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You want an honest opinion?

Break up, even if she changes today. In fact, especially if she changes. Such a change is transient by design. It cannot last.

This respect is really important to you, and it affects your mood. It is a deal breaker. So, dump her.

Stop dating feminists if you cannot stand them.

Fadomero:
I don't get it what rubbish bill is that the solution to the poverty in the land

Is this the only bill you have seen this year? Or are you deliberately ignorant? Perhaps you should follow the National Assembly on social media so you can keep track of its activities. Little bits of information would help shape your opinion of the legislature. That way you won’t sound like an ignoramus anymore.

CanadaOrBust:
Buhari’s name must also be in the register, so also all those Northern pedophiles who marry 10-year-olds. Of course I was being tongue-in-cheek.

Actually Cosby did not confess. See what the article says:

“However, Cosby did not admit to any criminal activity in the documents; the deposition was taken as part of a lawsuit filed by Andrea Constand, a Temple University employee who said Cosby molested her. The lawsuit was settled out of court.

Cosby has denied all wrongdoing and has never been charged with a crime, and he and his representatives have steadfastly denied the assault claims by a succession of women. He said in his deposition that he gave Constand only three half-pills of Benadryl, an over-the-counter allergy medication.”

Lol. I don’t know your source but my own source is one of the jurors who gave the guilty verdict. His disposition was the nail in the coffin. It was what helped establish his pattern as fact. Lol. Me I can’t continue arguing with you. Believe whatever you want. Here’s the link. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vulture.com/amp/2018/04/cosbys-damning-deposition-led-to-guilty-verdict-says-juror.html


Also, do you have proof Buhari married a minor? Cos the Bio of the First Lady says otherwise. You might wish with all your heart that something would be true but that doesn’t make it so.

Drlance, I suppose swear for you but let me pity you small.

Give yourself brain. Run away from blast from the past. She came back because she thought you’re stupîd and you are so eager to prove her right. Open your brain.

Such a violent idiotîc woman.

Hope she rots in jail

CanadaOrBust:
Notice how long ago all the assaults happened, yet guy is currently in jail serving 10 years

Nov. 13, 2014 Bowman, who first publicly accused Cosby of sexual assault in 2006 and was a witness in Constand's lawsuit, wrote an op-ed in The Washington Post titled "Bill Cosby raped me. Why did it take 30 years for people to believe my story?" Two days later, when asked about the charges on NPR's "Weekend Edition," Cosby stays silent.

Nov. 16, 2014 A new accuser, Joan Tarshis, told CNN that Cosby drugged and assaulted her on two occasions in 1969.

Nov. 17, 2014 Linda Joy Traitz, a former waitress at a restaurant owned in part by Cosby, wrote a long Facebook post accusing him of trying to drug her in the early '70s.

Nov. 18, 2014 Janice Dickinson told "Entertainment Tonight" that he drugged and raped her in 1982.

Nov. 20, 2014 Theresa Serignese comes forward as the seventh woman to accuse Cosby of sexual assault, saying that he drugged and assaulted her in 1976. His attorneys dismiss Serignese's and others' accusations as "decades old, discredited" accounts.

The only concrete evidence against Cosby was his own confession in a sealed 2005 deposition. That was what lent the accusers credibility, that was what nailed him.

Conversely, this Pastor has not confessed anything on record. He hasn’t even been charged for rape yet. His name can’t enter any register.

CanadaOrBust:
I’m nowhere near Canada
Look, we’ll never be 100% certain of anything - that’s the nature of our universe, but at a point u need to stop splitting hairs and use your nature-given common sense to deduce what is likely true:

If u r angry with someone and lie against them, that anger will quickly dissipate because u know u r lying. Also it is human nature to NOT want to have to repeat a lie. If after 17 years the anger still persists and the person (without having to) repeats the same story to an even wider audience, it is very likely they are telling the truth

Hmmm. I understand your point. Not sure if unproven accusations should be enough to register someone as a sex offender. Not like she has even charged him with a rape case. So? Anyway, this register is a good development.

If sex is important to you, my brother break up with her.

You people nor dey hear word.

Stop wasting time trying to enjoy nakking circumcised babes. It’s like fetching water inside a basket. Na you go tire.


But really, who are the people still circumcising ladies these days? Is it not a criminal offence?

The lady said the 30K is December promo price.



See as they soak woman inside vat like livestock. Chai.

Nairaland babes, over to you.

Instant body wash, wash away your melanin today.

Women.

But men are scum, right? Lock her up and throw away the key.

It’s obvious his lady doesn’t view marriage the same way her husband does.

The desperation to shame guys

Fun fact 101:

A 60 year old single papi is infinitely more likely to get laid before a 30 year old misandrist.


Fun fact 102:

Same Old pops will find beautiful young or old ladies to marry and still handle them well in the other room. Chances for a 60 year old woman to do the same? Most likely Zilch.


Look, you ladies are essentially different from men. Don’t stress yourself measuring dicks with us cos you don’t even have balls to start with. We are not the source of your woes.

Lol. WTF is this?

CanadaOrBust:
I don’t know what u r talking about

But seriously, he is lucky he is in Nigeria. In US he’d be in jail. GUARANTEED!

Lol. Maybe that’s how you people do in Canada.

CanadaOrBust:
If a certain pastor’s name is not there then it is not complete

The reason you didn’t mention his name outright, is the same reason he shouldn’t be listed there.

No conviction. His accuser sued him for damages and he still won. But you want to list him there? Don’t get ahead of yourself.

Heineken:
I respect you sir

I’m honoured boss. Enjoy.

obxddon:
How wicked can you be by displaying this pic.... Are sure you want to make heaven with this temptation... Ice chilled beer......ojigbijigbi

Respect55, well done. You have performed a feat to remain composed in the face of such betrayal. Bravo.

By now, you must have realised that the way you respected her body is definitely not how that guy “respects” her body. She is most probably sexually active with him.

This is why “No sex” relationships are hard to come by or uphold, these days. One party must break the agreement sha. Sad.

See, the heartbreak is still fresh. It is about to get more intense. It appears you are someone who internalises his pain. In light of this, get ready to endure the hurt. Some days, you would just pause from work and stare out the window thinking of different scenarios, trying to see what you missed and what you might have done differently. Normal levels.

You are a logical person and you have your own principles. You know you cannot let such a person return into your life.

You will be fine.

Olanre05:
I like your healing process and the way you handled it with utmost maturity. Here is my take on the issue, there are two sides to a coin, you must have given her heaven and earth, make her better off what she used to look like and the likes,and there is one thing you ain't doing right which she might have spoken to you about severally and you ain't changing. Which she is getting from the other guy aside from the materialistic and monetary aspect of it...

This is the most îdiotic comment on this thread and it just had to come from a lady. Unbelievable. You are actually justifying the actions of the sneaky, cheating girlfriend. Why am I not surprised

As long as the jurisdiction doesn’t extend to non Muslims, fine.

User283 you have made a good observation and you have been honest with yourself.

Bro, dump her.

Why?

Cos, she will be stingy to her own children and the smallest item they need, she will not buy, until you send her money for it. That is the nature of such women.

If you must marry her, then do so with the consciousness that you’d better have money for all your personal and family needs always. If you cannot guarantee yourself that, please step aside.


One day person no go get money pay one small bill, next thing she go quote bible for you:

“But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.” - 1 Tim 5v8

mysticwarrior:
You better mind you business and stay away from them, one man was always in the habit of beating his wife in my compound, he would Lock the door and beat hell out of this woman and leave her with scars and bruises, one day the man was beating the wife because he claims the woman refused to prepare food for him but this time around the door was open, a woman entered the house with the intention of making peace, only for her to be stabbed with a kitchen knife by the battered wife.

The woman sustained injury and was taken to the hospital for treatment, I saw this same couple the next morning laughing together as they both walked along, since then I dey see fighting married couples dey run.

Wow! This is why even police officers often ignore domestic violence cases unless a lawyer is involved. Police go tell you point blank, go home and settle your quarrel.

You know how many cases were opened in station only to be ignored by the victim later?

OP, if the wife did not specifically ask for your involvement, kindly hold your peace. A Yoruba proverb says “you can only carry a child who raises his arms.”

Preshy561:
It's always the women's fault.

But it is!

The man’s family often stays away because of the man’s body language which is an extension of Mrs Wife’s disposition towards his own relatives.


However, I’ll blame the man for letting his kids think his family is bad. Why? Cos He can change that narrative if he wants. He’ll just have to set his wife straight.

genq:
What's happening here

You don cause wahala here

CareerBegger:
Funny enough I dislike both because they always act too kind and caring... No freedom..

Mother side will be quoting the Bible for you because they heard you are smoking
Father side will be quoting the Bible for you because of NBM

At times, they make me feel like the world revolves around me and I have a huge responsibility to meet up. But fvuk it! I just want to live my youth out

Lol. But are you smoking, really? Even tobacco companies warn against smoking.

Enjoy.

MrBrownJay1:
what else you think you can do but divorce the woman and find an amicable way to co-parent the child?! if you think you can force this woman to love you or be sexually attracted to you, then you are on a long thing bro.

Exactly. It is almost impossible for her to find him appealing again. So sorry for the guy.

What’s his handle? Is this another fake news?

You people don’t rate us at all.

With your BS stories.

Children are a blessing. Congratulations.

WriterX:
you're welcome it's true people handle intoxication differently like I don't even dare drink at all the least is usually too much for me but the idea is if you were able to drive home and then get them in the room and then take turns with both of them it doesn't really help his case , remember the drink and drive rule :

impaired judgement is usually the most cause of drink n drive and not just even causing an accident, you also remember that their speed limits which on a normal day anyone can easily get a ticket talk less of Been drunk and am not so sure a 3some helps him.either way can we say he got so drunk he was able to scale home two ladies, get them in his room , uncloth them and had his way with them while heavily intoxicated?

I think even i myself would lean on a guilty verdict on this one too and thanks for the sound and meaningful reply.

Now I understand better. Thank you.

I think I should study law after I retire. Would be good to see things from a more informed perspective.

Yes.

And I wish I had ended it right then. Would have saved me the subsequent months I wasted on her.

dollytino4real:
so wat is the right of the woman

You don’t know your right? It’s to give and take.