₦airaland Forum

Sixfeetbelle:
You must have had your history lessons under a mango tree.

The colonisers never truly left us seeing as we continued to act like them in the years after colonization. We wore clothes they wore, we fixed wigs they did, we even got the same kind of education they did. Not once after our independence were we ever truly out from under our colonisers. So, why start now?

The colonisers don't have "appropriate" acts they emulate, and certainly not when it comes to their clothing. They wear whatever they see fit and how they see fit. Africans, Nigerians, most especially are the ones worrying about appropriate dressing and all that nonsense.

Give up the archaic mentality already. It won't change anything

Are you aware that while under colony, the whites didn't have such thing as indecent dressing of nowadays? Their dressing was always modest.
Go look at Late Queen Elizabeth III back then, Flora Shaw, and all other white women back then.

We copied the whites not because they colonized us, period!

Sixfeetbelle:
You using your boredom-inspired conversation as a yardstick to prove your point tells me all I need to know.

Not all men will marry "decently dressed" ladies and that's the fact. Whether the lady in question woke your lustful desires, or assuaged them, fact still remains, not all men will reject her when they start choosing their spouses.

As per the chat, your friend sounds like an indisciplined idiot. Excuse my french. Men who lose interest in a lady after sleeping with her will do same to their decently dressed wives after sleeping with her as well.

For you, I'd say "show me your friend..." 😏

You only lose interest after sleeping with someone you never loved but lusted after. If I see your dressing and it's giving a highly seductive vibe, your body is all I want.
But if your dressing isn't seductive, you're giving me the chance to see beyond your body; this can trigger genuine affection.

I circle back to my initial assertion: if you dress seductively to attract a man you like, you're only making him lust after your body. After about 5 sexual encounters, he's tired of your body.

Persephone1:
Ehn ehn ehn
Are you sure it's only for funny content ?

Sure.
I only view statuses for fun and pass.

aylive02:
. I'm a Yoruba but truth be told, you don't have good upbringing to conclude this bro. I'm sorry

You denied your tribe just to correct someone.

Persephone1:
Whoever wrote this must be an observer

I'm a civilian by category. He's very right about church and content. people dey bombard me with "please share" because of my funny content on my status. Lol 😆

Make me sef dey see your funny content.
Make I DM for number?

Rokiat:
Bush man, this one wouldn’t even know how to give head. I feel for the bride.

Did your dad give your mom head?
I swear I'm not insulting.

Too much porn has damaged a lot of people.

MissOpe:
I'm writing this on behalf of my son...

I ( the mother) have beaten the hell out of him, and will still beat the shit outta him...

He'll be 5 in November but very stubborn like Bihari

So it's a child of under 5 that you've already beaten the hell out of?
Wait till the the beating starts to have a negative effect.

Sixfeetbelle:
We were colonised by Western countries, weren't we? If yes, Is it out of reach to see us act like our colonisers?

If we wish to go back to our archaic ways, we are free to drop everything and anything related to the westerners, not choose only those that favor patriarchal dictatorship.

We stopped being under colony since 1960. We didn't act like them in the 60s, 70s, and 80s, it is now that we should just start acting like them?

We both weren't alive during the colonization era, but even some of our parents and grandparents that were alive then aren't acting like them.

Even if we must act like our colonizers, can't we use our brain to decipher the appropriate act to emulate and the inappropriate ones to discard?
Or you feel all of their ways are appropriate?

Sixfeetbelle:
Stop talking like we live in the 50s.

Men sleep with whoever they want to sleep with and wife whoever they want to. Her state of dressing determines nada.

Her character, however, as many men have confirmed, is their judging criteria.

You're not a man, you don't grow a penis in your spare time. Yet, you're speaking on behalf of men.

The attached is a screenshot of a group chat between myself and a couple of friends.
Why do you think the girls freak us at first? Because they dress seductively and trigger our lustful desires. After we've satisfied our lustful desires with them, what do you think will happen? The answer lies in the chat.

Just dey play Belle 😁😁

siofra:
We like it when it attracts the guy we like. I mean doing it for that special person. I don't know about doing it in public though.

Should I tell you the effect?
The guy you want to attract will only view you lustfully. After sleeping with you for a few times, he becomes uninterested.
Why? He has satisfied his lustful desires with you.

Sixfeetbelle:
Women wear bikinis like it's nothing in Western countries but it's ordinary yoga pant that is your problem?

You're an unserious fellow

Thank God you mentioned Western countries.
Are we in Western countries?

Overseas, it's common to see two men kissing each other openly.
Let any man try that here.

When you go abroad, you can throw morality away.

joebeckz:
Generally if someone slaps anyone, it shows a profile of who they are.
A Man shouldn't even slap a woman no matter how offensive she gets. There are alternate sanctions to put in place for every action.
Walk her out of your class and ask that she comes back dressed properly.

He is doing this cos Nigeria is a lawless state.
If this same lecturer travels to a foreign land to lecture,you will be marveled at how he will worship the students in other countries.
If change cannot start with us then we lack every right to demand change from those who lead us.

The change we desire must begin with us.

If a woman slaps me first, she go collect.

dominique:
And some women are saying that N5,000 cannot cook soup.

Soup is different from soup o.
Even me, as a Nigerian student, my own efo riro is more expensive than this. Obviously, it's also of higher quality.

TheBillyonaire:
Who invented a custom and Tradition that requires Human Beings to kneel down before other fellow human beings?

Such Tradition is totally against the Doctrine of EQUALITY of HUmans. If such tradition is right, then human beings are not equal. Do not preach to me about Respect. Respect is conditional and vested on interests. Personal interest, the need to be seen as humble is manipulation.

Your opinion.

People have been doing it and people will still continue to do it.

Sixfeetbelle:
We've ended this conversation nah.

I did say I'll collect free money from my relatives so need for the offer.

Lol okay.
Miss free money.

Sixfeetbelle:
When I collect free money, then I'll have free money to give out.

Right now, I don't have free money yet 😏😏

If you can bend down low, you'll get free money 😜

Sixfeetbelle:
😒😒😒

Let me go and find my relative to give me money for free then.

Must you collect free money😭😭😭
Have you considered giving out free money?

Not knowing when to hug or handshake.
Sometimes I go stretch hand for shaking, dem go spread hands for hugging. Sometimes I go spread hands for hugging, dem to stretch hand for shaking.

Always awkward.

Lamanii22:
A laptop, I need it for my school project

You never graduate since all these years

Sixfeetbelle:
Why are men always equating freebies with bend down low? Can't you separate freebies from that other thing? 😏😏

We didn't see the money for free na. We worked for it too.
So any non relative who wants the money gotta do something for it😉

Persephone1:
Only a creep is loud about their desire for money with someone they are not in relationship with.

Exactly my point!

Sixfeetbelle:
I misunderstood his post sef. Mtchewww.


That aside, come to your house four times a week? Maka why? On top how much kwanu?

You sef, you want to chop freebies but don't want to "bend down low" . You are not yet ready for freebies.😁😁😁

Sixfeetbelle:
Oluwa, see my mates oooh.

Nna, bros, na when you and I go do our own meet and greet? I need your services and I'm certain our connection will last past two weeks.

I won't even bill you too much sef. Just 10k to make up my rent money, 15k for shawarma and ice cream, and 25k for my business as a start. Shikena.

Bombastic side eye 😅😅😅

I can stand in for him and meet your terms, but you'll be coming to my house only four times a week.😜

Persephone1:
Most Nigerian Men are very loud with their desire for sex

Most Nigerian Women are becoming loud with their desire for money.
Prick is cheap, money is not. Men dey para.
Truth is all of una fit yourself . It is dragging innocent parents and generalization I find disturbing.

Everybody will be fine.

Only a creep is loud about their desire for sex with someone they are not in a relationship with.

The lady in the screenshot below always contacts me first when she needs any money. This year I've sent her money about 4 times. I had to start giving excuses...we last saw in 2018.
If I were to be asking for sex from her each time I'm Hot, what do you think would have happened by now?

Limit your billings to your partners and/or parents!

seanwilliam:
@ evolutionlove, I replied your mentions with a long post but the spambot banned me lol.

You should have contacted the super mods.
They will unban you and restore the post.

dfrost:
I'll make a call to someone now and find out who he is.

Confirmed who he is but not going to mention his name here. He's a business man from the Igbo-speaking side of Nigeria, also has affiliation with a group I don't like mentioning (group here does not = tribe; some of us will understand quickly).

My contact also said he is fond of the rubbish and that he needs to cool off behind bars for a little while.

He is an Igbo auto spare parts dealer. He is a f**t man.
We all know this.

If this is all your contact can give you then, he/she isn't different from me monitoring the case on Twitter without knowing who he was until the case.

Get better contacts abeg!

9gerian:
Intimidated not paid.

Why not follow through by seeing the video showing how the policeman was interrogating her as if if she was the offender. It is interesting to note that someone (another officer perhaps) who felt disgusted made the second video while the policeman was intimidating her. There are good people everywhere.

Looks like that’s what made her to change the story.

The first video was out already, intimidation won't work again. If she didn't give in to intimidation, no one can do anything to her because the "Bebbex" guy will be the prime suspect.
Remember the agency that also took the case up but later deleted their posts, do you think that agency can also be intimidated?

Madam was paid handsomely afterall, the guy said "e no go pass money".

Maryloveth:
So,if someone make a video when they are angry & speaks fluently while recording,that means they are telling the truth ?

And if someone couldn't hold their gaze to a recording camera & are not fluent when speaking ,it means they are under duress ?

Life have not taught you a lesson.

You don't understand human psychology.

Guess you're not Yoruba that's why you didn't understand what she said in the first video.
Based on the issue surrounding the case, it's likely she has been paid to do damage control.

HopeSpencer:
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Every terrorist is a Muslim, but not all Muslims are terrorists -- this statement invalidated today in your very eyes.

Terrorism is when 90 percent of Nigerians depend on voodooism for protection but none of them want to marry a voodoo priest or priestess.


.

You just made zero sense. How does voodooism relate to terrorism?

Mind you, the guy isn't a terrorist. He never forced anyone to do anything.

RemoveKebab:
he's no christian. Just using deceit and threat to defend his islam. Their default mode

I thought as much.

Foodqueen:
It came back refined some yrs ago, maybe early 2000's.

He be like say, na throw back week, we dey o.

Abi the end has come ni

You don old oo
You go don reach like 50 years old now.