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Iyaebethegreat

They are calling you....u said u have chnaged...
Shaa dont go and shout tinubu's name on the altar

etrange:
Dude, it's not about whether he's innocent to the world or any judge. I said if he himself believes he didn't do anything wrong, would he have continued? .

Yes he may have continued the relationship ..if he felt she's just over reacting...

besides..proposing now may mean its something he wanted to do initially ....so her mover reacting ddnt chnage his decision to propose........proposing might also be his way of apologizng and showing he doesnt just want sex from her but marriage

etrange:
I didn't define rape. The definition of rape has nothing to do with my question. Someone accused you of raping her and even went ahead to tell her friend. If you were really innocent, would continue your relationship with such a person to the point of proposing marriage to her? Would you want to marry such a terrible lier? Let's be honest, the only thing that'd make you do that is if you know she wasn't just lying against you.

Technically...He's not innocent cos she said she raped her.....is this new to you??..u know how rape works these days...its her words against his...

So now she's back to continue...he probably felt she's not serious about rape thing and just over reacting to make his action look like an offence cos she wasnt interested .... until she starts saying she cant trust him with his own kid...

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etrange:
@bolded, have you ever seen a truly innocent man accused of rape still go ahead with the relationship and even propose marriage to the accuser? In my imperfect opinion, that reeks of guilt. Relationship is one thing, marriage is another. If the OP did something to her, I see reasons why she'd be skeptical about committing to him forever even after forgiving him. Again, it's just an opinion.

All this new generation definition of rape, and behavior of the supposed rape victim.....me i shaa know say my hand no dey......

Sime pple sont have shame...Later they will start crying about faithfulness..
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How can u steal someone's husband and expect him to be faithful....is it not his adultrous trait that made it possible for u to get him in the first place.....

Sunwa1:
Hello Romancelanders,

There's is this lady I have been in relationship with since last year. The relationship wasn't that defined but it was a romantic one (kissing and smooshing), you know how it goes sometimes, that you have to struggle with the lady while making moves and eventually she will give in to your romantic demands.

It has been like that for a while but something eventful happened sometime in October last year, while we were deep in romance, i made moves to have sex with her but she resisted but her resistance wasn't that convincing, though she released herself to me but kept asking me to stop, but at that point I was deeply carried away and even thought it was her normal way of struggling with me anytime I made moves on her. Some how, I had my way, i had sex with her without any physical resistance from her aside the shouts of "please stop".

Alas, when I was done with the act, she started crying and I felt so bad because I honestly taught we were in the game together.

My greatest shock was when one of her friend's called me and said her friend said I raped her and that changed the whole narratives and projected me as a rapist. I was afraid because I know the consequences of such accusation but somehow the matter died down after a while and we continued where we stopped though we never had sex again.

My challenge now is that the lady often says she dosent trust me and CANNOT trust me with her female friends, sisters or even our daughter if we get married.

I proposed to marry her just a couple of weeks ago, she's is yet to respond but I fear that the impression she has about me being a rapist and that she can't trust me with our daughter might affect our home if we eventually get married.

I want her but I just fear that this trust issue will cause a lot of havoc which might negatively impact on our marriage in future.

Please, I need your advice especially from the ladies.

Should I go ahead with my plans to marry this lady especially considering the fact that I'm a very emotional person.

Please, shoot your shots without insults.

Will be at the comment session.

Thanks.

u don see woman wey dey come back to date the man that raped her if she was truly raped?


She dey manipulate you.....she be pro....
She has kept u under leash....before u cough anyhow or talk too much...trying to behave like man of the house........or demand for sex when she's withholding....remeber u are now rapist

She has that joker card to play anytime...

Run away man...
Runaway and never return

The sarcasm is clear....


But i guess some pple dont just see sarcasm

FREDCLSSICO7:
I just dey pity you
you want give ur fellow man money dey there dey play

advanceDna please a word of advice for this SIMPle man before it's too late

Baba.... today na 5th..the matter don fly naaa since yesterday...so no need for medicine after death...e go don pay since..

...besides that guy simping na factory fitted ...then no dey change vehicle VIN.

History555:
This bridge and adjoining roads is 182 km. 2nd niger bridge and adjoining roads is 17km. Yet this bridge and adjoining roads is cost 56 billion but 2nd niger bridge costs 175 billion

Lol.....wellcome to nigeria

chy55:
Thank you for your explanations. I appreciate.

I don't know if COVID Certificate is compulsory because I don't have.

If u have done ur double vaccination ..no need for covid cert....
Its pple that ddnt do vaccination and need to travel urgently that may want to have a covid test just to be on the safe side... like i said, countries / airlines are not stressing about it

karixz:
Can I apply for a 3 year visa after I’ve been given 5 years COS?

I guess so

Elmojiid:
You shall reap what you sow, she's now a trash that you want to discard.. I weep for her.

Why una dey like to paint women as innocent victims btw two adults having consentual sex..

The funniest part is women do this all the time too...they leave ur broke ass when they see another spender or someone they like.... yet they call u cry cry baby when u say they dump u after collecting ur money ...because u guys make them feel spreading legs is a huge help dey did for u....

Shapeaso:
Wahala for leaders wey dey collect from behind in their dark rooms. Hmmm.. God is watching them.

Is that not what sex was meant to be in the first place: "a private, dark room matter"

But the world suddenly became sexually mad,
and "just to cum" became an identity..... a topic being discussed in parliment/ house of assemblies while the world is dying....

Some of these pple just like to hide behind their religion to do evil......As long as u are an infidel to them... they will justify any evil they do to you.....hence this boko haram or iswap banditry will never end...

Facelessforum1:
Please I need urgent advice now before she comes online tomorrow. 😔 This girl loves me so much, she goes the extra mile to make me happy. I am suppose to tell her to be my girlfriend which is what she is waiting for me to say . But wen I consider my current situation, I don't think I am that comfortable to welcome life pertiner .

For long me and her have been friends, and our chats are always like we are dating. All kind of sweet words from her keeps me motivated. All kind of sweet names from her . But I can't date her ri now . It is just painful 😣 I can't take care of myself right now talk more of another 😫 . Pls what should I do

I cant remember the last time i officially asked a babe out jst to start a relationship ....sounds like a secondary school thing.... women no too get wahala if u sabi spontaneous build up of romatic interest and sexual tension around una two...na one deep kiss go kick start everything ....

Shebi u dey wait for money.. ...dey wait dey go naaa......u fit wait like six months ...by then, tinubu go soon remove fuel subsidy...

The babe don already gbadún you....but You dey make her feel u dont deserve her broke ass without having money..... be like u go get simping gene for body

chy55:
Please house, I need some clarifications on these

1. What are the documents required at the
airport (Nigeria) before travelling?

2. Do they ask any questions in Nigerian
airport while checking in?

3. What do they request at the POE?

4. What are the likely questions asked at the
POE?

5. Someone traveling by Rwandair, is their
anything that will be required at the airport
in Rwanda.

1.U just need Ur passport and ticket...
just to be on the safe side...hold ur covid certificate/vaccination card..though countries and airlines are not stressing about it again...

2... No..
..check ur bags in...package well..weigh before u go.....other wise u will be madly exploited.
.hold 2k for immigrations if u have .....i like to belittle them since they like to belittle them selves for small change

3...ur passport and visa...BRP.....

4. Be confident....they have no reason to poke u much....but they do so these days to see if they can make someone jittery and decipher ur job na street....

.here are some question...

How did u get the job?... ans: existing employee referal...if u apllied online ...say u applied on line

Your employment letter...show them if u have a hard copy...if not, tell them ur phone is dead..

What do u do before this job...if u are in health care.....ur answer shouldnt raise extra questions...

....If not ....just say the job u were doing before now....... if u are further poked why u chose a care job now... just say u are looking to transition to the health niche and the care role is a good starting/stepping stone for you....

5... rwanda air no get wahala...hold ur passport...ticket.. and covid certificate... u go dey alright...

lhordspy:
NATO keep projecting themselves as peace maker but in real sense; they are the real troublemaker, the aggressor.

You are trying to encircle Russia with nuclear weapons by expanding along its border, placing weapons in its surrounding country and you expect Russia to fold its hand, close its eyes and go to sleep?

Something the Hypocritical Un!ted State wont take from anyone. A country that almost nuked its neighbour; Cuba in 1962, just because Russia started building military base there. If not for Russia pulling out and allowing peace to reign. Cuba would have evaporated into dust by now just like Hiroshima and Nagasaki (both nuked by this same US).

What of Nicaragua, Venezuela and some other countries bordering US, dealing with Russia in weapon trade. They are under heavy sanctions from un!ted state just for that. Cuba cant even import cocaa cola. One out of the two countries in the world where coca colaa is not in the market. Just because of Un!ted state sanction.

Something the U.S cant take, they go around dishing it to others. Afterall they control the media and the mind of the people. All they had to do is spin the narratives like they are doing the world a favour by trying to create unrest and war everywhere.

Peacemaker indeed.

Russia has resources and they claim they are rich....they too should expand their alliance and WARSAW Pact and stop wailing like a baby when US expand its NATO reach......

Both russia and US are just bullies flexing muscles against smaller nations..... why not bomb each other instead of attcking small nations for forming alliance

[quote author=Osa4 post=122289891][/quote]It depwnda on the employer....it coats money to sponaor..my brothers COS ddnt cover his wife and kid....

Bostin:
Entertainment is fine I thought it was Agriculture .

U like vawulence...why are u thinking what the ddnt say...

muyiwa0592:
My wife COS came with A month free accommodation and a month free bus transportation to work..With this please we still need prove of funds

If ur employer has confirmed he ticked yes to support ur wife and ur family for POF on ur COS.......that means u wont need POF again....

Please ....make sure u confirm correctly...we have seen where only the main application is coveted with POF....while some all the family did not need to submit pof...

Eky29:
Now I get it.
Thank you Advance DNA

One more thing, I was supposed to start work in October 2o22 to finish in April 2o23. That 6months which is the duration of the Temporary Worker visa

We are already in April and the visa is yet to be out, do you think this can affect my visa approval?

quote author=advanceDNA post=122287642]

If it is written that way on ur employment contract....ukvi might deny you..but not before contacting the employer....
..usually because its a job and not a univeriaty course other's may have started.....an employer can easily adjust the period of your job if they really want you........what they do is contact the employer to respond if he wants to change the duration of ur engagement or the job is no longer available since the time of resuming has significantly passed....... basically ur employer will determine if u are still going to enter uk or not.....

IyaebeTheGreat:
Long overdue , in a saner clime he will be behind bars.

U are evil... behind bars for contesting result..

Na lecturer like u go dey threaten fire and brime stone because student call for remark of his or her script...

U pple know how to call saner clime... can tinubu even be contesting in saner clime.....

Lai mohammed......
Its like they employed this man to tell lies...
And he's always happy and in a hurry to do so.......

[quote author=Eky29 post=122284989]COS expiration only means u must submit the application before it expires...once u submit , u are in the clear....even if ur application takes long and the COS expires before decision is made.....e no matter

What u should be waiting for is outcome of ur application.....send more paid mail to worry them....them go answer you

Hermeknorr:
Good morning everyone, please I have a ask. What's the difference between a 3yrs COS and a 5yrs COS. Which one is more better for settlement purpose

Weda 3 yrs or 5 yrs...u are at the mercy of ur employer.....if an employer loses licence, hope u know the employee has to leave uk if they dont get another sponsor quickly... so its not like ur 5yrs visa is transferable to another employer

So the goal is to get something more permanent and sustainable as quik as possible....many pple that entered through a sponsor for 5 years no longer works for that employer anymore.....
...cos all these fire brigade sponsors can decide to not renew their sponsor licence after they have raked in enough £....

.can u even pack oyinbo shít for 5 years even if u are sponsored for 5 years...??

Portlouis:
No fault indeed.

Let us learn to always say the truth for once na.

Naija used corolla 03 with no fault?

Abeg tell me something else.

Must it be 2.6M fir it not to have fault??

Coloredsg:
Scam
Scam
Scam.
No one should fall for this.
This guy is a known scammer always changing usernames.

The guy don knack you?? I dont know why mods no dey delete their post

Mati1111:
Ever since I came to the Lagos i have been looking for a genuine pastor or church where I can go for deliverance, i need a place where i can go for spiritual consultation and prayers, (some of us need only God and spiritual back up to survive) but I can't see. Please can someone recommend one. Please this is important and urgent.

Thanks

U just dey find pple wey go scam u.....
Stay ur house...
Pray well....
Read ur bible...
.become born again and simcerely obey the commandments of God through Jesus....u will enjoy grace and favor from God greater than problem and battles...... problem, enemies and battles no dey finish ....... no let anynody scam u with deliverance

ogorwyne:
Come on!

U pple too like vawulence for this forum....

Temioolajide:
Good evening everyone
I'm in regrets now
I've sore never to touch alcohol

Today I sipped some Irish cream drink for little confidence for a presentation in class
Then I sat next to this girl... my friend and course mate then we got talking and she started asking if I took alcohol
Tho I'm an introvert and don't talk much but surprisingly I noticed I was flowing well with her
I had to excuse myself to the toilet to wash my mouth properly
Now it feels awkward when I see her.
Pls what can I do to get over the shame
Thanks

U have simping gene in you body..na so e dey start....being awkward around women for no reason.......
U ddnt offend her....yet u are feeling embarassed .....mayb she's even thinking u are cool guy but u dey belittle urself, worshipping her aśś...
Mayb u dont know ...bad boy vibes dey attract most girls...