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Isabi4lov:
But na your gender still dey die untop pussy , if dem no see pussy, dem go begin rape minors .

Be like your papa(my gender) rape you as a minor.

My own is, once you're a baby mama, I run!

1. If it was a mistake, she's too careless as there are a lot of preventive measures at this age. I can't marry someone that careless.

2. If she was abandoned, what the man that abandoned her's eyes saw that made him run, I don't want to see it.

3. The impregnator can still be chopping the work of the impregnatee under my roof.

4. If I decide to marry her and train up her child like mine, one man will now come and say "I want to claim my child". After I don labour over the child oo.


All these baby mamas sef.
Nonsense and ingredients Ahnie

Kobojunkie:
1. Regardless of the way he claims he felt, he committed a crime - marriage abandonment--- and the wife ought to have him charged for such foolishness.

2. Regardless of reason or excuse, it is a crime punishable by jail term.

You always talk like you've not lived in Nigeria before.
Maybe you should be on Quora and Reddit, not here!

babyfaceafrica:
Have your own mind. Don't let her decide for you. Yes, she can make suggestions, however stick to your decisions. Don't be too easy to please. Avoid looking indecisive in her front. Never condone bad behavior from her. If she offends you, let her know immediately. Never go physical!

Makes absolute sense. Thanks for this.

Paulajeigbe:
Two wrong does not make a right ooo... And this is the woman you love oh

I don't understand.

babyfaceafrica:
Never hit a woman, however show you are in control, if not
. Na sorry be your case. Respect is very important

How? Illustrations will do.

Some women nowadays don't care especially if she didn't see wrong in what she did. If she serves the whole family and you refuse to eat, she'll go pour it back in the pot.
You can't refuse her food forever so, you'll be the one to tell her to start serving you food. She can even taunt you by saying "shebi you said you don't want my food".

My own fear is how to take disciplinary measures when I marry. Some women will outrightly and repeatedly do what you asked them not to do, consistently disrespect you.
I'm this cool headed guy, I don't like shouting, I can never hit her.
How my wife wan take me serious like this?

NaijaOlosho:

Nothing Yoruba people no go fit do for money rituals

Akwa Ibom dear. Read or is your eyes paining you?

Berrityga:
I went celibate for one year. It made me realize further I can live without a woman, this last year I chop many kpekus but I couldn't put up with any of them cause I feel dating and relationship is pointless and stressful. This year I want to concentrate of my financial growth any woman that wants me must give me major green light.

Where una dey see these things chop

Elsueno:
Why not?, even assistant commissioner of police dey go confront bandits depending on d scale of s operation.. Like I said, no be olopa & photogenic officers them they send those kind of places...Na mostly hardened warriors like CTUs & mopols or ex-mopols..

Hmmm seems true. Because I know Abba Kyari dey enter bush with him boys then.

Elsueno:
Security officers in those kind of areas ain't d kind way they collect Roger & oppress civilians pls.... Mostly only brave & battle hardened guys dey post in those kind of areas not d usual olopa.


Requiscat in pace to d gallant men

But I'm surprised the DPO of a station is carrying gun alongside his men to fight.

DonroxyII:
Uncountable Sheges ... I no Dey Bother ... if my sis wound me I go kill am

As far as she's mine she is getting catered for by me!

If no be only me I would take care of my portion and leave the rest for fellow comrades ...

At all at all she is getting catered for, Simple !

Okay na even cruise.

DonroxyII:
I'm a Chartered Accountant Bro ... All Women anywhere in the World wants to be Pampered and Taken Care of by their Man even if she's richer and well connected than you even if she be Dangote daughter or Alakija or Bill Gates .... Even Dogs wants to be catered for talkess a full Fledged Matured Woman and human being!

Woman never show you shege before. If you like spend 1m on her monthly. She can still be shagging a guy that beats her on a daily basis with less than 30k in his account.

E get why dem talk make you use 18hrs fear women, the remaining 6hrs, use am fear who no fear women.

DonroxyII:
The Dude should GTFO of she can't take care of His Girl ....

This is Africa, We Provide for Our Women and they Worship Us !

My Verdict:
The Girl in the Op is Right and The Dude is Wrong: ...
She is free to go out there and look for a Man to Provide for Her Needs as a Woman !

It's obvious you only go after low life women.

Imagine dating a girl that's an Auditor at KPMG or an Investment Banker at JP Morgan or a Software Engineer at Microsoft or a Management Consultant at Mckinsey, then asking her to worship you.

Just keep going after girls you can tell to quit her job so you will open shop for her in front of the house.

Makavelli001:
She does not agree to be on top


Shud I discard her?

You alone know what to do. If you can't cope anymore, you know what to do and ditto if you can cope.

1Battery:
Ever since we have been growing as kids and now into adults we have known no peace because of my sister, she has been a torn to everyone's flesh we don't know peace because of this lad.

Her marriage couldn't last because of her attitude, can you imagine it lasted for a year the husband can't afford to take her back because of her way world life style she attacks the man with any available weapon around, the man couldn't take it anymore he had to throw her things out of the house.

Since then she has been in our house fighting every one ,the other time she wanted to fight my mom telling her that if time is not taking she will be in the hospital treating her self,
Plus so many other things

Most times I just wish I never had a sister. This lady has caused us so much troubles in life, at every small thing she blows the families secret to everyone's ear and the worst part she is a single mother of two boys.

With all these description, if not that you mentioned her having 2 boys, i'd have sworn that's ahnie.

Amarisco:
If you wanna bromance at my expense, do it with your chest and mention me. Don’t go through corners.

Remember to obtain your PVC and vote

Toodles

Stop being so petty.

Amarisco:
But it was deep when you were trawling for google images ba.

Why would you find the whole post offensive when you weren’t addressed in 50% of its content? I didn’t even come for you

The aspect that concerned you was very poignant and simple. Rather than respond aptly, you resort to gaslighting and purporting emotional fragility. 🙄

Amarisco your wahala is too much 😁

To be honest, your response to the other guy was what I found offensive. And I lost interest in conversing with you further.
Be nice🙂

OyeofIkoTuN:
Oga just act like you agree ooo....e dey pain but 2 can play that game..

Let her feel comfortable bringing the kids to your new location,wait it out 6 months,play the fool...e dey pain but no worry, 10 months keep playing the fool..Let her keep bringing your kids for weekends and vacations.. after the 11th month, you should have everything ready for the kids to be in Nigeria.....After you have japa to naija with the kids...Let me see how she wanna do the magic

If the kids were born in US, he will be charged with kidnapping offence.

Sixfeetbelle:
Does it mean something bad? Someone I know uses it when she sounds overwhelmed/frustrated.

"Wo" itself means "see".
But in the context you're talking about, it means "see ehn". E.g Wo(see ehn), I'm very tired.

You're correct with it's usage sha. That person must be yoruba while you're not😁

phemmyfour:
It's obvious, your frustration is beyond this thread. May you find peace going forward.

Exactly!!

Cos where was that all coming from??

Amarisco:
Hi.

What you just did, is something I despise wholeheartedly in any man. Stand on your own two feet. Don’t dickride. You saw me exchanging this same issue with your Alberto colleague, and you magically find yourself peddling the same argument also.

It’s not enough to put (m) for your moniker. Go further and actually operate as a man. 🤮

And as for you



That you actually went to go and google such African aesthetic, time period specific fashion pictures, I give you an A for effort, E for delivery.

It’s unlikely fashion can save a life, however, driving could. It’s not about what car one will drive or use in future, but being confident that your ability isn’t limited.

Imagine needing to drive to a hospital and the only car available is manual, or help someone park their car safely after an incident, or at the last minute you need to drive a manual van because you have an urgent task and nobody/nothing else is available. Then what? In an emergency, you would only be half useful.

Expand your mind 🙄

I find your whole post offensive. We were just talking manual/auto transmission cars. It's not even that deep.

Good day!

Makavelli001:
I have a girl that for the past 9months that we have been dating , whenever we are bleeping she does not touch or rob me, she will just lie down there like a log of wood, allowing me only to be doing all the work. No skill, no style, no romance except I will be the one that is romancing her.

I'm getting bored in the relationship. I no longer enjoy s*x with her.
I've tried to change her but she remain adamant.

Let her be on top while you too should lie like a log of wood.

Candidlady:


stewpid advise from a dead gender

so you think it is only the girl that will go through the torture

bloody yaro

You can't sense sarcasm?
Seems someone's brain is more dead than our gender.

Prettygirl200:
Hi guys good evening, like I don't understand myself since my last relationship I have been finding it difficult to get into another relationship.

Guys keep asking me out both offline nd online ,I keep turning them down. Even if I agree after some days I will tell them am no longer interested, little things they do gets me upset and sometimes I get angry without any reason. Guys no longer interest me and I have only had three relationships since I started dating.
I see myself as a young girl am not even at the middle of my twenties yet still at the very beggining I don't understand what's happening to me.

Pls guys I think I need help I don't understand myself anymore!!! 😟

Life is not all about relationships and dating.
Chase a good career, have financial stability, and be happy. Everything will fall in place later on.

ahnie:
Zombie na you go taya
Zonefree dey play.
Unkept platypus

Please, I'm begging you, help me make sure your daughter doesn't become a baby mama too.

Sixfeetbelle:
We did derail this thread. I hardly have a back and forth on threads cause I hardly have strength to argue.

I don't even know about the height thing sef. Wo! But I like that I can keep that to myself

I usually don't have the strength to type in a back and forth. On WhatsApp, I mostly use voice notes to pass my points. Guess I'm the only introvert that prefers talking to typing.

Do you actually know the meaning of "Wo"? Because your usage of it so far is telling me otherwise o

ahnie:
You want to stalk me you go taya,fabricate any lies you like about me, honestly na you go taya,you never jam,you want too practice your stupid redpill with me....ask the gidredpiller e go tell you who I be.

The fact that your useless mother is a baby mama,nor mean say I look like your useless mum.

Your punchline is too lame n mundane try another one.

I m happy to welcome you to my list of stalkers
Oya fall in line
By the way,I checked your post online and realised that you're really disturbed and having mental issues.
The earlier you seek for help,the better for you.

Oga,go and solve your spiritual issues or go use eyedrop sip tea.
For your stupid mind,you think you can wear me off from nairaland?
Just dey play

Abeg feel free to stalk me

You had to type these epistles, even checked my previous posts, just cos of a 2 line response I gave you earlier.
I must have struck a nerve.

#BabyMamaGeng.

Sixfeetbelle:


This is even ironic to me cause I was telling someone here yesterday to not relocate because of woman and now I'm planning to do same. Wo! Life must happen to all of us one way or the other.

I'm not telling you 😌😏

Just make sure your relocation is within Africa. Cos threads are flying about how white people find black people least attractive. No go hook oo

You're hiding height again. Maka why lol


Just realized we successfully derailed this thread. Op must be fuming now 😁

ahnie:
I think say his kitchen go be world class.
Asaba Cardi B.

Let's see your own kitchen.

#BabyMamaGeng

yomi007k:
E no go better for CBN.

If dem offer you employment there, you go rush am😏

Sixfeetbelle:
I'll read about it on the internet, Google my options and if need be, relocate there. Men who want tall ladies must find me by fire by force.

But it will happen next year sha. Eye never clear me to do anything this year yet

Belle you want to relocate because of man! Men!! Those players!(according to you)😁

How tall are you then? I'm guessing between 5'8 and 5'10.