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Andres28:
There has been no joy in me for over 3 days now

Farano, dominique, Rockstation move this piece to front page.

A woman told u live she has feeling for someone else and fvcked him..but u are still asking us question if u should forgive....u supposed don realize u are not top on the list of her heart....

If u like, forgive.
If u like, dont forgive..
. my own is no lose in multiple ways by spensing hard earned money while another nigga is offine pant....one penis no do most of these babes ....

.u cant control who a woman will spread her legs for....the only thing u can control is exploitation.... no lose guard....

IyaebeTheGreat:
Fathers are too important sef, me I love my father way more than mom. Both are very important please.

Dey disguise

JovialJune:
Lol werey

.so u go laff las las??....nairaland women!!! Always forming hard over small cruise wey no ean anything .......


Vawulence is easy........

Werey ni gbó gbó wá las las

JovialJune:
A slow human like you will never see beyond his nose, comprehension is obviously far from you, same with understanding, reason why you had to make it a gender thing, because your brain can't think beyond that.....that's why I called you daft, because you are daft...hope you get it now.

E pain that much.... eyaaa...oya no vex....lets kiss and make up

mightyjj:
Does ecctis evaluation delivery address matters in UK visa application? My wife used her father's home address instead of our current address we are using for application?

Lol....if u see any hard copy delivery make i bend

JovialJune:
Daft.

E pain am......she quickly result to insult: the exact reason i ddnt bother to indulge u when jumped into my mention..
Very small ram....u cant see and undertsand context a comment stemmed out of... i apologize if this may sound like an insult..thats not my intent.....but there's no better way to tell u u are not worth my time

SundayNightGist:

Hmmn!
You seem to have a point though, just that you're too aggressive with your reply
So wetin you dey talk now be say once igboro forever igboro? Abi bee ko baba mi?

Vawulence only...no time for peace....

JovialJune:
What format? She said she doesn't want to come back to him as she is pregnant, both of them are basically on the same page, so how exactly are women vindictive or stressful? Are women the Op's girlfriend? Or you just love to gloat baselessly?

Yawn!!!!!

osesology:
. Should I allow her to go to her parents house and send money over for their upkeep monthly or s there any other suggestion that I can work on? Pls, I need your advice. Thanks

U broke up before she came out with the pregnancy issue the next day......and all of a sudden she's leaving town to her mother's place and not coming back..... lol....see format.


U go pay for breaking up....women are always vindictive...as long as they are not the one that initiated break up......them must stress u.....

ogoloray:
Who knows how long TB test is valid for, before it expires?

6 months

...

Orí gbó gbó yin tí darú .....you are now crying for faithfulness...y'all suddenly think a ring on ur finger and a marriage certificate u signed on saturday will suddenly make you sexually disciplined and have happy homes... with ur 30 body counts ....lol

There's no settling down kán kán for any of you....... ..both men and women....that's the reality we all created

adeloly:
Dear Nairalanders

Please could make someone to be sick within 24hours of sex
A serious sickness

A good suggestion will be highly appreciated here

Thanks

The Man or woman ?

izombie:
Ok, i dey ask because i have lived outside Nigeria for 15 years and i have never heard anyone mention genotype when it comes to having kids. Here, women give birth how they please without even getting married and i have never seen a sickler or heard of a sickler. But for naija everything na genotype.
Is it only in nigeria that people get this genotype issue?
People living outside naija let's hear about where you are too.

The sickle cell wahala is more common among blacks or races with higher menalin .... its not common in white pple.....i dont know which country u dey..but its an issue in America too..but still among blacks

the west made us believe that while the world faced the malaria problem at some point.... blacks mostly "suffered" the mutation as coping mechanism to resist malaria infection....

There are conspiracy theories from some pple ..that a vaccine was developed many years ago when malaria was a terrorist around the world but was secretly tested on some continents causing the mutation and spread to subsequent generation and also the reason only very few whites have it.

..but its just conspiracy theories..... white people cant be that wicked

frozen70:
Go back and read the post from the beginning

Then understand the cost of getting to 4 children through that medical procedure

....U dont have to answer if u dont want.....cos i dont get why you are condescending over nothing

OboOlora:
Those things are £4 each at Home Bargain

Won ti gbe werey ni handicap

Lol......una too like vawulence for this forum

ufotty2001:
Is it right to set up a lady after Marriage. I keep asking myself these questions.
At 28yrs as a lady u don't have a career?
What have you been doing for the past 15yrs
I met a beautiful girl yesterday with good character but she has no career or any business ideas. She told me that she will love to go to school..I love this girl and I wish to marry her but my problem is that I want to enroll her in University. I keep asking her what have you been doing when you were young.? She said that her parents are poor.. that they were unable to enroll her in University

Una don start....there are many graduates out there u can marry..... dont send a woman to college with the mind set they will be loyal or love you.....pple usually have a changed mentality after a passing through university.....its normal.......their perspective, wants, desires, direction can change.... no come here come dey call somebody daughter ungrateful...

if u want to do it with ur church mind ... no wahala....

Syntaxbyte:
Hi fam.
I realized that I have a small John Tomas(d*ck).
Although, I usually last longer for like 25 minutes when having sex. But my girlfriend is complaining of not feeling it(No, she's not that deep in my opinion 😏).

The real deal is my d"ck is 5inches when erected but looks like that of 10 years of boy when not erected. I mean very very small to my age 😑😒.


Please is there any natural way I can increase or make it big extra.

It's tiny and small 🙆🙆

Please help with suggestions and solutions

Thanks in advance 🙏

Bros...Ordinary finger can make some women cum.... dont kill yourself becos of vagina u did not contribute to the wideness.... some of these women have been fvcking yam, and cassava size since age 14.....u cant satisfy some women take it or leave it....

dont stress it...find ur level and be at peace with the peniś nature furnished u with

sacajawea:
No amount of Social engineering, dating Jobs, all of the above, will give you $2M

Whats ur point

frozen70:
For the fact that you are satisfied staying with her for the rest of your life

Pls follow your heart so that you will be satisfied for thr choice you made

In the issue of child bearing, you musnt go up to 4 children unless you love children

So now you are aware of the medical procedure that awaits you any time she is pregnant,

Start saving towards that from now and carry her along so that she too will contribute what she can

If they have 4 children what will happen??

rottennaija:
Guy, don't stress yourself. If you can foot the bill, whenever your woman and you are ready, be smart about it. Go for artificial insemination. Let them chose the best sperm and the best egg, insert in her and she carries it to term. It's going to a be a lot easier than the option they gave you, cheaper with less trauma.

Cheaper?? Lol...bros u dont know what u are saying... genetic sorting is costlier than ivf and they dont even do it nigeria

DMerciful:
Don't take pride in ignorance, accept correction and move on.

What exatly did u correct me on??

....u mentioned 1/4 saying u calibrate me without making any point per se... i responded to you explaining the implication of 25% emphasizing the risk whether its 25% for AA amd SS or 50 for AS......yet u said u corrected me....on what did u correct me on exactly??

Vitalist:
This is a foolish comment. Termination of pregnancy for medical reasons is allowed worldwide. Its saves the unborn child from life long health challenges and low quality of life. The mother and father are also saved from the emotional and financial challenges of bringing a child to hospital every other day.
Somebody's daughter will not be doing abortion by her self. It will be done by specialist doctors and it is very safe.

O gbadun rárá..... defining generally what abortion is one thing....Expecting a woman to be going through it until they will get an AA or AS is a different ball game...
Do u know how many abortions she will have to do before they get the genotype they wants

DMerciful:
1/4=25%, it doesn't mean 1 out of 4 children but a probability of 1 out of 4 possible outcomes. You really need the calibration

Lol......na me make mistake they respond to you

Discountsempai:
If I understand the guy, they would probably do IVF, and the fetus would be tested before implantation. If it is SS, it won't be implanted.

(Of course, there is the issue that IVF does not always work first time out, but that is another story)

..lol....do u realize the fusion of the egg and the sperm has to be placed back into the woman maximum 3 days......u are talking of advance genetic testing ....its fvcking expensive and i doubt its in nigeria...ivf alone is over 2M not to metion the genetic testing of feotus....

The one they do in nigeria is testing a feotus that has significantly developed in the womb and its not advisable poking a growing feotus at that stage

My hand no dey oooo...

DMerciful:
The probability of getting a sickler is 1/4, just to calibrate you. However, he should have broken the relationship before it started by asking the right questions

Calibrate me?? Lol....guy...Try not to sound condescending because u want to pass a point to someone u dont know....

U are mentioning 1/4 probability but u have no knowlege of how the body makes its gene selection outcome during embryogenesis...

..in reality, the 1/4 probability used in secondary school biology is rightly stated as 25% probability..... because humans can birth more than 4 children at once or at different birthing cycles........whats worse is that the body can choose out of the probability pool of 25 AA, 50 AS and 25 SS whenever it wants cos embryogenesis is on autopilot...

So ....two AS couples can have 3 children and they can all be AS, SS, or AA... they can also be mixed..

.news flash... my aunts 3 children are all SS...

EriMma1:
I'm not saying he should empty his purse for her. A little cash from time to time will go a long way. It will make her feel cherished and loved.

Feel Cherished and love?? 21st century women ....until a man kill himself...u pple wont feel loved... ..


....he is already funding the home alone without her input....but she doesnt see it as anything.......placing her on a seperate salary wont make her see shít cos she is an unkind and entitled person.....

..they are never satisfied and will always feel u should give them more even though they already have their own...

hakeemhakeem:
Give her 3% of your salary so that you can have peace of mind, it not argued but applied wisdom. Any month some unexpected expenses Skip it heaven will not fall

There is no point......he cannot have peace living with an unkind an entitled person if he doeant put his foot down about such issues..

..u can never satisfy such pple...she doesnt see he's doing enough ..she can never see it ..no matter what he does........ small time, she will start streaaing him for monthly salary for her own parents....

ZionPriest:
Don't you guys discuss things like this while you are dating? or una just dey knack without proper arrangements.

How will you be able to save if you are the only one giving your 100%?

Guys dont know these thing are now worth discussing.... they just assume a woman should automatically be reasonable and be supportive in marriage....not knowing some pple are just unkind and entitled......

.worst part is pple dont look out or dont know how to identify for small but significant redflags....

Femmyfamous4u:
Hello all, I need to know if I'm doing some things right or over reacting.

My wife and I just married some months ago and we just spend here and there on stuffs. I bought food stuffs in the house and told her I will place her on 40k monthly to cover for soups and all and I expect her to add to it if it's not enough.

I foot all bills- house rent, Power, and all . She earns a decent 6 figures salary also which is slightly higher than mine without the allowances I get.

She expects me to still give her another allowance apart from the 49k I give her for food.

Each time she buys stuff in the house she always want me to pay back in full; most times, I just pay a part of it which she always frowns and complains about.

It appears she has a notion that her money is her money and mine is ours.

My income is more than hers though.

Do you think I should still give her personal pocket money?

U married an unkind woman...m u are on ur own in that marriage.... restrategize... otherwise u wont have anything to show years to come....

Dajú
Kalá
Rúnjúpá
Lèjúpá
Wuwa iká...

Chimok:
What's wrong with Obi in continuation of a campaign he has transversed the length and breadth of the country asking Bishop Oyedepo who has became a friend in the same journey to rescue Nigeria and Nigerians from the demons that have continued to suck the life out of Nigeria to help him in his mission.. Is that close to Tinubu assembling fake bishops to endorse him or is that as bad as running on Muslim-Muslim ticket to get the northern votes.

This country and her people are so sick

I guess they are looking for what to to use to arrest him for interim government accusation they cooked up....

When they ddnt find any....they want to accuse him of speaking to a pastor.... whats funny is the obi lost....why are the winners still dragging the losing side

ultimateprof:
Respect to the senior man!

Baba.....na only God be senior ooo...

scanner1000:
Good afternoon and happy Sunday..

Please I have something bothering me for a long time now. It's about my girlfriend not accepting to have intimacy with me, saying we should marry first.. I'm a young man trying to stand firm before thinking about marriage.. But she do pressure me on marriage since I'm always disturbing her for sex. Although she is a virgin which I have confirm.. She is a hardworking gal and independent. She hardly ask me for money and even whn I get money I hardly give her base on sex issues.. I have been celibate for about two years now and I'm not d type dat Bleep around.. She visited me dis January we only romance and I almost force myself inside her.. So I'm planning to visit her but she said no romance or sex and we are on a distance relationship. I base in Edo state while she base in Ondo state . So I feel transportation to visit her is a waste because no fun.. Just talking talking with high transportation too..

Pls I need advice and don't mind my grammatical errors.

Oga...u confirm say she be virgin....??
You also confirm u are not ready for marriage but u want to be chopping her for free...??

E no proper naaa....u want make another person daughter lose guard for you run am street......

. find babe like urself wey dey open to chopping each other before marriage and do each anyhow...

If u are now ready and u no gree marry am again...which account u want make she write ur body count....u dey even talk like say u be victim....... e be like u dey ment..