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IamNat:
Obviously it's toxicity and hatred.

Tinubu won't win APC ticket, he won.
Tinubu won't win Presidential election, he won.
Now it's Tinubu won't be sworn in...

This is an attack by the scrotum, we will not accept it. Lol

Ok

They have started again, please how many are we in this world? E bi like say aliens were added to the number

The call has never been to me a doctored one. From the very first time I listened to it, I know it was real. Many Obidients know it's real and in an attempt to play down on it, they quickly adopted the Yes daddy even more than the critics of the phone call. More so, Obi has not come out to clearly state that he never made such call. There is a difference between suing for something you never did or say, for alterations in something you did or say and suing for unauthorized disclosure of something you did or say. I think Obi is suing for the last and that is why the issue of the source of the audio tape take lead .

Lol,

K

May God heal our land, this is to tell us how things can turn around in a short moment when there is no peace in the land.

tomi4life:
I am 35 and my wife is 29, we have been married for 6 years now, we have 2 children a boy and a girl. We didnt court much during our courtship because of long distance.

I really have a problem with my wife and not sure what can be done to address, now I must be very honest am not sure there is anything I can do I just want to use the platform to vent my frustration.

My marriage has not been very good, lately myself and my wife leave like room mates and not lovers, despite the age difference between me and my wife she doesnt really respect me. For the 6 years we have been in marriage 3 things have caused all our fights: cooking, Sex and finance

My wife rarely cooks in the house, things around welfare are not taken seriously, actually in a week, my wife can cook for me just 1 time. She cooks for the children and baths for them daily, we also have a help who does alot of cooking. She rarely askes me what I will eat, honestly I always have to go to the kitchen to sort myself, sometimes I buy food outside from eateries and bucker. Sometimes when she cooks it usually very late 10pm. I have complained severally and what happen is she tries to change, after a week, we are back to the same state. My wife can do without cooking for me for weeks. It really really pains me cos am a foody and I knw hw my mum treats matters of food. she is this person that forms busy, either she is busy with work or some church activities, she always has an excuse. She goes to work only ones a weeks the remaining 4days are remote. To address this issue I now order soups from major restaurant outlets, An example is today easter sunday, I had to tell our maid to prepare rice for myself and the kids, cos my wife was in church, we all went to church but she decided to stay back, knowing fully well no food was prepared.

Sex: [/b]our sex life is very boring, when we got married we always fight about sex, cos anytime I ask for it she always complain she is tired, so what I now do is ask for it only sat morning, brethen this is only day I get sex. If I miss that day, it is still next week. We sleep in different rooms, she sleeps with the children in the master bedroom while I sleep alone in another room. I can tell most time she doesnt enjoy it and never ever askes for it, I always ask and initiate it. She just lays like a log, even kisses is a no no, except she is really on, which rarely happens.
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Finance: I have always earned more than my wife, when we got married, I was earning 3 times what she was earning, but she changed jobs and got promoted severally and we were earning the same amount. she also does alot of side runs where she gets 200-300k monthly as side hustle, there was even a time she was earning more than I did. I dint let it bother me I continue to foot the entire house bills. 95% of the enitre house of comes from me, she only pays the maid , buys cooking gas and my sons diaper. Every other thing in the house is covered by me, house rent, school fees, project, all the bills. I give her 75k as food money monthly. I have continue to question her why I should give her food moeny if I still have to end up going out to eat. I think the only reason she sometime listens to me is cause i still provide the finances for the house. The time she was earning more I could see how she belittle some of my decisions. I just prayed to God, cos I noticed the respect was gone, when I talk to her about her role as a mum and mother to the home, she says she is working, she is busy, I mentioned to her that the money she works is for her, she doesnt share with the house, I have never asked her for it and am not against her working, she however should not neglect her responsibility as a mum. That my role as a father, God helping me is to provide, and this is why I work. I also noticed when I got a new job and my salary increased she kinda off felt jealous she didnt tell me but i noticed it, she began to aggressively look for jobs.


I really dont think we have that initmacy, we are just there, my wife cant come to tell me anything bothering her, she keeps to herself. Funny part is she is a very religious person, my wife will sleep with bible on her hand, wake up with bible pray and serve in various church unit, I however dont think she really understands what she reads. She also has a very bad temper sometimes when I raise certian issues, the ways she talks sometimes I have to hold back a response if not the whole thing will escalate. There are days I will raise certain issue up, the next things she mentions is " let just dissolve this marriage as it is not working" sometimes , I just refer her to her bible cos the utterances that come out of her mouth makes me doubt her understanding of Christianity.


I have never assaulted her, we have nt had any physically fight, what happens is most times when we have issues, I dont speak to her for days, then she come back apologizing. Sometimes when am wrong I also apologies.

Am not saying am perfect, I know there are areas I can do better, like in the buying off gift, I rarely buy her gift, not cause I cant but Cos she earns well and I believe she should buy whatever she needs with her money my wife earns approximately 800k monthy.


I expect my wife will support me but it like she is stressing me. when we go see my parent or our parent, it is all smiles, they dont knw hw stressful their daughter is, she even forms trying to serve me food and all.

Dont get me wrong she has some good side, but this thing is really getting into me. I dont drink, smoke or womanise, divorce is also not on the table for me.

You don't smoke, drink or womanize and divorce is not an option? I will keep my advise first, apply the other people's advise, if it doesn't work after two months or thereabouts, quote this message and ask for my advise. Success

Some animals in uniform while some a very matured gentlemen. The last time I forgot to use my sit belt and the River State road safety guys caught me, they were so polite that I felt I wasn't in Nigeria. Though one of them was sounding like this bad policeman but the everyone handling my case was matured, polite and professional.

Caramia2020:
Foolish act n questions, are u suffering from inferiority complex?

He is actually suffering from inferiority complex, secondly I think he is new to relationships, so he lacks understanding of how things work.

coldzobo:
You are too emotional
Didn't you see how she was saying shall we the whole time

That was what she prepared her mind towards and that is what she knows the men who come at that time to be into, infact it will be a surprise to her to meet a man who want to help her without sleeping with her.
Obviously you while speaking based on your level of experience with women likewise myself

Politicians are friends in the same line of business, no matter how you sacrifice for them, if you are not a politician, you are not one of them and they will not sacrifice one of theirs for you but you for themselves. Be wise

The venue looks more colorful with the fire. The couple should snap with the fire in the background. Nothing special or diabolical there, the wedding was a success and so it will remain in Jesus name.

coldzobo:
She'll probably go back when she faces hard times in the business you set up for her

Did you watch the video? If you watch the video and you know how to access people's phycology, you would understand that the girl is ready to quit and that is why she defined her friends and she understood that she can't leave differently from them if the remain together

mysticwarrior:
He can take the girl off the street, but he cannot take the street off the girl.

That's not true, many of them don't belong there by their true nature. Just give them a little push and see them run off the street.

So all of us belong to cult be that

How we go take claim him now that the most valuable things he was bringing for the family has been taken from him? This one don turn liability o

Good people meeting bad people. Who else noticed the boss calling him brother Arinze? This is obviously not a case of maltreatment of employee but a case of purely wicked employee who is aim is to ruin his boss.
Thank God they caught him on time .

Another nail to their scrotum. No sleep for some people this weekend.
God bless Jagaban and his line up.

dawnomike:
Makes no much sense to me though... Whatsoever you have given to anyone even if it is to your enemy, it is a gift and should not be taken back!

He built the house on his in-law's land not that he built the house for his in-law.

The list is not for people making noise about few dollars in their account.

All na show, fall for it and blame yourself all your life. He will tell you he fly economy class because he consider it as a waste of money to go by private jet but here he is booking same waste for another man just wen the yes daddy is trending

If she is an active doctor, please avoid the hospital where she works except you are from her tribe. May we not use our legs walk to the place where we would be killed by one unstable person.

Lovilla:
how can u tell that i am lying?

He said if you are the one you should come clear so people can properly advise you, then you said it doesn't matter and I said it matters, the "you" in my statement is not absolutely directed to you in particular. However, if the case is your personal case, then the "you" is absolutely directed to you because you used a proxy in the subject.
Sometimes people ask to know the actual person involved in a case, their emotional reaction to certain things in order to properly advise them but when you use a proxy, chances are that you might be receiving an advise that can only work for a third party but not for you.
Personally before I advise any nairalander in difficult time, I look at their previous post and response, not to judge them but to know the kind of advise they can adjust to.
Eg, Some people will rather forgive, work on themselves to keep their partner they caught cheating than to quit the relationship or marriage, so advising such person to quit not going to help him or her but at the same time, the person is waiting to hear from someone that will say, forgive him, work on yourself and your partner to keep the relationship close and stronger

Lagos no be your mate. Invite them to Lagos in their numbers, Lagos will send them back in bags.

A great player in making. Watch out

Lovilla:
give your opinion Mr Man

It doesnt matter if its me or my sister.

It matters, you can't be telling lies and want to get truth from others.

Trendygurly:
If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it
Hmmmm
I was being foolish and hopeless
Now I’m so regretting my actions
I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!!
The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!!
I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !!

I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!!
My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023
If you ask me why I did what I did
I can’t even explain!!

God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !!

The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!!

Please don’t be like me
Don’t follow my path
I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it.

We all had at one point or the other made mistakes we always wish we never did. Please go and see a doctor to know the true position of your situation and then meet and asked your fiance for forgiveness. May God help you to overcome this challenge.

Underrate Tinubu at your own risk.

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Wodu89:
Maize and Cassava cultivation

Thanks

Wodu89:
It can be invested into a business to make good returns

Which business, that is the question