a few guys who got good programming jobs with certifications only without uni or poly cert. Mind you, programming is competence based and you're not going to be limited to Nigerian labour market alone provided you're very good at it and you've done some projects on your own to show for it. I have a friend in Malta who got a job from Nigeria and was flown there as an expatriate.

In addition to those certifications, you might wanna check British embassy website.they also run higher diploma courses in computer science which you can do on a part-time while you keep to you BDC job. That will give your CV a boost too.

As for where to start with programming, if your knack for AI is strong, you might wanna start up with Phyton or seek advice from gurus on IT section of Nairaland. They will direct you. In addition, I came across some websites that run free courses, though it might not be comprehensive but it's going to be a good start.

Chat me up on WhatsApp on 08130303131. I will add you to a group chat where you get links to those few online courses. Peace

marvelphysics:
am 19 and waiting for uni admission
am currently kind of jobless cos i just started working for a bureau de change dat wont resume until international flight resume
pls am with the laptop for sending report and no money only some data
any advice for me

Pls go and learn programming. If you have the guts, don't disturb yourself about admission if you're really focused. A year or so into your programming class, save some money and write their professional exam or certifications.

Provided you're good at it and have some of those certifications, you'll get good jobs better than those that went for BSc or HND.

petitejolie:
before then I had put in money to a kinda network biz and that one too went like that and I felt mayb cos I was dealing with a young guy and u know most young guys and girls like me are not trust worthy although I believe I’m an exception. So this time around I tot okay this biz is not the networking biz and this man is such an advanced man and wouldn’t want to fall his hand for a small girl like me. I mean I’m in my 20s and dis man is close to his 50s and he has seen millions so he’s likely not to get carried away with my hundred of thousands Atleast that’s wat I tot. And den just for d first supply he messed everything up and didn’t even return Atleast half of d money. So that has made me scared. First I’m scared cos both the young and old are the same thing and den I’m scared cos I feel well mayb I’m not meant to do bizness.

My dear, I read your first comment and the one I quoted, and what I make of it is that you have not come to terms with the real nature of human. Human being are naturally designed to fail and that's why we have laws here and there to cut short some of our excesses. Even God gave Moses the 10 commandments.

The cardinal rules for partnership is lengthy but one summary I have for it is that, watch the market you're being lured into before you end up as the stock in trade. Irrespective of age, gender or race, everybody is naturally conditioned to seize 'opportunity' and the meaning/interpretation of that word differs based on so many factors.

The crux here is that that experience should leave a positive mark on you and not what I'm perceiving now. It should teach you how to do it differently if presented with another chance (most probably with another person). Who says you can't champion the business on your own. Who says you can't write the proposals to those big companies that uses all the produce you listed as raw materials and strike a deal that will make the man become one of your errands or personal aides?

Just make lemonade from the shit life throws at you and trust me, it will look like it's all staged to happen like that in your favour.

My story plenty ooo... I pray I'm able to summarize with apt and dish out the meat at the end.

I've never been unemployed all my life. All thanks to my upbringing. I started making money as a teenager. Sold pure water and gala at different times while I was in my secondary school and I still managed to be an exceptional student in class. While waiting for admission, I ventured into repairs and sales of micro gadgets like MP3, MP4, CD Walkman player, DVD palmtop media player and so on.

Life was sweet back then. I made so much money but I was never satisfied bcuz I felt pressured to further my education just bcuz of those secondary school hype of "the boy is brilliant and the boy is good"....trust you know that kain thin.

After 2 different post UME heartbreaks, I finally settled for a polytechnic (never have I considered stepping down to a polytechnic level if not, would have been in HND1 by the time I was entering ND1). Again, I graduated well with distinction and that reassurance of my academic prowess came back.... I'm brilliant nau. While searching for a place to intern for my Industrial training, I got a 50k job offer in 2012 but I declined with my shoulder high that I'm better than that ...even as an ND holder ooo...lol

Fast forward to 2017, I quit a job that brought me so much respect and satisfaction due to my ego again... This time, I had graduated from a private University where I paid through my teeth to complete and with my reassuring self, I'd thought I was going to get another job during or after my NYSC. Luck almost shone on me during my youth service but village people at it... I lost the opportunity to a sadist after getting positive recommendation from my country director.

After my near miss at securing another job, I ventured into poultry with a substantial amount of my savings. I targeted easter period and reared boiler chickens only to receive the greatest shock of my life when market realities hits me hard. It was a year to forget as I lost close to 60% of my investment. This got me desperately in need of funds and that desperation led me to the nightmare of my life - I finally accept a 50k job after spending a million plus in a private uni to acquire BSc....mind you, I graduated well there too.

CoronaVirus came and the company (insurance) couldn't meet up with their obligations due to the effect of the pandemic on the economy. As type this, my last salary is still being owed since I was relieved of my appointment on May 18.

After all the merry-go-round of my life, I'm back at Alaba international market where it all started for me. I'm learning how to fix laptop computer (upped my game from the media players) at age 30.

All my friends and mates who were envious of my academic superiority and my exploits in the corporate world didn't know that they were allot better off being a boss of their own...all married and doing well. Mind you, even those who have the best of careers in corporate service still fall back to entrepreneurship at the end of their years of active service. So why not start early (now) and gain ground before they come back to the street and rule over you?

Chamber2000:
Shut up. No part of Igboland will ask for a conjugal bliss with the corpse.


You are rather expected to pay twice the amount for marriage rites so that others can learn lessons about the importance of doing proper marital rites with a lady instead of living together as unmarried couples

Original Igbo man spotted there. They start off by talking down their direct audience. Raining insults and tongue-lashing the weak by flaunting their superior advantage ostentatiously.

Well-done onye nna. You're doing well. ooooin!


Modified.

You have a counter argument, bring it up in a subtle manner without causing harm to the personality of the person you're addressing....

Esseite:
How does someone who came with gun trucks and armored tanks gather you for religious sermon and cajoled you to drop your arms, yet you answered..

Well the aim of the killings has been fruitful for the bandits since the Governor has arrived to approve monies for insurgency.

It's amazing that the Burutai that claimed to relocate to Bornu killing hundreds of bokoharam could not intercept the crisis for over 6hrs..

Lagos to Enugu is 6hrs
Lagos to benin is 4hrs

They also left with 40 cattles and I believe that was done by foot. You must have seen herds men with their herds and how slowly they move. Yet, none of our military intelligence could report the incident to the nearest JTF battalion for swift counterterrorism fight. After all said and done, this same state that has lost near a million of her citizens to terrorism will still report electoral votes more than so many states with relative peace. Nigeria my country!

@Confusedgirl869

I hope you read the comment made by this wonderful man below. I'm recommending you take his advice wholeheartedly bcuz he somehow touched on my story without knowing me. Am currently living in regrets of my past mistake with my ex. If only I had done more, if only I had showed her kind of zeal for marriage at the time....if only I had known I will be the one who can't live without her.

My dear, just like am counting my losses, your Mr. Perfect guy will remember you when you're long gone in your God destined husband's house seeping tea with honey. He will most likely realize all this thought of "baby mama" thing as just being childish.

There comes a time in a man's life when all that matters to him is family....to see and have people around him that he can call his own. He thinks he will remain a youngman forever. Old age will teach him the lesson of his life but trust me it will be too late. And what makes it worse at that age is being in the company of those he detest but can't confront them to tell them of his dislike for them when he realizes he's married the wrong person.

Like I tell people, life is a bad teacher. You fail but never get the opportunity to right your wrongs. It's just one life. Get it right now or regret every moment of your life. Please go for someone who shares your values about life, particularly those of marriage and family. Peace

manontree:
I have seen some situations where a couple needed advise from me. The lady said, Doc, I cant live without him. The man said, God, she is choking the life out of me. I simply want my space

A few years later, both were wrong. The lady not only moved on to a better man and better things, he realized he is the one that couldnt live without her and desperately came to me to help him win her back

You see, no man that respects you (which to me is a cardinal point in a good marriage) would ever wish this on you. He clearly dont value you nor desire being with you for life. In short, you are a stop gap to finding his life mate. Ask yourself, wont he plead for marriage the moment he sees that woman that he cant do without?

Another point, few women can give what you give. You dont ask for money, you take care of things, you love him...That's scarce commodity in today's women. If you have all these, except you look like a whale, there would literally be a long queue seeking your attention. Why settle for this?

Like someone said earlier and like the story of the couple above, a few years down the line and you would look back at this with horror about the mistake you nearly made. For truly he is a mistake

Last shot: For those slating marriage, I have been married for almost two decades, as are my friends. Too numerous to mention. Everyone is having a ball. For that one bad marriage that social media highlights, there are thousands, yes thousands, of amazing unions. Keep deceiving yourselves. Marriage is this and that. Like you arent a product of one

I know your boyfriend will regret loosing you. It's just a matter of time. I'm a guy and in that state of mind right now. He will grow up and realize it's late already. I wish you well in your next relationship bcuz you're obviously and definitely going to part ways with him. I pray you find a man you both have so many things in common with.

dedons:
This photo was found online as seen on a young food seller's waist today.

Guys need to be very careful before they sacrifice their destiny for a minute fun.

The obvious meaning of this thing she has on her waist is that those eating her food will never eat to their fill. Buy 3k food and you'll continue to long for more without eating to your fill.

To them, it's a marketing technique

No matter how terrible a northern governor is, he will still have slight sympathy for his people and that's why you drive round most parts of the northern states and you see good motorable roads compared to down south where our excessive business mindedness have made our governors see public funds as a short route to riches. Weldon to those doing well and we pray for those doing poorly that God will enter their heart to lead aright.

genbaks:
Contact me for your Sudanese ram.
We deliver nation wide

Where in Bauchi are you and how much do you sell? I need two sheep and a small ram for rearing.

Drizzy5001:
This covid 19 is becoming a scam to me , how come I no dey see pictures of Treated patients, and how were the treated when there is no medicine for it?

I don't pray you see or experience it first hand before you believe bcuz it might be too late.

Onikan stadium is just opposite Lion building, along Bony Camp if you get a bus going to Law School from CMS.

Stop by at the place and beg the security officers there to grant you access into the premises even if it is the spectators stand so you can see those in quarantine yourself. I pray you're allowed into the place and that you make it out without contracting the virus.

Best of luck

mushystuff:
How do you justify all investigation and charges against Danjuma Goje being dropped because he stepped down from contesting Senate presidency? Why won't Diezani be left alone then? Would you still be this appreciative of these hypocritical half measures of she had joined APC and started maligning the previous government she served in? Why did the Army investigation panel suddenly get disbanded without results?

To display favouritism for one over another is already a criminal offence that colours whatever investigation is bring pursued against the less favored and that has to be addressed first in order to get good, meaningful results. Once that is in place which is what APC promised, you will see more cooperation from Nigerians.

The bolded above is exactly what I meant by saying that the fight against corruption is corrupt in itself.

To be candid, you have a very good point and I'm not contesting that. If you go through the country's precedence since OBJ, you'll agree with me that most of our antigraft agancies were set up to fight political opponents and silence any of their critics.

I'm not approving a lopsided fight against corruption but it is what it is here in Nigeria and we can't shy away from the fact that our democracy is still in its primitive years and unfortunately it's going to continue like this for some decades more.

We either learn to appreciate the half bread we have and walk our way to perfection or tow the path of past administrations and watch people loot the treasuries without blinking an eye.

Ningen:
We all have a responsibility towards building a sane society. As her employer, don't turn a blind eye to her promiscuous lifestyle. She's just 21.

As such, sacking her wouldn't solve anything.
What she badly need right now is sex education.

Your wife can take that responsibility.

It's a step forward if she learns from a woman about the dangers of promiscuity & unprotected sex. Please do that for the sake of humanity.

Oh my God... Thank God the world still have your kind. May God bless you richly. I already liked your comment even before reading the 3rd line.

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Just when you're trying so hard to hold on to the thinnest thread of hope for this country, you come online and read comments such as the one below! At first, an open minded reader would think he's one of the beneficiaries of the stolen largees.... Bros, Yes all those you listed are registered or known cases but my concern is that why do you think the EFCC should follow a particular order in trying those suspects? If they choose to start with Madam, so be it.

Like I use to tell people. Yes, APC is corrupt. Yes, they're a group of refurbished PDP. Yes, the fight against corruption is corrupt in itself or lopsided. But hey! Let's appreciate there's even a one-sided fight against corruption for now. We used to have a regime where they was no shit done to curb the menace. Maybe when the table turns and power change hands, they'll be another one-sided fight against those who are there today. Then little by little, we will get there. Half bread like they say is better than poff-poff. Or would you rather they allow her go scot-free and consequently encourage the coming generations to loot once they get into public office?

Esseite:
Not a supporter of crime but wont it be best to catch the apples closest?..

Akpabio is a Minister today
Silva is a Minister today
Amaechi is a minister today
Orji Uzor is a free man today
Ganduje is still Governor today
Uduaghan is walking majestically
Shettima is a Senator today
Alphabeta case file is gathering dust
Fashola is a minister today
Osibanjo's Nema is case closed
Sidika's school feeding is closed
NSA scandal has turned to play
Obasa fresh scandal is not corruption..
Maina is chilling
Okorocha is now a Senator
Theodore Orji is a senator today..
Ajimobi is a free man..
Aregbesola is minister today..
yari is living the dream..
Goje is cruising with his lagesse..
Oshiomole is party chair today..
Babachir lawal is making press statements..
Aishas aide is strolling through the capital..

When EFCC is ready, we would all know..

EVILFOREST:
PASTORS go cry again...

You've forgotten that some of those pastors are above or about that age already...

prekumohtim:
Chelsea and Arsenal better stay away. But how come he won best player of the year in where we have Mbappe, Neymar and so many great players

I guess the best African player of the year or Lille's best player of the year. The op must have wrongly typed the caption

Inda2020:
Jonathan ethnic and religious biased appointments .
This is what they expect, but Buhari is not like them.
Proverbs 28:1 – “The wicked flee when no one pursues, but
the righteous are bold as a lion.
1. NGOZI OKONJO-IWEALA – (CHRISTIAN).
Coordinating Minister of the Economy and Minister of Finance
2. BRIGHT OKOGWU – DG Budget (CHRISTIAN).
3. EMEKA EZE – DG BPP (CHRISTIAN).
4. ARUNMA OTEH – DG SEC (CHRISTIAN).
5. OSCAR ONYEMA – DG NSE(CHRISTIAN).
6. CHIKE OBI – MD AMCON(CHRISTIAN).
7. CHINELU ONUOHA – DG PENCOM(CHRISTIAN).
8. GODWIN EMEFIELE – CBN Governor(CHRISTIAN).
9: UCHE ORJI – M D Sovereign Wealth Fund(CHRISTIAN).
10. SUNNY IROHA – DG Housing Fund(CHRISTIAN).
11. EVELYN OPUTA – MD BANK OF INDUSTRY(CHRISTIAN).
12. NNENNA ORJI – Chairman, (CHRISTIAN).Investments,
Securities Tribunal
13. ANYIM PIUS ANYIM – SGF(CHRISTIAN).
14. DR. ANTHONY ANUFOROM – NIMET(CHRISTIAN).
15. ENGR. ANDREW YAKUBU – NNPC(CHRISTIAN).
16. PATRICK APOBOLOKEMI – NIMASA
17. MRS. CHINEBO ANOHU AMAZU – PENCOM(CHRISTIAN).
18. ENGR. CHUKWU AMUCHI – FERMA(CHRISTIAN).
19. MR. GEORGE OSAHON – DPR(CHRISTIAN).
20. MRS. EVELYN OPUTU – Bank of Industry(CHRISTIAN).
21. ERNEST NWANPA – Nigerian Content Dev. Agency
(CHRISTIAN).
22.MRS. DUPE ATOKI – Consumer Protection Agency
(CHRISTIAN).
23. ENGR. EUGENE JUWAH – NCC(CHRISTIAN).
24. ENGR. NNAMDI UDOH – NAMA(CHRISTIAN).
25. ENGR. AKIKUOTU – NCAA(CHRISTIAN).
26. GEORGE URIESI – FAAN(CHRISTIAN).
27. CAPT. CHINERE KALU – NCATY(CHRISTIAN).
28. DR. PAUL ORHII – NAFDAC(CHRIS

Are you trying to justify being insane with madness ni? Or should I ask if your head is paining you ni? Most you justify one wrong with another? Why are we like this in this country for crying out loud!

Who did we offend and how did we get here....!

So bcuz Shekarau and BH is pursuing a crazy agenda, that should justify your reason to set up your own madness camp... Why aren't we emulators of good deeds for God's sake?

Bad thing is that we'll all suffer from this continuous madness and the irony is that those from the favoured region suffers the most.

amc:
Lies! Lies! Lies! Lies! All Muslim top 20 executives in NNPC?

But sadly, some people will believe it.

At the top of the NNPC company structure(the 5 Autonomous Business Units (ABUs)​, there are 3 Southerners.

COO, Ventures and Business Development Directorate - Roland Onoriode Ewubare
COO, NNPC Downstream - Lawrencia Nwadiabuwa Ndupu
COO, NNPC Upstream - Adeyemi Adetunji

MDs of some NNPC subsidiaries that are from the South

Catherine Ngozi Iheme (MD NETCO)
Babatunde Bakare (MD NGPTC)
Ada Oyetunde (MD NPSC)
Sir Billy Okoye (MD NNPC Retail)
Christiana U. Onabu (MD NIDAS)
Diepriye Tariah (MD IDSL)
Ezekiel Osarolube (Kaduna Refining and Petrochemical Company)

Some GGMs of Divisions

Kennie Obateru (GGM Public Affairs)
Adokie Tombomieye (GGM Crude Oil Marketing)
Bola Afolabi (GGM Research & Development Division)

For argument sake, let's agree that you're right. Pls do the maths and give us the percentage of the personnels per tribe based on those you listed and those posted by the op.

We should be protesting extreme nepotism such as this but for where, Nigerias are affiliated with suffering and smiling. People like you will still have the boldness to defend mediocrity

amadiwati:
Drop your email address

mojeed.a.sulaiman@gmail.com

Horbar1:
Good morning house, hope we had a great night ?

Updated price for today


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Sayed #320
Amo #310
Chi #310
Tuns #310
Plain Carton #300

*Pullets*
Agrited #270
Chi #270
Amo #270
Funtes #270
Olam #260

*Noilers*
#200

*Local Turkeys* #550

*Foreign Turkeys* #1650

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What's the difference between a White Cockerel and the Black ones. Why the wide difference in price? Just asking to know. #135 to #30 is too wide a gap.

I'm planning to buy both the local and foreign turkeys (never tried their day olds before). 7 to 3 of those and 25 apiece of both the white and black Cockerels. Then 10 Noilers.... I'm based in Lagos. Chat me up on 08130303131. Lemme know your price.

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Xposed2020:
The Solution to this problem is very simple.
Government should establish Almajiri schools on ground not on paper that over 100 were created but in reality, only about 5 were built e.g. Azare in Bauchi, Katsina and 3 other states.

Its going to be an investment, job opportunity, source of foreign exchange, food security, wrong indoctrination will be avoided ( bokoharam), etc.

I sent these suggestions to some governors but they are not visionary leaders.

- Get a vast expanse of land.
- Conduct soil analysis to know which crop best suits the soil there.
- Build Almajiri schools with Western education sections for the poor.
- Now the children will be entitled to free education (both western and Islamic).
- The children will farm at a particular period, go for western classes, rest, farm, rest, Islamic classes etc.
- Get Govt Agriculture extension workers to keep such schools abreast will new findings, modern techniques, remedies, pest & disease control measures and at the same time supervise the schools.
- The harvest; some will be stored for feeding for the year, some for government to help export, govt will likewise tax such schools so no begger on the streets.
- Post bills containing designated bank accounts in banks or public places to those intending to support the Almajiri with any amount.
- enact law to proscribe begging and penalty for anyone giving alms on the streets.
- On graduation, an individual is already trained & conversant with farming as such can venture into it and not be a liability or searching for job.
- There should be stipends saved for the boys and should be given to them on graduation.
- The kids will not send anything home to their parents since it is the responsibility of the parents to take care of them and not the other way round.
- likewise beggers can have a home as the Almajiris for skill acquisitions and aided by the wealthy through designated banks.

WHEN IT'S TIME TO VOTE, THE ELIGIBLE ONES WILL MOVE TO POLLING UNITS TO EXERCISE THEIR FRANCHISE AND BACK TO THEIR SCHOOL.

You mean you sent all of these to a northern governor? Sorry to speak in this tone but almajiri system is a mechanism for electoral malpractices and population sensors hike.

If a properly managed system was to be in place, the world would know their exact number and age, and with that, they can be easily monitored. But that's not what they want. It won't favour their political agenda.

Their ruling class are perfectly okay with the status quo and they're ready to defend it any day any time