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Mehnnn, e no easy oo. My wife and i earn a combined salary of around 300k but walahi e no dey enough to sustain us to another month.

I was privileged to be at this year Catholic Judicial year of inauguration.
A paper was presented Titled; Rapid increase in the nullity of marriage cases in abuja. A thing of concern. The statistics were scary but not shocking.
I think, there is more need for priest, pastors and all who involved in the preparation of couples for matrimony should do more in educating spouse on their duties of new state of life.

Politicians have succeeded in dividing us along religion and tribal lines. They know when there is unity among us, they won't achieve their evil agenda on us but the dumb amongst us continue to champion their coast at the detriment of all us knowingly or unknowingly.
I was listening to a program on radio, i was glad how Muslims assisted a Christian man to get justice and vis visa. The day remove these toxic in our system, that ll be the end of bad leaders occupying position.

MyVILLAGEpeople:
It's well. But why are African leaders so wicked and heartless?

Nigeria political leaders are occultists and magicians. These are men that belongs to different occult echelons and wizardry. Reason why the country keeps retrogressing.

U think those in white man country don't belong to occultic group??

Mrperfecto:
I will just be brief without writing too much.

We are based we have 4 children, my first child is 13 from my previous relationship, she has become very terrible, she doesn't listen to me or my wife. She tells her that she is not her biological mother and she cannot control her. She had threatened to call the police on my wife telling her if she touch her she will fight her back and call the police. She goes to school and closes at 3.45 her school is 10 mins walk from home, but she is always late for home.

She comes home around 6 sometimes 7pm , as I am writing now every friday she closes at 12.30 but she is still hasn't come back home yet.

I am on my way to work. I start at 6.30pm till 2.30am so I rarely get to see her and she only misbehaving when I am not around. So far we have seized her phone because we had found so many inappropriate messages exchanges between her and boys. We had also removed the TV from her room and her behaviour has gotten worse. She is behaving like she's possessed.

My wife and I are fed up. Even her siblings are tired of her. We want to send her back to Nigeria maybe in a boarding school until she is 18 in order to protect her younger ones. If we keep her and she continues with her terrible behaviour I may beat her badly and we may end up loosing all 4 children to the authorities.

Please what advice will you give to me concerning this issue?

If only u have brothers/sisters like mine thay can not spare the rod and can handle her like their daughter, i support u bringing her to continue in boarding school preferably catholic/mission school that can instill moral into her.

Westerhoffe:
Millennials…!
What are you made of!!?

Strong principles and ethical

Cindypresh:
As a married woman, stop collecting money from your horseband for foodstuffs, they should keep buying things from the market themselves.


After all, they're the ones working for all these dirty useless politicians and tinubu.

This days i do go to the market because of my wife conditions but yesterday's market was something else. She was saying thank God im d one that went because going to the market she may break down mentally. I said to myself, this woman think na me go dey go market abi. May she deliver first.

How much socks5

BucketMan:
Hello guys, please I need your advice. I'm currently in a dilemma on what to do with my life presently. I'm a lawyer called to the bar in December 2022. Afterwards I practiced in a law firm for 6 months before resigning due to the meagre salary and harsh work environment. I just couldn't keep up, Although I can confirm that legal practice was very terrific but it's something that you can only enjoy if you're well paid at the Law firm or company you work with to effectively maintain the standard expected from you.

I've been jobless for 8 months now as all the efforts I put into securing a job ended in futility. I'm thinking of going for my masters degree(LLM) instead of staying idle at home with my parents. I think by doing this I can keep myself busy and improve on my career academically while also trying to find a good job in today's Nigeria.

Serious advice needed please

Funny people everywhere. Instead of gaining experience first, u re only after money as if the employer is paying base on ur experience. Make una learn to master what una learned from school be4 determining either ro master it or switch job/career.
What are u mastering??

Ahahaaa 😀 😀. My current job is a connection but i do go to other job interviews to get a side hustle as an engineer.
The last interview was somewhat funny in the sense that, the owner of the firm has already chosen is preferred candidate among us base on personal encounter with the guy during one of professional seminar. The rest of us that came was a mere formality. The questions were interactive and base on personal experience.

I envy this system from our brothers in east but stories coming from this system lately are appalling and scary. I just hope the igbo community ll look into it with aim of strengthening and punish atll those ogas who failed to settle their boys accordingly.

This boyz go frustrate man u today. Very stubborn club.

Splashme:
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... and she is YORUBA
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......and na their turn

vinexe:
thank u sir...

Bros, i really feel ur pains. I took my time to read all of ur story and im glad the priest have told u what exactly i should have advice a blood brother or me to do. At this time is ur peace of mind that matters most not even to ur children. Do away with that woman and her family before they kill you and u won't be there for ur children. You need time to cool off.13 years in bondage in a so called marriage, haba bros u have really try. Kudos.

The guy doesn't drop money for food if he does he won't be saying that. Or he is just joking with you.

This people are terrible people. This thing can only be done by them. Im not selling, na by force again??

RepoMan007:
OP, how many milk cups make one of that "mudu"?

8_9

adioolayi:
Electricity case is different..in the sense that, Petroleum subsidy we're being enjoyed by not only Nigerians, but huge populations of neighbouring countries. Subsidized petroleum products were being smuggled to those countries.

For electricity..the subsidy is solely for Nigerians and Nigerians only.

...and who told u neighbouring countries don't enjoy electricity from Nigeria??
Emelokan spotted fir u to carry that propaganda they sold to u guys and run with with it.

adioolayi:
Till we have stable electricity...

Subsidy must remain.

If we will be paying premium ...we should enjoy premium service ..

So, provide the premium service first, to justify premium payment.

Did they fix our refinery b4 removal of petrol subsidy
Dey play

Anny69:
Watch how fools would start victim blaming.

What can be so foolish for a mother trying to reconcile her daughter who is in an abusive relationship??

[quote author=press9jatv post=128453640]I’m just think Since I have been following this case for some time now, our girls are still following to these wicked set of guys. Infact most of our Nigeria ladies married them, it’s when they are punching themselves that the people will know whom the man was. Nawaoooo ooooo. Most of them will still fall to this type of guy this year again. It’s very unfortunate. Our ladies falls for money in this generation. Very unfortunate situation. [/quote
The mother that ought to tell her to run, she's the same trying to reconcile them. I don't understand

omoadeleye:
Dem ask which courier service she used, she no answer

Na weytin make me dey scroll down since

Death on arrival.

matify83:
This is the way to go.

Why store up food in warehouses outside of the market environment and create artificial scarcity so you can maximize profit at the expense of your fellow citizens?

As long as those warehouses were loaded by Street boys, they can always be located.

Remembered those days of "essential commodities" in the late 80's. Every hoarded commodity discovered was auctioned by the military to the general public at specified prices.

Hoarding of food should be designated as TREASON.

Delusional, even every business men release all the foods in their warehouse, what is the purchasing power of the citizens??
Government should tackle their incompetency first, business men and women are out there to maximize profit. If Government bought foof directly from farmers just like the business men, the citizens can go and buy at less price or subsidize rate.

That ref against South Africa, really tried

akube34:
dem no beg to b born oo. Na you go born them when dem no send u

She no sent dem come, she was only enjoying sex with her man!

Pure skit

Do you learn it free or paid?
On Coursera its 7 day free trial afterwards, $49 USD every month

blowjohn:
And the first thing u do is to make it public

Be a silent achiver.

Give God all the glory, share with ur family and leave the media out if it.


We living in biblical times.

Oga somethings like this need to be out there to encourage and inspire others. Im just inspire to go back and pick up python i dropped last year. E get how u see am anyways

chinasaekpere:
I graduated from the University 12 years ago. Since then I have been jumping from one job to another with no progress in sight. I discovered that I have been stagnant for Years, so I decided to learn a skill.

I started by learning how to make footwear, I learnt that for a year but I later discovered that it's not what I want to do, although I can make every type of footwear even boots.
Last year I took an online course in frontend web development, for 6 months I studied for an average of more than10 hours daily learning from HTML and now React.js. I learnt figma, scss, CSS, Version control, jquery, bootstrap, Chakra UI and react.js, it was a tough one because I had to forfeit other means of making money. I got hungry so many times, I used my last card to buy data so I can keep studying and doing my projects.

Earlier this month, I finished by portfolio project, I had already worked on 4 projects using react, Jquery, Chakra UI and bootstrap. I designed coupled of web pages using figma.

Earlier this month, my girlfriend who's a data analyst sent me a link for a front-end developer role. In my mind, I didn't feel like I was ripe enough so I didn't apply. 2 days later, I decided to give it a try and so I applied. I was called to come for interview this Monday.

On getting there, the company was working on this revenue web app project they are doing to for a particular state government. I was asked to develop the UI of one of the pages using react, CSS and Tailwind. I have heard of Tailwind before but I have never used it.
I told the interviewer that I have never used tailwind and that I'm proficient using bootstrap. He replied that I should go through tailwind documentation and then use it to style the page on top of react.

So I started reading the documentation, I discovered that it's syntax is somehow similar to Chakra UI which I have used once in my project, the are the same concept of class utility. So I decided to start coding, getting snippets from the documentation and then applying my Chakra UI knowledge to work around it.

To cut the long story short, I coded from 9am in the morning and delivered the page by 5pm.

I was sent an appointment letter today. So my tech journey officially started. It's a junior role though but I'm glad I broke the ice.

The salary is what I have never earned in a month since I was born. 😊

Im inspired with ur story. I have decided to go back and start my tech journey where i dropped it.
What is the name of learning site u learned from

Pastorjohn2:
This is a satanic post and an Attack against God's people.
Redeemer university will surely sort it out in God's due time as he knows best, Bringing the school name into social media and tarnishing it is no different from blasphemy!
God could be gathering their blessings within these 2 years.
If God says wait 5 years then wait because he knows best.

Kindly delete this rubbish post NL Mods.

See how this one take it personal with emotions running his body. Y not tell them to wait for the second coming of Jesus for the relevant bodies to do the needful??
This information out there is to spurs the relevant authorities to do the needful.
Una dey carry religion with emotions as if una better pass other people